no boys allowed in the room!!!!

yes

can't believe i haven't seen most of these. beaches i've seen but don't remember. steel mags i saw when i was kid and don't remember except that i loved it. i have basically no memory when it comes to movies.

clueless is pretty good but I haven't seen it in ages

9 to 5 RIYL steel magnolias

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swoon

steel magnolias +
9 to 5 =
clueless +
beaches ?
bring it on +++++++
breakfast at tiffanys - 13 going on 30 =
the princess diaries ?

adding:
fried green tomatoes +

fried green tomatoes +

btw this reminds me:
red velvet cake +

i got a sprite lip gloss and my mouth tastes like sprite

wtf with these movies

posts very much in character

sorry, woke up froggy

tell us your opinion on some movies typically called "chick flicks" harbl

omg the barq's root beer lip smacker is so good!!!!!!!1

never seen one i didn't hate tbh

nb i like really bad, dumb movies sometimes but not 'chick flicks' (not sure what that really means though) i just...whenever i see one i feel like ugh i can't believe i'm supposed to like this

sorry

dont apologize to me as u can see i have mixed reviews myself

ok i just sorried twice in like 5 posts i dunno what's wrong w/ me this morning!

i just read a thing about how women overapologize

oh yeah i know about that. i try to watch out for it. same with "i'm probably wrong but..." and that kind of 'hedging' talk like when people ask questions in a class or something.

sometimes boys overapologize too though. i don't like it.

yes it can be annoying in everyone

i am gonna make 2 sweet potato pies today. after i get butter.

i just read a thing about how women overapologize

― carpathian florist (roxymuzak), Sunday, June 28, 2009 8:55 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark

I am sooooooooooooo guilty of this. Should work on not doing it.

Sweet potato pies!

i don't feel like the proper amount of reverence is being shown for clueless but it is okay for women to have different opinions than each other, i suppose.

the overapologizing thing is a thing. i hate it and do it.

i do it too. i'm sorry. please don't hate me!

i burnt myself on the oven

fried green tomatoes +++++++

<3

i have eaten my weight in salt and vinegar potato chips today iirc

those are my favorite of all the chips

yes they are a true challenge and reward to eat

I just housed the biggest blueberry pancake I've ever seen. Waited nearly 40 mins. for a table and another 30 for the food so by the time it got to me I was STARVING. So good but I think I'm going to vomit and then die now.

the overapologizing thing is a thing. i hate it and do it.

I have been thinking about this all morning because it is and I do it a lot but don't know why. I do it mainly when I'm unsure if a person is upset or angry with me esp if someone is being uncommunicative. I guess I do it a lot in general too. I don't know. I wish I knew why I do this or how to stop because even I know it's annoying.

can we talk about food that we crave when we're on our periods?

I have been thinking about this all morning because it is and I do it a lot but don't know why. I do it mainly when I'm unsure if a person is upset or angry with me esp if someone is being uncommunicative. I guess I do it a lot in general too. I don't know. I wish I knew why I do this or how to stop because even I know it's annoying.

― ☺☻☺☻come on ppl now smile on u brother☺☻☺☻ (ENBB), Sunday, June 28, 2009 3:45 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

sometimes when i do it i think it is kind of a game where i'm trying to see if the person i'm apologizing to is going to dismiss me or see through the apology and credit whatever it is i'm apologizing for? (if that makes no sense, this happened a lot in graduate school when i was making a comment in class/at a lecture/in a workshop.) this is a pretty self-defeating and fucked up game, needless to say. there's some weird kind of vindication when people do dismiss you, though. lol i sound like a crazy person.

Sorry, I don't think I really do this too much.

lol

no i have that xxp

also impostor syndrome, where you feel like everything you've done is like a joke because everyone else has been working hard and you're just pretending to be smart, and people will find out any minute

I just always felt smarter/superior bc I didn't have to work as hard lol.

yeah i think that is probably related! also, harbl you seem v accomplished, especially for someone who is five years old!

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I just always felt smarter/superior bc I didn't have to work as hard lol.

― tehresa, Sunday, June 28, 2009 5:08 PM (26 seconds ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

i kind of have swings of this sometimes, it goes back and forth but i think they reinforce each other

like when people say "aren't you gonna study" and i'm thinking fuck that who cares and then i do fine and i subsequently feel like an impostor

yeah, i think the apologizing thing, at least when i do it, is a mix of superiority and insecurity. the superiority comes from secretly knowing that you're not as dumb/insecure as you've made yourself sound by apologizing.

girls only thread causing me to overshare.

I never really feel impostory but sometimes I would get pissed off if someone I thought was dumb or had stupid ideas/projects got a better grade than I did even if they put more time into it which I guess is silly but maybe not because more time spent on a project does not necessarily mean better quality but whatever that's life I guess.
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people i think are dumb often get better grades than me but that's what happens when you think everyone is dumb

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I just always felt smarter/superior bc I didn't have to work as hard lol.

that was me, too ... until I got to college.

i felt smarter for other reasons

i think i thought i had extrasensory perception or something

(read too much "girl with the silver eyes")