30-Day Abstinence

i did this in high school once

was dying after two weeks tbh

I did this in high school, too, over and over again. In fact, you could say that my high school years was one long involuntary abstinence ordeal.

An ex was on an anti-depressant that didn't diminish her libido at all, but she could not reach orgasm. Oral, penetration, vibrators without me present, nada.
I think that side effect made her depression worse.

― boots get knocked from here to czechoslovakier (milo z), Thursday, March 10, 2011 7:12 PM (5 days ago)

has opposite effect on me

You have orgasms all the time but don't want to?

Or gets depressed by every orgasm she has?

only orgasms while depressed

anytime ive sworn off jerking off i've gotten so much play

funny, yeah, i've found that true, too.

admittedly, though, given my line of work a lot of times, i tend not to go too many days without having an orgasm. (i actually signed a contract stating that i don't get paid if i don't come).

anytime ive sworn off jerking off i've gotten so much play

― plax (ico), Tuesday, March 15, 2011 8:15 PM (2 days ago) Bookmark

ha, ditto

never really understood that comic trope of "jerk off before you go out on a date" a la something about mary---feel like doing that would actually diminish the chances of gettin laid just because you'd be all "welp i came two hours ago so w/e"

I thought that was so you wouldn't come too quickly if you did get laid.

for me "not too quickly" usu becomes "not at all" if there was intermediate manual handling

My husband does best if we get him off quickly in the beginning before the slow, loving foreplay starts. He's the type that can't come after long periods of stimulation.

you'd be all "welp i came two hours ago so w/e"

― FUN FUN FUN FUN (gbx), Thursday, March 17, 2011 11:41 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark

right i mean the tension is gone so you miss obvious signals and wind up going without anyway

not that i know anything abt this

of course not neither do i

I have failed massively at this challenge btw

ahahaha.

I thought that was so you wouldn't come too quickly if you did get laid.

― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Friday, 18 March 2011 00:40 (8 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

That's the theory, but:

1) as said, the will is reduced
2) if you do 'score', it's way easier to explain "ah, you are too awesome, that's why I came so quickly" as opposed to "It's not you" for the under-action...

(i actually signed a contract stating that i don't get paid if i don't come).

― scorpions on my nips and smear peanut butter on my ass (the table is the table), Thursday, 17 March 2011 23:34 (Yesterday) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

strangest library job ever...

can't think of any job where you get paid if you don't come

i was setting myself up for that, i guess. well, you all know what i meant.

-feel like doing that would actually diminish the chances of gettin laid just because you'd be all "welp i came two hours ago so w/e"

A rather-kinky girl told a story once about ma making her partner go a week with no orgasms because she wanted to see how large of a load she could swallow.

she must have felt really close to her to open up like that

oh I misread that, they were even closer than I thought

that girl sounds fun.

I think a reference to the urban legend about the cheerleader/random gay celebrity/whatever who had to get his/her stomach pumped after swallowing a massive amount of semen is needed here.

i havent read this whole thread but this sort of experiment seems like it could put you on the fast track to testicular cancer.

Even if you're a woman?

I dunno maybe swallowing cum gives you cancer who knows.

Oh wait.

I don't think that it works that way SS.

why risk it imo

Would like to see how the Daily Mail handles this: "Abstinence Causes Cancer! So have lots of sex. Er, no wait... That doesn't fit in with out right wing agenda... FREE pr0n DVD for every reader!!!"

I meant prostate cancer and yeah that is kind of how it works

isn't that only if you're older?

Prostate problems mostly show up in older men, but he's right: The common American sex pattern of not touching your dick or letting anyone else touch your dick until you find True Love, having hot monkey sex lots and lots of times for several years, breaking up, and then letting your dick rot for a few more years until you find True Love again is not good for the prostate at all. Your body is set up for regular ejaculations, and yes, masturbation counts. (No, I don't have a recommended ejaculation frequency.)

The common American sex pattern of not touching your dick or letting anyone else touch your dick until you find True Love, having hot monkey sex lots and lots of times for several years, breaking up, and then letting your dick rot for a few more years until you find True Love

I don't know if this is accurate...

I should have said "traditional", not "common." That's really what I meant.

ah, that makes sense

I'm really glad that the stigma against masturbation is much, much less than it once was.

well, once the priests started offering it instead of penance instead of three hail mary's.......

...offering to give all the little boys personal private lessons in how to do it?