no boys allowed in the room!!!!

But I already read those posts :-/
Where you gonna post yr blog post?

Post post post post
I need a muzzle.

Haha okay! Um if I do it, it would be on my wordpress thing that I've only used like once, probably? I dunno.

(just a quick aside, even after eating pretty much perfectly I am still iron and vitamin D deficient in a sad way.. those of us with autoimmune conditions are often deficient in things like these, and if you are tested and are low, I don't think taking supplements hurts. Even after taking 10,000 IU of Vitamin D daily, I am still only at 30).

Okay! Nutrition talk over.

i wonder how one balances the work of being in a relationship where you're both trying nullify patriarchy, against the work of being in a relationship where only one of you is conscious of the strain it's putting on you.

I think the second state of affairs is just "normal"???

I mean hopefully not for any of us but for a lot of people? Or maybe "normal" is when neither party consciously realizes it and one of them is compensating all the time without acknowledgement?

well i guess with our old friend "false consciousness" neither of you could be conscious of where the strain is arising from.

xp yes, like that

also, y'know, "benevolent sexism"

Also I want to like this new superhero tv show Arrow but the main female character's name is the same as mine and her tv show dad keep being controlling and patronizing to her and using her name to give her lectures about how he's going to make decisions for her and it's really bothering me.

Ahhhhh you love it!! A superhero with your name! Condescending parents! :)

She's not the superhero, UNFORTUNATELY, but she is a do-gooder public interest lawyer.

I was thinking recently about how much i hate that old canard "if it was men who got pregnant, there'd be [fantastical image of kindness to pregnant people]" - if it was men who got pregnant* then the social effects of pregnancy and childcare historically removing your gender from other social/economic activity would apply to them! even the men who did not get pregnant would be thought of in the terms of being from the fecund gender! this is not helpful!

* i'm not talking about, e.g. trans men, who are a different case, because of how intersecting social and economic pressures affect them specifically.

xposts some of my comics-favouring friends on twitter are v irate about how marvel's not planning to do a female superhero film for at least three years. where are the female superheroes ;_;

Oh :-/

I'm not really into superheroes of either gender but I was happy for you for a sec there!!

(Sorry on phone, that was re tv show)

Haha it's okay! Public interest lawyers are like irl superheroes basically so although she doesn't get the good parts of the story, there are more positive interpretations. Also tbh the hero character's approach to being a superhero is demonstrably flawed from the first ep = ain't nothing to be jealous of there.

So, in comparison to my (no BC) short, painful, rather aggressive periods of 3-5 days each month, this month it has so far gone on 8 days, no pain, no sign of easing up, less ... er, flow, but steady. 8 days is WAY outside my usual bodyclock. Should I worry? Sometimes I think I might be perimenopausal but the GP always poohpoohs me when I bring it up even tho my mum's started in her mid 40s.

...sorry for the random interjection heh.

I was thinking recently about how much i hate that old canard "if it was men who got pregnant, there'd be [fantastical image of kindness to pregnant people]" - if it was men who got pregnant* then the social effects of pregnancy and childcare historically removing your gender from other social/economic activity would apply to them! even the men who did not get pregnant would be thought of in the terms of being from the fecund gender! this is not helpful!

"If men got pregnant, you'd be able to get abortions out of vending machines" <-- this kind of thing, yeah. I can understanding getting fed up with it!

Much like "tipping" and "restaurants in NYC," nutrition talk can take over ANY THREAD. ANY THREAD I TELLS YOU.

What would happen if we had thread about tipping at a health food restaurant in NYC? Let's never do that.

in orbit, my current television namesake has a cursed vagina... that kills!!

At least they spell the name correctly.

trayce, I might bring that up to a doc, yeah.

xp Wait, I don't know what show that is!!

It's the current season of American Horror Story.

Oohhhh I've never seen it before.

Wait wasnt that the plot of "Liquid Sky"?

And a TV series here too, sort of (bout a chick whos ex's all die on her)

Is that Lost Girl, because that show is awesome.

Ha, no! Its "Laid", but theres some interesting parallels.

haha my current tv show namesake is a british clone

My only TV namesake ever was a spook!

Mine was an illiterate policewoman on The Bill.

apparently i have a TV namesake in one of the old mobile suit gundam anime series!! i hope she is a space robot pilot.

update: she IS a space robot pilot. also the princess of an aristocratic-mercantile family. oh gundam.

<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

My imaginary life, ages 5-12.

Well, that plus roller-skating.

<3 Spooks and orphan black :)

I'm just happy they are using the proper and best spelling.

worst period ever

my sister just brought me the world's largest candy bar, though. i demanded a chocolate rendering of the marble arch but she did her best

Mines still going. 9 days now. Its weirding me OUT.

:(

I better bloody not be pregnant.

trayce, you should see a doctor imo. if it's twice as long as your normal period, that would say that something's up. even if it turns out to be nothing, better to find out now than let it go on and have it be something ungood

Yar. I will tomorrow if things are still happening. I had a papsmear v recently tho and all was well so im not freaking out.

you could have been pregnant and just had a miscarriage :/ Or... it could just be nothing.

my awful periods have finally started to lighten up (note: they're still terrible, just less terrible) thanks to that hysteroscopy and polypectomy I had! YAYYYY

My doctor is telling me ANY hormonal birth control method is totally not okay for me. She suggested the Paraguard.

Anyone had that here? Doesn't it make your periods crazy heavy? Argh, mine are already heavy enough...

I loooooove it but yeah it made my periods heavier. Or...this might be a weird way to describe it but it made them wetter?? Like I felt the blood was thinner and soaked through more stuff (whereas I guess before it was...thicker but there was less of it?)

It has leveled out now, probably took almost a year though. And I'm still a little bit heavier than I was pre-IUD--but not the magic gushers of the first while.