The best of Marc Loi : Facebook Feminist

W--y--yeah--n--no--uh

-- genital hyphys (carlos....), September 5th, 2006.

ROFL

step off deez niggy nuts

yours in christ,
adrian

I made the comment that she wasn't like other female college students, who would either finish college and get married or enter into fields that are traditionally female.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v201/sevenxviii/SomepartofmestillfeelsasthoughIamso.jpg

discus

cf. Baise-Moi

don't forget to ban me here too, faggots.

Maybe I'm feeling cold today but having read around the edges of some commenters who've been calling him out for MONTHS (a year? more?) while jezebel etc kept publishing him and his shitty writing, I'm unmoved. This guy needs to just disappear, and he can't even do that quietly because he's such a trainwreck.

― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Friday, August 9, 2013 7:46 PM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

def seems like the kind to make passive aggressive feel-bad-for-me noise on his way out the door, and this is clearly that, but it doesn't make me any less sympathetic to him as a sick individual

does this mean schwyzer fucked conner habib or what

Hugo Schwyzer ‏@hugoschwyzer 54s

I may go back to the hospital soon if I need to. It would be crass to make this my suicide note.

glad he's not doing anything crass here

@hugoschwyzer
When I quit the Good Men Project, I timed the announcement for maximum effect. I was such a manipulative jerk

14 minutes ago

ha. haha.

ah

I tweeted too much and I am in jail. Saving me from myself

first

most complicated scheme to meet pornstars in history

haha

I built a brand (remember "off-brand")

^^my fave part

I'm set free by disease and disgrace.

^^close 2nd

That one's pretty metal

an affair being 'off-brand' is really one of the most amazing things anyone has ever said

@schwyzer_ebooks

http://twitter.com/schwyzer_ebooks

'remember "off brand"' is hilarious

he's back

Very medicated but breaking silence (deal) because I'm sick of the attacks on my editors and colleagues today. Why blame them for me?
It's ridonkulous that editors should have been able to guess at my nature and intent. I'm borderline sociopathic with talent for duplicity.
Good editors got played. That has nothing to do with whiteness.
The people who published me believed in my work. They weren't motivated by bigotry. They were simply doing good journalism.
You have a block button fuckin' use it. I'm just sick of how this has turned into a bizarre teachable moment on race.
I'm sure I'll regret this in the morning. The drugs haven't hit yet. I pumped in an extra 10 mg of Klonopin so I should be done soon.
Stop punishing websites for trusting manipulative jerks.
Sarah honey you have to change the email account too otherwise I can reset the password.
This whole #solidarityisforwhitewomen thing is an abusive cudgel to be used against a lot of people who are really working at inclusivity.
I'm not at home in Carmel or LA and I'm not suicidal so chillax and don't bother the police again.
I know many of my former friends feel deeply betrayed. I am sorry. The dishonesty/manipulativeness is in my nature, embedded.
Another 300 mg Seroquel and I'll be safely asleep soon, promise. But I need to make my point first.
The point is that I'm sui generis. I'm not symptomatic of a problem in feminism, I'm a reminder of what manipulative mentally ill can do.
If you don't think a black man can also get away with amazeball shite, google Jsyson Blair.
Fuck I mean Jayson Blair.

Okay, I'm about to be done. I am a very sick person. I'm high as a fucking lite and getting sleepier. But again, don't blame editors.

for believing in me. A mistake in judgment is not a call for a summit on race relations.

I'm not the victim. I'm a perpetrator who happens, not incidentally, to be mentally ill. Out.

dude just destroyed any sympathy i had for his diagnosis

yep. he's just doing more of the same shit.

ridonkulous
chillax
amazeball

This whole #solidarityisforwhitewomen thing is an abusive cudgel to be used against a lot of people who are really working at inclusivity.

i'm sorta amazed that this tag blew up, i follow the woman that started it and watched the first few come up and thought 'huh'--didn't think it would hit critical mass the way it did.

lotta incisive shit in there

http://i.imgur.com/OFx4634.jpg

wtg kev dogg

me irl

http://i57.tinypic.com/2u5byuv.png

pottery

http://www.salon.com/2014/07/24/what_do_you_call_a_male_feminist_who_only_wants_to_pick_up_women_meet_the_macktivists/

The best example of this was the reactionary #notallmen, a reaction to the globally trended #yesallwomen. The hashtag defended the last shreds of male honor, rather than forcing men to hold themselves accountable for the ways they reinforce a flawed system.

Wasn't #notallmen pretty much the exact opposite of that?

I'm not super au fait with the world of sappy acoustic youtube dudes (as referenced in that piece) but it seems like a largely distinct category from 'male feminism' per se?

http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/08/mugglecast-rejection.html

can i just

Sure I will catch shit for this. I am all for calling men out on their patriarchy, oppressive behavior, discounting, ignorance,misogyny, and sexism. However, the term mansplaining is degrading, dehumanizing, and discounts the voice of another based on gender.

— Rich Furman (@WriteNThrive) November 19, 2017

twitter is full of marc lois

the best bit is about three tweets after that but i had no idea how to post the whole exchange.

massive respect my man pic.twitter.com/LSock72oPR

— andy s (@CIAGoFundMe) August 26, 2018

https://i.imgur.com/CM41qMQ.jpg

irl giggle

i found marc loi's linkedin (i will not link in), possibly, though it has different years for his college times. I am currently a speechwriter for a 3-star U.S. Navy Command in Washington, D.C. he's all grown up now.

was reminded of this dude last week when I was looking at questions I'd answered on a dating site some years ago
"are you a feminist?"
(yes is checked)

I'd made a note about not going around mentioning it all the time because of how insufferable guys who do are

must have encountered some loi content around the time I wrote it

sigh

yeah i never really felt comfortable outright calling myself a feminist on a dating profile. but given how important it seems to be for women to mention it in their profiles, maybe they do want to see it? i have no idea. i settled on just putting "ally" in a list of other "things i am"

i had a good laff one with a woman i met on a site who showed me an unsolicited dick pic from a d00d who mentioned bell hooks no less than 3 times on his profile

did his bell hook?

To the left

as a matter of fact..

https://www.nplusonemag.com/issue-35/fiction-drama/the-feminist/

can't believe this wasn't discussed itt back in 2019? lol

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