troye sivan "my my my!" -- 'one of the first great songs of this young year' or overpraised twink mediocrity??

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for the sole reason that I am now imagining the impact that it would have had if any of the 80s or 90s boy band thinks had been this conscious of, and pandering to, their gay audience back then

in the UK we had Take That, who as far as I understand it only really had one hit single in America, the serious and chaste ballad "Back For Good", which to me has always felt like an outlier in their early narrative. They had a run of hits in the early 90s and were huge to the point that Robbie Williams leaving the group and the band splitting up were both national news stories and there was even a helpline set up. They reformed after about fifteen years apart and have occupied a safe space in pop since, sounding like Scissor Sisters and Coldplay at once.

so what was really interesting about Take That is that they were basically about taking a gay man's view of sexuality - specifically, manager Nigel Martin-Smith - and selling that persepctive to a female audience. Their 1991 debut single "Do What You Like" came with a video which is three minutes of four attractive guys (and Gary Barlow, who can sing but clearly recruited for his voice unlike the others), rolling about in leather and rubbing jelly on each other's shirtless bodies

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpqAXZI0s0s

the single was a flop and even the band treat it as a punchline now. But move forward a few years to something like their number one single "Pray" which recasts "Wicked Game" with five men on a beach.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbsAqs3YHyg

there's still a shameless fetishism to these men and their bodies and the sexuality of them. The song is better, the video is less cheap, but the intent is still there.

in the UK now this model still lives on. Pop stars and soap actors still do shirtless photoshoots for both gay mags and women's weeklies (at least, the ones that still survive). It's a world away from the 80s model of new romanticism, where Spandeau Ballet and Duran Duran were just as desireable but in a fully-clothed, fashion-and-style, repressed way.

boxedjoy, Monday, 15 January 2018 11:31 (eight years ago)

Googling 'Simon Le Bon shirt off' will get you LOTS of examples of him posing topless for 1980s pop mags.

Akdov Telmig (Ward Fowler), Monday, 15 January 2018 12:00 (eight years ago)

Good discussion, and, yeah, I'd wondered how Years & Years fit; to my ears they do it right.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 15 January 2018 13:18 (eight years ago)

probably worth noting that halsey's newest single is a terrible duet with her gross boyfriend g-eazy called "him and i"

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 14:39 (eight years ago)

they couldn't even get the grammar right!

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 15 January 2018 14:41 (eight years ago)

RIGHT???

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 14:42 (eight years ago)

who did it better: halsey or zooey

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/She_%26_Him

algorithm is a dancer (katherine), Monday, 15 January 2018 14:56 (eight years ago)

Troye will be on SNL!

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 15 January 2018 15:14 (eight years ago)

i guess i read troye less as like... part of the "sanitized white gay into the mainstream" conspiracy and more as part of the "let's figure out how to upstream youtubers into mainstream pop culture" conspiracy. there's some crossover b/w those two things (connor franta etc) but frankly i'm more concerned about the second one personally & as such my interest in the "my my my" video is just noting what it might look like when a vlogger really tries to assert himself as society's very traditional understanding of a pop star. i find the video pretty clumsy and hard to watch, he's trying to sell it so hard but needs more practice. but i'm sure for the intended audience it works.

the other thing is that for all the praise about queer representation yada yada whatever i find it funny that troye and the guys in this video (who fwiw are styled acutely well) don't ever touch each other. the men kind of dance in place in the shadows, hovering around troye but never interacting with him. if they were caged the scene would represent a zoo, where foreign species can gaze at each other with interest but no danger. small step for queer kind and all that but i think there you really get a sense for how calculated this all is -- we can expose this audience to shirtless slightly older men, but there can be no touching -- and so i understand where the cynicism would start to creep in.

J0rdan S., Monday, 15 January 2018 16:43 (eight years ago)

yeah, the ultra-cynical take on this is "Jake/Logan Paul with good production"

algorithm is a dancer (katherine), Monday, 15 January 2018 17:08 (eight years ago)

I've decided I won't ever make another video without a shot of me sucking dick in it

Frankly

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 15 January 2018 17:57 (eight years ago)

*at the climactic moment of The Riverbed, a thought bubble appears above the protagonist's head*

#TeamHailing (imago), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:02 (eight years ago)

yo this song sucks

billstevejim, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:36 (eight years ago)

Johnny Gill, about whom there are questions about his private life too, already released the superior "My, My, My."

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 15 January 2018 20:56 (eight years ago)

i love that song! (johnny gill's.) the growling and ad libs!

lol omg i didn't know that halsey and g-eazy were dating, how awful

dyl, Monday, 15 January 2018 23:04 (eight years ago)

A lot of girls I know are thrilled by the video clip for the Troye song. Whereas with all the hype I was surprised by how tentative it then seemed.

I wonder if maybe the way the clip presents a younger, relatively androgynous-looking Troye implicitly objectifying older, rougher-looking dudes who do not much but lurk suggestively without shirts in the background suggests a dynamic that - while incredibly familiar within gay culture, particularly gay clubbing culture, and particularly-particularly over the last five years or so - feels more novel if yr notion of male objectification is effectively split between boy-band twink and, I dunno, Daniel Craig as James Bond emerging out of the sea or something.

Tim F, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 00:56 (eight years ago)

Sivan appeals to the sort of woman like the one I met a decade ago who boasted about how many gay boys were her friends.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 01:15 (eight years ago)

Hmm I don't know how true that general archetype is these days, at least in my world of gay-friendly straight people - the kind of women i'm thinking of would not just have more gay male friends than straight male friends but would move in circles where that is totally unremarkable (literally - it would not occur to anyone to remark on it).

The separation really comes down to how people intersect with gay ~culture~ rather than gay guys per se - you can have brunch with a dude every Saturday morning and be pretty close to him while being effectively ignorant of his Saturday night habit of going to parties wearing a jockstrap and harness.

Tim F, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 01:48 (eight years ago)

that's my life!

As for your first paragraph: it's a musty archetype for sure; the mid 2000s were the last time when a gay man would even allow himself to be subjected to this tokenism.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 03:14 (eight years ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ay4S61byZo

i like this one more, the synths are gorgeous

ufo, Sunday, 21 January 2018 06:19 (eight years ago)

four months pass...

Fucking hell, this is great.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MrMAfMbZOmg

self-clowning oven (Murgatroid), Wednesday, 13 June 2018 16:49 (eight years ago)

Sivan is the weakest part of this song

boxedjoy, Wednesday, 13 June 2018 18:47 (eight years ago)

His voice is too wan.

Police, Academy (cryptosicko), Wednesday, 13 June 2018 18:53 (eight years ago)

man do I dig "Bloom."

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 13 June 2018 19:43 (eight years ago)

Yeah, that song really grew on me.

self-clowning oven (Murgatroid), Wednesday, 13 June 2018 20:24 (eight years ago)

Also in me, etc.

self-clowning oven (Murgatroid), Wednesday, 13 June 2018 20:25 (eight years ago)

HO

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 13 June 2018 20:29 (eight years ago)

Just for you.

self-clowning oven (Murgatroid), Wednesday, 13 June 2018 20:38 (eight years ago)

one month passes...

Dance To This is really excellent, would have been right at home on the last xx album

My My My is the weakest of the tracks released so far and it's still pretty good so I've got very high hopes for this album

ufo, Thursday, 19 July 2018 23:12 (seven years ago)

The video was released today -

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bhxhNIQBKJI

i’m still stanning (morrisp), Thursday, 19 July 2018 23:19 (seven years ago)

I find the song to be very slight -- pleasant, but barely there -- but guess it's just not my style

i’m still stanning (morrisp), Thursday, 19 July 2018 23:20 (seven years ago)

"bloom" almost made me feel bad about the thread title. almost.

dyl, Friday, 20 July 2018 01:40 (seven years ago)

"Bloom" is his best single.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 20 July 2018 05:51 (seven years ago)

one month passes...

the whole album is pretty good, doesn't blow me away but a very solid and enjoyable pop album

ufo, Thursday, 30 August 2018 14:43 (seven years ago)

"animal" is a good song but it's a little hard to buy it coming from him

J0rdan S., Thursday, 30 August 2018 16:02 (seven years ago)

He's better singing about plums and quoting Smiths songs

The Silky Veils of Alfred (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 30 August 2018 16:03 (seven years ago)

I am an animal with you

a chinchilla

The Silky Veils of Alfred (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 30 August 2018 16:33 (seven years ago)

I still don't understand how "Dance to This" got such a tepid reception

self-clowning oven (Murgatroid), Friday, 31 August 2018 21:45 (seven years ago)

I...like this album a lot.

The Silky Veils of Alfred (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 31 August 2018 21:47 (seven years ago)

Dance to This is one of my favourite singles this year and I love its "Pass This On"-rip video too

ufo, Saturday, 1 September 2018 03:39 (seven years ago)

plot twist

this album is good

J0rdan S., Saturday, 1 September 2018 05:39 (seven years ago)

the singles really don't stand out as singles to me but w/in the context of the album they work much better... the final 3 songs are pretty killer

J0rdan S., Saturday, 1 September 2018 05:40 (seven years ago)

not a dud-free album but definitely good! i like "seventeen" a lot and "bloom" is reaching that territory for me where it can plunge me right into bliss or melancholy alike (cf "teenage dream" the song)

dyl, Sunday, 2 September 2018 02:58 (seven years ago)

one year passes...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LniYWYmNXiM

new single isn't a big pop banger or anything but i really like it

ufo, Wednesday, 1 April 2020 22:43 (six years ago)

I like it a lot too, works very well in these times, in a (thankfully) roundabout way.

Also, it’s tempting to hear this as “take your cellphone”.

No mean feat. DaBaby (breastcrawl), Friday, 3 April 2020 11:37 (six years ago)

the outro switchup is great

ufo, Friday, 3 April 2020 11:46 (six years ago)

Yeah, it could go on for much longer. I’m almost hearing an amapiano remix in my head.

No mean feat. DaBaby (breastcrawl), Friday, 3 April 2020 12:11 (six years ago)

this song is weird and great

mellon collie and the infinite bradness (BradNelson), Friday, 3 April 2020 14:41 (six years ago)

troye sivan "my my my!take yourself home" -- 'one of the first great songs of this young-ish year' or overpraised twink mediocritywhat??

No mean feat. DaBaby (breastcrawl), Friday, 3 April 2020 20:20 (six years ago)

four months pass...

New EP out yesterday, it's pretty good all the way through but I must highlight the follow-up single to the video posted above

"Easy" is so good

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bCHqIhiFmEY

self-clowning oven (Murgatroid), Saturday, 22 August 2020 15:31 (five years ago)

I am taking a break from grading papers -- one of my students wrote about the rejection of hedonism in "Got Me Started" (he was describing hedonism and I was like...there's a word for that :)

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Thursday, 26 October 2023 15:10 (two years ago)

one year passes...

Because of the Bloom poll, I went back and listened to all of his records, and while the In a Dream EP is still my favorite, I have changed my mind— I think Bloom is as good as Something to Give Each Other, even if the latter has some more iconic singles. “My My My,” “Bloom,” “Plum,” “Dance to This,” and “Lucky Strike” are all excellent imho, and the only real stinker is “What a Heavenly Way to Die.”

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Thursday, 20 March 2025 15:50 (one year ago)

I also rate “Postcard.” It’s heartfelt.

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Thursday, 20 March 2025 17:26 (one year ago)

I need to give Something to Give Each Other a spin as all I know is "Rush."

Bee OK, Thursday, 20 March 2025 18:04 (one year ago)


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