not that our situations are in any way similar, obv
― how rad bandit (gbx), Saturday, 7 November 2009 02:11 (fourteen years ago) link
sorry gbx - that sounds really horrible to deal with - how large a role do you have in this?
― sarahel, Saturday, 7 November 2009 02:11 (fourteen years ago) link
lol wait did am i REALLY the reason mom and dad are fighting????
j/k
unclear. i mean, my mom's going blind and sort of relies on others for 80% of her non-home agency, so it's gonna be a lot on my sis and me, eventually.
― how rad bandit (gbx), Saturday, 7 November 2009 02:16 (fourteen years ago) link
back issues of Art in America magazine dating back to 1992 - his, all his
lol keep these u can give them to me!
― plaques (I know, right?), Saturday, 7 November 2009 14:12 (fourteen years ago) link
ha! his previous ex-girlfriend complained about these - how much room they took up - and that was in 1997. He's accrued over a decade's worth, since. It's actually a good magazine with some really interesting articles.
― sarahel, Saturday, 7 November 2009 17:52 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah i love art in america, dave hickey has been writing a column in it for a while now and the article they had a few months back about "provisional painting" was like porn 2 me
― plaques (I know, right?), Saturday, 7 November 2009 17:55 (fourteen years ago) link
there were actually a couple issues he had that had articles I used for my MA thesis.
― sarahel, Saturday, 7 November 2009 17:56 (fourteen years ago) link
also where i first came across blinky palermo and james bishop
― plaques (I know, right?), Saturday, 7 November 2009 17:58 (fourteen years ago) link
Blinky Palermo always reminds me of the Dead Milkmen song "Bitchin' Camaro"
― sarahel, Saturday, 7 November 2009 17:59 (fourteen years ago) link
as art magazines go it is refreshingly unhip
― plaques (I know, right?), Saturday, 7 November 2009 18:04 (fourteen years ago) link
i had a subscription to artforum for a while, some of it would be really great and fascinating, and some of it would have this grating "too hip for you" quality. I think there was some article or blog post a while ago that did a comparison between Artforum and Vogue. I hadn't thought about it before, but in a lot of ways they are similar.
― sarahel, Saturday, 7 November 2009 18:09 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah that makes sense actually
― plaques (I know, right?), Saturday, 7 November 2009 18:14 (fourteen years ago) link
I will not miss the way you set the alarm for a time unrealistically early considering when you went to sleep and it goes off for fucking ever before it jars you into hitting snooze.
― sarahel, Saturday, 7 November 2009 20:22 (fourteen years ago) link
ugh that is a terrible trait. maybe not a conscious bad habit but cmon thats inconsiderate
― johnny crunch, Saturday, 7 November 2009 20:34 (fourteen years ago) link
xp 2 sarahel: lol just came across thishttp://donchristensen.com/images/Vog.jpg
― plaques (I know, right?), Sunday, 8 November 2009 19:07 (fourteen years ago) link
ha ha! one of my friends wanted to get me a poster of baldessari's "i will not make boring art" piece - but apparently this item does not exist, and i think it should.
― sarahel, Sunday, 8 November 2009 19:40 (fourteen years ago) link
lol @ heilmann illustrating the 60's as well
― plaxico (I know, right?), Sunday, 8 November 2009 20:18 (fourteen years ago) link
whatever happened to "world art" magazine
― luol deng (am0n), Wednesday, 11 November 2009 18:49 (fourteen years ago) link
gbx you should read Bottomless Bellybutton
― we are normal and we want our freedom (Abbott), Wednesday, 11 November 2009 21:34 (fourteen years ago) link
is it sad, y/n
― lots of jerks (gbx), Wednesday, 11 November 2009 21:45 (fourteen years ago) link
when you say "i don't care" i can tell from your expression and body language that you in fact, do carewhen you say "i don't know" i can tell that you actually do have some ideawill be glad to no longer be obliged to read your mind
― provates: feminine plural of provato (sarahel), Wednesday, 11 November 2009 22:06 (fourteen years ago) link
xp sad but not depressing. and also funny, clever, and all around awesome.
― I Endorse He-Horse (ytth), Thursday, 12 November 2009 06:07 (fourteen years ago) link
i like the title why bc it sound intersting
― tehresa, Thursday, 12 November 2009 06:16 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.metropulse.com/news/2009/nov/11/tenderhooks-call-it-quits/
This was in the local rag yesterday, so now everybody is asking me about the breakup and all. Also, this article was written by an ilxor. Also, lol "avant doom".
― e\m/ily (roxymuzak), Friday, 13 November 2009 23:47 (fourteen years ago) link
"the split APPEARS amicable"
it actually is amicable tbh + ieo
metropulse.com should get over it
― luol deng (am0n), Friday, 13 November 2009 23:57 (fourteen years ago) link
wait are you in that band thats like corrupted you posted about??
― luol deng (am0n), Friday, 13 November 2009 23:58 (fourteen years ago) link
gbx it is half sad
― we are normal and we want our freedom (Abbott), Saturday, 14 November 2009 02:08 (fourteen years ago) link
in the same way Orson Welles in The Third Man is half fat
haha i am now. xposts
― e\m/ily (roxymuzak), Saturday, 14 November 2009 05:14 (fourteen years ago) link
crap, should i watch the movie first??
― itdn put butt in the display name (gbx), Saturday, 14 November 2009 05:40 (fourteen years ago) link
thats awesome roxy
― luol deng (am0n), Saturday, 14 November 2009 20:02 (fourteen years ago) link
had thoroughly polite pragmatic discussion about his moving out, timeline for this, separation of stuff - it was almost unreal.
― sarahel, Sunday, 15 November 2009 21:24 (fourteen years ago) link
It's good that you can at least settle that stuff without things getting nasty...
Lots of hugs and sympathy to you!
― Tuomas, Sunday, 15 November 2009 22:07 (fourteen years ago) link
today i made a budget to try and figure out what my expenses would be like living alone
― sarahel, Sunday, 15 November 2009 22:09 (fourteen years ago) link
ime the expenses will seem kind of a lot at first, but then you'll save a lot of money in other places you didn't expect... i know i eat out, go to movies, spend less on eating in general when i'm single
― DAN P3RRY MAD AT GRANDMA (just1n3), Monday, 16 November 2009 02:49 (fourteen years ago) link
tend to spend a lot more on beer tho
― hoos-kingofthedrugs (deej), Monday, 16 November 2009 02:50 (fourteen years ago) link
shit i forgot about the part where i spent way more on wine
― DAN P3RRY MAD AT GRANDMA (just1n3), Monday, 16 November 2009 02:52 (fourteen years ago) link
but my last ex was also a total financial burden on me, so i could only be richer upon breaking up with him
Friends of mine whove been together 7 years - who went through all the pain and hassle of her getting visas to live in aus and everything - have jist broken up and shes prob moving back to the US. Its so sad! They were like everyone's go-to couple for "they'll always be together" benchmark :( I'm like, hell if *they* cant make it work... jeez :(
― hulk would smash (Trayce), Monday, 16 November 2009 03:00 (fourteen years ago) link
spent about an hour sorting most of our dvds and videos into "mine," "his" and a "i don't know/i don't remember/given to us both" pile, found an Amoeba gift certificate he'd given to me as a gift a while ago, only cried a little.
― sarahel, Sunday, 22 November 2009 04:40 (fourteen years ago) link
you get huffy and pissy when you ask me a question and don't like my answeryou have back hairyou clip your toenails on the couch while we're watching a movie
― sarahel, Sunday, 29 November 2009 03:19 (fourteen years ago) link
^^^disgusting savage, etc
― mookieproof, Monday, 30 November 2009 05:44 (fourteen years ago) link
after 2 hours of discussion:
him: I am disappointed to learn that i wasn't entirely satisfactoryme: it's not like you tried very hard.
― sarahel, Monday, 30 November 2009 10:28 (fourteen years ago) link
you uh lived too far away and didn't like poetry
― a. cole, u thic (acoleuthic), Tuesday, 1 December 2009 09:27 (fourteen years ago) link
that's all i got
― a. cole, u thic (acoleuthic), Tuesday, 1 December 2009 09:28 (fourteen years ago) link
(xpost) sounds like the first line of a breakup song
"you uh lived too far a-waaaaaaayand didn't like po-et-ryyyyyAND THEN YOU BROKE MY HEARTLIKE AN EMOTIONLESS DEMONdun dun dundun!"
― so says surgeon snoball (snoball), Tuesday, 1 December 2009 10:11 (fourteen years ago) link
xp - you only had what - a month? After 11 years, there's a wealth of material.
― sarahel, Tuesday, 1 December 2009 10:16 (fourteen years ago) link
my posts were kinda tongue in cheek
― a. cole, u thic (acoleuthic), Tuesday, 1 December 2009 10:31 (fourteen years ago) link
i mean there was a slight element of ripping it out of the whole 'you had x flaw' process