Post a controversial music opinion

idk what the perfect amount of overlap is but it is significantly higher than 0%

Where it becomes potentially controversial is where I say it's possible to get married to a guy that likes contemporary pop country.

― Max Hamburgers (Eric H.), Tuesday, March 1, 2022 2:24 PM (

I'd marry you even if you had no taste for Miranda Lambert.

The joy of sharing a life with someone where your common ground is yacht rock, Motown and pre-fusion jazz.

I'd marry you even if you had no taste for Miranda Lambert.

Remind me to tell you about the time I looked into the heart of an Art Tatum.

i like being with someone who has a more normal/healthy relationship with music than i do, it encourages me to try different things, think about different things

bad music, bad lyrics - obv the worst

― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown)

Neutral Milk Hotel has plenty of support

lol

Remind me to tell you about the time I looked into the heart of an Art Tatum.

― Max Hamburgers (Eric H.),

I'd marry you if it turned out you had no Roxy at all!

my wife has a very different cultural background than me and one of my favorite things is being able to get her take on things i take for granted as she experiences them with fresh eyes & very little baggage, its led to 100x more interesting conversations than relationships w/people who had the exact same record collection as me.

xpost - where are you registered?

My wife and I used to have a lot of overlap in our musical tastes, but lately very much not; and as someone who has a hard time being told (by someone whose opinion I highly value) that my taste sucks, it is a source of recent unhappiness for me. So, I guess as a contrary pov, alignment of taste w/a partner is better than misalignment in my experience.

oh yeah that feels a lot different in terms of being more adversarial, i meant more likes and enjoys music (her) vs is about to read glyn john's autobiography (me)

My ex-bf was a big fan of chart pop generally, but one day I came home and he was dusting the place while listening to Concord Sonata of his own accord and I got heart-eyes

Current bf has zero overlap in terms of music taste but we both tolerate each other's preferences. I think an overlap in video media preference (TV, movies, video games) is more important than books and movies, me.

I was going to strongly rebut FGTI's comment about Shakespeare until I realized all the things I liked were really settings from plays rather than sonnets

I still wanna hear! What's a good setting of Shakespeare? I look to Britten and Barber's settings of Auden when I wanna hear settings-of-awesome-poetry that don't work so great to my ears

goon, that's so true. None of my bro friends follow my contemporary tastes at all, but we bond over movies and books.

my wife has very specific tastes and it has become a bit of a game for me to figure out what music that i like she'll be able to enjoy too.

she digs electronic, latin, and classical music, all areas that i was much less familiar with before we started our relationship. i still have my rock and hip-hop lol, and we can still find some things to share in those genres (was the song on the oc? then she probably knows and loves it. did the rap or r&b song come out when we were in middle school? boom.)

luckily she doesn't shit on my tastes, just accepts that we like different things (if anything, i'm the hostile one lol, but i'm working on it)

Going back to the “bad music, good lyrics”: as a non-english speaker I am more interested in hip hop/rap than folk/country because beatmakers and producers are as important to the genre as the lyrics. There are plenty of singer/songwriters whose work I just can’t get into because the sound is rarely compelling and I can easily get into mediocre rappers if the beats are good.

FGTI: Vaughn Williams, Three Shakespeare Songs (Full Fathom Five in particular)

also: Mantyjarvi, "Double, Double Toil and Trouble"

I think I was a bigger fan of the Cocteau Twins when I thought most of their lyrics were just nonsense.

they aren't?

so insensitive to all the frou-frou foxes that perished in the midsummer fires

it's like you don't care at all about those who suffer from sugar hiccups

Heaven or Las Vegas, diddy bom da bom da bom ba doo wah

I lick ya boom-boom down

My wife and I used to have a lot of overlap in our musical tastes, but lately very much not; and as someone who has a hard time being told (by someone whose opinion I highly value) that my taste sucks, it is a source of recent unhappiness for me. So, I guess as a contrary pov, alignment of taste w/a partner is better than misalignment in my experience.

― Not Dork Yet (alternate toke) (morrisp), Tuesday, 1 March 2022 19:43 (fifty-nine minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink

Oh dear. What sort of 'very much not' are we talking?

Well, to be clear, she's usually very tolerant and cool with me going to concerts, listening to what I listen to, etc... we just happened to have an uncomfortable (for me) conversation a few months back that she's probably forgotten about, but I haven't quite gotten over (she can be very frank, and I can be sensitive, blah blah).

brutal

she told you ska sucks didnt she

Lol

Ha ha (imago, you hit the nail on the head, inadvertently or not)

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"I'm sorry, but I have to put my foot down, it's Anal Stabwound, or ME!"

Understandable; he's even younger than Rodrigo

It's strange because I've grown to NEED a human voice in music for it to feel complete and hold my attention (obv there's some purely instrumental music I enjoy but it's rare), yet it doesn't matter if I can understand the words. In fact I find myself drawn to music with foreign-language vocals that I can't understand; when the same music is paired with English language vocals, the magic is lost (recently it was the English half of Sun-El's double album that evinced this). If all English language acts sung a la Cocteau Twins I'd love it. That being said I'm pretty good at ignoring "bad" lyrics; like I've never once winced at a Jim Morrison lyric or had it lessen my enjoyment of a Doors song.

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― So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, March 1, 2022 10:44 AM (two hours ago) bookmarkflaglink

Could be Dylan or Prynne.

Granny Dainger, I enjoy vocal music in languages I don't understand, but have very little patience for most English language music, perhaps excepting choral music, weirdly enough.

My partner and i have somewhat overlapping tastes but I think our biggest problem is that he'll find something that he likes and I'll have known about it for months or years because I'm much more serious about following music.

Movies are what is hard for us-- my man cannot stand art films of almost any kind. We mostly watch documentaries and sci Fi action crap.

My wife and I have completely different music backgrounds, but we find a lot of common ground. Our point of greatest agreement is, fittingly enough, Leonard Cohen.

I think the only time I get annoyed with my husband re: music is when he goes into geek mode. He took a digital music production class last year to fill out a gened requirement (he is working on his BA, and no he is not a Twink, he's 36) and for a few months afterwards, anytime any remotely electronic stuff would come on he would be picking it apart technically while not paying attention to the vibes at all. It was like dude yr missing the point! But he has slowed his roll on that front.

I've never dated anybody that was into metal or punk and had it last more than ten minutes

Sounds like you need to date prog rock fans

lol

xp Sounds like going on a movie date with a film student.

I mean my husband and I did hook up for the first time at a queer industrial goth party, so I knew some aspect of our tastes would have to align.

At the risk of stating the fairly obvious, listening to instrumental music vs. wordless vocals vs. lyrics in a foreign language you don’t understand are *completely different*

There are different sides to Stevie Wonder, which the posts about him are cumulatively getting at. The unimpeachable genius Stevie is undeniably one of these, but just one. There is also, yeah, the Pharmacy and Supermarket PA System Stevie, and the Wedding Reception Slow Dance Stevie- and there are parallels to Paul McCartney along these lines. The sentiments in his songs, gooey or not, make me wince a lot more often than they genuinely emote. He pulls the most miraculous wordless riffs and motifs from the ether, truly godlike- and bridges them together with elements that can either be brilliantly crafty, or almost throwaway, relying entirely on his compelling performance to sustain my interest.

The thing is, his music has never demanded of me that I accept all of that equally, and there is no amount of Hallmark card bullshit I won’t tolerate for those moments of Godlike unimpeachable genius. Besides, his combination of blues harmony and frigid keyboard textures from the 70’s is a personal weakness of mine.

I think the idea that influence = bands that sound like another band is the most basic shallow way to look at influence
― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown),

Absolutely, and the Velvets’ most enduring influence has been an unwavering eye and a sympathy for the anti-hero that transcends the medium of music. I detect a lot of Lou Reed in Nan Goldin or Larry Clark, for example. There’s a traceable lineage more substantive and more satisfying than the opium-drone of Spacemen 3, or whoever.

Pink Floyd’s influence came from the scope of their sound and atmosphere and textures and how they used the studio, they may not “sound” like them but a lot of classic albums from the 80’s owe a lot to Pink Floyd.

Sure, that’s one part of where their influence falls. Tangerine Dream or The Orb are often placed in a Floydian lineage. Probably the most cited lineage from PF is the epic dirge, andante, artists who gravitate towards a certain tempo. Meh. I’m not totally convinced that universally crediting PF as an origin point of the soundscape is a “good idea” either, but it’s kind of interesting how ‘Planetarium Laser Show Pink Floyd’ fosters two distinct impulses: Toward the New Age yoga/meditation tapes of artists like Emerald Web on the one hand, and cosmic Eurodisco or Italo Disco on the other, with the Discoballs album making the connection in a heavy-handed fashion. And it says a lot about the scope of their influence that artists like Lindstrom & Prins Thomas retain a Floydian sensibility.

More importantly, they’ve been an example of how bands with much greater ambition than talent can gradually develop their own idiom. Bands often sound like Pink Floyd to me when they sound like they’re sweating blood.

To sound like Pink Floyd you needed expensive equipment and studio that most bands don’t have access to.

So obviously, I don’t agree with this. But I love the way ‘Automatic for the People’ calls back to ‘Dark Side of the Moon’ in its use of negative space, the setting of sound against a black backdrop, the purest and most bottomless void between the instruments. It sounds amazing, and certainly very expensive. This is obviously more a feat of audio engineering than a similarity in musical style. But it’s something very few records have achieved, DSotM being possibly the first and easily the most ubiquitous.

I liked Alfred’s post about the initial impact of Bob Dylan as a whiny, sarcastic sound.

I like that post, Deflatormouse!

I think maybe I have to look harder for these godlike moments of SW, thank you too for acknowledging my allergy to the inescapable "Hallmark card bullshit" instead of telling me I'm "kinda weird" or that I "need SSRIs"

i feel like this is pretty godlike tbh

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ul7X5js1vE

there's also just *that voice* my god, one of the clearest things i've ever heard

otm

I like Alfred’s post about the initial impact of Bob Dylan as a whiny, sarcastic sound.