rolling #metoo thread for sexual harassment in the music industry so no one misses out when artists we don't give a fuck about like Tim Westwood and Bassnectar get caught

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Oh my god that breast implant story

Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 20:25 (three years ago) link

She's deleted the post, but my recollection is that the woman had to remove the implants years after they broke up, due to them being (badly done? too large? affecting her chest muscles?). I don't recall when or whether him asking to be paid back came into it, but she put the implants on display at the Museum Of Broken Relationships in Hollywood.

armoured van, Holden (sic), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 20:59 (three years ago) link

Midnite Vultures is good

J. Sam, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 22:05 (three years ago) link

shhhhh

maf you one two (maffew12), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 22:08 (three years ago) link

No, I meant it sucks that the director’s career is dunzo, not his business relationship with some blu-ray company.

Dogg, please believe me when I say I wasn’t even getting in the weeds of his specific relationships with any company or business

I haven’t read the allegations yet

(btw I still don't follow this at all. how is his career even "dunzo" in any way, let alone it being "weaksauce" that it's dunzo, in that context?)

armoured van, Holden (sic), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 22:17 (three years ago) link

I don't know why we are going round and round with this, nor what you're trying to do here but

1. I was assuming he was heretofore "cancelled" i.e., persona non grata in the industry, i.e. basically finished and unable to make movies anymore at least in the way that we know them, i.e., having a career that is over at least in the way that we know them a.k.a. done a.k.a. dunzo. Yes, I'm fully aware that this something that is more common with smaller/niche figures than bigger people like Mel Gibson or whatever. Yes, I'm fully aware that, in fact, may not be end up to be true because, in many, many cases, like Aziz or Morgan Wallen, your career really only gets a timeout or a speedbump, and I was rushing to assume that Stanley was "cancelled" in the traditional sense. I did not -- and still have not -- read the actual allegations, but I assume they are legit and horrible.

2. I have established that “It is very good this creep got cancelled” and “It sucks that this guy can’t make anymore movies because I liked them” are not mutually exclusive thoughts. Yes, putting the former in front of the latter is glib, especially on a board where people can be sensitive to such matters. I have admitted that and have apologized twice now. The first thought (“It is very good this creep got cancelled”) should be assumed and should go without saying. The second thought (It sucks that this guy can’t make anymore movies because I liked them”) was what I posted. "Weak" in that scenario is synonomous with "this sucks" which is something that poster Austin has done in this very thread ("unrelated, but over the last week there have also been allegations thrown at london singer songwriter cosmo pyke which sucks because i genuinely like his music."), which went without such a thorough examination.

bruce spr!ngisH3r3 (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 22:33 (three years ago) link

maybe because i'm not an insufferable blowhard?

(this post is 100% in jest, just fyi. i just can't resist a dogpile on you, chris. let's try to stay focused tho.)

Totally different head. Totally. (Austin), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 22:52 (three years ago) link

haha, appreciated

bruce spr!ngisH3r3 (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 22:54 (three years ago) link

"Midnite Vultures is good"

I don't know how that album got into this discourse but it was certainly the first Beck album I hated.

akm, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 22:57 (three years ago) link

don't know how that album got into this discourse

"underpants R&B minstrel show"

armoured van, Holden (sic), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 23:40 (three years ago) link

Is Midnite Vultures cancelled

PaulTMA, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 23:56 (three years ago) link

Is Midnite Vultures cancelled too??? Man, I hated Midnite Vultures, then grew to like it, and now there's something worse about it?

birdistheword, Wednesday, 24 March 2021 00:00 (three years ago) link

beck is too boring to cancel

John Cooper of Christian rock band Skillet (map), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 00:33 (three years ago) link

The only good thing about Midnite Vultures is the cover art.

Jersey Al (Albert R. Broccoli), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 00:56 (three years ago) link

There is a book called Ongaloo that all those paintings were culled from:

https://www.google.com/search?q=ongaloo&tbm=isch

Jersey Al (Albert R. Broccoli), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 02:23 (three years ago) link

are the boredoms cancelled

peace, man, Wednesday, 24 March 2021 10:59 (three years ago) link

Can we not conflate artistic crimes with actual ones in this thread? Har Mar isn't getting canceled for making r&b.

change display name (Jordan), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 14:11 (three years ago) link

Midnite Vultures is fun shit, like it was welded together from a stack of '70s records that normally weren't played together (Sly & the Family Stone, Kraftwerk, etc.) "Sexx Laws," "Get Real Plaid," "Beautiful Way" (psychedelic folk-blues)...I think Beck openly expressed his reservations about singing "Debra" when he toured in 2002, like it was some embarrassing track he cut in his "youth" (IIRC it was kicking around before Odelay). Coming from a guy who's now singing songs from Hank Williams and Big Star's 3rd, it would be insipid, but I eventually came around to the idea that it's a snapshot of juvenile idiocy and enjoy it as a novelty.

birdistheword, Wednesday, 24 March 2021 15:11 (three years ago) link

the most embarrassing track on midnite vultures is "hollywood freaks"

mellon collie and the infinite bradness (BradNelson), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 15:14 (three years ago) link

mixed business or whatever is so fucking horrible, he should be shot because of that, imo

brimstead, Wednesday, 24 March 2021 15:18 (three years ago) link

this is such a weird conversation to be having in this thread

G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 15:19 (three years ago) link

agreed

mellon collie and the infinite bradness (BradNelson), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 15:19 (three years ago) link

take it here
midnite vultures

G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 15:19 (three years ago) link

Not to mention fucking weird to say a musician should be "shot" for recording a song, especially given current events.

soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 15:41 (three years ago) link

beck sucks you nerds

a (waterface), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 16:35 (three years ago) link

take it to the beck thread ffs

intern at pepe le pew research (Simon H.), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 16:38 (three years ago) link

Not to mention fucking weird to say a musician should be "shot" for recording a song

period

J. Sam, Wednesday, 24 March 2021 16:42 (three years ago) link

#onethread

《Myst1kOblivi0n》 (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 16:50 (three years ago) link

take it to the scientology thread!

kurt schwitterz, Wednesday, 24 March 2021 17:33 (three years ago) link

chaki!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sarahell, Wednesday, 24 March 2021 17:39 (three years ago) link

Further reconfirmation on this person

https://pitchfork.com/news/sun-kil-moon-mark-kozelek-accused-of-sexual-misconduct-by-seven-more-women/amp/

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 25 March 2021 13:27 (three years ago) link

tip of the iceberg, surprised it took this long for another 7.

akm, Thursday, 25 March 2021 13:58 (three years ago) link

I can't tell whether it's his straight white male overconfidence, or knowing he's absolutely fucked, to think it was a good move to just recycled his previous denial.

soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Thursday, 25 March 2021 14:08 (three years ago) link

Have you considered that he might be dumb?

Dana Jel Pey (DJP), Thursday, 25 March 2021 14:09 (three years ago) link

"who says yes to that?" the most otm thing in there, what a deeply repulsive individual he is

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 25 March 2021 14:14 (three years ago) link

xpost - Well, yeah.

soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Thursday, 25 March 2021 14:15 (three years ago) link

tip of the iceberg, surprised it took this long for another 7.

I know this is intended to express contempt for the abuser, but it might help to think in terms of how difficult it can be to speak out about abuse and assault on a personal level, and the fact that these seem to be women who have specifically sought Zimmerman as a trustworthy ear, and that she has a) diligently reported out the incidents as far as possible, and b) assessed that it would have greater impact to go to print with the weight of multiple accusations at once, not dripfeeding one by one.

armoured van, Holden (sic), Thursday, 25 March 2021 15:10 (three years ago) link

Not to mention fucking weird to say a musician should be "shot" for recording a song, especially given current events.


Oh stop

brimstead, Thursday, 25 March 2021 15:14 (three years ago) link

You are going to seriously double down on that? Christ this board is a mess.

soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Thursday, 25 March 2021 15:19 (three years ago) link

I feel like I've said this before but -- there is SO MUCH of the talk about this stuff especially among non-young people where there's a palpable anxiety among men about "o no if I tell someone I liked their dress am I going to jail" and when you read the actual accounts it is always, every single time...... NOT THAT

Guayaquil (eephus!), Thursday, 25 March 2021 15:33 (three years ago) link

Yeah it's like... there is a non-trivial, obvious difference between "Oh, I like your dress" and "Oh, I like your dress; here's my penis" and if you can't comprehend that difference, then yes you should be locked up

Dana Jel Pey (DJP), Thursday, 25 March 2021 15:35 (three years ago) link

If you're pining for the days when you used to be able to spank women in the office, I have a lovely subpoena here waiting for you, is how I break it down to an extent.

Dana Jel Pey (DJP), Thursday, 25 March 2021 15:36 (three years ago) link

that undeniable sensation that someone is testing one's boundaries to see how far they can push it is one of the most potent warning bells/alarms i can think of. if nothing else these accounts give examples of what to beware of while interacting with potential predators.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 25 March 2021 15:40 (three years ago) link

xp DJP -- i think it would depend on whether the gift penis is attached to the man's body or in a Russell Stover heart shaped box, completely severed. ... like that would determine where the dude would be locked up

sarahell, Thursday, 25 March 2021 16:03 (three years ago) link

also la lechera otm!

sarahell, Thursday, 25 March 2021 16:05 (three years ago) link

hahaha valid

Dana Jel Pey (DJP), Thursday, 25 March 2021 16:12 (three years ago) link

undeniable sensation that someone is testing one's boundaries

It’s especially depressing that he’s so artless and repetitive about it. “Come to my hotel room, I won’t try to fuck you.” Promptly takes open-door shower, comes out in underwear and asks for sex. When rebuffed, either whines about ageism or insists that fandom entitles him to their bodies.

In each case, he’s made a connection with them through art, whether it be something they wrote, or the way they sing, or what they see in his lyrics. But he doesn’t even try to flirt or seduce or play on the connection, just runs the same program of lie -> hotel room -> unwanted nudity -> complain until they’re worn down. Melt him down for scrap.

Zimmerman ending the piece with Ella’s relief at finding out that her attempts to protect other strangers had paid off in one single instance (due to his grim predictability) was a satisfying capper, but the implied corollary is heartbreaking.

armoured van, Holden (sic), Thursday, 25 March 2021 16:24 (three years ago) link

"You have to tell me why you won’t fuck me. You’ve seen my movies"

G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Thursday, 25 March 2021 17:33 (three years ago) link

yeah i mean i guess what i was trying to say is that abuse in the culture industry is like a reflection of the fact that the culture industry abuses people for product. it sees people as objects for consumption so treating people as sexual objects is in line with that, especially for people who are really invested in that model. and more predatory kinds of behaviors are like an enhanced version of that. not trying to discount the elements of patriarchy that play into this but imo it's not just men behaving like pigs, it's a larger complex of alienation that brings in capitalism and sometimes weird quasi-religious cultism (after all music is pretty magical/spiritual).

― carin' (map), Friday, July 10, 2020 1:33 PM (eight months ago) bookmarkflaglink

Abuse happens in all industries ime, it's just no one cares if the local social worker is outed as a sexually abusive asshole. Whereas when it's a celebrity, it feeds the clicks the media industry are relying on for revenues.

Van Horn Street, Thursday, 25 March 2021 22:04 (three years ago) link


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