you're not unique though. like a lot of guys say creepy, homophobic things to people. it's not good.
― harbl, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 00:58 (fourteen years ago) link
dating sites suck for unique crepey people
― beloved ilx character (King Boy Pato), Wednesday, 28 October 2009 00:59 (fourteen years ago) link
so do vacuum cleaners
― sarahel, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:02 (fourteen years ago) link
hey now
― beloved ilx character (King Boy Pato), Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:03 (fourteen years ago) link
vacuum cleaners suck for everyone - unless they are broken.
― sarahel, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:04 (fourteen years ago) link
no I don't think that actually works :(
― iatee, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:05 (fourteen years ago) link
I have never tried tho cause it would be kinda homo
unless it was a pink vacuum cleaner or something
― iatee, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:06 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.henryvacuumcleaner.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/Numatic-HET200-Hetty-Vacuum-Cleaner-Pink.jpg
― any old tawny port in a storm (electricsound), Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:07 (fourteen years ago) link
like this one?
http://startupblog.files.wordpress.com/2008/09/dyson-vacuum.jpg
― sarahel, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:07 (fourteen years ago) link
https://www.totalofficesupplies.co.uk/catalog/images/713787.jpg
look at that saucy little devil
― any old tawny port in a storm (electricsound), Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:08 (fourteen years ago) link
wow it's even called 'hetty'!!!
― iatee, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:08 (fourteen years ago) link
I would like to date someone, but... I can't bring myself to sign up for OkCupid. there's gotta be a better way!
― ian, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:09 (fourteen years ago) link
have you heard of hetty, ian
― iatee, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:09 (fourteen years ago) link
I think I need to make changes in how I come off on dating websites.
I don't think I come off anywhere near as weird in real life or else I wouldn't be getting laid
But the idea of not being able to explain who I am on a website is making me sick so I'm leaving ILX for good
I'm not a creep in real lifeSome people do act funnily stupid like Homer in real life
I hope for my sake that my friends, family and future coworkers will never find these posts
http://img408.imageshack.us/img408/7112/goodbye.jpg
goodbye
― What the hell is hamster love (CaptainLorax), Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:09 (fourteen years ago) link
damn - the smile on that vacuum.
― sarahel, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:10 (fourteen years ago) link
waht
― homosexual II, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:10 (fourteen years ago) link
aw
― Maria, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:11 (fourteen years ago) link
hetty!!!!!
― sarahel, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:12 (fourteen years ago) link
hey wait lorax, just cuz you're inexplicable doesn't mean you have to leave!!
― ian, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:13 (fourteen years ago) link
THIS IS JUST LIKE WHEN THE FUCKING LORAX WENT TO HIDE BECAUSE THE WORLD WAS POLLUTED :(
we were having a bit too much fun at his expense.
― sarahel, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:14 (fourteen years ago) link
okay i am off to do my radio show now.which, incidentally, is not a good way to meet girls.
― ian, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:14 (fourteen years ago) link
hetty is here to clean up this polluted world
― any old tawny port in a storm (electricsound), Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:14 (fourteen years ago) link
xp ian - what station?
― sarahel, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:15 (fourteen years ago) link
lorax has flounced!
― homosexual II, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:17 (fourteen years ago) link
what the hell just happened here
xpost oh!
― Tracer Hand, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:18 (fourteen years ago) link
lol mandee
― estela, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:20 (fourteen years ago) link
hetty is here to clean up this polluted worldhttp://www.reevoo.com/decidewhattobuy/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/love-hetty-and-henry-numatic.jpg
― sarahel, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:29 (fourteen years ago) link
awesome
― any old tawny port in a storm (electricsound), Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:31 (fourteen years ago) link
it's just so romantic ...
― sarahel, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 01:33 (fourteen years ago) link
i really can't decide if lorax is a sock or not
― DAN P3RRY MAD AT GRANDMA (just1n3), Wednesday, 28 October 2009 02:00 (fourteen years ago) link
if he is, the person responsible is the most amazing puppeteer ever
sarahel if u care i am playing rekkerds now on eastvillageradio.com
a mellow night.
no chixxx.
― ian, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 02:37 (fourteen years ago) link
i've heard of that actually - i thought it was a storefront space? but yeah, doing a radio show isn't a great way to meet people - been there.
― sarahel, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 06:58 (fourteen years ago) link
Too bad Cassavetes isn't around to turn this thread into another masterpiece. Would someone give Elaine May the money to do it?
― Kevin John Bozelka, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 08:51 (fourteen years ago) link
I must say, all of this talk has really made me convinced that I should create an OkCupid account. It sounds like there are a lot of unique personalities out there.
― mh, Wednesday, 28 October 2009 14:51 (fourteen years ago) link
holy shit, lorax.
In case you are still reading this and not a sockpuppet, the point isn't that you're too unique for most girls, it's that you're flipping back and forth (in the pasted email) between trying to convey that uniqueness through quirk of writing, and trying to cover it up/explain it away. This is separate from the whole issue of just saying kind of rude/awkward stuff like asking their ethnicity or the whole "your type of girl" which most people aren't going to receive well - I mean, right or wrong, I like to think of me as ME rather than as a member of a type, you know? There's actually very little in that email that feels specific to the person you're writing to, and that's going to get it quietly ignored more than anything. The whole "that's my question" thing is just out of place - it makes it seem like you don't have much to say to her but felt obligated to say something, you know?
Just talk to them as the person they are on their profile and have a conversation with them (if they go for it). But you have to figure out why you're on the site and why you're emailing these particular people.
should all be taken with a grain of salt, tho, as it's been two years since i got laid from okcupid. I think my profile probably reads as pervy and nerdy to 99% of anybody, but I'm kind of OK with that because pervy nerdy people are what I'm after, etc. Not sure if this is really distinct from Lorax's "uniqueness" line but whatevs.
― Doctor Casino, Thursday, 29 October 2009 12:33 (fourteen years ago) link
ps in case it's not clear above, I don't think conveying uniqueness through quirk of writing is a good idea, AT ALLpps fair being fair my wordy, over-long okcupid profile is "alkibiades" for anyone that wants to heap on the abuse!
― Doctor Casino, Thursday, 29 October 2009 12:35 (fourteen years ago) link
THREAD-KILLING advice, ladies and gentlemen!
― Doctor Casino, Tuesday, 3 November 2009 15:19 (fourteen years ago) link
Not your fault, we were in a mood of mourning after driving lorax away.
― Maria, Tuesday, 3 November 2009 15:26 (fourteen years ago) link
he should of wrote "if you get to know me"
― conrad, Tuesday, 3 November 2009 15:31 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.iwatchstuff.com/2009/07/29/lorax.jpg
― Doctor Casino, Tuesday, 3 November 2009 15:33 (fourteen years ago) link
Don't worry - LJ will be back in a matter of days, presumably.
― sarahel, Tuesday, 3 November 2009 15:34 (fourteen years ago) link
OMG I totally just joined this. My roommate made me ("strongly encouraged" is, I believe, the polite term).
I'm going to write the arsiest profile, though.
― I would feel confident if I dated her because I am older than (Laurel), Tuesday, 3 November 2009 15:40 (fourteen years ago) link
let us help u
― quincie, Tuesday, 3 November 2009 15:42 (fourteen years ago) link
I have some photos you can use
― conrad, Tuesday, 3 November 2009 15:43 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh okay thanks. NO WAIT
Crepe-Suzette.
― I would feel confident if I dated her because I am older than (Laurel), Tuesday, 3 November 2009 15:44 (fourteen years ago) link
I kinda hope for a girl that likes the lovable loser
I guess it's unsporting to reply to Lorax a week after the fact, but I think both losers and those who might potentially love them are done a great disservice by all those Hollywood rom-coms where the beautiful starlet is bowled over by the sudden realisation of acute loserphilia
RIP Lorax, I snapped at you on some other "why don't girls like me with all my lovable flaws PS i just rudely brushed off a girl for having a flaw" thread so I guess you are not exactly looking for my opinion, but I will miss yr posts nonetheless
― subtyll cauillacyons (a passing spacecadet), Tuesday, 3 November 2009 16:34 (fourteen years ago) link
I like that it thinks I am a "similar user" to girls who are aged 20. Actually no I don't like that at all.
― I would feel confident if I dated her because I am older than (Laurel), Tuesday, 3 November 2009 19:12 (fourteen years ago) link
i got a free month of a-list, so if anyone wants some AWARDZ just lemme know
― spergliacci (cankles), Tuesday, 3 November 2009 19:25 (fourteen years ago) link