We need better support systems for rich and famous people.
― El Tomboto, Monday, 4 June 2018 21:39 (eight years ago)
Not sarcastically, though, and I made this point previously in one of these threads: it seems basically impossible for rich & famous people to get actually good healthcare.
― El Tomboto, Monday, 4 June 2018 21:41 (eight years ago)
Why?
― i’m still stanning (morrisp), Monday, 4 June 2018 21:43 (eight years ago)
The armchair psychoanalysis that Ye invites is exactly the kind of shit I can't stand. I understand it's a fine line between discussing mental health in good faith and then fall into stereotyping people, I understand that not everyone is armed with the ability to discuss those complicated personal health issues. It makes the conversation hard and I think some patience is required.
But this is not it. This is mental health issues as capitalist spectacle: tabloids/twitter get to ponder the nitty gritty with I don't know his relationship to Kardashian or the loss of his mother, cultural websites like Complex get their clicks with oohs and aaah of Kanye breakdown, and in the middle of all this Kanye is using the whole thing as a marketing device to collect goodwill post MAGA-baseball cap, paint himself as the genius he think he is ('name one genius that ain't crazy') and most probably making a shit-ton of money out of it. No solutions is given, no help is provided, no discourse can be made, Houston's death and addiction is a suddenly edgy aesthetic, egocentrism is celebrated.
The thing that defeats me the most is that Ye comes on the heel of several great records by black hip-hop artists that engages purposefully with mental health. He can't sit down and check the landscape as to position himself.
On the other hand someone like Fred relates hard to the record in a genuine way so I'm not opposed to be 100% wrong.
― Van Horn Street, Monday, 4 June 2018 21:49 (eight years ago)
I told her that in my estimation, the best way that an artist can acknowledge their own privilege in their work is to not acknowledge it, or fret about it, as Fleet Foxes or tUnE-yArDs or Katy Perry have done so frustratingly, and instead to work it, to flex it, to be as extremely generous in one's work with that privilege. This is why Kanye was flying so high on MBDTF-- and Beyoncé is now-- and Bjork has oftentimes done: millions and millions of dollars spent on blowing our minds. When all that privilege is turned into generosity, it feels shared and productive and positive.
this is besides the bipolar point but a really interesting way of framing this. then again when referring to the privilege of katy perry & tune yards and the privilege of beyonce & kanye, we're talking about entirely different things. it's hard to imagine a katy perry album that uses largesse to address the kind of privilege she was talking about tho in a sense she *did* attempt that... she got her label to pay for her 72 hour streaming therapy session featuring deray and whatever. she wanted to blow our mind, but unfortunately was still katy perry. i do agree tho that fretting about it in the way the artists you mention did leaves everyone unsatisfied, and attempting to thread the needle in some other fashion more along the lines of "use your resources to make dope, highly collaborative music" is more agreeable though also harder.
― J0rdan S., Monday, 4 June 2018 21:51 (eight years ago)
xp Great post VHS, please list those records, I listen to nothing these days but am interested
@ Tomboto I don't know what you mean by that, rich/famous people have a tonne of support systems but "support systems" don't address the root problem imo, which I still can't really define, but seems to be (loosely) "a toxic relationship between artist and audience"
― nevertheless, he stopped (flamboyant goon tie included), Monday, 4 June 2018 21:53 (eight years ago)
<3 J0rdan
― nevertheless, he stopped (flamboyant goon tie included), Monday, 4 June 2018 21:55 (eight years ago)
xpost to self
On a personal level, the spectacle of mental health/Ye is made even more pathetic with it's rollout and cover. For someone who has suffered from heavy depression, I have found hiking and rediscovering nature to be key elements to my recovery. I am not the only one who experienced it, there is something therapeutic about nature. And there goes Kanye, taking a snap of a beautiful Wyoming mountain and plastering his sentence worthy of a I am with stupid t shirt store. There they are all are, in beautiful countryside Wyoming with their expensive clothes and expensive drugs not giving a shit about what's wonderful around them, dancing to the tune how edgy it is to be one of the 'crazies', like being bi-polar is some sort of fashion statement. It's laughable really, if not glauque.
― Van Horn Street, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:00 (eight years ago)
a major component of all this kanye stuff right now imo is that he has no family of his own as far as i can tell aside from the kardashians, who treat everything as content for public consumption as a method of further ingraining themselves into pop culture. it strikes me as a particularly poor environment for someone w/ mental health issues, let alone kanye who is already prone to dealing with things in a very public fashion. i don't think has a great grip on himself right now and prob doesn't have very many ppl giving him good advice about how to be conducting his life at the moment aside from like john legend.
― J0rdan S., Monday, 4 June 2018 22:03 (eight years ago)
please list those records
Kendrick is the most obvious one
― Οὖτις, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:04 (eight years ago)
Thanks Goon. Also for the excellent point about including privilege in your art: my motto, as someone who is aiming to be a producer and helping out artists to make the most of their potential, is generally to be outward looking as you can reasonably be.
― Van Horn Street, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:05 (eight years ago)
― El Tomboto, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:12 (eight years ago)
This is in the Hall of Fame of vicious P4K review closers:
"But I can admit that after ye ended unceremoniously the third or fourth time, I put on “Family Business,” and I thought about the kid from Chicago who wanted to be the biggest rapper in the world, who now lives in an empty-looking concrete mansion in Calabasas, who has stopped trying."
― The Harsh Tutelage of Michael McDonald (Raymond Cummings), Monday, 4 June 2018 22:16 (eight years ago)
― Οὖτις, Monday, June 4, 2018 6:04 PM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
Yes, here is a small list I just compiled, those are mostly famous records and I'm sure one of the hip hop head of ilxor have more to list:The entirety of Danny Brown's output.Kendrick - To Pimp A Butterfly.Chance the Rapper - Acid Rap, not exclusively, but it is there and it is poignant.Earl Sweatshirt - Doris and I Don't Like Shit, I Don't Go OutsideVince Staples - Summertime '06Logic - EverybodyStormzy - Gang Signs and Prayers.
I believe Tyler the Creator's Flower Boy is up there, but I haven't listened to it so someone else could vouch for it.
Also Jay Z included interesting discussions with Trevor Noah, Meek Mill and Michael B. Jordan about therapy, it's part of 4:44 promo cycle iirc, that's pretty great.
― Van Horn Street, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:20 (eight years ago)
I think Kanye is being 100% honest about himself, while still being wrong. Those are two different things. He sounds SO MUCH like my uncle at his worst, and it's just really something I needed to experience expressed artistically, and had no idea I needed.
― Frederik B, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:32 (eight years ago)
Any number of causes I suspect? An increased amount of quacks beating a path to their door, many of which probably inhabit the “candy man” category, and any doctor who tries too hard to hammer home a need for difficult behavioral change can be easily replaced by buying a new doctor.
The Janus face of what poor folks deal with, in some ways.
The fact that typical treatments for bipolar disorder completely fuck with your creative abilities, too. Many musicians I know who've been diagnosed bipolar 2 have gone off their meds after a year of sanity and turned into raging "THE DOCTOR WAS WRONG LOL" people with intense manic episodes
The fact that the dynamics surrounding "being a famous musician" mean such workplace perils as "if the traffic is bad or there's a technical SNAFU and you're three hours late to where you're supposed to be, ten thousand people will upend all the portapotties on site and spray paint FUCK KANYE everywhere and the internet will follow suit"
The fact that being a successful creative essentially involves breaking-a-mold, or at least improving upon it, and makes one resistant to therapy
Not to mention that if you're that successful, you're probably smart, smarter than most therapists that might be around to help you
And that one of the most successful forms of treatment is mindfulness meditation, which is rooted in accepting your failures and being OK with mistakes, which.. isn't really the case when you're in the public eye and millions of fans and the entire staff of Live Nations needs you to not fuck up at any time, or you might face legal action
And that the primary goal of a famous musician is to inspire, and there's nothing particularly inspiring about your fave being depressed, so the situation fuels itself
idk
Every musician over 25 I know cries every time I see them and tells me they're feeling suicidal, I don't know what to tell you
― nevertheless, he stopped (flamboyant goon tie included), Monday, 4 June 2018 22:55 (eight years ago)
if you're that successful, you're probably smart
can we not
― Οὖτις, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:57 (eight years ago)
you need to meet some different musicians
I would prefer to continue knowing the musicians I know and doing my best to support them
― nevertheless, he stopped (flamboyant goon tie included), Monday, 4 June 2018 22:59 (eight years ago)
Eeeeh what you describe seems to be very close to a certain kind of mental health stigma, Goon. One of which is to treat mental health experts as quacks when really you should see it the same way you would a surgeon for a necessary treatment. Sure some of them are not good at their job but really the solution to that is to try to find a better expert, not believe you can possibly have the knowledge and wisdom of a professional with 15+ years experience. The other is to believe that your job comes with a special amount of pressure that other people wouldn't possibly understand when really welcome to the 21st century we are all pressured to death and we are all more or less alienated, any stress situation can trigger a health problem, no matter if you are CPA or successful musicians.
I just think musicians tend to be more open than their feelings, which in turn might be a blessing.
― Van Horn Street, Monday, 4 June 2018 23:25 (eight years ago)
https://pigeonsandplanes.com/interviews/2018/06/070-shake-interview-kanye-west-ye-ghost-town
Kanye finished “ghost town” the same day Ye was released.
― ✖✖✖ (Moka), Monday, 4 June 2018 23:45 (eight years ago)
I’m quite likely to be “smarter” than a lot of physicians and therapists I’ve gone to over the years and if I fuck up big time on the road or at home I’m also likely to face extremely life-changing sanctions, but guess what, I’m only a little bit special, not THAT goddamn special. I could run down a massive list of things that put me in an extremely small minority of people, for better and worse (so could a lot of people on this board, i wager) but I really try to take better care of myself these days rather than go with exceptionalism as an excuse. I think we basically agree though.
― El Tomboto, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 00:36 (eight years ago)
Imma let you finish, but Hello, I Must Be Going!...
― ... (Eazy), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 00:41 (eight years ago)
I'm judgmental and unforgiving. That's my fucking superpower.
― Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 01:04 (eight years ago)
I know that stoves burn you. They don't cut you. That my superpower.
― Tapes 'n Tapes of Osho (Sufjan Grafton), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 01:27 (eight years ago)
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ReedRichardsIsUseless
― El Tomboto, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 01:44 (eight years ago)
Just what we needTo halt a severe Diplo
― nevertheless, he stopped (flamboyant goon tie included), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 01:50 (eight years ago)
― El Tomboto
reed richards' superpower is to do a fucking great guest spot on one mf doom song and then disappear forever
― Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 02:26 (eight years ago)
the idea that Tekashi 69 or Bobby Blotzer from Ratt or Justin Timberlake or whoever plays bass for Three Doors Down is likely smarter than my incredibly perceptive psychologist who holds a PhD is really one for the record books
― The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 03:11 (eight years ago)
He's so good he's convinced you that all other psychologists are on that level by association.
― tsrobodo, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 08:00 (eight years ago)
sh@kedown otm, that's o_O
― Heavy Messages (jed_), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 09:31 (eight years ago)
I was thinking of Robin Williams, Chester Bennington, Scott Hutchinson, but ymmv
― nevertheless, he stopped (flamboyant goon tie included), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 13:21 (eight years ago)
Another good rap record about mental health issues: Pharaoh Monch "PTSD"
― husked, tonal wails (irrational), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 14:24 (eight years ago)
Mind's Playing Tricks on Me
― President Keyes, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 15:47 (eight years ago)
I figured if I brought up Scarface I would get "old man rap head yells at cloudrap" feedback but yeah if you wanna talk mental illness in classic rap records, 'Face is ground zero.
― Οὖτις, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 15:50 (eight years ago)
z-ro as well
― devvvine, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 15:56 (eight years ago)
good call
― Οὖτις, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 16:11 (eight years ago)
― nevertheless, he stopped (flamboyant goon tie included), Tuesday, June 5, 2018 8:21 AM (three hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
perhaps just like every other group some successful musicians are very intelligent and others are not and success in music is tied to many factors outside of how smart a person is
― The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 16:33 (eight years ago)
also a therapist job isn't necessarily to be "smarter" than you it's to help you process your feelings and thoughts and also see through your bullshit ways of not dealing with things, one of which may be fancying yourself smarter than your therapist
― The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 16:35 (eight years ago)
otm
― flamenco blorf (BradNelson), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 17:06 (eight years ago)
Starlito belongs to the conversation.
― ANU (sisilafami), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 17:43 (eight years ago)
This was a single point in a longer post. I'm not suggesting "successful people are smarter than normal plebes with mental illness"-- if that was implied, then whoops, my bad. I'm not suggesting that therapists in general are dumber than their patients. Or that they need to be smarter.
I'm saying that I've had experience, both as a person whose had (I think) seven different therapists of various styles helping me with my own bullshit, and as a person whose had many friends cycle through different therapists and relate to me their experiences. And I've had experience doing emotional labour for so many fucked up people. And generally, my observation is that people who are intelligent, highly intelligent, are better at constructing more elaborate defence mechanisms to protect themselves against treatment. And that also, highly intelligent people require highly intelligent therapists to be able to assail those defence mechanisms and break the mental loops that are causing them to keep cycling through whatever patterns they've fallen into.
I have a friend who endured a crushing rejection by a man he was in love with and had had a six month relationship with. What followed was two years of obsession, construction of elaborate narratives, and the spreading around of accusations of "narcissism" and such things around our mutual friend group. This man is the smartest person I've ever met. Whenever I tried to get through to him, to help me deal with the root of his problem-- dealing with rejection and accepting it-- rather than sublimating his pain into other projections, it felt like I was playing a game of chess against a grand master, and losing badly. He had built up so many defences and rhetorical narratives that it was impossible for me to make him understand.
In the cases of people who I mentioned, and Kanye himself, all of whom I assume are/were blindingly intelligent, and in a position (famous comedian/musician) that it's hard for anybody-- friend or therapist-- to truly understand or empathize with, I am simply stating that I would imagine (probably correctly) that finding a therapist who was good enough (and smart enough) to break through whatever neural loops were terrorizing the individual would be very difficult.
― nevertheless, he stopped (flamboyant goon tie included), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 18:06 (eight years ago)
Whenever I tried to get through to him, to help me deal with the root of his problem-- dealing with rejection and accepting it-- rather than sublimating his pain into other projections, it felt like I was playing a game of chess against a grand master, and losing badly.
oooof I've dealt with this a few times and it's a real thing, working for hours at a time to sort out the insight they'll accept, knowing you may not be able to reuse it again later, like you're training a virus to defeat medication.
― Simon H., Tuesday, 5 June 2018 18:13 (eight years ago)
fgti is otm imo. It's what Lacan called 'les non-dupes errent'. Those who can't be fooled are in error. From what I gather it's a rather well-known phenomenon in psychology, especially when it comes to something like addiction - smart guys see through the platitudes of the 12 steps program and refuse to hand over their destiny to 'a higher power'. There's a brilliant portrait of this type of guy in Infinite Jest, I think it's Geoffrey Day.
― Frederik B, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 18:18 (eight years ago)
I also would not be surprised if the kardashian machine discouraged him from seeking treatment (no treatment = no storylines) or even had it in some contract
― aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 18:23 (eight years ago)
er treatment = no storylines, you know what I mean
― aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 18:25 (eight years ago)
Haha wow I would definitely be surprised! But it's possible.
Also, pertaining to my last post, rethinking the mindsets of the famous content-creators that I know, I think it's less of an "these people are probably smart and thus hard-to-treat" issue, and more of a "requirement of their position to have an unshakeable belief in one's own importance and goodness" that would create difficulty in penetrating their psychological world, or pointing out erroneous or delusional modes of thought
― nevertheless, he stopped (flamboyant goon tie included), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 18:56 (eight years ago)
What you are describing seems to be basic cognitive dissonance and I would expect any good therapist/psychiatrist to be professionaly trained to deal with that, with ease and habit. Now maybe that is not the prefered way for INTx50 succesful musician to work with their issues, different shrinks for different kinks I suppose. However, the further you describe the situation of your peers, the more it reminds that some people just do not have the humility to get the necessary help, which relates to Kanye and the new record pretty well, but has nothing to do with conventional definitions of success (I see that stuff in all workplaces, all social levels).
― Van Horn Street, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 19:21 (eight years ago)
Controp but I think if you’re looking for mental illness records that are authentic I wouldn’t look towards most rap Barnett nailed it on her new one
― synonym toast crunch (Ross), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 19:21 (eight years ago)
peak
― imago, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 19:23 (eight years ago)