Like I mean if we're going to get into transphobic interpretations of that statement, I don't even know.
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:46 (twelve years ago)
Ugh let's just sum up this whole thing as "everything is terrible, especially for women still"
Because we're not exactly solving anything with the circular firing squad bullshit.
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:47 (twelve years ago)
new life description xpost
― Tip from Tae Kwon Do: (crüt), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:47 (twelve years ago)
yikes. that's pretty awful. (xxxpost)
cosign on awfulness of the word 'problematic.'
― (The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:48 (twelve years ago)
why did I GIS that
― problem attic (cozen), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:48 (twelve years ago)
Within the context of her industry, though? There isn't a lot of deviation for actresses these days, certainly not leads. Like, I'm not particularly invested in this argument, but the post linked up thread was about people who talk about certain issues and what JL might have said that construed her being "problematic" on the subject of body issues.
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:51 (twelve years ago)
Wasn't a golliwog, don't know if it was her husbands or boyfriends dick and it was in response to some fairly nasty abuse that Banks started. Just saying.
― everything, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:51 (twelve years ago)
So racism is excused if you're sufficiently mean? How mean does someone have to be before you can throw out a racial slur or slap some blackface on a penis? Just wondering.
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:53 (twelve years ago)
Azealia Banks is wholly worthless and humanity as a whole would be better off if she didn't exist IMO; that doesn't actually make it excusable to tweet racist shit at her
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:53 (twelve years ago)
I guess I don't really see off-the-cuff statements on red carpets or at junkets as unassailable declarations of there being only one alternative? Perhaps the media-saturated age is also resulting in too many opportunities for people to spiral off statements and then point fingers and say "PROBLEMATIC"!!!!
Absolutely. This Tumblr about Jennifer Lawrence is like something from the Red Scare.
http://yourfaveisproblematic.tumblr.com/post/45661326649/jennifer-lawrence
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:54 (twelve years ago)
Objectifying people is pretty much the entire foundation of the music industry, isn't it? Taking musical expression and selling it as physical object. Taking an artist and selling them as "a brand".
― Emperor Cos Dashit (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:57 (twelve years ago)
the whole penis thing was insanely racist
― le goon (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:00 (twelve years ago)
Your Ass Is Problematic
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:03 (twelve years ago)
wow i knew the video would have its defenders but i had no idea there'd be apologists for the dick in blackface
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:05 (twelve years ago)
Was the thread title changed?
― Moka, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:06 (twelve years ago)
and yes, AZB has been pretty awful herself (and, unlike LA at the time of the beef, she's been rightly raked over the coals for it), and all that shows us is that to come off even worse you have to be really vile yourself
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:06 (twelve years ago)
just pointing out someone named "everything" posted that right after maura said "everything is terrible"
11th dimensional trolling??
― i have sounded the very dub step of humility (anonanon), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:07 (twelve years ago)
Moka: yes the thread title was changed. Several lolled.
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:12 (twelve years ago)
The dick was not in blackface. It was a black or brown dick (decorated to look like Azalia Banks maybe). Whatever. Sorry to interupt the outrage. Congrats to Lily Allen for getting some people who don't give a shit about her to pay her some attention.
― everything, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:21 (twelve years ago)
The dick was not in blackface.
are you kidding me
― Tip from Tae Kwon Do: (crüt), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:28 (twelve years ago)
Yes.
― everything, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:30 (twelve years ago)
k good
― Tip from Tae Kwon Do: (crüt), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:35 (twelve years ago)
Really what this thread needs for some empirical evidence like maybe a white male poster who can turn up and go "well actually he might be right, last time I blacked up my penis it didn't look anything like that" but really so many more 0_0 things have happened on ILX over the years that I wouldn't be remotely surprised.
― Matt DC, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:39 (twelve years ago)
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP),
Hahaha ok, yeah i found it funny but I was reading the initial posts and nothing made sense.
― Moka, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:42 (twelve years ago)
the more we talk abt it the more people will GIS it the better I'll feel
― cozen, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:43 (twelve years ago)
Surely you critical lot have an opinion on this??!!
Eclex
― E-Clex (E-Clex), Thursday, April 27, 2006 2:00 PM (7 years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― dicktweeter perpetuo (wins), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:49 (twelve years ago)
This is what I mean by a low bar. The video doesn't make the male viewer uncomfortable or subvert his expectations in any significant way. It doesn't allow the strippers any personality. By not showing their faces it presents them only as sexualised bodies. And yet it counts as celebration and reclamation because it's better than all the other videos with strippers in? Maybe so. I've read the Hairpin discussion twice and I just don't see it.
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, November 14, 2013 11:01 AM (1 hour ago)
why should a hypothetical male viewer's response enter into it?
― CANONICAL artists, etc., etc. (contenderizer), Thursday, 14 November 2013 21:07 (twelve years ago)
Why would it not? All discussion of gaze involves hypothetical viewers. And check out YouTube - they're not hypothetical.
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 21:19 (twelve years ago)
i just figure that a woman's reclamation of something occurs on her own terms, not how i imagine some guy might interpret the gesture
― CANONICAL artists, etc., etc. (contenderizer), Thursday, 14 November 2013 21:21 (twelve years ago)
^ ...not in relation to how i imagine some guy...
― CANONICAL artists, etc., etc. (contenderizer), Thursday, 14 November 2013 21:23 (twelve years ago)
"cuz i've got a brain" is traditionally a phrase only used by relatively stupid/insecure people, so little wonder it turns out she's out of her depth.
― Eyeball Kicks, Thursday, 14 November 2013 21:38 (twelve years ago)
the rap verse from electrik red's "muah" (presented w/o comment. legitimately!)
Now tell me what you really gonna do with thatNever seen a girl with an ass so fatI'm not a stripper but I dance like thatI'm not a stripper but where the money atI'm not a freak, I'm not a nasty hoeWell I'm lyin but I'm classy thoughI'm like you don't wanna get get get it?To the bed room hit hit hit itI'm not a ditz, I got a brainYou saw my titties before you see my faceIt's all good nigga don't be ashamedI would feel the same, cause I know you know
I'm the shit with this shit
etc
― le goon (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 22:14 (twelve years ago)
<3333333
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 22:26 (twelve years ago)
i loved watching this just now
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOVDnDz2eYI
i'm kind of shocked a singer like Timberlake or somebody hasn't tried to repurpose that phrase in a sex jam yet (i.e. "girl, i wanna get problematic with you!" or "the way you dress be problematic for me, baby")
― da croupier, Thursday, November 14, 2013 2:27 PM (3 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
LOL
― flopson, Thursday, 14 November 2013 22:44 (twelve years ago)
just want to add re: lily allen's "no one wants to see my cellulite" is particularly bullshit since a main visual motif is the slow motion rippling tide of the dancer's asses
― flopson, Thursday, 14 November 2013 22:45 (twelve years ago)
White Feminist @WhiteFeminist
Hard Out Here to replace Same Love as my #PoliticsJam 4 the term! Lily Allen delivers w a scathing critique of #UrbanMusic & objectification
<3
― uberweiss, Thursday, 14 November 2013 23:26 (twelve years ago)
perfect
that account is always perfect
i was WAITING FOR IT
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 23:31 (twelve years ago)
lollllll @ that j-law rap sheet
― i want to say one word to you, just one word:buzzfeed (difficult listening hour), Thursday, 14 November 2013 23:59 (twelve years ago)
• In an interview with Zach Galifianakis, she asked, “Isn’t [the hunger games] your life story?” to allude to the fact that he is fat. (This was scripted by Galifianakis himself)
― i want to say one word to you, just one word:buzzfeed (difficult listening hour), Friday, 15 November 2013 00:01 (twelve years ago)
― flopson, Thursday, November 14, 2013 10:44 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
Girl, I'm gonna problematize you.
― Tim F, Friday, 15 November 2013 00:06 (twelve years ago)
lmao the first thing i did after seeing the video was to check the whitefeminist twitter
btw i really don't think this is a case of "well the imagery is highly questionable BUT THE LYRICS ARE GOOD SO I'M OKAY WITH IT"... i mean you don't even have to go three couplets in before you're encountering lyrics that are horrifying on their own. of course the way the words and images interact is especially vile.
― dyl, Friday, 15 November 2013 01:53 (twelve years ago)
yeah, the bar for "good lyrics" is apparently set at "you'll find me in the studio instead of the kitchen." it's like... a combination of "how biting -- in 1963" and "oh, ok, my apologies for cooking myself dinner instead of having the foresight and/or brains to be a platinum-selling recording artist."
― katherine, Friday, 15 November 2013 03:17 (twelve years ago)
"You'll find me in the studio instead of the kitchen."
You could tell me Ed Sheeran wrote that and I'd believe you -> therefore, it's not good.
― Special guest from Canberra (edwardo), Friday, 15 November 2013 04:32 (twelve years ago)
the massive hypocrisy in mocking how black people boast about their wealth in verse one, then in verse two blithely presenting "there's money to make" as a feminist sentiment, as well
― lex pretend, Friday, 15 November 2013 07:56 (twelve years ago)
it's not ostentatious if you spend it on "nice things"
― a strident purist when it comes to band-related shirts (Noodle Vague), Friday, 15 November 2013 07:59 (twelve years ago)
This has me thinking about this thread:
C or D - 70s era artists (usually white dudes) with gospel-style backup singers (usually black women)
― curmudgeon, Friday, 15 November 2013 16:14 (twelve years ago)
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/daisy-lindlar/lily-allen-hard-out-here_b_4276840.html?utm_hp_ref=uk
This week, the music video for Lily Allen's first new single since 2009, Hard Out Here, was released. The video, a satire on the objectification of women, has been viewed on YouTube over two million times in two days, and the hype surrounding it shows no sign of slowing down. Feminist issues have been put in the media spotlight recently, particularly within the music industry; who can forget the recent criticism of Robin Thicke's Blurred Lines, and the backlash over Miley Cyrus' fondness for twerking?Despite the empowering message of the song, the video for Hard Out Here has received a lot of criticism, particularly for it's supposedly racist undertones. However, I completely support Allen in what she is trying to achieve, and I wish that others - particularly women - would do the same.In the video, the message Allen is trying to send is clear. We are worth more than our appearance and our bodies, we should be proud of who we are, and we shouldn't be letting anyone tell us otherwise. This is a message that goes unnoticed all too often in the media, where a woman is a lot more likely to be celebrated for her figure than her talents (often through no fault of her own), and any woman who is trying to go against this should be celebrated.It's a sad fact that we live in a society where women can never win. If we wear revealing clothes, we are criticised. If we stay covered up, we are criticised. If we talk openly about our sex lives, we are criticised. If we prefer to keep it private, yet again, we are criticised. That is why I am a firm believer that we, as women, should support each other. After all, the idea of the sisterhood is at the core of feminism, and if we don't support and respect one another, how can we expect anyone else to?It's true, Allen's video is not everyone's idea of feminist perfection. Yes, she is fully clothed whilst the dancers are not. Yes, the majority of the dancers are from ethnic minorities. However, if she were just wearing a bikini in the video, she would have been criticised for using her body to sell records. And if she had only used white dancers, the video would still have been labelled 'racist'. In reality, nothing is perfect, and this does extend to feminist media, and feminists themselves. For example, I am slightly ashamed to admit that I probably wouldn't leave the house without make up on. Does this make me any less of a feminist? Or make what I have to say on feminism any less relevant? Not at all.What we should be doing is celebrating the fact that Lily Allen is making an effort to change the message that women are fed by the media every day. Rather than point out what she has done wrong, we should be recognising what she has done right. And the fact is that, in terms of empowering women, she has done a lot more than many other musicians have. So let's stop pointing out all the flaws, and give her the credit she deserves.It's hard out here for a bitch. Let's not make it any harder. Follow Daisy Lindlar on Twitter: www.twitter.com/DaisyLindlar
Despite the empowering message of the song, the video for Hard Out Here has received a lot of criticism, particularly for it's supposedly racist undertones. However, I completely support Allen in what she is trying to achieve, and I wish that others - particularly women - would do the same.
In the video, the message Allen is trying to send is clear. We are worth more than our appearance and our bodies, we should be proud of who we are, and we shouldn't be letting anyone tell us otherwise. This is a message that goes unnoticed all too often in the media, where a woman is a lot more likely to be celebrated for her figure than her talents (often through no fault of her own), and any woman who is trying to go against this should be celebrated.
It's a sad fact that we live in a society where women can never win. If we wear revealing clothes, we are criticised. If we stay covered up, we are criticised. If we talk openly about our sex lives, we are criticised. If we prefer to keep it private, yet again, we are criticised. That is why I am a firm believer that we, as women, should support each other. After all, the idea of the sisterhood is at the core of feminism, and if we don't support and respect one another, how can we expect anyone else to?
It's true, Allen's video is not everyone's idea of feminist perfection. Yes, she is fully clothed whilst the dancers are not. Yes, the majority of the dancers are from ethnic minorities. However, if she were just wearing a bikini in the video, she would have been criticised for using her body to sell records. And if she had only used white dancers, the video would still have been labelled 'racist'. In reality, nothing is perfect, and this does extend to feminist media, and feminists themselves. For example, I am slightly ashamed to admit that I probably wouldn't leave the house without make up on. Does this make me any less of a feminist? Or make what I have to say on feminism any less relevant? Not at all.
What we should be doing is celebrating the fact that Lily Allen is making an effort to change the message that women are fed by the media every day. Rather than point out what she has done wrong, we should be recognising what she has done right. And the fact is that, in terms of empowering women, she has done a lot more than many other musicians have. So let's stop pointing out all the flaws, and give her the credit she deserves.
It's hard out here for a bitch. Let's not make it any harder.
Follow Daisy Lindlar on Twitter: www.twitter.com/DaisyLindlar
― ۩, Friday, 15 November 2013 22:47 (twelve years ago)
Let's not make it any harder.
lmao
― the objections to Drake from non-REAL HIPHOP people (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 15 November 2013 22:50 (twelve years ago)