Sex Droughts

I kind of figured it was assumed that theater people are easy and that his will was being tested because if he actually hit on her it'd be like a four hour over/under until they had sex, and he didn't want to overcommit and have sex and catch feelings.

For some people, dating and sex is all-in or gtfo

Like I explained to a friend, some times you're not cut out for casual flirting at the bar, it's either going to be sitting alone in the corner nursing a beer, or hardcore making out in front of the place followed by awkward attempts to have sex next to the dumpster.

To be tempted is merely human.

w/apologies to erica for contributing to a clusterfuck, this should prob get its own horribly depressing thread or whatever:
this is wrong; tempted infers that you are being held back from, or refraining from, doing something, which in this case you're not. you might be aroused!, or excited, but contextualising it in terms of 'i had to stop myself' is putting yourself in the plain of creepiness, kinda, i think. i mean you didn't do it!, & i have no suspicion that it was meant this way, but just if we are going to double down then i think that it crosses the line, putting it in an implied realm of maybe-doing-something, which should not have been on the potential list of actions.

Look, it's fine. Some people found the wording to be creepy. Some did not. It happens, you know?

http://x-journals.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/technology-the-gift-that-keeps-on-giving.jpg

probably inappropriate but i've been waiting to use that image and you know this seemed okay

:D

nothing I typed today really made sense here either, the image is a better fit

Many apologies, mh, but "...hardcore making out in front of the place followed by awkward attempts to have sex next to the dumpster," made me lol.

nothing I typed today really made sense here either

I feel like this could be accurately used to describe most of my posts on this here website tbh.

It was meant as humor!

No one really wants to have sex next to a dumpster. At least not after that first time.

It just reminds me of times when sex and laughter mingle nicely

tempted infers that you are being held back from, or refraining from, doing something

like, you know, hitting on her

usually people aren't glad they had one-night stands but you know i think this was pretty clear

if anything i think we've discovered why this thread is so strangely tame

too many betas in this thread jesus christ

usually people aren't glad they had one-night stands

maybe your survey sample is corrupted.

I don't know how that could be, I leave a survey box on the table next to the door next to the stack of complimentary breakfast burrito coupons that I point my one night stands to as I tell them to leave?

xp what're you talking about?

woah there are a lot of posts itt this morning http://i.imgur.com/o9FWC.gif

markers I don' think you understand how to use that emoticon

is max banned yet? is this website SAFE???

markers I don' think you understand how to use that emoticon http://i.imgur.com/o9FWC.gif

― flop's son (dayo), Friday, July 29, 2011 12:11 PM

boom

not really

sorry 2 do this 2 u but i gotta leave this fascinating & energizing discussion now

I may be the only woman on ILX that would feel this way, but I didn't find San's post creepy at all. He didn't actually push her down on the dressing room floor, and he didn't say those things to her in person. He just had a few thoughts, that's all. He didn't actually act on them.

just a few thoughts, lets be cool

Grady!

You're forcing it now.

had a different poster used the same words, i think the response would have been v. different

which may or may not be appropriate

had different posters received the same zings etc

However, like I said, I am one of the few women that feels this way, so don't take my opinion as an excuse for whatever.

had a different poster used the same words, i think the response would have been v. different

which may or may not be appropriate

― mookieproof, Saturday, July 30, 2011 12:37 AM (32 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

idk i dont think anyone who wrote it that way would have gotten a pass rlly

Didn't want to add to this and take ENBB's point that we're all just repeating ourselves a bit now, but feel like I should note that I'm a woman who re-read the post many times because I just couldn't see what was creepy about it. Doesn't 'mean' anything what I think, as CGLDI says, but feels wrong not to say so.

http://gb.fotolibra.com/images/larger-thumbnails/529540-looking-at-watch.jpeg

i'm listening to amish paradise rite now

― markers, Wednesday, July 27, 2011 11:30 PM (3 days ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

debating merits of a bodily-fluid parody thread called "sex draughts" ctrl+f OH FINE I SEE EVERYBODY ALREADY MADE THAT JOKE MONTHS AGO WELL WHAT FUCKIN EVER

xpost http://i.imgur.com/QnAlw.jpg

"sex droughts" makes me think of "sex farm" by spinal tap. Which makes me think of "he'll hole" by spinal tap. Then I laugh!

this was fun to read

Lol he'll hole. Stupid phone

...and I've already used the "let's play a game of sex draughts" joke, so that one's already been done.

phew

so yeah, my wife and i are done. im moving out on sunday. this sort of sucks...

i'm so sorry. that's terrible.

<3 <3 <3 2 u dude

man feel u

thanks dudes.

Oh shit, chris. I had kind of filed this in the "things are ok" file in lieu of more info but was kind of worried. Good thoughts for you, man. It'll work out. Just hold on to what you need to.

sorry.

what mh said

sorry bingo, sounds heartbreaking. wishing everyone involved the best. be good to yourself.