should ilxors be tempbanned for taking their beefs to other social media? (twitter/fbook/myspace/etc)?

how the hell is that 'mansplaining'? yeah this is about the most ridiculous clusterfuck ever

the main thing i get from the convo just posted is that Mordy is actually trying to engage with the question on his own terms after making the logical leap most people would make to suicide. That that, somehow, is disallowed by the threadstarter which is frankly ridiculous. discussing the fantasy of not existing without discussing suicide is basically not possible. and i say that as someone who thinks about it a fair bit.

well i'm a bit drunk.

Q: Why Can't the original question be clarified further down, e.g. "This is not about xxxx"?

Because if the discussion goes off, naturally, in that direction, does the OP have to then start a new thread? Or explain why not?

xpost Not Possible? Anything's possible!

i'm not a mansplaining expert but i always thought it was a more specific, patronizing attitude kind of thing where some dude basically commits the appeal to authority fallacy, but it appears that he's drawing his so-called "authority" from the fact that he's a man. i've definitely seen men do this to women many times before, so i actually kind of like the term because when people use it correctly it describes complex in a succinct way. i didn't think, though, that mansplaining referred to situations where someone is a man and talks

The crux of this whole mess revolves around the mental jiujitsu of turning a disagreement into a personal attack.

splain man talkin'

i think she should just get her own board where she starts the topics and deletes replies that do not answer the original question or replies that are triggering, and should see how many people want to be on the board and how many posts are left

The mansplaining and misogynist accusations are completely offensive in this case and WCC can fuck right off with that

harbl with the real talk, btw.

it's not even so much that one must follow the dictates of the threadstarter but that one is virtually assaulting the threadstarter if one disagrees

harbl otm

Automatic thread bump. This poll is closing tomorrow.

stop adding to the pile-on, System

lol

system is always mansplaining

system possibly also an anti-semite

systems are doing it for themselves

sorority is on the twitter

crut :D

keep reading this thread title as "should ilxors be trepanned" for etc

yes

suggest 'pan

let your brains breathe

i think she should just get her own board where she starts the topics and deletes replies that do not answer the original question or replies that are triggering, and should see how many people want to be on the board and how many posts are left

― horribl ecreature (harbl), Thursday, October 18, 2012 7:56 PM (27 minutes ago) Bookmark

had this exact thought on The Day Of October Twelfth, Two Thousand And Twelve btw

that board existed, though it became iltmi or something?

i'm sorry i stole your thought dayo. i wasn't even thinking an ilx board just a board in general.

Did some ILXors get banned for saying offboard that Lou1s Kagen had a subreddit or something?

i'm sorry i stole your thought dayo. i wasn't even thinking an ilx board just a board in general.

― horribl ecreature (harbl), Thursday, October 18, 2012 8:30 PM (42 minutes ago) Bookmark

you mean, like, some kind of kitchen?

holy fucking god, much more of this and i'm upgrading to once a month

ilx is an amazing repository of knowledge, conjecture and criticism but why must you do this to yourselves

please, please, find some peace. for me. i still luvs ya. sort of.

do u like the new ultrasound album o.a.w.i.a.?

miss u boo

^^

mine own kitchen

your mother googling your name and finding your disgusting sex stories reposted on another website under your real name.

ban Matt DC for slut-shaming imo

my secret government name is l4nc3 st4rgr0v3 btw

man u took that Gene S1mmons thing down hardcore

Mordy started overtalking me, quoting "death of the author" (what? is that a threat?)

irl cracked up giggling at this, glad so many others enjoyed it too

hugs to jed_

harbl with the real talk, btw.

This already happened!

^^

yes

xxxp yeah, not as great as EP (couldn't really be given its humbler ambitions) but the four long songs and 'nonsense' are kickass. that said the best 2 songs are probably still the 2 that were released as a single. that plank! band you mentioned sounded pretty cool too - anything else you reckon i'll dig, well, you know the batsignalj

btw the new thumpermonkey album is absolutely incredible and if you like rock, prog, metal, intricate melodies, math rock, mayhem etc then here's 50 minutes' worth you won't regret: http://soundcloud.com/thumpermonkey/sets/sleep-furiously/

maybe i'll even start a thread on them next week, they're that good

anyway there's no other avant-idiocy to task yall up on so have a good one and play nicer

aw dayo n mookie you dont hafta *sniff*

okok you want more well i'm reading gravity's rainbow for realsies and to be frank no other literature matters right now. it's a stage we all go thru eh...less than 1/2way and it feels like 4 novels already!

i'm not a mansplaining expert but i always thought it was a more specific, patronizing attitude kind of thing where some dude basically commits the appeal to authority fallacy, but it appears that he's drawing his so-called "authority" from the fact that he's a man. i've definitely seen men do this to women many times before, so i actually kind of like the term because when people use it correctly it describes complex in a succinct way. i didn't think, though, that mansplaining referred to situations where someone is a man and talks

― down w/ obana...he is the reson were in dept (Z S), Thursday, October 18, 2012 7:54 PM (3 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

woah who's being slandered now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2AYfF-bu9M

Complex (artist), an American Rap artist? (xp)

i meant "a complex idea" but forgot 2/3 of the words.

and some dude you knew what you were getting into when you chose that display name, OWN IT

Dhalsim is a pretty cool character imo, takes a lot of skill to play him at competition level tho

no i mean it honestly delights me that people that have seen my posts under this dn for 4+ years straight STILL can't help but use that phrase in posts all the time not in a purposeful joking way. it's become a social experiment for me. w/ the feigned outrage being all part of the fun.

this may shock you - but sometimes i refer to a generic "some dude" in real life!

i think of myself as "some lady" all the time and iirc for a while i delighted in signing off every post with "some lady"
i get it!

- leif

Mordy, ENBB and American female posters more broadly, DJP, contenderizer, who else has this almost never happened to?

― boxall, Thursday, October 18, 2012 2:46 PM (8 hours ago)

thanks god you motherfuckers finally hung this one up

or did they

dun

dun

DUNNNN

Fwiw I wanted to post about this in the push button thread but by that time the thread had moved on but: the whole idea that 'self-nullification has nothing to do w suicide" xoncept has been getting a lot of los and cockeyed stares butiirc when WCC had started protesting about suicide, she had been p much the sole person who'd said she would push the button and virtually everyone else in that thread wad emphatically posting "hell no I would not take the get-out-of-life-free option" so I'm not convinced that a bunch of people who took great pains to distance themselves from a mindset that wd imagine such a button, and press it, are necessarily qualified to decide what a mindset like that is 'about'. I think there are a lot of reasons to start a thread like that, and if WCC was trying to proactively ward off any number of reductive speculations about the orig question being some sort of sublimated death wish or what have you, then I probably wouldn't blame her.

Of course, I def don't agree with how she's handled it since nor do I necc understand what she means about the suicide talk being some kind of triggering agent

xp Oh wait were we done? Dammit all to hell!

your timing was AWESOME, lol