Ozarques
― velko, Thursday, 1 October 2009 02:24 (fourteen years ago) link
we moved around a lot, so I'm not really "from" anywhere, but spent time in MA, VA, VT, NC, DC, etc.
― Mr. Que, Thursday, 1 October 2009 02:25 (fourteen years ago) link
and now i've ruined this awesome breakup thread with boring facts about me
― Mr. Que, Thursday, 1 October 2009 02:26 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm white too
― steamed hams (harbl), Thursday, 1 October 2009 02:26 (fourteen years ago) link
is anyone else white?
i'm white btw
― somewhere a poll is missing its wacky write-in vote (sarahel), Thursday, 1 October 2009 02:27 (fourteen years ago) link
This is supposed to be the breakup thread, not a KKK meeting.
― Tuomas, Thursday, 1 October 2009 07:30 (fourteen years ago) link
bit harsh
― Brewer's Bitch (darraghmac), Thursday, 1 October 2009 09:26 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah, coming from a white guy from Scandinavia
― somewhere a poll is missing its wacky write-in vote (sarahel), Thursday, 1 October 2009 09:49 (fourteen years ago) link
(i think it was a tuomas wisecrack, no backlash)
― Brewer's Bitch (darraghmac), Thursday, 1 October 2009 10:07 (fourteen years ago) link
Well one never knows with white Scandinavian guys now do we?
(I'm white btw)
― young depardieu looming out of void in hour of profound triumph (Le Bateau Ivre), Thursday, 1 October 2009 10:08 (fourteen years ago) link
oh yeah, i'm totally white btw
― Brewer's Bitch (darraghmac), Thursday, 1 October 2009 10:09 (fourteen years ago) link
http://images.travelpod.com/users/maplefanta/europe2006.1155880800.dsc_0429.jpg
In Finland you could visit these supermarkets.
― Tuomas, Thursday, 1 October 2009 11:31 (fourteen years ago) link
But Finland is not in Scandinavia, guys!
not only anti-racist but hates the scandinavians as well. nice.
― Brewer's Bitch (darraghmac), Thursday, 1 October 2009 11:36 (fourteen years ago) link
so
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Sunday, 4 October 2009 20:37 (fourteen years ago) link
is your ex-girlfriend still reading this thread, hoos?
― somewhere a poll is missing its wacky write-in vote (sarahel), Sunday, 4 October 2009 20:38 (fourteen years ago) link
might be an ex-ex by now ;_;
― kell surprise (country matters), Sunday, 4 October 2009 20:39 (fourteen years ago) link
hoos r u
― e\m/ily (roxymuzak), Sunday, 4 October 2009 20:39 (fourteen years ago) link
srs
i can not keep up with this one
― tehresa, Sunday, 4 October 2009 20:40 (fourteen years ago) link
play on playas?
― mookieproof, Sunday, 4 October 2009 20:41 (fourteen years ago) link
xp - i had trouble keeping up with who had which awful freshman roommate in the sexile thread.
― somewhere a poll is missing its wacky write-in vote (sarahel), Sunday, 4 October 2009 20:42 (fourteen years ago) link
i can't keep up either tbh idk whats going on but its not dope and happiness for sure xxp
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Sunday, 4 October 2009 20:43 (fourteen years ago) link
:( sry man. drama sucks, tbh
― Brewer's Bitch (darraghmac), Sunday, 4 October 2009 20:46 (fourteen years ago) link
Had a minor freakout last night when a friend stupidly mentioned that the ex updated her relationship status on facebook to say she was with someone. Of course, it doesn't in any way matter and isn't really relevant to my life anymore, but still kind of burns a little. Doesn't seem like it's been long, but it's been a couple months I guess?
In any case, still happy I'm outta there.
― mh, Thursday, 15 October 2009 18:15 (fourteen years ago) link
I miss my ex a ton.Still.I feel like I really blew it and am never gonna meet anyone else I will be happy with. I don't have the guts to check her facebook; she's probably happy in a relationship right now. I have my cat, and he's not even particularly affectionate.
― ian, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 04:00 (fourteen years ago) link
tough break on the cat. how long has it been since you broke up?
― you can have this tapdance here for free (darraghmac), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 04:01 (fourteen years ago) link
ian :(
― i obtain much semillon (Trayce), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 04:02 (fourteen years ago) link
Early summer iirc.
― ian, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 04:02 (fourteen years ago) link
I called her tonight and am pretty glad she didn't pick up. I don't even know what I would have said--"I miss you and think about you everyday" does't seem like the kinda thing someone wants to hear. I'm not drunk btw.
― ian, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 04:03 (fourteen years ago) link
I really know how you feel right now tbh dude :/
― i obtain much semillon (Trayce), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 04:05 (fourteen years ago) link
I feel like I really blew it and am never gonna meet anyone else I will be happy with.
Man, I feel for you. I went through this for so long after my last breakup. Thought I'd never be the same again, that I'd never be able to really feel that way about someone and that nobody could ever possibly love me again. That I wasn't even worth it if they did. And that I'd have this hurt for the person who left me in me for the rest of my life.
Eventually I met someone else. I like her now instead. I almost never think about my ex at this point. It can and will happen, bro. Eventually you'll be better.
Havin' a cat helps iirc.
― Ultraviolet Thunder, Immortal Master of Eagles (Clay), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 04:36 (fourteen years ago) link
^^^that was me today.
― sarahel, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 05:20 (fourteen years ago) link
I hate to say it, Sara(h? still not clear on this), but you'll probably feel that way for a long time :\ I know I've felt this way before--after both of the other 'serious' relationships i've had in my life--and it takes a long time to go away. In fact, it usually doesn't go away until you meet someone new, in my experience. but tbh I don't even really want to meet anyone new? I kinda have this snobbish thing going on where I think most of my peers are shallow & naive.
― ian, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 05:31 (fourteen years ago) link
I guess that's why I always date older women.And clearly that hasn't worked out so well.
Sarah with an "h"
I kinda have this snobbish thing going on where I think most of my peers are shallow & naive.
are these the ones you know or just in general?
― sarahel, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 05:37 (fourteen years ago) link
i guess just the ones i know? though tbh the average twenty-something i overhear on the street yapping into his or her cell phone does not inspire much hope.
― ian, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 05:41 (fourteen years ago) link
early, mid, or late 20-something?
― sarahel, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 05:42 (fourteen years ago) link
which is not to say that i despise my friends or ilxors or co-workers or anything. i think they're good ppl overall. but i can't remember the last time i was introduced to someone at bar or a party who seemed worth keeping in touch with.
― ian, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 05:43 (fourteen years ago) link
mid.
i see a lot of people in their mid-20s through the course of one of my jobs, and my perception is kinda like yours, but then i'm just seeing them at shows and parties, and i think the environment might be a significant part of that.
― sarahel, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 05:48 (fourteen years ago) link
There are many fish in the sea, it's a shame so many of them come with toxic levels of mercury. :(
― ian, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 05:54 (fourteen years ago) link
or else they're bland, boring, or you're pretty sure that they won't agree with your stomach - to continue the metaphor.
― sarahel, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 05:56 (fourteen years ago) link
okay enuff self-pity for me tonight, trying to get some rest.I hope your situation plays out in a way that's not absolutely miserable for you Sarah. Good luck.
― ian, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 05:58 (fourteen years ago) link
goin thru biggest breakup of my life iirc; broke up with the 3 coolest dudes ever :(
― e\m/ily (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 19:34 (fourteen years ago) link
band breakup? me too
― congratulations (n/a), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 19:35 (fourteen years ago) link
si
harder than i thought it would be. been with em longer than ive been in any relationship, or any job, or anything
― e\m/ily (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 19:39 (fourteen years ago) link
that sucks. :(
― sarahel, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 19:39 (fourteen years ago) link
like all of my relationships though, i quit
― e\m/ily (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 19:40 (fourteen years ago) link