My periods are super regular and full of PMS symptoms -- I just always let them sneak up on me because I enjoy not having my period so much that I get blindsided by the feelings before the actual event occurs. Not sure if tracking it would really do anything for me aside from remind me of the impending doom...every single month.
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 27 August 2018 23:20 (five years ago) link
I find it very helpful because I forget too and it’s nice to be able to go “Oh, right! So THAT’S why I’m feeling so awful!”
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Tuesday, 28 August 2018 11:14 (five years ago) link
yes! I started tracking mine using the "mynstrual calendar" in my day planner about a year and a half ago. Mine are speeding up -- i would not have known this otherwise. also, it's great because whomever inherits my personal effects after I die, will have a very useful historical record of my periods.
― sarahell, Tuesday, 28 August 2018 17:50 (five years ago) link
Mine are getting kinda more irreg. Spotting at odd times, then a few days of nothing, then maybe a few days of normal flow. Maybe I should start tracking.
― There's more Italy than necessary. (in orbit), Tuesday, 28 August 2018 19:15 (five years ago) link
I was listening to a podcast where the hosts were discussing their love of free bleeding, and boy, do I feel like a total square! #teampurpleob4lyfe
― tokyo rosemary, Saturday, 22 September 2018 02:50 (five years ago) link
For the love of god, WHYYYYYYYY?
Update (do not read if you hate me and/or menstrual blood): While I had a fibroid removal and endometrial ablation at the beginning of August, earlier this month I had a period almost as heavy as before my procedure. I'm waiting a month or two to see if this continues, but DEEP DISAPPOINTMENT.
― Accattony! Accattoni! Accattoné! (j.lu), Saturday, 22 September 2018 03:30 (five years ago) link
ugh that suuuuuucks
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 22 September 2018 03:35 (five years ago) link
That sucks. I hope things lighten up.
― tokyo rosemary, Saturday, 22 September 2018 03:35 (five years ago) link
and yeah free bleeding seems like not my bag at allleven if they are the most magical undies in the world i misjudge my flow & have leakage here & there but i never think if only i could just do nothing & still menstruateyeah no thanksi dont even know if i could do a diva cupclearly i’ve been brainwashed by Big Tampon lol
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 22 September 2018 03:40 (five years ago) link
I don't know the details of free bleeding but if I am at home and it's not on day 1 big flow, I don't wear anything. I just go to the bathroom all the time. Every hour.
― Yerac, Saturday, 22 September 2018 03:42 (five years ago) link
i’m too absentminded for that kind of responsible hygeine
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 22 September 2018 03:55 (five years ago) link
Yeah, it's a pain but usually when I am home I drink a ton of water and have to use the bathroom a lot anyway so I would rather not pull out dry tampons.I did diva cup once for a year but using it when you are in a public restroom was impossible. W
― Yerac, Saturday, 22 September 2018 03:59 (five years ago) link
yerac - me too!! i like getting it out of me -- drink a ton of water, pee constantly, let it out as much as possiblei have never used a diva cup but i don't like tampons unless i don't have another option.
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Saturday, 22 September 2018 13:50 (five years ago) link
I am fine with tampons. I use OB or the non-applicator generic brands that I can find in the EU that are super cheap. When someone needs to borrow a tampon and they realize it doesn't have an applicator and they won't just use their finger. I am always like "...eh...?"
― Yerac, Saturday, 22 September 2018 14:30 (five years ago) link
that reminds me of my favorite thing ever said on ilx (that i can remember) -- kate78 reminded me (after expressing a similar thought) "not everyone is a natural spelunker" <3 and lol and also true!
i'm fine with tampons if necessary -- maybe i am a free bleeding partisan. never thought of it that way before.
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Saturday, 22 September 2018 14:37 (five years ago) link
Yerac’s post made me think of something - I have heard that there are people who replace their tanpon every time they pee. I have never even thought about doing that. I just tuck the string. Do most ppl change them every time they pee? I assume the reason some ppl do this is because the idea of getting pee on the string grosses them out? It’s the only thing I can think of.
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Saturday, 22 September 2018 14:43 (five years ago) link
seems like that would hurt to change it every time pulling out a dry tampon is the fucking worst
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Saturday, 22 September 2018 14:48 (five years ago) link
Back when I had a uterus I definitely did not change tampon with every pee. With good string management there really isn't risk of pee cross-contamination!
Tucking string up was a revelation when first shared with me by female swim team members.
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Saturday, 22 September 2018 14:49 (five years ago) link
I was surprised with an early period at work a few months ago, and I had to use a tampon with an applicator, and I sort of forgot how they work.
― tokyo rosemary, Saturday, 22 September 2018 14:54 (five years ago) link
I try to tuck the string, but maybe I have weird urine flow. or I don't shove it far up enough. the string always gets wet. And then it makes your underwear wet. So yeah, I end up having to change it half the time.
― Yerac, Saturday, 22 September 2018 15:13 (five years ago) link
I hate buying tampons in chile because they only sell them like 8 to a box. Who only needs 8 tampons???
― Yerac, Saturday, 22 September 2018 15:14 (five years ago) link
It’s weird - most tampons in nz are NOT applicator ones. I had a hard time when I moved to the US trying to find the same thing. I find applicators awkward bc I cant tell where the tampon is. My period has lightened to the point that it doesn’t really ... travel?? Like, I quite often these days don’t use anything if I’m at home or work bc it kinda just sits up there until I have to pee.
― just1n3, Saturday, 22 September 2018 16:49 (five years ago) link
They should sell tampons in a box of 100.
― tokyo rosemary, Saturday, 22 September 2018 18:22 (five years ago) link
damn, as a change-tampon-after-pee person, it makes me feel like the equivalent of a foot flusher! (lol, I am so not a foot flusher) it's not about pee contamination at all, but I've noticed or at least believe I have noticed, that when the tampon gets damp from peeing, it is less absorbent of blood and leakage is more likely, so I just change it.
also, if it's a light day and it's a weekend and I'm working from home, I will totally free bleed, because fuck having to buy light tampons - it's super, super plus, or idgaf. Like, I've been menstruating for over 30 years, I have a collection of underwear that are kinda designated for those days.
― sarahell, Saturday, 22 September 2018 18:55 (five years ago) link
Lol I totally thought of the foot flushing when I asked the question. It’s the same sorta thing somehow.
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Saturday, 22 September 2018 20:00 (five years ago) link
Overnight though, on Day 1 and/or 2, I do wear a tampon and a pad. I also keep my headlamp nearby in case I have to do in the middle of the night crime scene clean up.
― Yerac, Saturday, 22 September 2018 20:16 (five years ago) link
Has anyone ever used the Thinx period underwear?
― Yerac, Friday, 9 November 2018 17:15 (five years ago) link
can we talk about period sync-ing? I quit my old job a couple months ago where I worked closely with a female co-worker, and I think my cycle is shifting, or rather, shifting back to "normal" now that I don't have any other women in my life that I'm that close to, lol. I also have 3 friends who share workspace and they are sync-ed. Is this some woo-woo thing or is it real?
― sarahell, Wednesday, 21 November 2018 16:52 (five years ago) link
― Yerac, Saturday, September 22, 2018 2:30 PM (one month ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
+ me but also there are def days when I just feel like my body parts are taking up enough space and they don't want to be disturbed. Shut the front door. I would be tote cool w free-bleeding if I could stay home!
I used to know someone who just slept on an old towel at night, which I can see myself doing but I can see it would absolutely depend on your personal flow & viscosity & comfort. And how much you love your sheets.
― There's more Italy than necessary. (in orbit), Wednesday, 21 November 2018 17:01 (five years ago) link
I want the period underwear because I want the nighttime backup.
― Yerac, Wednesday, 21 November 2018 17:11 (five years ago) link
I used to know someone who just slept on an old towel at night
Ah! Akin to the period sex housekeeping technique
― sarahell, Wednesday, 21 November 2018 17:31 (five years ago) link
the wha?
my period has probably been synced with my immediate coworkers (all women) for almost a decade. we don't even talk about it anymore, it just is.
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 21 November 2018 18:18 (five years ago) link
y'know if you are having sex on your period you put an old towel under you so the sheets don't get stained?
― sarahell, Wednesday, 21 November 2018 18:20 (five years ago) link
xxxp if you don’t mind me asking, what kind of nighttime coverage have you been using up to now?
― gyac, Wednesday, 21 November 2018 18:24 (five years ago) link
Yerac, I have the Icon ones for pee leakage from the same company that makes the Thinx ones - they're well-cut, comfortable, wash well and hang dry in a day or two. Before hitting the 'pause I used the period ones from Lunapads (with changeable fabric liners) and they were fine but the fabric of the panties had a higher cotton content so stretched out more. The leg elastic on them didn't hold up well over time either.
― Jaq, Wednesday, 21 November 2018 18:49 (five years ago) link
Right now i just use a tampon overnight and get up 1-2 times to change it on, mostly because I am paranoid about waking up in a bloodbath which happens 1-2 times a year. I don't think I would wear the period pants on its own ever but want it as a shield for like, long plane rides or when I am stuck not anywhere near bathrooms.
― Yerac, Wednesday, 21 November 2018 18:54 (five years ago) link
i would totally use the period undies, just haven't bought them. good thing the holiday season is coming up!
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 21 November 2018 19:01 (five years ago) link
oh also sarahell yes i am familiar with that technique -i thought you were talking about some family planning shit!
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 21 November 2018 19:02 (five years ago) link
xp - ah the Carrie mornings! I actually recently got this oversized pink dress that I use as a nightgown, and it's really almost cinematic when I have a Carrie morning
― sarahell, Wednesday, 21 November 2018 19:03 (five years ago) link
xp, thx, good to know about the cotton content on Luna.
― Yerac, Wednesday, 21 November 2018 19:09 (five years ago) link
dudes mansplaining about incels and feminism ugh
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Wednesday, 12 December 2018 03:29 (five years ago) link
hey ladies whassup
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Wednesday, 12 December 2018 03:30 (five years ago) link
hi quincie! <3
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 12 December 2018 03:31 (five years ago) link
Hi hi hi!!!!
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Wednesday, 12 December 2018 03:31 (five years ago) link
I'd like to keep this thread going somehow because I miss more of a female presence on ilx and worry that women's voices are becoming heroic and token-ish.
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Wednesday, 12 December 2018 03:41 (five years ago) link
I’ve made and cancelled 2 gyno appointments in the last month even tho I’m already more than a year overdue for a Pap test. The worst part is that I’ve got a small lump inside that I should really get checked out (it’s been there at least 6 months and hasn’t grown, so).
I wish I could just get this shit done.
― just1n3, Wednesday, 12 December 2018 05:09 (five years ago) link
In more fun news, I got this cool dress thing from my MIL for my birthday:https://www.shopzuri.com/collections/all/products/hearttoheart?variant=9592210292783
― just1n3, Wednesday, 12 December 2018 05:11 (five years ago) link
wow that is v cool
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 12 December 2018 05:37 (five years ago) link
Xp Bartholin’s gland cyst, maybe? They are very common and nbd unless it is bothersome (painful).
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Wednesday, 12 December 2018 05:51 (five years ago) link
That dress is so badass
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Wednesday, 12 December 2018 05:53 (five years ago) link