a specific complaint

that's assuming that a mod would have nothing else better to do than unban people on Christmas.

http://www.brycewalters.com/mobi/photos/Bryce-Tiny-Tim.jpg

that r his unbanning could be a "christmas miracle"

jokes tho, plz don't sb j0rdan

ehnh - I'm just still slightly bummed that LJ didn't get to return on my birthday.

J51dan

that doesn't work

sb'd u for that

Giving a reason for the banning is harder to do. It's not always obvious why people have clicked SB, and there'd be a lot of judgement call involved. It also seems like in the majority of cases people know what's done it, or must have an inkling. Posters don't keep their problems with people quiet here, exactly.

― stet, Wednesday, November 25, 2009 3:20 PM (23 minutes ago) Bookmark

So we can rest assured all 51 sb's against kate were carefully vetted and aligned with posts the mods confirmed were objectionable and disruptive to the board. Sounds like a lot trouble vs having mods you know moderate.

MERRY SBs TO ALL, AND TO ALL A GOOD BAN

Twelve cankles swearing, eleven Jaggers jackin...

fiiiive deeeeez nuuuuts

i was in canada this weekend and was like "What's French Snoop Dogg's favorite number? Diiiiix neeeeeeuuuffff"

worth noting that according to kates blog she liked the sb system when it bannd people she agreed were deserving

don't blame the player

Blogging about a message board is to meta for me to wrap my brain around

fiiiive deeeeez nuuuuts

― ice cr?m hand job (deej), Wednesday, November 25, 2009 4:57 PM (4 minutes ago) Bookmark

looool

ten Whineys Whining
nine gabbnebs gabbing
eight Morbz a milking
seven heaves a ho-ing

pretty sure there's just 1 whiney whinin

and what in a pear tree

I take jjusten's comment as a warning that if we veer into that territory, this thread will be locked and end this discussion.

― sarahel, Wednesday, November 25, 2009 9:29 PM (35 minutes ago)

yeah see actually it was just basically meant as "hey guys please dont be dicks" but hey, whatever.

thanks tho for keeping that discussion on track

wouldn't composing The 12 Days of Suggest Ban be a more productive activity?

and a pato in a pear tree

the 51 days of christmas

Blogging about a message board is to meta for me to wrap my brain around

― and Susan Gucci as Erica Mane (Whiney G. Weingarten), Wednesday, November 25, 2009 5:01 PM (4 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

kinda appreciated how she just launched into it like it was a totally ordinary topic - intense post def

xxp - i prefer "and what in a pear tree" tbh

so sarahel, the next time you ask for a clarification on a mod policy, im just going to tell you that the question was answered but you probably missed it because you were to busy making up christmas songs about sbs

intense post def

Yeah seriously. I think it's made real evident that people get different things out of this board.

When I got SB'd my reaction was "Well, that's annoying."

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a98/CharRob/JoeCool.jpg

xp - maybe you should suggest that Tuomas makes up christmas songs about sbs rather than asking for clarification on a mod policy that's been clarified in about a dozen threads already. But I'm not a mod, so maybe you have better advice as far as that's concerned.

see ya j0rdan

D:

ok this really has gone too far now

i mean whos next? max? ME?

a: yes, prob in that order

lol

tbf now i wish id known who that chick was so i couldve sb'd her

peace out j0rdan 420 kill a hippie everyday

this has gone too lol

he was just here posting 55mins ago ;_;

http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj122/DiegoM88/0500_eazy_e_a.jpg

oh jesus christ

oh ok jordan rip actually, this sucks, esp after my impassioned appeal

wouldn't composing The 12 Days of Suggest Ban be a more productive activity?

more like the 120 days

120 days of sbdom

I've always liked Kate and even when she's gotten really facepalm.jpg I've never SBed her b/c overall I think she adds a lot to ILM, but I totally woulda SBed that blog post.

XXXXXXpost bc of internet conx. - Looks like it'll be a very Sargent Xmas!

Things turned ugly around the end of July/beginning of August. A long-term ILX poster - Mark Craig, aka Bimble - committed suicide, while under a Suggest Ban. I was in contact with him via email through the whole period leading up to, and after his banning, up to a few days before his death. I was well aware of the other issues he was facing in his life, both emotional and physical, during the lead-up to this devastating decision, and despite the allegations of a former ILX0r with an obvious axe to grind, AT THE TIME, I honestly believed that the Suggest Ban had little or nothing to do with his death. If anything, he seemed happier, more engaged with life, without the constant drag of negativity that others' reactions to his particularly ebullient posting style and sexuality.

Now I've actually been dealt a suggest ban myself, and am dealing with the emotional fallout of it, I'm not so sure.

Oh FFS. This is really really not on, as much so as Momus's post on that issue. I'd say more but I'd frankly be too damn rude.

yah i gotta say accusing the mods of assisting in bimble's suicide is a bit much

J3sus C.

― max, Wednesday, November 25, 2009 4:43 PM (1 hour ago)

looool i texted j this exact thing, did not see u beat me to it

suffering from severe mental health issues is a horrible thing for anyone to have to go through, but there is an aspect of responsibility that ppl need to address if they're in this situation: MB talks about how she's been part of the ilx community for 9yrs, but from what i can gather it's been a pretty tumultuous 9yrs, and it has always been her choice to keep participating. it's not like 2 days ago she got the shock of her life that ppl here aren't all sunshine and roses.

if participating on a msg board can impact your life to the extent that you feel suicidal, then i really think you need to stop participating. several thousand ppl posting to a msg board just cannot be expected to be responsible for the mental well-being of one particular poster.

the real issue - imo - is not suggestban or ppl being mean or personality issues, it's just doing what's best for your own mental health, and if that means not posting here, then don't. this is not THE WHOLE INTERNET - there are plenty of other ways to communicate with the friends you make here, ilx isn't the be-all-and-end-all (as my mum would say).

100% OTM