ils menswear and men's clothing part 2: 2023 until we all need stillsuits

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just checking in to say i haven't reached the turtleneck phase yet but we can circle back to this post in 10 years

call all destroyer, Sunday, 19 February 2023 18:39 (one year ago) link

i guess i'm ok with the turtleneck as like a 'settling into type' of some kind? way out of my lane though.

i got a corny email from filson after i bought my trucker hat from them, like "how do you like your provisions?" below a huge image of some dude on horseback, and i wimpered in shame because i loved it lol.

ꙮ (map), Sunday, 19 February 2023 18:54 (one year ago) link

one of the funniest all time garments is the mock turt

https://i.imgur.com/SSUTVq7.png

lag∞n, Sunday, 19 February 2023 20:07 (one year ago) link

mock turts can be hot but only if you're a professional football player

ꙮ (map), Sunday, 19 February 2023 20:10 (one year ago) link

athlete driving a jeep is the prototypical mock turt wearer, you could even have a team turt with the logo on the collar, but then somehow steve job in a high fashion mock turt is its most famous wearer

lag∞n, Sunday, 19 February 2023 20:14 (one year ago) link

it's sad imo, fuck steve jobs

ꙮ (map), Sunday, 19 February 2023 20:17 (one year ago) link

make mock turts great again

ꙮ (map), Sunday, 19 February 2023 20:18 (one year ago) link

i respect that he sought out an expensive japanese mock turt and wore one every day, true lunatic behavior

lag∞n, Sunday, 19 February 2023 20:20 (one year ago) link

sleeveless mock turts in a jeep or gtfo

Tracer Hand, Sunday, 19 February 2023 21:09 (one year ago) link

amen brother, & the mock turt maker better send me an email saying "happy trails" after it's delivered to me.

ꙮ (map), Sunday, 19 February 2023 21:50 (one year ago) link

It's the only type of shirt that is also a type of soup

As far as I know

nat king cole slaw (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, 19 February 2023 23:37 (one year ago) link

two weeks pass...

Red wing and Nintendo have teamed up to bring Super Mario’s Shoes To Life (2023) pic.twitter.com/0yqFdXnpqf

— Outlander Magazine (@StreetFashion01) March 10, 2023

lag∞n, Friday, 10 March 2023 22:57 (one year ago) link

lmao

call all destroyer, Friday, 10 March 2023 23:28 (one year ago) link

cant wait to stomp on all my enemies

lag∞n, Friday, 10 March 2023 23:40 (one year ago) link

one month passes...

https://www.cnn.com/2023/05/09/australia/australia-william-leslie-arnold-cold-case-intl-hnk-dst/index.html

wow chambray double needle workshirt, such authentic, is it selvedge, where can i cop?

the late great, Tuesday, 9 May 2023 15:46 (one year ago) link

‘Well, he was an orphan. He didn’t lie about that, but he killed his parents, that’s why he was an orphan.’

👌

Fizzles, Wednesday, 10 May 2023 07:32 (one year ago) link

who's looking snazzy for summer

https://img.staticdj.com/0db3f52ccc134a79e32104a267bc5f39_1080x.jpeg

ꙮ (map), Monday, 15 May 2023 19:11 (one year ago) link

for real though i got this filson mechanic shirt and i can't wait to cosplay rough trade at the club

https://filson-canto.imgix.net/3qrso6g9vh57785bqmdpdcil37/gs6KD7w7k41qERPg97FERgdWi3Y/original?h=2000&w=2000&bg=ffffff&q=80&auto=format,compress&fit=fillmax

ꙮ (map), Monday, 15 May 2023 19:13 (one year ago) link

stussy has done many iterations on this workwear classic

besides the fact that i've never quite been able to pull off hickory stripe, i also have a morbid fear of catching my chest hair when adjusting the zip

the late great, Monday, 15 May 2023 20:57 (one year ago) link

i could not make it work personally but it's a cool style of shirt

call all destroyer, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 01:27 (one year ago) link

my summer look is “aging crustpunk” or “hippie preppy”

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 01:33 (one year ago) link

The one with the half zip is odd but it is at least comprehensible as clothing for a male adult human in the western hemisphere.

I don't really understand the blue shirt above it with what I guess is a keyhole neckline?

Not my personal thing, but if that is something you wish to wear, go ahead; rock on with your bad selves.

I do not know what crust is so I'm prolly gonna keep dressing like my father, my stepfather, and almost every male person I ever knew who has a PhD in the humanities and a drinking problem. Our collective aesthetic is "louche English professor" and mostly it is working out for us.

We wear tweed nine months out of the year and linen for three months, and we do okay.

gelatinous cubist (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:09 (one year ago) link

god bless

i'm also on the lookout for the douchiest sport sunglasses imaginable, i think it might have to be these oakleys

https://assets2.oakley.com/cdn-record-files-pi/c6ca0fe9-4ff1-43c5-8fa3-aefd00ef8cc0/77a5f4ac-6e0d-4929-bd9d-aefd00f83d56/0OO9271__927153__P21__shad__qt.png?impolicy=OO_ratio&width=2000

ꙮ (map), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:30 (one year ago) link

for the record, the blue shirt was a joke

ꙮ (map), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:32 (one year ago) link

i used to sling secondhand & vintage clothing as a side hustle and have the kind of eclectic wardrobe that goes with the territory.

my favorite stuff has tended to be postwar era- not too military, not too rockabilly, more outdoor and phys ed apparel. it's blockish and severe and looks good with my buzz cut.

i've gained a lot of weight in the last few years, though. i resisted buying any new clothes, instead i've tried to squeeze into anything i had that was oversized or less fitted. but it's got to the point where that's no longer an option.

so the first thing i noticed is that used clothes cost as much as new clothes now. not just coveted vintage pieces, i mean absolutely everything. wtf?? i guess i'm glad more people are buying secondhand shit but this is crazy.

i'm not going to buy fast fashion bullshit that falls apart in 3 months and ends up in a landfill. i'm not going invest in heirloom pieces because of my fluctuating weight (i was S/P and could fit into youth sizes, now i'm a true M/L) and also i'm living with uncertainties about my health. and i'm def not paying what ridiculous vintage repro brands charge for basics, holy shit.

digging around the online secondhand market a bit, it's really hard to find anything that justifies the price. Billy Reid stuff is about the best value, with a lot of pieces made in Italy under $30. i'm also seeing some deals for Steven Alan, though the quality and price point is much more variable there. this kind of stuff is a little more "normal guy" than what i usually go for, but i like it well enough i guess. the guys i see on the subway who dress like that always look like they have their ducks in a row. the problem is that as it's sort of blandish no individual piece inspires me to pull the trigger.

i'm through with buying clothes, forever. fashion is the biggest racket going, better drop those pounds fast i guess.

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:34 (one year ago) link

Not my personal thing, but if that is something you wish to wear, go ahead; rock on with your bad selves.

fixed

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:39 (one year ago) link

gah

Not my personal thing, but if that is something you wish to wear, go ahead; rock on with your bad selves.

:D

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:39 (one year ago) link

i doubt this is up your alley because it's very military but i need to evangelize about soffe silkies (or "ranger panties") for a second. if there was a god in heaven more men with nice legs would wear them. they're incredibly short. they're also incredibly comfortable. i wear them to the gym every day, whaddup.

https://cdn10.bigcommerce.com/s-19fkae7/products/361/images/1548/M020_ranger-olive__50494.1563829773.1280.1280.jpg?c=2

ꙮ (map), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:42 (one year ago) link

i once sold a pair of champion running man herringbone gym shorts in military olive color with a < 3" inseam for like $150.

i have 1940s basketball shorts somewhere that are shorter. alas, my legs have seen better days.

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:47 (one year ago) link

ftr i am pro gym shorts. on guys with nice legs it's not even a question.

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:55 (one year ago) link

YMP, “crust punk” is wearing cut-off tees with hardcore bands or cop-fighting anime characters or trains on them with booty shorts . it gets hot in Philly.

“hippie preppy” is wearing nicer clothes but they’re a little too bright and strange and it might seem like i’m on drugs. LL Bean but make it drug-running

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 11:34 (one year ago) link

preppie gone druggy is classic story

lag∞n, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 13:22 (one year ago) link

i like ll bean too, but it's a good example of the secondhand market insanity with items that used to reliably fetch $10-15 starting around $50. guess i'm done with ll bean.

Seth from Dufus is the ultimate crust punk. he doesn't wear a ton of black but i saw him on the G train c. 2001 with huge mounds of actual garbage glued to his shoes.

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 14:12 (one year ago) link

whats a good bargain on the second hand market these days

lag∞n, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 14:13 (one year ago) link

Wow I literally have no idea what you folks are talking about but okay

gelatinous cubist (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 15:15 (one year ago) link

I only shop LL Bean at discount shops or at the outlets in Maine— I save a couple hundred just for clothes on my annual Maine trip.

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 15:25 (one year ago) link

(or at least I try)

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 15:25 (one year ago) link

i find ll bean made in usa pieces on ebay for $10-15 regularly. usually when sellers don't put it in the title and you gotta scroll the pics to see the tags. 90s era denim/chambray shirts in partic.

not usa but ll bean camp collar shirts are plentiful, affordable, and good for summer. i have two in a pleasingly colonialist batik print that look great with the sleeves rolled way way up for flexing purposes (the default unrolled silhouette is very tommy bahama).

levis 550s (the relaxed fit) are very cheap on ebay and comfortable year round in nyc imo.

adam, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 15:29 (one year ago) link

my man!

am i not as patient and resourceful as i used to be or are we looking at different pieces?

not seeing a big price difference between made in usa and imported tbh. i have seen the camp shirts real cheap! i don't want em because tommy bahama silhouette is otm

also i like camp shirts a lot but why does every fucking short sleeve shirt have a camp collar now?

annual Maine trip.

ppl who have figured out how to live

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 16:08 (one year ago) link

As much as I like the patterns on a lot of camp collar shirts, I am very much sticking with butch collars; they just sit better on me. I’m currently scouting around for colourful print shirts, but with long sleeves. I never actually wear them long; instead I roll them up high above the elbow, as the shape nicely masks my skinny upper arms.

mike t-diva, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 17:00 (one year ago) link

camp collar is code for “i’m available”, can’t believe you guys didn’t know this

Tracer Hand, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 17:05 (one year ago) link

deflatormouse, one of my oldest friends comes from some money, her family has a spot on an island off of Maine— dreamy place, but i certainly couldn’t afford such a trip if i were paying for anything besides gas, tolls, and gifts

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 17:06 (one year ago) link

I'm happy that this forest-green Land's End barn jacket, with a corduroy collar -- it was my late dads, from the 80s/90s -- is now suddenly in style.

underwater as a compliment (Eazy), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 17:52 (one year ago) link

like a Barbour jacket?

Tracer Hand, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 18:00 (one year ago) link

A lot like this one (I guess Lands' End is still making them!).

underwater as a compliment (Eazy), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 18:02 (one year ago) link

Oh, and here's the jacket itself on Ebay, though mine is less faded.

underwater as a compliment (Eazy), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 18:04 (one year ago) link

that sounds amazing table, my last comment was without irony or judgement, i'm glad you get to experience that place! i've only been to maine once, with a guy i was dating who grew up in the portland area. we went for a visit and hit boothbay, it was insanely beautiful.

as midcentury leisure shirts go i'm into the early 60's italian collar and have one in my rotation currently
https://www.themoviescene.co.uk/reviews/_img/8384-3.jpg

those barn jackets never went out of style.

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 18:07 (one year ago) link

i have one, it makes me look hopelessly awful

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 19:44 (one year ago) link

my enormous 80s bean barn jacket--with a waxed poacher's pocket and webbing for shotgun shells--is one of my prize ebay scores. it is best with the collar flipped up

adam, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 19:47 (one year ago) link

I've been thinking about what I could contribute to this thread. I bought this pair of shoes a couple of months ago, they're the most comfortable shoes I've ever worn:

Allbirds Men's Tree Dasher Relay

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 19:56 (one year ago) link

jealous, i wish i had an oxbow shirt

call all destroyer, Friday, 2 February 2024 19:28 (five months ago) link

finding new favorite bands from the style thread: classic

ꙮ (map), Friday, 2 February 2024 19:50 (five months ago) link

this vitriol tee is on its way

https://vitriolwarfare.bigcartel.com/product/servants-of-the-secret-fire-pre-order

ꙮ (map), Friday, 2 February 2024 19:52 (five months ago) link

this richard dawson tee i picked up last year gets a lot of wear

https://i.imgur.com/pcblyDh.jpg

Fizzles, Saturday, 3 February 2024 10:36 (five months ago) link

two months pass...

Had the trousers and just ordered the jacket for the full look.

https://i.postimg.cc/qvxzx5Gx/IMG-0255.jpg

I am not sure Erdem will do another men’s collection for a while, which is a shame.

ShariVari, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 19:40 (two months ago) link

what are some of your favorite men’s fashion blogs? moreso interested in casual/street wear but anything will do

brony james (k3vin k.), Thursday, 2 May 2024 18:27 (two months ago) link

I'm in this interzone where I feel like men's fashion has changed a fair bit in the last few years, and also I am now safely in young middle-age and my whole wardrobe looks like it's from another era.

Plus people in Bristol, UK tend to deliberately dress down (you don't see people in tailored or vintage stuff, it's all skate and sportswear), so I feel daggy if I go for anything more preppy than an overshirt.

All the plain t-shirts I bought from Cos as staples a couple of years back feel too "fitted", not baggy enough, especially since the cut of jeans has relaxed significantly. I could do with some new ones.

Currently I'm really not sure how to shop for myself really. I'm conscious of trying too hard to be down with the kids - I already have some fairly baggy Carhartt WIP carpenter jeans and, like, one t-shirt that actually works with it.

Likewise, the places I hang out and the overall vibe of where I live, smarter/preppier looks make me feel like a narc.

Also: I don't have a heap of money, but with summer coming up I kinda need to do something

your mom goes to limgrave (dog latin), Thursday, 9 May 2024 12:30 (two months ago) link

They’ve updated their wardrobe pic.twitter.com/IikQNUPARc

— Call me Rose🌹 (@SlayyyRose) April 18, 2024

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Thursday, 9 May 2024 15:24 (two months ago) link

four weeks pass...

What are good brands these days for sunglasses under $150 and preferably under $100? I've had Ray Ban new wayfarers for several years but the lenses got scratched.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Thursday, 6 June 2024 17:40 (one month ago) link

Idk about up and coming, I got some polarized ones from Blue Planet and I love the color, shape, and design. They also provided me excellent customer service when I broke one of the parts and asked over a year after purchase if they would sell me a replacement part, and they couldn't do that but the agent sent me a new pair(!!!).

Ima Gardener (in orbit), Thursday, 6 June 2024 18:04 (one month ago) link

i've been off that skinny fit and doing 501s for a while now but thinking about going baggier. i saw a fashion guy wearing what appeared to be designer JNCOs, looked cool but not for me. saw a cool guy wearing something less exaggerated and got me thinking. any advice? are 550s a good compromise?

paul mccartney and wigs (diamonddave85), Tuesday, 11 June 2024 19:49 (one month ago) link

I wound up ordering some Raens (these), which were around my price range with the discount code:

https://raen.com/cdn/shop/files/Raen_Wiley_S797_02.png?v=1709224879

I like them a lot, frame seems well-constructed, brown polarized lenses are v nice and the view is light enough that I forget I'm wearing them when talking to people.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Wednesday, 12 June 2024 20:20 (one month ago) link

note: they don't have that "P" on the lens irl

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Wednesday, 12 June 2024 20:21 (one month ago) link

lol, wait they do, it's just not very visible

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Wednesday, 12 June 2024 20:30 (one month ago) link

haha why do they have that?

call all destroyer, Thursday, 13 June 2024 00:41 (one month ago) link

because they’re p dece

Humanitarian Pause (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 13 June 2024 08:16 (one month ago) link

“Polarized” I assume. Anyway it doesn’t really seem visible while wearing.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Thursday, 13 June 2024 13:05 (one month ago) link

So apparently ankle socks and trainer liners are exclusively for old people now (god forbid) and it's all about proper socks, even in the summer.

But my question here lads is what the fuck do you do about the heat with these thick things round your calves? And I say thick, because the only ones I see being worn and modeled are not the kind of thin ones you might have worn with office shoes.

How do people cope?

your mom goes to limgrave (dog latin), Monday, 24 June 2024 14:29 (one month ago) link

you wear what is comfortable not what everyone else is wearing

ledge, Monday, 24 June 2024 14:48 (one month ago) link

I fell for these raw denim pleated chinos. not sure if they are still on the market

https://www.g-star.com/en_ca/shop/men/pants/d18129-c518-001

bryan, Monday, 24 June 2024 14:49 (one month ago) link

i hardly ever wear socks in summer unless i have to wear shoes (eg for work) and even then. obv will wear invisible socks if needed. don’t really like the whole socks with shorts thing.

xpost

i’m really enjoying my pleated linen trousers this summer!

Fizzles, Monday, 24 June 2024 15:59 (one month ago) link

Re crew socks with shorts you really have to lean in to your inner American to get over that hump but if you aren’t feeling it don’t sweat it.. it’s not for everyone.. but if you are.. the rewards *leans in conspiratorially* are significant

Humanitarian Pause (Tracer Hand), Monday, 24 June 2024 16:03 (one month ago) link

those G-Stars are great. I'd have never thought pleats would ever look good, but here I am

your mom goes to limgrave (dog latin), Monday, 24 June 2024 16:36 (one month ago) link

i'm so glad no-show socks are falling out of style. they're fine with sneakers but i honestly consider the no-show sock + dress shoe combo to be the worst menswear trend of my lifetime

paul mccartney and wigs (diamonddave85), Monday, 24 June 2024 19:22 (one month ago) link

It’s bad

Humanitarian Pause (Tracer Hand), Monday, 24 June 2024 19:28 (one month ago) link

yes hated it intensely

brimstead, Monday, 24 June 2024 20:10 (one month ago) link

c’mon a pair of loafers it’s fine. (laced dress shoes agree). but mainly if im at home im in my trusted huaraches. the most comfortable summer footwear i’ve ever worn.

Fizzles, Monday, 24 June 2024 20:11 (one month ago) link

yeah loafers are excepted for obv reasons

paul mccartney and wigs (diamonddave85), Monday, 24 June 2024 21:09 (one month ago) link

fizzles, where'd you get your huaraches? I'm contemplating

woof, Tuesday, 25 June 2024 09:56 (one month ago) link

while fizzles searches his memory banks, on this tip i am in love with my turkish leather slippers. No they are NOT Sabahs, though instagram will apparently fight to its dying day to sell me a pair; they are a much cheaper brand, also made in Turkey, but with a rubber sole, and they're made very well - I can't see how Sabah charges so much. i guess when you're a darling of Instagram you can charge what you like. anyway the brand is Atlantis. they appear to be slightly in thrall to a hippie "grounding" vibe. no i did not choose the version with the copper rivet in the bottom so i will never know what it feels like to plug my body directly into the earth's electricity field. in any case they are very comfortable and actually fit on my feet without slipping off the heel, which has sadly been an issue with every pair of espadrilles i've ever owned. and they have this sly ability to be both very casual and dressy if you want.

https://www.atlantishandmade.com/collections/mens-turkish-slip-ons

Humanitarian Pause (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 25 June 2024 10:37 (one month ago) link

chamula iirc $$ but they've been incredibly robust. check for sizing recommendations though. Otherwise, i think you can get decent deals on etsy.

Fizzles, Tuesday, 25 June 2024 12:18 (one month ago) link

cool, ty. I'd been looking at them & think I'm ok with the money if I can nail the sizing. But seems like Son of a Stag stock them, so I can do this in the real world.

woof, Tuesday, 25 June 2024 13:50 (one month ago) link

I really wanted to get some linen pleated pants like these, I think they are basically womens' pants:

https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/1164/3142/files/Fallou_SS2018_1223_print_1024x1024.jpg?v=1527007914
https://www.blluemade.com/blogs/journal/1950s-influence-in-spring-shorts-and-pants

but I don't have $$$

I'm over it now. I don't buy clothes anymore, I just recombine the clothes I already have in new ways #lifehacks

twisted flight map starer (Deflatormouse), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 01:51 (one month ago) link

i'm so glad no-show socks are falling out of style. they're fine with sneakers but i honestly consider the no-show sock + dress shoe combo to be the worst menswear trend of my lifetime

― paul mccartney and wigs (diamonddave85), Monday, June 24, 2024 2:22 PM (two days ago) bookmarkflaglink

Agree on dress shoes, not on no-shows more generally. There are shoes that look good without socks (light weight slipons and such) and a no-show sock is just a way to deal with sweat/stink when you wear them.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 15:53 (one month ago) link

FWIW, I have noticed a thing with young dudes in my area wearing pulled up black crew socks with their sneakers. Seems kind of corny to me and I don't think I'll be jumping on board as a 44yo.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 15:54 (one month ago) link

yeah pulled-up black crew socks still code as Lame Dad for me.

oddly, I don't mind scrunched-down navy crew socks though (which code as 80s/90s preppy for me)

Millennium Falco (Ye Mad Puffin), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 16:09 (one month ago) link

i’ll kind of allow it for some US style looks, and i’m sure TH with his arcane arts and occluded purpose can carry it off, but the UK look of it is… bad. blindingly white hairy leg stumps plomping around, or weedy white pipecleaner legs attached to a sort of peptobismol drink of a person.

it evokes a sort of damp and slightly fascistic social grotesquerie.

tho now i write that i feel consumed by snobbery and a voice saying “like you look so great, my man - take it with some water”.

anyway, where’s my linen pleated trousers. they’ll make me feel better.

Fizzles, Wednesday, 26 June 2024 16:37 (one month ago) link

i think the only way to carry off black crew socks with shorts is 1) be wearing black shoes 2) in fact be wearing black all over ie some kind of health goth monochrome look

i remember one particularly hot day about 5 years ago i went to work wearing black shorts, black adidas and RED crew socks and was mocked for it by pretty much everyone

Humanitarian Pause (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 16:48 (one month ago) link

Fizzles i am incredibly flattered that you think i can swing any of this.. i do think that being American somehow unlocks access to an unselfconscious ability to wear crew socks

Humanitarian Pause (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 16:49 (one month ago) link

I keep getting ads for Alex Mill and Alex Crane and I can never remember which brand is which.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 16:50 (one month ago) link

I walked up the shop the other night and met my (15yr old) kid and her crew coming back - mildly pissed - from the park. They were ALL wearing white socks halfway up their calves and gave me loads of shit for not having any socks on with my trainers. Brutal.

I would prefer not to. (Chinaski), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 20:43 (one month ago) link

Kids are always going to goof on the way old people dress - whether we wear our age-appropriate fashion or (even worse) try to wear theirs. I don't like the way most of the men my age (Gen X) dress, but I've never been adventurous either. My personal style for the last few decades has been all about attracting the least amount of attention. The older I get the closer I get to thinking that a casual suit would the best way for an older person to dress. Maybe in ten years or so.

My current personal style consists pretty much of Outlier, Muji, and Uniqlo. I like comfortable and functional clothing. I don't like brand logos, and I avoid loud colors except for accents (sometimes).

My daughter and her friends give me shit for being monochrome and dressing in pretty much all black and gray. My one concession to youth fashion is footwear: I'm almost always in either Hoka Transports or Crocs.

beard papa, Wednesday, 26 June 2024 21:24 (one month ago) link

I walked up the shop the other night and met my (15yr old) kid and her crew coming back - mildly pissed - from the park. They were ALL wearing white socks halfway up their calves and gave me loads of shit for not having any socks on with my trainers. Brutal.

― I would prefer not to. (Chinaski), Wednesday, June 26, 2024 3:43 PM (forty-six minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink

Aha! I knew I spotted a trend.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 21:30 (one month ago) link

I'm definitely in an ongoing struggle to find that right balance of accepting dadness while having a bit of style.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 21:31 (one month ago) link

dads are the most stylish, wtf are you talking about! you can do a straw hat, a suit, sandals, shorts, bright purple asics, nothing matters, you can build it out however you want! i think it's freeing to be older.

Humanitarian Pause (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 21:37 (one month ago) link

I just bought a few colorful t-shirts from this company

https://archivalapparel.co/

They are stylish, while having the decidedly dad vibe of being all retro classical and jazz designs. They achieve my goal of having a wider color palette, more interesting graphic designs, and representing my personal interests.

Muad'Doob (Moodles), Wednesday, 26 June 2024 21:41 (one month ago) link

I was wearing a Slayer t-shirt; ultimately, I won.

I would prefer not to. (Chinaski), Thursday, 27 June 2024 07:13 (one month ago) link

with a shirt like Slayer's poking out
no way the dad could lose

twisted flight map starer (Deflatormouse), Friday, 28 June 2024 02:38 (four weeks ago) link

hard to lose a t-shirt face off in Slayer, it's true.

twisted flight map starer (Deflatormouse), Friday, 28 June 2024 02:50 (four weeks ago) link


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