Dave Matthews Band : Name Your Reasons Why They Are So Bad & Hated.

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Sterling I think Ned's being extreeeemely gracious and fair. as for dmb, to be fair I think they only became really awful when they stopped sounding like Chicago (whereas Chicago only got better when they stopped sounding like Chicago). It does seem like a bit of an injustice that Dave Matthews gets a career and Darius Rucker is struck with flukedom, but it's not a historical injustice.

James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 7 June 2003 05:35 (twenty-three years ago)

I have just figured out how to italicize hence the curious usage of it.

James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 7 June 2003 05:35 (twenty-three years ago)

If you think the drums don't "kick" you're not listening hard enough,

I'm talking about the actual EQ/mixing/micing of the drum. Listening closely is the exact opposite of what needs to be done in order to hear what I'd like to hear. I'm not saying there's anything inherently wrong w/the drumming (or any other aspect of DMB), just that it doesn't appeal to me.

Not all music requires in your face parts. The drums don't need to "kick" on all the songs, just as the bass doesn't need to "thump" on all the songs. It's called balance...give one instrument the lead part and everything else just helps them out.

True, although you kind of derided your point: I don't think something is balanced if one instrument has the lead. I listen to tons of mellow stuff--I don't need something to be loud and aggressive to affect me. What I'm saying is that the drums NEVER kicks, the bass NEVER thumps. There's no funk, no heavy rhythm, no swinging groove, no woozy psychedelia, no sublime harmonies, no nothin' that I like. It all just seems very watered-down.

oops (Oops), Saturday, 7 June 2003 05:35 (twenty-three years ago)

Damn Aaron, a quick synopsis would have been great. Good points, yet it's hard to stay focused for so long!

Danielle, Saturday, 7 June 2003 06:07 (twenty-three years ago)

ned and aaron were really fair sterling and ppl's tastes are all difft so what are you on abt?

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Saturday, 7 June 2003 08:22 (twenty-three years ago)

That's my point....sometimes the drums DO kick, but not when everybdy else is kicking at the same time. I meant balance like, everyone has the spotlight at different times..should have made that more clear. Some people don't like thumpin and kicking, either.

Allison, Saturday, 7 June 2003 09:28 (twenty-three years ago)

My point, which went overlooked, nd probably deservedly so, was that it doesn't matter whether the rhythm 'kicks' or the fucking fiddle 'wigs out' or if Dave gets all 'googly-moogly' on the vox or with his little guitar there - none of these technical aspects matters ONE WHIT as long as Dave and his hired trop continue to maintain such an emotional distance from the music. It feels like acoustipopical surgery, like be careful and don't infect anything, we have to make sure nobody gets any IDEAS, God Forbid, etc.

Millar (Millar), Saturday, 7 June 2003 09:55 (twenty-three years ago)

Way back in the fold of this thread, someone (I believe Dan) posted:

Pretty much EVERY band's fans has negative stereotypes

Amen! And just to prove it, I shall name some of my absolute favorite musical artists and give you the stereotypes (all false, mind you) that come along with them:

Duran Duran, Scritti Politti, Tears for Fears:  I am some former teenybopper who's also a holdover from the '80s. I wear lots of pink, frilly things, like to read old issues of Smash Hits, and talk like a Valley Girl IRL.

The Cure, Depeche Mode, Belfegore, Siouxsie & the Banshees:  I am a goth (as opposed to a Visigoth, which is something completely different) who is nothing but sour and darkness. I wear nothing but black, look like the undead, write bad, melodramatic poetry, and spend my days moping about.

David Sylvian, Bryan Ferry:  I am nothing but creaking bones. I cannot handle "real rock & roll" (obviously wrong as I'm also a huge Nirvana fan), but rather listen to soft, mellow songs instead.

And yes, I love U2 as well. I'm in the minority here, obviously, but I do quite like U2's songs. But that doesn't mean I'm going to follow every little thing Bono says and agree with it. I mean, he's sung the praises of Destiny's Child, for Pete's sake, and I'm absolutely in no way even remotely inclined to try them out.

Oh yes, and to all the Dave Matthews Band fans who might still be reading this thread: You think YOU'VE gotten grief over being fans of the band. Huh. At least many music critics and most of the mainstream music press seem to take your favorite band seriously. One of my biggest obsessions has been with Duran Duran -- they've never gotten a single positive review ever, as far as I know. Not only that, they get lampooned by pretty much everyone in the music press (save for the ones who happen to post here). I've taken a lot of shit for being a Duran fan, but that hasn't stopped me from being a fan. In fact, it's strengthened my fanhood tremendously.

Presently, seeing as though I've matured a bit, someone can tell me they don't like any one of the artists I adore and I wouldn't have a problem with that. So long as the individual's not saying anything bad about ME, PERSONALLY (which I have not seen in this thread), I don't mind.

Dee the Lurker (Dee the Lurker), Saturday, 7 June 2003 10:12 (twenty-three years ago)

Dee all yr stereotypes are TOTALLY 1995, that shit is lame

Millar (Millar), Saturday, 7 June 2003 10:22 (twenty-three years ago)

dmbfan012003 Natalie Maines increased her credibility by about 100% with her comments. Her comments were most welcome.

Franklin Ambrose (Franklin Ambrose), Saturday, 7 June 2003 11:28 (twenty-three years ago)

Ned and Aaron need to lighten the fuck upand *listen* for a change to the points that foax are making.

That's a bit rich, Sterling.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Saturday, 7 June 2003 13:19 (twenty-three years ago)

dmbfan012003 Natalie Maines increased her credibility by about 100% with her comments. Her comments were most welcome.
Amen to that, Brother.

Lord Custos Epsilon (Lord Custos Epsilon), Saturday, 7 June 2003 13:59 (twenty-three years ago)

The guy I know who likes Dave Matthews talks of going to the shows the same way you might talk about going to visit the Duff factory. DMB seem to be more of an institution than a band as far as I can see, I mean fair enough people have their tastes, that's fine, but the tetchy and manic desire for conformity from the DMB mafia on this thread says it all really.

Heaven forbid some people think "DAVE" is shit! They obviously haven't heard him, or or or are jealous, or or or are arrogant and mean, they couldn't possibly just think his music is total fucking wank, oh no, there must be some outrageous ulterior motive, maybe a big corporation or nike shoes or george w or a foetus or heres whatever yeah dave matthews band rocks.

Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 7 June 2003 14:11 (twenty-three years ago)

b-b-b-but Ronan...in 20 years, all these DMB fans will be writing for Rolling Stone, and DMB will get "Critically Reassessed"

Lord Custos Epsilon (Lord Custos Epsilon), Saturday, 7 June 2003 14:45 (twenty-three years ago)

This is really the thread that would not die, isn't it.

I'm sure I've said this here before, but whatever. Any zealous declarations of fandom (i.e. "Killing Joke Uber Alles!" or "DMB RULES!") will immediately render any opinion you could submit moot, as you're subtracted any semblance of objectivity from your argument. Moreover, statements like "DMB play REAL music and you're just jealous" is as effective an approach as "my Dad can beat up YOUR Dad!" It's pointless and devoid of any real merit in the course of a debate.

Yes, taste is indeed all relative, but you still have to be able to back up your arguments with more than that. Convince me that you've listened to a myriad other artists and still come back to DMB and you'll be waging a stronger campaign to win me over.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Saturday, 7 June 2003 15:06 (twenty-three years ago)

Gymnastics rules!

Chris V. (Chris V), Saturday, 7 June 2003 15:37 (twenty-three years ago)

Wow...this board just went down the tube again. Thought for a while there people could act normal and not throw hissy fits. Heaven forbid there's an actual rational, intelligent conversation. *gasp*

Allison, Saturday, 7 June 2003 16:13 (twenty-three years ago)

this is the internet you know. all sorts hang around here.

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Saturday, 7 June 2003 16:17 (twenty-three years ago)

But that doesn't mean I'm going to follow every little thing Bono says and agree with it. I mean, he's sung the praises of Destiny's Child, for Pete's sake,

A rare occasion when I would urge you to listen to Bono, Dee.

s1utsky (slutsky), Saturday, 7 June 2003 16:32 (twenty-three years ago)

It's like some of you are saying we think the band can do no wrong. That we're so into the conformity that we don't care what the music sounds like. Have you read any reviews or fan comments from the last two albums? Some fans that have been their fans for like 10 years weren't afraid to say that they didn't like the new stuff...that's hardly idol worship. We'll be the first to step up and admit when we don't like something that they do. No band is perfect, of course...so there's no need to pick apart everything that's wrong with them. I like a LOT of other bands besides DMB (some mainstream, some not so much), but they just happen to be my favorite because of just what I was talking about. They aren't like every other band out there.

allison, Saturday, 7 June 2003 16:56 (twenty-three years ago)

this thread needs a bongo solo

*bongo solo*

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:02 (twenty-three years ago)

can we make this like the Jay-Z fite thread and let it become its own board? that would be awesome (ps millar had a really good point back there. is dmb like mark s' understanding of zappa, ie. something keeps them from engaging with the music or with the ugly parts of themselves?)

Dave M. (rotten03), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:05 (twenty-three years ago)

" I like a LOT of other bands besides DMB (some mainstream, some not so much)"
So what are your other favourite bands Allison?
One of the main accusations held against DMB are that most of the fans like major label stuff and ignore(dont know it exists?) the underground. Apart from some other "jam bands".

Franklin Ambrose (Franklin Ambrose), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:07 (twenty-three years ago)

sometimes the drums DO kick
Some people don't like thumpin and kicking, either.

You seems to be hedging your bets. Which is it: do the drums kick? or is it unnecessary for them to do so?
I still think you're misunderstanding me--I'm speaking purely from a engineering/producing perspective. And it's not just the drums; everything seems so tame. There's no sonic distinctiveness to anything. Again, there's nothing inherently wrong w/that, it's just not my--and I'm guessing many others'--cup of tea.

Millar OTM

oops (Oops), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:11 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't like the hating towards Dave but each to their own. But surely noone here believes that DMB are the worst band in the world. You cant seriously suggest that Staind,Creed,Matchbox Twenty,Linkin Park, Limp Bizkit are better than DMB? Whatever faults the last DMB albums have had they arent coporate trash like those bands.

And should bands be liked by everybody? I dont see how. Bands should be an acquired taste. They shouldnt be like Coca Cola where its marketed for everyone to like. I find the appeal of DMB is that its not marketed like that, it is out of the mainstream.
Most fans arent buying the albums and going to concerts because of mtv/radio hits. And also the fact the music is great and is different to anything else out there.

Ranglin, Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:20 (twenty-three years ago)

You invoke the Chocolate Starfish, you GET the chocolate starfish

http://www.mtv.com/news/photos/l/limp_bizkit01/flipbooks/images/flip3.jpg

keep rollin', baby!

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:25 (twenty-three years ago)

Oh was that really required Anthony? I just finished my dinner.

Franklin Ambrose (Franklin Ambrose), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:29 (twenty-three years ago)

That's the problem, you're assuming that everyone is the same just because it's a popular stereotype. First of all, I like my own band (joppa), which is NOT really a jam band. Rush, Plaid Roadhaven, Bob Marley, Queens of the Stone Age, and Furry Monk to name a few. If that's not diverse enough for you, my appologies.
Mr. "Millar" could you explain a little better what you mean? I think the drums "kick" when they need to, but if they're not in the spotlight all they really need to do is keep everything tight and keep time.

Allison, Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:34 (twenty-three years ago)

'corporate trash': (Foreigner, Journey, REO Speedwagon, Styx) > Limp Bizkit > Matchbox 20 > Linkin Park > Staind > DMB > Creed

James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:41 (twenty-three years ago)

I got excited there when I thought you said Plaid heh.
I wasn't suggesting you were one of those fans Allison. That is why I was asking what you liked. I was pretty sure you wouldnt be the stereotype judging by what you wrote previously.
What is your band like? Any mp3s available? Most here are always open to hearing new things.

Franklin Ambrose (Franklin Ambrose), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:43 (twenty-three years ago)

Where's Nickelback in that equation, James?

Ned Raggett (Ned), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:43 (twenty-three years ago)

Sterling I was really surprised to see you missing my point a bit, though that may be my fault. If there is any reason why I, myself, could not be a professional writer, its probably because somebody actually interpreted my post as being pedantic, which was far from my intention. For instance, my reason for bringing up the credentials of some writers on this board, was not to intimidae, or make others feel like they have no authority or right to post, I was only trying to point out that ad hominem attacks were pointless, and were a sure way to lose respect. My only intention above was to state some of what I feel are the assumptions, both critical and musical, that many of us take for granted on this board, in order to help new posters understand why they might feel like they are hitting a brick wall.

I will the the first to admit that I do not meet some of the ideals listed above, but I think some of them are worth striving for. Additionally, I think some of the problems faced in music criticism also apply to other artisitc and social arenas. The unwillngness to come to terms with a different type (of whatever sort), to rely on assumptions and stereotypes, and not understanding or experience, is, to me, a flawed process, one that goes on not only in music but also in interpersonal relationships, and social ones. Sterling, your fervent defence of antiracism over the span of many threads, for instance, creates the expectation, for me, that you are familiar with the process of the willful misunderstanding of others, which is certainly at least part, though not all, of the problem of racism. Again, though the context is different, the underlying logic is similar. The logic itself is problematic, and any views stemming from it are automatically flawed.

Lastly, I spent a lot of time on my post last night, which is maybe why it sounds pedantic, but it is also why I may seem to be missing the point. After a while, I figured it would be better to cover gaffes that may not have been specifically made, just because I happened to think of them while I was writing.

Aaron Grossman (aajjgg), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:45 (twenty-three years ago)

If you think we are bad Allison, wait until you meet Geir or Calum.
(is it true if you say Geir Hongro 3 times in succession infront of a mirror Geir appears? )

Franklin Ambrose (Franklin Ambrose), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:46 (twenty-three years ago)

Creed >>>>>>>>>> Nickelback

James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:48 (twenty-three years ago)

but here's where it gets loopy: Nickelback > Smashing Pumpkins *ducks*

James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:49 (twenty-three years ago)

;^)

James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:49 (twenty-three years ago)

No Franklin. Your testicles tun to jelly and you cant dance to the groove anymore.

Geirs Funky Grandmother, Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:52 (twenty-three years ago)

nah, James, you got it alll backwards. And these better than's are all based on real or imaginary hits collections, not their entire ouvre.

Limp Bizkit > Linkin Park > Foreigner > Smashing Pumpkins > Matchbox 20 > Nickelback > DMB > REO Speedwagon > Creed > Styx > Staind

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:57 (twenty-three years ago)

That's what I heard.

No MP3's, we're in the process. It's (I know I said it wasn't a jam band, but it is a teeny bit "jammy")jam/jazz/rock/hard to explain type of music with a lot of freaky keys and meters. You'd have to hear it to understand what I'm saying. And no, it doesn't sound like DMB in the least bit.

Allison, Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:58 (twenty-three years ago)

Journey's really tough because half their hits would be with Foreigner and the other half would be down by Styx.

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Saturday, 7 June 2003 17:58 (twenty-three years ago)

No band is perfect, of course

Says you.

Killing Joke is perfect.

http://www.an-irrational-domain.net/images/band79-82/band81bed.jpg

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Saturday, 7 June 2003 18:03 (twenty-three years ago)

Alex, apart from Killing Joke. What other bands do you like?

Franklin Ambrose (Franklin Ambrose), Saturday, 7 June 2003 19:23 (twenty-three years ago)

JOhn D., please refrain from posting the Joke all over this page. That's my scthick....get your own.

yes all right Alex, you don't have to be snippy about it though :(

J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Saturday, 7 June 2003 19:32 (twenty-three years ago)

you don't have to be snippy about it though :(
I'm sorry, JOhn, I should've put a :) after the comment. I didn't mean it as anything other than a.....er....joke. Didn't mean to sound snippy, I promise.

Alex, apart from Killing Joke. What other bands do you like?

Killing Joke will always be my absolute faves, but other than they....in no particular order: Cop Shoot Cop/Firewater, the Misfits, XTC, Devo, the Stranglers, Buzzcocks, the Ramones, Iggy & the Stooges, the Modern Lovers, Kiss, the Birthday Party, Julian Cope, Black Flag, The Wedding Present, Talk Talk, Joy Division/New Order, the Circle Jerks, Gang of Four, the Pop Group, Gavin Friday, Queen, Massive Attack, Motorhead, Anthrax, the Sisters of Mercy, Discipline-era King Crimson, the Velvet Underground, This Mortal Coil, the Smiths, Talking Heads, Bowie, the Cure, the Cult, Theatre of Hate, Kraut, Ch3, Black Sabbath, Iron Maiden, the Damned......and a bunch more.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Saturday, 7 June 2003 20:25 (twenty-three years ago)

Nice to see what some people are into. Out of that i like Stranglers,Buzzcocks,Ramones, Massive Attack,The Cult.
My personal faves are James Brown, Meters,Sly Stone , Massive Attack, Basement Jaxx,Chemical Brothers,Marvin Gaye, Stevie Wonder,George Clinton, Prince,Isley Brothers,Janes Addiction , Living Colour and Flaming Lips/Mercury rev. Thats off the top of my head.

Franklin Ambrose (Franklin Ambrose), Saturday, 7 June 2003 20:29 (twenty-three years ago)

Would it be cheeky of me if I linked to this thread? :o)
Musicians you would really punch in the face

Franklin Ambrose (Franklin Ambrose), Saturday, 7 June 2003 21:38 (twenty-three years ago)

Yes!

Frank McAteer, Saturday, 7 June 2003 22:36 (twenty-three years ago)

Any zealous declarations of fandom (i.e. "Killing Joke Uber Alles!" or "DMB RULES!") will immediately render any opinion you could submit moot, as you're subtracted any semblance of objectivity from your argument.
True. True.
But what I want to know is this: Is their a Dave-Matthew-fan equivalent of "honouring the fire"?

Lord Custos Epsilon (Lord Custos Epsilon), Saturday, 7 June 2003 23:27 (twenty-three years ago)

False. False. That would mean that in order for your opinion to be valid, you can never really like anything.

oops (Oops), Saturday, 7 June 2003 23:36 (twenty-three years ago)

The key word there, oops, was "ZEALOUS," as in over-the-top.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Saturday, 7 June 2003 23:47 (twenty-three years ago)


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