would argue the two go hand in hand
― NBA YoungBoy named Rocky Raccoon (m bison), Thursday, 15 March 2018 20:38 (six years ago) link
There's this thing called communism
― Fedora Dostoyevsky (man alive), Thursday, 15 March 2018 20:42 (six years ago) link
go on
― NBA YoungBoy named Rocky Raccoon (m bison), Thursday, 15 March 2018 20:46 (six years ago) link
I don't see how communism can reconnect humans with nature.
― had (crüt), Thursday, 15 March 2018 20:50 (six years ago) link
I'm not that familiar with Jung, but I wouldn't have thought he'd be considered uncool and conservative (despite recent Jordan Peterson associations).
― rob, Thursday, 15 March 2018 20:55 (six years ago) link
― had (crüt), Thursday, March 15, 2018 3:50 PM (seven minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
five year plan to sit under a tree maaaaaan
― NBA YoungBoy named Rocky Raccoon (m bison), Thursday, 15 March 2018 20:58 (six years ago) link
dig it
― marcos, Thursday, 15 March 2018 21:00 (six years ago) link
― rob, Thursday, 15 March 2018 20:55 (six minutes ago)
Aryan mystical woo racism is kind of conservative
― glumdalclitch, Thursday, 15 March 2018 21:03 (six years ago) link
It made the Zhivagos move to a farm, iirc
― I leprecan't even. (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 15 March 2018 21:14 (six years ago) link
xpyeah I could be way wrong on this, but I would have thought the "mystical woo" aspects would make him unappealing to conservatives, but I guess it depends on how narrowly you want to define "conservative." I mean, marcos's quote is basically an argument in favor of paganism.
― rob, Thursday, 15 March 2018 21:22 (six years ago) link
Appealing to fascists then, how's that?
― Buff Jeckley (Tom D.), Thursday, 15 March 2018 21:42 (six years ago) link
identity politics is fucking exhausting
― marcos, Saturday, 24 March 2018 17:32 (six years ago) link
Go on
― Evan, Saturday, 24 March 2018 17:56 (six years ago) link
ya, sucking cock is exhausting
― morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 March 2018 18:33 (six years ago) link
apt
― valorous wokelord (silby), Saturday, 24 March 2018 18:39 (six years ago) link
The phrase “toxic masculinity” is badly conceived and the fact that it sounds like it means masculinity is toxic makes it counterproductive. The fact that you have to explain it every time you use it makes it worthless
― Fedora Dostoyevsky (man alive), Saturday, 24 March 2018 18:54 (six years ago) link
The things that are bad about “toxic masculinity” are just the things that are bad about masculinity, the extra adjective essentially signifies “#notallmen”
― valorous wokelord (silby), Saturday, 24 March 2018 19:00 (six years ago) link
iirc a non-negligable number of ppl who use the idiom believe that all "masculinity" is toxic
― Mordy, Saturday, 24 March 2018 19:20 (six years ago) link
you said iirc when you meant ime
― El Tomboto, Saturday, 24 March 2018 19:21 (six years ago) link
If you have to explain what 'toxic masculinity' means every time you use it, it seems to me you only speak to some kinds of people.
― Frederik B, Saturday, 24 March 2018 20:30 (six years ago) link
Fortunately for me and my people it never comes up in conversation
― El Tomboto, Saturday, 24 March 2018 22:02 (six years ago) link
It's too bad you don't like it but it is a thing. If you need it explained to you over and over again... it might even your own damn fault?
― brimstead, Saturday, 24 March 2018 22:03 (six years ago) link
I'm grateful for all the "as the adult in the room,..." reveals itt
― brimstead, Saturday, 24 March 2018 22:05 (six years ago) link
this isn't the gratitude room bro
― Mordy, Saturday, 24 March 2018 22:10 (six years ago) link
This is the uncool room stop tryna be cool
― fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Saturday, 24 March 2018 22:27 (six years ago) link
It's too bad you don't like it but it is a thing
is it 'toxic femininity' when some psycho mommy drowns her kids in a tub?
― sleepingbag, Saturday, 24 March 2018 22:49 (six years ago) link
is it 'toxic transpersonery' when a trans person does something shitty/aggressive/criminal?
― sleepingbag, Saturday, 24 March 2018 22:52 (six years ago) link
toxic ilxery
― the late great, Saturday, 24 March 2018 22:54 (six years ago) link
'toxic masculinity' without any other analogous terms for other genders implies that it's disproportionately men, or maybe only men, who have it within their nature to do horrible, violent things. which could be true! but doesn't it then open the door to talk about other groups of people who are disproportionately likely to commit atrocities? isn't that the kind of conversation y'all generally want to no-platform?
― sleepingbag, Saturday, 24 March 2018 22:58 (six years ago) link
I think the bigger hurdle/thing you have to explain every time here isn't separating between toxic and non-toxic masculinity, it's keeping in mind that masculinity doesn't = men and everything they do.
― Daniel_Rf, Saturday, 24 March 2018 22:59 (six years ago) link
sleepingbag is a more assertive roger adultery who knew
― fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:01 (six years ago) link
I think the thing is that a lot of people probably need toxic masculinity explained to them because they don't know what it means, not everyone is plugged into woke twitter. I also think it's probably best to lead by gentle example w/most people, I don't believe people getting aggressively confronted or called out for stepping wrong works as well as others believe. I know getting aggressively confronted from right wing types has never made me go "hmmm...maybe they're correct." I don't dispute that emotions run high on subjects and I don't think people are necessarily wrong to feel argumentative at points. I don't know whether or not this is a conservative belief but maybe since I guess it could be argued that debating more diplomatically slows down social progress. Maybe? Idk.
― omar little, Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:01 (six years ago) link
I'll defer to sleepingbag's expertise on the subject
― The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:02 (six years ago) link
True story, I once came home from Roskilde Festival with a weird rash, and it turned out to be because my sleepingbag was toxic.
― Frederik B, Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:02 (six years ago) link
I am not a huge fan of callout culture but there are many times when it is necessary
― fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:03 (six years ago) link
I needed it in my early 20s tho
i don't think it worked
― Mordy, Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:05 (six years ago) link
It's been known that he's that for a while but folks will engage nonetheless. xposts
Omar, I think that if pushed most will agree that diplomatic debate is important, it's just a lot of ppl are sick of being the ones that have to do it. You need ppl on your side for social progress, there are exceptions but mostly that's what it boils down to.
― Daniel_Rf, Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:06 (six years ago) link
Ok Mordy w/e
― fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:07 (six years ago) link
sorry but we're gonna have to call you out a whole bunch more if we're going to get you in shape
― Mordy, Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:08 (six years ago) link
That's never gonna happen.
I'm an unfixable mess
― fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:08 (six years ago) link
No, it's
https://i.imgur.com/yRhkuFO.gif
― pplains, Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:10 (six years ago) link
― sleepingbag, Saturday, March 24, 2018 6:58 PM (twelve minutes ago)
hm, so which one would you like to discuss first
― k3vin k., Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:13 (six years ago) link
educate me baby
― sleepingbag, Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:15 (six years ago) link
it's true that men on average have higher rates of violence than women. it's also true that the variances between individuals in a particular gender are much wider than when compared in aggregate.
― Mordy, Saturday, 24 March 2018 23:17 (six years ago) link
Oh is that a fact
― El Tomboto, Sunday, 25 March 2018 00:35 (six years ago) link
it’s obv true the question is if it’s material
― Mordy, Sunday, 25 March 2018 00:44 (six years ago) link
― Daniel_Rf, Saturday, March 24, 2018 10:59 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
Surely masculinity kind of does mean 'men and everything they do' though? As an individual man there's nothing you do and nothing you are that is somehow outside of masculinity? Like how when ppl arguing about stuff on the internet say "ok, but leaving gender/race/class aside for a moment...", and it makes no sense because there's nothing 'beyond' those things.
If I'm reading you right you're saying that a man hearing the term 'toxic masculinity' will likely understand it as an indictment of everything they are and could ever be, and reject it on that basis, so there's a need to explain that an indictment of masculinity is not necessarily an indictment of them as an individual - but it is an indictment of them as an individual! Once you subtract 'masculinity' from them as a person, there's literally nothing left
― soref, Sunday, 25 March 2018 07:51 (six years ago) link
um, no. just no.
― Frederik B, Sunday, 25 March 2018 08:28 (six years ago) link
Right, so if I say this milk is toxic then I'm disparaging all milk? This is not how adjectives work.
― mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Sunday, 25 March 2018 08:38 (six years ago) link