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HAMBURGER NEURON GROUP (ex machina), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:16 (nineteen years ago) link

Also, it's also quite offensive that city folk will act so snooty...

You know, it's just as offensive to make sweeping generalisations about city folk as it is to make sweeping generalisations about suburban folk.

Possibly Kate Again (kate), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:18 (nineteen years ago) link

I wasn't accusing you personally Kate. And anyway, sweeping generalisations is what DL is all about.

dog latin (dog latin), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:20 (nineteen years ago) link

After the beatdown I got for daring to use the term "Bridge and Tunnel" I'm just not going to let that go un-called.

Possibly Kate Again (kate), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:21 (nineteen years ago) link

i like ironic haircuts.

but only if they are asymmetric too

charltonlido (gareth), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:22 (nineteen years ago) link

COME ON THEN!

dog latin (dog latin), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:22 (nineteen years ago) link

YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE LIDO

Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:23 (nineteen years ago) link

People are generally people by default. Tho wanking is kind of instinctive i guess.

stevem (blueski), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:23 (nineteen years ago) link

any chance of those chips

Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:23 (nineteen years ago) link

Chips With Everything - now there's a club, or is it? i dunno, never been

stevem (blueski), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:26 (nineteen years ago) link

what exactly is wrong with the term 'bridge and tunnel'?

what is wrong with ironic haircuts?

there is a strange classism being exhibited by many people, which seems to suggest that 'ordinary people' (you mean, working class people right?) don't/shouldn't do these things. i don't understand.

some of the attitudes and opinions expressed seem very similar to those i came to london to escape.

this isnt the premise of dlatins post, apologies dl

bridge, tunnel and lido (gareth), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:38 (nineteen years ago) link

i should clarify that i wasn't accusing Kate of classism on *this* thread, per se, but of snobbery.

stevie (stevie), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:39 (nineteen years ago) link

maybe this is on some other threads, more than this one, but it is here too. the implication that people are pretentious/fake/annoying/poncey, yes, particularly 'poncey' if they are a certain way, seems somehow bound up in a mutated classism, like, working class people never do those things? its an attitude i dont understand

charltonlido (gareth), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:42 (nineteen years ago) link

i'm not referring to kate, but to her detractors on this thread (and, granted, i'm not talking specifically about this who gets to live where thing, but it is related)

charltonlido (gareth), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:43 (nineteen years ago) link

and that i was also needlessly vociferous upthread, but also really narked by the 'us & them' attitude of Kate's post, which rarely try to understand whichever 'them' is in question, in favour of merely whining about them, which doesn't seem a very good solution to whatever the problem is (ie there are people fouling your area and being loud & abusive - how does where they are from matter, and are you sure they're not local?). to be honest, the idea of living in the centre of town has never really appealed to me - i like to keep it at arms' distance.

xpost: gareth, not sure if i understand the analogy between fakeness/ponceyness and classism as regards this thread...

stevie (stevie), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:43 (nineteen years ago) link

it seems like Kate is suggesting that people who live in the city and those who live in the suburbs should behave the same but this strikes me as being somewhat at odds with the urban/suburban dynamic, esp. wrt to suburbanites (urbanites don't go to the burbs because they HATE them) and their attitudes to the city which range from excitement/wishing to be part of to that becoming envy and then resentment. but the noisy people being complained about - who are they and where are they from? and how can you tell? perhaps they feel more relaxed about making noise in the city, as if expecting residents there to be used to it. by and large the city is noisier than the suburbs so this is to an extent understandable (tho perhaps not excusable).

stevem (blueski), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:43 (nineteen years ago) link

I'm not sure those attitudes are present on this thread gareth, though I know what you are alleging. Where specifically do you think they are visible here? I just re-read and I don't see it.

Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:45 (nineteen years ago) link

'bridge and tunnel' = great term because directly evocative of bridges and tunnels, which are GREAT! i much prefer bridges tho, in fact i hate and fear tunnels (but they're still great)

ironic haircuts i can take or leave

stevem (blueski), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:46 (nineteen years ago) link

i thought the initial reference to 'bridge and tunnel' was to a club night in london my friends refer to.

stevie (stevie), Friday, 11 June 2004 11:47 (nineteen years ago) link

Shall we all be friends?

dog latin (dog latin), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:02 (nineteen years ago) link

stevie, i think its that on many threads theres almost a fetishization of working class people as opposite to hipsters/ponces. you know, ordinary people, those people that go to the football, don't live in warehouses, aren't poncey, know what they are talking about, as though working class peopel aren't all those things

its difficult to articulate, and is only hinted at in this thread really

i think its the anti ironic-hair thing, a dislike of 'ponceyness', see the many comments about 'hipster cunts' that pepper the board. yes, of course, i am aware that that is a convenient straw man for people but...

charltonlido (gareth), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:03 (nineteen years ago) link

Charlton, thank you. Thank you so much.

Possibly Kate Again (kate), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:07 (nineteen years ago) link

I see what you're saying and agree - to a degree - Gareth... I just don't see it in this thread. For me, my distaste for the silly-haircut brigade has nothing to do with any lingering Working Class instinct, and everything to do with working with useless media drones sporting said quiffs in a previous life dallying in the frankly bizarre and nonsensical world of style mags. My editor had one of those haircuts, and i *hated* him so so so very much.

stevie (stevie), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:08 (nineteen years ago) link

FWIW.. i preferred this thread before other people turned up.

don (don), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:10 (nineteen years ago) link

I don't see it here either, to be fair.

Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:10 (nineteen years ago) link

I see what G is saying, but on this thread people were taking Kate to task for hating on suburbanites coming into town as if city residents had a God-given right to it. It's not that she *explained* 'B&T' -- it's that she *approves of* that term's use, and people were arguing that the term is inherently snobbish. Class has *nothing* to do with this -- since when did 'surburbanite' connote 'working-class'?

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:11 (nineteen years ago) link

yes, but what i mean stevie, is, don't working class people have ironic haircuts?

charltonlido (gareth), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:11 (nineteen years ago) link

The whole anti-hipster thing is odd though. I think it takes one to know one really and I've found it's mostly the city-centrics who complain about them. If the hate is all coming from the suburbs then it is a backlash against the Hobbesian brutality felt by many visitors to bigger cities, y'know, the way nobody talks to each other until they're absolutely 100% sure they're not a weirdo. I've been asked "where do you live" before by people in London and when I tell them North Hertfordshire they're all like "never heard of it, is that in Zone 5?" - for goodness sake, it's only a half hour away! To Londoners I think this kind of behaviour is entirely normal and when they see rural bumpkins like myself smiling on the tube, they treat it with disdain - hence the whole "bridge and tunnel" thing that Kate was talking about.

dog latin (dog latin), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:12 (nineteen years ago) link

Yes they do, Gareth. I'm not sure where I stated otherwise.

stevie (stevie), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:15 (nineteen years ago) link

for me G using the word poncey has nothing to do with class, but a lot to do with *class* if you see what I mean.

chris (chris), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:15 (nineteen years ago) link

Oh, and no, I don't think "working class" people sport ironic haircuts because they're too busy working than spending hours reflecting upon what 80s fashion to revive. ;-)

FWIW I am a slightly bemulleted lower middle class suburbanite so please take the above comment with heaps of salt.

dog latin (dog latin), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:16 (nineteen years ago) link

Snobbery is justified if the behaviour causing it is worthy of contempt.

The behaviour in question is *not* "living in the suburbs" which is the mistaken connotation due to the derivation of the term. The behaviour in question is common or gardern wankerhood which all of you would recognise as wankerhood.

Possibly Kate Again (kate), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:17 (nineteen years ago) link

chris - OTM.

Enrique - maybe the 'suburbs' will end up connoting working class when there is *no more* affordable housing in central London. There's something heartwarming that the areas my parents grew up in are now considered desirable; less heart-warming that they almost definitely couldn't afford to live in them anymore (but so is life).

stevie (stevie), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:18 (nineteen years ago) link

whats wrong with being 'poncey' chris?

i think this is the implication i'm referring to. that being poncey is seen as a bad thing? why is it?

this reminds me of being back in yorkshire

charltonlido (gareth), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:18 (nineteen years ago) link

I've been guilty of wankerhood in the past, it seems silly now. I can't catch a disease off my own hand? It's expensive too!

Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:19 (nineteen years ago) link

Snobbery is justified if the behaviour causing it is worthy of contempt.

Bollocks -- anyway, how do you make out that inner-city residents are better-behaved than the B&T lot? I don't see it.

My last post was a bit confused, but basically I was refuting the idea that by calling out the idea of the B&T as snobbish I was not being inversely-snobbish towards all you excitingly-coiffed Zone 1 and 2ers.

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:20 (nineteen years ago) link

it might be that some of the people who are anti-ponce, or have expressed antipathy, or non-interest at least, to fashion or style, or haircuts, have been strongly self-identified as working class, that i have made this connection, possibly in error?

charltonlido (gareth), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:22 (nineteen years ago) link

i think we definitely are confusing haircuts, class and suburbia here. They're all very different.

dog latin (dog latin), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:24 (nineteen years ago) link

Enrique, you continue willfully disregarding what I am saying on the basis of terminology.

Is using the term "Tory" to describe Conservatives offensive to the Irish because it originated in Ireland?

"Bridge and Tunnel" was once an origin, it is now a behaviour.

(The funny thing is, in my experience, actual born and bred city dwellers do tend to be a lot more respectful of each other on a certain level because they understand that's what it's necessary to do to live packed in so closely. But this is my personal experience, not a generalisation.)

I understand what Gareth is trying to say, maybe because it's the same people always making the same arguments, and dragging class in during every single argument.

Possibly Kate Again (kate), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:25 (nineteen years ago) link

I like fashion and style etc G, just think some people go too far round the style/stupid circle Gareth. It's things like thais I call poncey. I fear you may be chowing on a red herring sammidge

chris (chris), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:26 (nineteen years ago) link

also, if you went into Luton town centre on a Saturday night sporting a big ironic mullet, ripped hipster flares, electroclash make up and a Ramones ringer tee you'd confuse the general populace so much the fucking Arndale centre would implode. That's why we hate you yuppy scumbags so much - you're destroying our livelihoods! I'm gonna have to get the bus up to crapping Bedford to buy my Kappa track bottoms now.

dog latin (dog latin), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:29 (nineteen years ago) link

I don't think class in that sense came into it at all. As a small-towner I felt that Kate was being a snob and I called her on it, but 'class' wasn't something I interoduced (ie snobbery agin subrubs, provinces etc isn't really class-snobbery).

2 xposts

Kate, I kinda see what you mean, but 'B&T' suggests disapproval of the object it relates to on snobbish grounds: like 'prole', in certain contexts I don't like it.

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:29 (nineteen years ago) link

I think Gareth might be making a good point here, maybe not about attitudes on this thread but certainly on the board. (I think there was another thread where we discussed this but it was Momus arguing it so obviously it got shouted down).

I would like to see some more photoshoppery, though.

Gregory Henry (Gregory Henry), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:32 (nineteen years ago) link

Gregory otm.

Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:33 (nineteen years ago) link

Dear Jim'll

Can you fix it for me to be photoshopped into a picture waving my thumbs at Gareth and Kate for blowing up the Luton Arndale centre?

Chzthxbye!

dog latin (dog latin), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:34 (nineteen years ago) link

The exact post where "classism" was introduced:

I mean, goddamit. Is the sensation of snobbery really so irresistible to you? Are you not aware that your tedious posts on classism, etc, read like someone vomiting after having a copy of the Daily Mail shoved down their throats? Are you really so addicted to empty, blustering rhetoric??
-- stevie (looselippedstevi...), June 11th, 2004. (stevie) (later)

Hunt him down and tar him and feather him like the scurvy peasant he is, I'll have his head hanging on a pole above my moat as a lesson to the rest of ye!

Possibly Kate Again (kate), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:35 (nineteen years ago) link

I think it's a very good point that anti-hipster snobbery is the snobbery it's OK to like around here, but I fear that trying to map it on to any perceived ILX class divisions is very tricky. You'd need a venn diagram at least. Maybe a seven dimentional venn diagram from space.

Tim (Tim), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:37 (nineteen years ago) link

It's interesting, this thread. I can see where Gareth is coming from: there is a definite, erm, anti-ponce attitude to the board at times. I don't think it was necessarily a good idea to bring it up on this thread though, given the confusion of terms already present.

Ricardo (RickyT), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:38 (nineteen years ago) link

shut up you tw@tting hipster Hopkins

chris (chris), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:38 (nineteen years ago) link

dog latin is my hero.

g-kit (g-kit), Friday, 11 June 2004 12:38 (nineteen years ago) link


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