thread to get over a breakup

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kind of the most dickish way to show you're in control is to get someone who dumped you back and then dump them

― space is deep (mh), Thursday, September 5, 2013 7:08 PM

this is classic

markers, Friday, 6 September 2013 03:34 (twelve years ago)

aww markers

space is deep (mh), Friday, 6 September 2013 04:46 (twelve years ago)

what?

markers, Friday, 6 September 2013 04:48 (twelve years ago)

I was appreciative of your endorsement

space is deep (mh), Friday, 6 September 2013 04:51 (twelve years ago)

Well, but at the same time, don't ever do that, what I said

space is deep (mh), Friday, 6 September 2013 04:53 (twelve years ago)

hahaha

markers, Friday, 6 September 2013 04:55 (twelve years ago)

real key is to never CEDE control

markers, Friday, 6 September 2013 04:55 (twelve years ago)

unleash your inner fuhrer

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 6 September 2013 05:04 (twelve years ago)

damn

crüt zingmaster (crüt), Friday, 6 September 2013 05:09 (twelve years ago)

this is not comedy thread

space is deep (mh), Friday, 6 September 2013 05:13 (twelve years ago)

I didnt do mine on purpose, lest anyone think I'm even more of a bitch than they already do, heh.

I'm James Franco, bitch! (Trayce), Friday, 6 September 2013 05:16 (twelve years ago)

i've never not done this after being dumped.

james franco, Friday, 6 September 2013 05:24 (twelve years ago)

did not email my ex to wish her a happy birthday yesterday

gold star

mookieproof, Tuesday, 17 September 2013 02:12 (twelve years ago)

wtg!

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 02:14 (twelve years ago)

props 2 u

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 02:33 (twelve years ago)

I fucking love this thread. It makes me happy to read roxy's OP every time.

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 02:45 (twelve years ago)

holy shit, I forgot this was the thread where I probably elaborated on a lot of the shit in my life at the time, and let me say... it seems like a lot more than four years ago

here's to moving on and getting over, rinse and repeat if necessary

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 02:51 (twelve years ago)

I look forward to several more serious exes

― mh, Monday, February 21, 2011 8:53 AM (2 years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

still working on this tbh

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 03:06 (twelve years ago)

Exes get axes.

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 03:08 (twelve years ago)

I went grocery shopping with one over the weekend, it's cool to have relatable people around.

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 03:10 (twelve years ago)

I just broke up with someone who suited me perfectly in every way and I did not dislike one thing about him. It's annoying.

homosexual II, Tuesday, 17 September 2013 06:32 (twelve years ago)

it still makes me happy to read my OP tbh

xxp

1 P.3. Eternal (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 14:43 (twelve years ago)

i see that guy sometimes and he's miserable

lol

1 P.3. Eternal (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 14:43 (twelve years ago)

YAY!!!

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 14:46 (twelve years ago)

:D

i'm not racist, i just dislike rap (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 14:49 (twelve years ago)

I kind of hope for the best for all people and that they can learn to be functional humans

that said, the person I posted about years ago is an even worse trainwreck and thank god my life is cool

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 15:05 (twelve years ago)

I am not actually *breaking* *up* w/ ppl per se but there is a person who I have overinvested in and a person who has overinvested in me and I need to retract from both and it is a thing that is kind of real

Baby, where'd you get Chobani from? (Stevie D(eux)), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 15:17 (twelve years ago)

relationship management should be a certified course somewhere

quite racist, don't mind rap (darraghmac), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 15:51 (twelve years ago)

you hate opeth

<3

mookieproof, Tuesday, 17 September 2013 15:55 (twelve years ago)

my current boyfriend who i intend to marry also dislikes opeth, but its not combined with all that other stuff so its not unsavory

1 P.3. Eternal (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 18:39 (twelve years ago)

uh oh

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 18:41 (twelve years ago)

if we broke up that would be the only thing i could write here. you disliked opeth, but went to see them with me anyway and in fact bought the tickets

1 P.3. Eternal (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 18:45 (twelve years ago)

i love that.

estela, Wednesday, 18 September 2013 00:00 (twelve years ago)

:)))))))

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Wednesday, 18 September 2013 01:00 (twelve years ago)

had a really rough day of missing her like crazy. just chatting about parenty stuff over FB and for a second i want to just mention, casually, that i do miss her very much. but it's finished isn't it and i shdn't do that. right? just back me up here plz.

ftraight from ye toppe of my Donne (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 19 September 2013 17:17 (twelve years ago)

Correct.

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Thursday, 19 September 2013 17:21 (twelve years ago)

you're allowed to feel things, just don't linger on it

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, 19 September 2013 17:22 (twelve years ago)

thanks. just needed reinforcement. :/

ftraight from ye toppe of my Donne (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 19 September 2013 17:24 (twelve years ago)

Yeah fraid not man.

quite racist, don't mind rap (darraghmac), Thursday, 19 September 2013 18:17 (twelve years ago)

:/

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 19 September 2013 19:53 (twelve years ago)

oh nv <3

mookieproof, Thursday, 19 September 2013 20:00 (twelve years ago)

it passed

there shd be like an AA for ex-partners in moments of relapse

ftraight from ye toppe of my Donne (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 19 September 2013 21:22 (twelve years ago)

i will be yr sponsor, NV

not some dude poking a Line 6 pedal with his dick (sarahell), Thursday, 19 September 2013 21:32 (twelve years ago)

cheers :)

it's a less onerous task than watching out for my booze lapses

ftraight from ye toppe of my Donne (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 19 September 2013 21:37 (twelve years ago)

for me they often go together

not some dude poking a Line 6 pedal with his dick (sarahell), Thursday, 19 September 2013 21:38 (twelve years ago)

I'm not sure why its a bad thing to tell an ex you miss them? :/ I still tell J I miss him, from time to time (and we still hang out a lot so its a silly thing to say!)

taxi tomato or bag tomato (Trayce), Thursday, 19 September 2013 23:51 (twelve years ago)

I mean you dont want to be all sobby and PLEASE COME BACK TO ME OR I WILL DIIIIIIIIIIIIE, but surely a wistful fond "I miss what we had" is acceptable when it was a marriage with kids ffs

taxi tomato or bag tomato (Trayce), Thursday, 19 September 2013 23:52 (twelve years ago)

Because the relationship is over? Would you say that to a friend if you were in a committed relationship?

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, 19 September 2013 23:58 (twelve years ago)

Like if you are no longer in a relationship, you have to look at it as a whole, not the parts. If as a whole you miss the relationship then why are you not in it? If it's some parts, then you can kind of fondly remember and then get the fuck on to more useful thoughts

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, 19 September 2013 23:59 (twelve years ago)

Some things just aren't made easier by sharing, and unfortunately this is one of them. In fact it's probably worse when you pull this sad blanket back up to your chin. :(

@Trayce: Each person has to respect the other's choices, and part of that is not making them relive the hard things all the time.

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Friday, 20 September 2013 00:02 (twelve years ago)


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