I feel pretty bad for her kid tbqh, quite the mother to devote work and family time to snowing folks online. Maybe she at least have the kid some of those cookies?
― omar little, Monday, 22 October 2012 21:40 (eleven years ago) link
She said he did but what's the TRUTH?? She pretty much made him take a backseat to her (disastrously failed) quest to win back her HS bf. Don't know how much he liked it in LA but uprooting cross country at that age is tough no matter what.
― A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Monday, 22 October 2012 21:47 (eleven years ago) link
oh i'm sure he's fine
― congratulations (n/a), Monday, 22 October 2012 21:51 (eleven years ago) link
the luna(tic) is in our head
― (╯︵╰,) RIP (am0n), Monday, 22 October 2012 22:09 (eleven years ago) link
He'd be in 10th grade this fall if what she said in her last email to me was true (starting 5th in 2007). Kinda seemed like her mother was the primary caregiver but now it seems like the hubby might've been. Who knows? Guessing he's ok. A few of us had her figured out by fall 2003 but didn't have any proof/didn't care enough to say anything.
― Bryan, Monday, 22 October 2012 22:16 (eleven years ago) link
I figured anything I could have said back then would have been merely snarled at by her legions plus like I said I was pretty new around here then. Wish some of us had a compare n contrast back then though.
― omar little, Monday, 22 October 2012 22:20 (eleven years ago) link
I'm never going to become an ilx favorite without lacey underpants
― ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Monday, 22 October 2012 22:22 (eleven years ago) link
I think that general feeling, omar, was one of the things that led to 77, if I remember the discussions correctly, though by the time it was actually made the rationale had morphed into something else.
― Bryan, Monday, 22 October 2012 22:27 (eleven years ago) link
I feel like ilx used to be a lot more anonymous, except when it wasn't -- off-board. Stuff like that makes it seem like having a reasonable sense of community on-board is a good thing so that interactions don't exist in a vacuum on cuddlestein mountain
― ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Monday, 22 October 2012 22:44 (eleven years ago) link
one of the things that led to 77 was my discovery of a secret board called "ILX Haven" which I assume was created for all the ILX Heaven folks. I couldn't read any of the threads but I was able to dig up some of the thread titles using the bookmark feature & some of them included names from the ILX Heaven crew.
― *triumphant sauce horns* (crüt), Monday, 22 October 2012 22:47 (eleven years ago) link
I have to lol at folks having been aghast at 77 when at least everyone knew it existed from day 1 afaik. Is haven still existent?
― omar little, Monday, 22 October 2012 22:49 (eleven years ago) link
Haven wasn't ever for Heaven types; that was a pun because *I* needed a haven, like. Some of my friends were on it. That board's not used now, hasn't been for years.
The only private boards that get any sort of use are 77 and the K3v, er, Mod Discussion Board
― stet, Monday, 22 October 2012 22:53 (eleven years ago) link
Oh there's also "Stet's Board" which has one member and a lot of talk about testes postes
― stet, Monday, 22 October 2012 22:54 (eleven years ago) link
!
― omar little, Monday, 22 October 2012 22:54 (eleven years ago) link
clearly the ilx haven keepin' it negative dickhole zing posse run ILX
― buzza, Monday, 22 October 2012 22:56 (eleven years ago) link
ilx haven for the ilx illuminati
― ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Monday, 22 October 2012 22:57 (eleven years ago) link
Husband said he's been crying about her being a wreck lately. Them getting divorced is good in the long term but has to be tough on him now. My SF failed meet up was Jan/Feb 2004. I knew she heavily flirted with other ILXors before and after that, but had no idea of the extent of things. Exchanging of notes didn't happen at all until Lunagate I.
― A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Monday, 22 October 2012 23:13 (eleven years ago) link
The failed SF meet up, which she told me about, was damning and not surprising. By then I was hoping people would've figured out what was going on. During 2004 I stopped paying as much attention to ILX and was off AIM and was horrified when I found out where things went. When it all blew up I was relieved.
― Bryan, Monday, 22 October 2012 23:32 (eleven years ago) link
She never did ever admit to me to lying about SF. What'd she tell you about it?
― A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Monday, 22 October 2012 23:35 (eleven years ago) link
Like I said before I think chaki and I talking behind the scenes (maybe w some others?) about tep was maybe what did it. Don't know how that situation exactly played out but I believe he did cut it off w her right away thankfully.
― omar little, Monday, 22 October 2012 23:37 (eleven years ago) link
If I remember correctly (it was a long time ago and I erased almost all record of our contact off-board) she said she was kinda creeped out by the idea of meeting up and made up an excuse, which I thought fit in with her pattern. I think I assumed you would've gotten her to admit to it eventually. Guess not.
Very glad you had those discussions, omar.
― Bryan, Monday, 22 October 2012 23:46 (eleven years ago) link
Part of why I stayed in contact was hoping she'd admit it one day haha. One by one, she told me every other guy on ILX she talked to off-board creeped her out.
― A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Monday, 22 October 2012 23:50 (eleven years ago) link
stay classy aimee
― omar little, Monday, 22 October 2012 23:57 (eleven years ago) link
to creep out a predator
― estela, Monday, 22 October 2012 23:59 (eleven years ago) link
clearly remember the chat in which we urged Chaki to go public with lunagate. He told us we had to have his back - its funny that on that thread me and omar both are like "we want to hear about it!!" haw
― (♥___♥) (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:04 (eleven years ago) link
hah right I remember that you were there. hmm interesting theory chaki *steeples dingers* do go on
― omar little, Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:06 (eleven years ago) link
Fingers!!!
o lord
I also remember jbdules being in there and drawing our attn to an lj post Luna had made in which she praised her support system in life one by one - every person mentioned was an ilxor. It was v weird. j was like, I just found this weird cause we only chatted a few times at that point. So, even ladies of ILX were comparing notes at that time
― (♥___♥) (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:10 (eleven years ago) link
that was the best hour for Luna-sleuthing because the crisis had popped off but EVERYTHING WAS STILL UP
― (♥___♥) (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:11 (eleven years ago) link
That lj stuff is still up
― just1n3, Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:12 (eleven years ago) link
didn't she only vaguely allude to who those people were? or used like initial of 1st name only?
― A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:12 (eleven years ago) link
I thought I looked for it. lj site?
― ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:16 (eleven years ago) link
Yeah I think the links to it are either on this thread or the water cooler thread - I saw them the other day and they still work. Def saw the list of her BFFs.
― just1n3, Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:20 (eleven years ago) link
Don't know how that situation exactly played out but I believe he did cut it off w her right away thankfully.
don't be silly, they broke up for completely unrelated reasons several whole minutes before shit popped off, M White said so
― set the controls for the arse of your mum (sic), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:22 (eleven years ago) link
It's funny: I got my last email from her what seemed like minutes before shit blew up, apologizing for treating me poorly, which I thought was weird since I don't think she had.
― Bryan, Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:32 (eleven years ago) link
Fwd: I am thinking of posting this, what do you think?Inbox xAimee luna✧✧✧@gm✧✧✧.c✧✧ 10/15/07 to meI'm surprised at the response this has generated - I didn't thinktaking a break would be construed as fleeing the scene, but I guess Iwas wrong. I've read most of what's been said, and while I willneither confirm nor deny any of the accusations here, I do invite anyof the offended parties - and only the offended parties - toemail me and we can discuss things. I say 'only the offended parties'because that's fair, and because I'm not interested in getting a bunchof hate mail from people who are not now and have never been involvedwith me in any way, shape or form. Also, I don't think that thepeople on the board who have nothing to do with any of this don't needto be mired in the middle of this shit any further than y'all haveforced them to be already.
I would point out that many of the things you think you know are plainwrong, some are partial or half truths, most are not the whole storiesas well. You would know this had you bothered to ask anyone who wasdirectly involved and not just picked up a torch and joined the witchhunt. I'm not saying there is no truth whatsoever in anything that'sbeen said. Have I had close relationships with people on ILx? I have. Have I, during the course of those friendships, done and said thingsro hurt those people? I've done that, too. I'm not perfect, and I'vealways been willing to admit that.
To all of you, though, I am not the only ILXor whom no one has met,just because I do not post pictures often or ever with my dogs and sondoes not mean I do not exist, just because you think you might knowsomeone who knows something about someone else does not give youlicense to shit all over the person you think is in the wrong, whetheror not you think you are 'sticking up for' your friends. You areprivy to as much of my life as I will allow, as I am to yours, andwhat I choose to do with my time/who I choose to meet is really noneof your concern. Again, if you are someone who feels hurt by me orsomething I've done, please, come to me and let's talk about it. I'venever maliciously or intentionally hurt any one of you (except thattime I called jess a bitter asshole or whatever, because I totallymeant it at the time, but regretted it later, and I'm pretty sure Iapologized for being a bitch).
To the rest of you, I apologize if any of you have been upset or hurtby any of this, I appreciate that people stuck up for me, and I reallywill not be coming back to the boards after this, for many reasonsthat extend far beyond the reaches of ILx. To most of you, it hasbeen a pleasure, to the rest of you, go fuck your hats.
― A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:42 (eleven years ago) link
and wash it
― the oft-posited third fisherman (darraghmac), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 00:44 (eleven years ago) link
please, only offended parties, so they can talk to me one-on-one and I can snow them about what's actually going on. god forbid they speak to each other and determine I'm telling each they're ok and the rest are shitty
― ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 01:03 (eleven years ago) link
I'venever maliciously or intentionally hurt any one of you (except thattime I called jess a bitter asshole or whatever, because I totallymeant it at the time, but regretted it later, and I'm pretty sure Iapologized for being a bitch).
lol @ strongo being the one person she's remorseful towards
― my mansplain songz (some dude), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 01:36 (eleven years ago) link
maybe he just hasn't revealed their secret history
― ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 01:42 (eleven years ago) link
That email you posted fwiw is dated 3 days AFTER the one I sent her asking her what the hell all this shits about. The "no one" who supposedly asked her "anything". Yay I dont exist!
― Una Stubbs' Tears (Trayce), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 02:14 (eleven years ago) link
Part of her whole schtick was publicly being all *hugs* towards any and everyone so if she called jess a bitter asshole that's a testament to his awesomeness.
― Sug ban (Nicole), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 02:15 (eleven years ago) link
lol, I really hope she's reading this thread.
― WilliamC, Tuesday, 23 October 2012 02:17 (eleven years ago) link
troo wub
― ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 02:17 (eleven years ago) link
i do too xp
― estela, Tuesday, 23 October 2012 02:17 (eleven years ago) link
― Una Stubbs' Tears (Trayce), Monday, October 22, 2012 10:14 PM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
to be fair trayce neither did she
― Author ~ Coach ~ Goddess (s1ocki), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 02:18 (eleven years ago) link
irl lol
― set the controls for the arse of your mum (sic), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 02:20 (eleven years ago) link
so good at lying she probably believed them herself.
― omar little, Tuesday, 23 October 2012 02:36 (eleven years ago) link
Hahah slocki
― Una Stubbs' Tears (Trayce), Tuesday, 23 October 2012 02:59 (eleven years ago) link
of course you exist sug *hugs*
― omar little, Tuesday, 23 October 2012 03:28 (eleven years ago) link