Radical Menstruation

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I really honestly think that you have to start quite young on tampons to get used to them. Because I've never got my head - or rather, my twat - round the things. If I had had them explained to me at an early age (not necessarily in a Tampax sponsored health class, mind you) I might have got used to them.

Most boys are not so OK with feminine products. I knew it was love when HSA actually went out early one Sunday morning to get a pack of Always for me when I was caught out early!

Citizen Kate (kate), Thursday, 6 November 2003 12:36 (twenty years ago) link

I think there would be a problem if a male partner refused to purchase sanitary products.

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 6 November 2003 12:37 (twenty years ago) link

Well, I usually end up having to buy the condoms, so fair's fair.

(Though I do know girls who feel awkward and uncomfortable purchasing condoms, as well.)

Best purchase ever: a bottle of vodka, a box of condoms and a jar of vaseline. (All for totally unrelated purposes, but it did make the counter girl at Sainsburys stare.)

Citizen Kate (kate), Thursday, 6 November 2003 12:40 (twenty years ago) link

sounds like a classic night! I have bought condoms in the past which can feel a bit weird. Best thing to do is buy them with your shopping. It's better if you're there with your partner though, esp if there's an older lady at the checkout. Classic if it's a young lad though, just watch him go red! *sniggers & points*

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 6 November 2003 12:44 (twenty years ago) link

I like to get condoms at pharmacies cause it feels all medicinal, like. (Plus Boots own brand are often cheaper.) I feel very kinky carrying them around in a paper bag!

Citizen Kate (kate), Thursday, 6 November 2003 12:45 (twenty years ago) link

they're so expensive, I'm glad i don't have to use em.

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 6 November 2003 12:50 (twenty years ago) link

ha, kate - that reminded me of when I bought three boxes of condoms (hey, it was 3 for 2!) and some razor blades for the bf at Boots - the old lady on the till stared at me very primly and whisked them into a double bag.

I don't know if the bf would be embarassed to buy me tampons, because it hasn't come up yet. I keep such a huge stash that I rarely run out, and just tend to stock up whenever they're on sale. I'm like a squirrel, me.

elisabeth k, Thursday, 6 November 2003 13:02 (twenty years ago) link

I don't send the boy out for girly things because what if he picked up the wrong ones! They change the packaging so often on Always that I can hardly keep it straight myself. Also last time I sent him out for coffee beans, he came back with decaf grounds. Boys! Incompetence is their best defense!

teeny (teeny), Thursday, 6 November 2003 13:31 (twenty years ago) link

HSA tried that tack with cooking. I don't let him get away with anything else. I mean, when he sends me off to find bizarre scientific or art supply things, I come back with the right thing, so I *know* that he can differentiate.

Citizen Kate (kate), Thursday, 6 November 2003 13:35 (twenty years ago) link

Just send him with the empty pack teeny!

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 6 November 2003 13:36 (twenty years ago) link

Early on, my mom told me this horror story about her best friend who wore a tampon in a jacuzzi and ended up having a hysterectimy! (note, I do not know how to spell this word as I don't have to type it very often now do I?) So, yeah, I never got into them either.

Now for my own horror story, which I'm sure I've mentioned before as it's so traumatic. My exboyfriend snuck up behind me in the hall between classes in 7th grade, opened my bookbag, and found my pads. He immediately started throwing them all over the hall and saying, "Hey! Look everyone!" But then I guess he realized no one cared and he slunk off.

Sarah McLusky (coco), Thursday, 6 November 2003 14:57 (twenty years ago) link

Early on, my mom told me this horror story about her best friend who wore a tampon in a jacuzzi and ended up having a hysterectimy!

You make this sound like it happened in the jacuzzi.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 6 November 2003 14:58 (twenty years ago) link

Mrs Tampax came to our school too Madchen.

I don't have a problem talking about stuff like that with the boyf either, of course he is just humouring me and could care less about the new "cotton like" topsheet...

On a shopping expediton for various girlie things for me the checkout lady asked him if he was leading a double life and sniggered, he was tres embarrassed!

smee (smee), Thursday, 6 November 2003 16:08 (twenty years ago) link

Am I totally sad to be excitined that, thanks to double coupons, I am going to get $1 offf on tampons at the grocery store?

tokyo rosemary (rosemary), Thursday, 6 November 2003 16:22 (twenty years ago) link

oh oh oh pussy control

0+>, Thursday, 6 November 2003 16:35 (twenty years ago) link

I love that I know exactly who posted that without needing any clues.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 6 November 2003 16:37 (twenty years ago) link

why didnt mrs tampax come to our school? *stamps foot*

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 6 November 2003 16:37 (twenty years ago) link

I think this thread got started PRECISELY when my period started.

teeny (teeny), Thursday, 6 November 2003 17:05 (twenty years ago) link

Dude (actually, technically Dudette), now that IS radical!

Citizen Kate (kate), Thursday, 6 November 2003 17:06 (twenty years ago) link

I think this thread got started PRECISELY when my period started.
-- teeny (teen...), November 6th, 2003.

Oh hey, we must have synchronized. No, wait...

mei (mei), Friday, 7 November 2003 16:47 (twenty years ago) link

So anyway, I meat this thread in earnest. I asked the person who used the phrase originally and they said:



> Message: 1
> Date: Thu, 6 Nov 2003 06:19:30 -0800 (PST)
> From: heather webster
> Subject: radical menstruation>?
>
> well.. I'm kinda glad you asked what radical menstruation is.. It's actually pretty broad and such a general term that it's open to individual interpretation.
>
> However, what I can answer is what is radical about menstruation? Tampons are made out of cotton./rayon fibers (unless you buy organic only cotton). In the US cotton is one of the most pesticide -ridden crops. Rayon is a synthetic fiber derived from wood pulp, and in the processing of rayon Dioxin is produced ( a harmful chemical linked to cervical cancer, endometriosis, tss, yeast infections, low sperm count (for guys who interact with a dioxin-tainted vagina), cuts in the vaginal walls, and birth defects. We are concerned about thoes chemicals being absorbes through our vaginal walls and fucking us up BIG time. So...We started a womyn's health and sexuality collective and the first thing we focused on was the health of menstruation. We did a lot of work and research on these chemicals and alternatives to tampons (like the keeper, homemade cotton or flannel pads, organic tampons, and stuff like that). We also looked at the impact tampons have on the enviorment- as a form of waste
> and as a chemical hazard, and the shame surrounding OUR BLOOD.
>
> So, currently we carry 8 or so zines about having a healthy period, practicing non-invasive birth control (fertility awareness through tracking your ovulation cycle (for more info see Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler)).. We also distro homemade pads, speculums, we give away info on making your own pad, and stuff like that..
>
> So, what I mean by Radical Menstruation is Menstruation Activism, tampon's are'nt healthy and if you do reaserch on them and still wanna use 'em that's fine. But I'm pretty angry that I was never told how harmful they can be. And I think it's importnat to get the word out there so menstruators can make informed decisions about thier health.
>
> if anyone wants more info.. I'd be happy to send zines and good stuff.. I'd just want $$ for shipping..especially cause most of y'all are in the UK...Wait, not necessarily- I'm actually visiting London from Nov 22-29 if there's someplace I could leave info??
>
>


mei (mei), Friday, 7 November 2003 16:48 (twenty years ago) link

Nutcases.

smee (smee), Friday, 7 November 2003 16:50 (twenty years ago) link

I'd be a lot more inclined to actually be interested in what she has to say if she didn't use the bloody word "WOMYN". Sigh. But perhaps that's just my own personal prejudices. It just taints What She Has To Say (quite interesting) with this sort of stupid feminist sloganeering Ladyfest slant which makes a lot of people who would other wise be interested completely turn off.

Citizen Kate (kate), Friday, 7 November 2003 16:52 (twenty years ago) link

I would like to see the research she's citing. I can't help thinking that if tampons were categorically unhealthy, female reproductive health would be a disaster almost across the board. (Maybe it is and I just don't know.)

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 7 November 2003 17:00 (twenty years ago) link

no http://www.vietgrove.com/images/hatorade.gif drinking on "womyn", plz.

(nb obv i like "womyn" coz it's a funny spelling, actually it's my favourite funny spelling)

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 7 November 2003 17:01 (twenty years ago) link

uh, the tampon companies have a very vested interest in keeping the health risks associated with their products as on the down-low as possible. see this story (which originally ran in the village voice) as one example.

maura (maura), Friday, 7 November 2003 17:15 (twenty years ago) link

(and actually the other stories linked from there are also v informative, albeit 10 years old or so)

maura (maura), Friday, 7 November 2003 17:29 (twenty years ago) link

We started a womyn's health and sexuality collective....Menstruation Activism

alarm bells there...

Jay Dee Sah Mon (Kingfish), Friday, 7 November 2003 18:14 (twenty years ago) link

uh, the tampon companies have a very vested interest in keeping the health risks associated with their products as on the down-low as possible.

Wow, that never occurred to me!

some dumbass, apparently (Dan Perry), Friday, 7 November 2003 18:26 (twenty years ago) link

I find almost everything about menstrual cycle really fascinating. I wouldn't necessarily want to have periods, but I do wish I were more overtly forced to recognize the physiological cycles my body undergoes (and how they affect my behavior, my appearance, etc.) -- they're so obscure that I can't recognize them.

I don't remember learning anything at all in sex-ed about the fertility cycle, just that girls get periods and wear sanitary napkins during them so as not to make a mess. What a joke!

I also think the idea of menstrual cycles synching-up is fascinating (though there has been some scientific suggestion that this can be explained by mere random coincidence). I hopefully imagine that there is a good deal of behavior-mediating chemical communication going on between individuals that we haven't yet learned to recognize. And of course, the less physically shielded we are from each other, the more influence these things have.

If "radical menstruation" (a perverse name, obviously) is the response to our mindlessly commercial, interventionist health care system and paranoia-inducing health education strategies, then bully for it.

Kris (aqueduct), Friday, 7 November 2003 21:22 (twenty years ago) link

five years pass...

Okay why has my period been going on for five weeks?

Abbott of the Trapezoid Monks (Abbott), Friday, 30 January 2009 18:32 (fifteen years ago) link

It's getting A-SPENSIVE.

Abbott of the Trapezoid Monks (Abbott), Friday, 30 January 2009 18:33 (fifteen years ago) link

i read this as racial menstruation :/

velko, Friday, 30 January 2009 18:35 (fifteen years ago) link

Be colorblind, don't be so shallow.

Abbott of the Trapezoid Monks (Abbott), Friday, 30 January 2009 18:36 (fifteen years ago) link

http://members.shaw.ca/revchu/stuff/men2zb.gif

salsa shark, Friday, 30 January 2009 22:49 (fifteen years ago) link

Buy some cheap red t-shirts to cut up and use as supplemental pads?

WmC, Friday, 30 January 2009 22:51 (fifteen years ago) link

nine years pass...

why isn't there a menstruation emoji

Οὖτις, Friday, 11 January 2019 17:41 (five years ago) link

I just use the volcano emoji.

Yerac, Friday, 11 January 2019 17:49 (five years ago) link

well, then what do you use for volcanos

Οὖτις, Friday, 11 January 2019 17:55 (five years ago) link

The dancing lady.

Yerac, Friday, 11 January 2019 18:04 (five years ago) link

lol

Οὖτις, Friday, 11 January 2019 18:36 (five years ago) link


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