ils thread for general menswear and men's clothing ish

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Good style = not giving a fuk = sometimes can be heinous in someone else's eyes. That doesn't necessarily preclude cargo shorts although maybe yes it does.

BUT dressing so as to stand out is, I think, a recipe for disaster unless one is very self-confident. Which, maybe a lot of ppl on this thread are! If so, more power to u \m/

VC, Saturday, 25 July 2015 05:58 (ten years ago)

I dress to stand out in a way but I'm very unconfident generally. On the whole I feel like I'm unconfident but can be I a situ. Where I'm thinking that at least I know I'm wearing this good outfit and enjoying it. I really do enjoy it.

Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Saturday, 25 July 2015 06:12 (ten years ago)

I dress to stand out in a way but I'm very unconfident generally. On the whole I feel like I'm unconfident but can be in a situ. where I'm thinking that at least I know I'm wearing this good outfit and enjoying it. I really do enjoy it.

On the other hand I'm currently, typing this, wearing two pairs of glasses, one over the other, because I can't afford the new glasses I want.

Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Saturday, 25 July 2015 06:16 (ten years ago)

I've never had issues with Uniqlo jeans but then maybe I'm just not knowledgeable enough. It's not as though I expect much out of them tho

(no offence to people) (dog latin), Saturday, 25 July 2015 06:55 (ten years ago)

Is it not completely weird that Ilx men were seen to be in need of drastic style help a few years ago and now menswear threads have totally usurped ILS to the pint that I'm irrationally worried that the women are shut out of the board.

Don't worry about us. It's a big tent.

from batman to balloon dog (carl agatha), Saturday, 25 July 2015 14:27 (ten years ago)

I have been in situations where I stood out by _not_ dressing boldly but they are few and far between. But I generally was having a lot of fun at the time.

Upright Mammal (mh), Saturday, 25 July 2015 15:21 (ten years ago)

anyone who cares about their dress is prob dressing to stand out - at least to stand out as someone who doesn't dress badly.

i am outwardly self-confident, not so much inwardly, but i don't think i dress to stand out, it's more about expressing myself - and i guess even more than that it's like... there are so many things in life which are beyond our control, what we wear is a small good thing that we can decide each day. similar to like cooking or something. for me anyway.

doing my Objectives, handling some intense stuff (LocalGarda), Saturday, 25 July 2015 15:25 (ten years ago)

i have a black longline t-shirt now and i like it because it means i can stand up straight without feeling like i'm gonna show people my midriff. that said i've only worn it out once or twice cos sometimes tbf it looks a bit like a dress. it's about pairing it with the right clothes and i haven't quite worked that out yet.

also lol of solidarity at this - i have a longshirt which i posted upthread and it is very long, it has a kind of religious feel but practically it's like a dress in some ways, when sitting down and eating. i fucking love it and its swishing around, which implicates me as dressing to stand out. just stop wearing pants.

my advice would be to wear slim or skinny jeans and boots - maybe also black - i would keep the rest fairly understated if the shirt itself is an unusual cut.

doing my Objectives, handling some intense stuff (LocalGarda), Saturday, 25 July 2015 15:31 (ten years ago)

That Wood Wood shirt up throat didn't work on me, sadly. I guess their stuff is cut for big slim Scandi dudes not short Scottish ones. Shame because I loved the print.

Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Saturday, 25 July 2015 22:44 (ten years ago)

Lol @ up throat.

Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Saturday, 25 July 2015 22:45 (ten years ago)

you can dress up to stand out if you're confident, not confident, gay straight, black, white or zebra striped. standing out is not the problem; it's what you wear that can be problematic.

surm, Sunday, 26 July 2015 16:38 (ten years ago)

Also: it is true that wearing heinous things has become fashionable for a time. but this rule does not come without restrictions. there are lines not to be crossed.

surm, Sunday, 26 July 2015 16:40 (ten years ago)

heinous seems a strange word to use here

doing my Objectives, handling some intense stuff (LocalGarda), Sunday, 26 July 2015 16:41 (ten years ago)

it does.

surm, Sunday, 26 July 2015 16:42 (ten years ago)

all clothes have symbolic meaning, standing out, blending in, hanging around (with the fellas)

lag∞n, Sunday, 26 July 2015 16:44 (ten years ago)

one of the biggest trends in fashion over the last decade: standing out to those in the know, blending into everyone else

lag∞n, Sunday, 26 July 2015 16:47 (ten years ago)

lol lagoon, you actually might have a point there, whether or not you were trying to make one in earnest

surm, Sunday, 26 July 2015 16:53 (ten years ago)

i stand by both of those statements

lag∞n, Sunday, 26 July 2015 16:54 (ten years ago)

i stand by you, then.

surm, Sunday, 26 July 2015 16:57 (ten years ago)

bless

lag∞n, Sunday, 26 July 2015 17:04 (ten years ago)

wear what you want imo

List of people who are ready for woe and how we know this (seandalai), Sunday, 26 July 2015 17:28 (ten years ago)

only god can judge me

List of people who are ready for woe and how we know this (seandalai), Sunday, 26 July 2015 17:28 (ten years ago)

very good posts, esp re standing out to those you might want to signal something to whether or not everyone else gets it. also clothes for me are very much a way to help me feel like me, like I have to feel like my clothes are true to some aspect of myself

lagoon I think about that triple-xl grateful dead tie-dye of yours like once a week, wish I had one myself, hope that u are wearing it well this summer and loving it btw

marcos, Sunday, 26 July 2015 17:31 (ten years ago)

^^for real

surm, Sunday, 26 July 2015 17:31 (ten years ago)

i just inherited some XL corporate button ups from my boyfriend i think i'll wear one around the house today

surm, Sunday, 26 July 2015 17:32 (ten years ago)

i am unfortunately temporarily separated from it but thank u for yr appreciation, prayers xp

lag∞n, Sunday, 26 July 2015 17:33 (ten years ago)

btw im in colorado and was looking around a vintage shop for old school rockie mountain hippie gear and all i cld find were self aware ironic tees that say shit like like colorado brah w a tie dye graphic of the mountains or some bs, utterly dispiriting

lag∞n, Sunday, 26 July 2015 17:35 (ten years ago)

terrible

surm, Sunday, 26 July 2015 17:48 (ten years ago)

very sad. btw right now I am wearing these dope old Patagonia green canvas shorts that are totally rocky mountain hippie wear, I love them

marcos, Sunday, 26 July 2015 19:06 (ten years ago)

I found a blue, faded early 90s north face t-shirt which has been my fave summer tee, kinda has that vibe

rip van wanko, Sunday, 26 July 2015 19:21 (ten years ago)

one of the biggest trends in fashion over the last decade: standing out to those in the know, blending into everyone else

― lag∞n, Sunday, July 26, 2015 11:47 AM (6 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

this has always been a thing, especially when $$ edgy fashions are always subsumed into the mainstream, accelerated by the quick uptake these days

like no one bats an eye at somewhat technical gear but u will get head nods from those in the know for stone island projects or acronym or w/e

Upright Mammal (mh), Sunday, 26 July 2015 23:04 (ten years ago)

omg "this has always bee the case in fashion" [uses non fashion contemporary example]

i will say as a counterpoint that not too long ago it was common practice for high end fashion lines to literally cover their garments with logos

lag∞n, Sunday, 26 July 2015 23:15 (ten years ago)

i fuckin love a logo like my brother that i never had, put em all out there

surm, Sunday, 26 July 2015 23:20 (ten years ago)

logos r good its true

lag∞n, Sunday, 26 July 2015 23:22 (ten years ago)

there are so many things in life which are beyond our control, what we wear is a small good thing that we can decide each day.

The decision of what to wear every day is a chore for me, but I like to feel well-dressed. This article was inspiring, but I feel like wearing the exact same thing every single day would be too eccentric http://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a10441/why-i-wear-the-same-thing-to-work-everday/

But I've been buying multiples of certain items so I can have a few "uniforms" and reduce decision making somewhat.

Je55e, Sunday, 26 July 2015 23:33 (ten years ago)

logos r good its true

the economist agrees

https://farm1.staticflickr.com/370/19296025203_fb1ed649c8_k.jpg

chinavision!, Sunday, 26 July 2015 23:56 (ten years ago)

whoops that's really big

maybe we can all try to identify what shoes he wears

chinavision!, Sunday, 26 July 2015 23:56 (ten years ago)

http://i.imgur.com/O875cTu.jpg

custom logo alteration by me

lag∞n, Monday, 27 July 2015 00:16 (ten years ago)

smart

surm, Monday, 27 July 2015 00:20 (ten years ago)

http://www.men-bags.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Gucci-men-signature-web-diamante-duffle-bag-beige-brown-cotton-1.jpg

my dream signature bag by Gucci

surm, Monday, 27 July 2015 00:25 (ten years ago)

heinous

List of people who are ready for woe and how we know this (seandalai), Monday, 27 July 2015 00:48 (ten years ago)

<3 <3 <3 an all-time classic

surm, Monday, 27 July 2015 01:24 (ten years ago)

heinous??

rip van wanko, Monday, 27 July 2015 01:39 (ten years ago)

I couldn't pull it off, nor would I want to I guess, but I did spend like a solid 3 minutes just looking at it

rip van wanko, Monday, 27 July 2015 01:41 (ten years ago)

thank you. my Grandmother had the original women's design back in the 80s. it is one of the most beautiful signature prints.

surm, Monday, 27 July 2015 01:45 (ten years ago)

It's a very nice bag, beautiful even, but it kind of looks like "I am a dandy and I attend Princeton University. Unfortunately my driver was unavailable and I had to take the amtrak home for the weekend."

five six and (man alive), Monday, 27 July 2015 02:02 (ten years ago)

great bag imo

call all destroyer, Monday, 27 July 2015 02:06 (ten years ago)

idk pretending that expensive-ass clothing that are very much archetypes for other clothes aren't "fashion" smdh

it's like claiming "streetwear" and boutique versions of such aren't, just classist euro-centered garbage argument IMO

*dons $1k non-"fashion" jacket*

Upright Mammal (mh), Monday, 27 July 2015 02:13 (ten years ago)

waved a little magic wand at the "could Rick Owens be the next Polo" article to make it so

Upright Mammal (mh), Monday, 27 July 2015 02:14 (ten years ago)

there will forever be the cycle of lapel size, single- versus double-breasted, pleated or not, cuffed or not, button-down or open, ties or bow ties or w/e, but dismissing all fashions that aren't "oh do these white sneakers or boat shoes or loafers or socks vs. no socks" as somehow a better argument over other things...

Upright Mammal (mh), Monday, 27 July 2015 02:20 (ten years ago)


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