it's systematic, problematicbut i gotta have it
― da croupier, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:33 (twelve years ago)
can't you see, sometimes your words just problematize me
― smize without a face (c sharp major), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:34 (twelve years ago)
I guess Lawrence's statements are "problematic" in a way but they are also critical of the way that fashion fetishizes an unrealistic ideal of the female form. What would be a better way of putting that?
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:34 (twelve years ago)
Not buying into the "real women" vs "skinny women" dichotomy. I mean, once again, you can acknowledge the shittiness of standards that have someone who looks like JLaw as "curvy" or "voluptuous" or any of the other code words magazines use that mean fat without implying that there's only one way to look like a woman.
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:38 (twelve years ago)
I don't think she's implying there's an absolute dichotomy, but OK.
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:40 (twelve years ago)
For me, Lily Allen is unambiguously a racist. As such, I'm going to look askance at any interaction she has with race because I have zero faith that she will navigate it in a manner I will agree with.
what racist stuff did lily allen do prior to this video? googled it but can't find anything.
― (The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:40 (twelve years ago)
I guess I don't really see off-the-cuff statements on red carpets or at junkets as unassailable declarations of there being only one alternative? Perhaps the media-saturated age is also resulting in too many opportunities for people to spiral off statements and then point fingers and say "PROBLEMATIC"!!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-WTbGupxbk
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:42 (twelve years ago)
I wanted to look like a woman and not a prepubescent 13-year-old boy
What does that imply, if not a dichotomy? I mean, these are the body standards Hollywood has for women. Thin and part of the mainstream, or not. Jennifer Lawrence is getting mainstream roles and leads, she's not exactly Rebel Wilson.
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:43 (twelve years ago)
Not saying that there should be a thinkpiece and an outrage cycle for every stupid thing someone says on the red carpet but god forbid celebrities, as people like the rest of us, be thoughtful in what they say.
― Murgatroid, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:44 (twelve years ago)
Work a red carpet and get back to me on that.
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:44 (twelve years ago)
Also "look like a woman" implies a lot of possibilities!
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:45 (twelve years ago)
what racist stuff did lily allen do prior to this video?
In the midst of a Twitter argument with Azealia Banks, she tweeted a picture of her boyfriend?/husband? (I've seen him referenced both ways)'s penis painted up and dressed as a golliwog to resounding cheers from her fanbase.
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:46 (twelve years ago)
Like I mean if we're going to get into transphobic interpretations of that statement, I don't even know.
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:46 (twelve years ago)
Ugh let's just sum up this whole thing as "everything is terrible, especially for women still"
Because we're not exactly solving anything with the circular firing squad bullshit.
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:47 (twelve years ago)
new life description xpost
― Tip from Tae Kwon Do: (crüt), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:47 (twelve years ago)
yikes. that's pretty awful. (xxxpost)
cosign on awfulness of the word 'problematic.'
― (The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:48 (twelve years ago)
why did I GIS that
― problem attic (cozen), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:48 (twelve years ago)
Within the context of her industry, though? There isn't a lot of deviation for actresses these days, certainly not leads. Like, I'm not particularly invested in this argument, but the post linked up thread was about people who talk about certain issues and what JL might have said that construed her being "problematic" on the subject of body issues.
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:51 (twelve years ago)
Wasn't a golliwog, don't know if it was her husbands or boyfriends dick and it was in response to some fairly nasty abuse that Banks started. Just saying.
― everything, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:51 (twelve years ago)
So racism is excused if you're sufficiently mean? How mean does someone have to be before you can throw out a racial slur or slap some blackface on a penis? Just wondering.
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:53 (twelve years ago)
Azealia Banks is wholly worthless and humanity as a whole would be better off if she didn't exist IMO; that doesn't actually make it excusable to tweet racist shit at her
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:53 (twelve years ago)
Absolutely. This Tumblr about Jennifer Lawrence is like something from the Red Scare.
http://yourfaveisproblematic.tumblr.com/post/45661326649/jennifer-lawrence
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:54 (twelve years ago)
Objectifying people is pretty much the entire foundation of the music industry, isn't it? Taking musical expression and selling it as physical object. Taking an artist and selling them as "a brand".
― Emperor Cos Dashit (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 14 November 2013 19:57 (twelve years ago)
the whole penis thing was insanely racist
― le goon (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:00 (twelve years ago)
Your Ass Is Problematic
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:03 (twelve years ago)
wow i knew the video would have its defenders but i had no idea there'd be apologists for the dick in blackface
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:05 (twelve years ago)
Was the thread title changed?
― Moka, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:06 (twelve years ago)
and yes, AZB has been pretty awful herself (and, unlike LA at the time of the beef, she's been rightly raked over the coals for it), and all that shows us is that to come off even worse you have to be really vile yourself
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:06 (twelve years ago)
just pointing out someone named "everything" posted that right after maura said "everything is terrible"
11th dimensional trolling??
― i have sounded the very dub step of humility (anonanon), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:07 (twelve years ago)
Moka: yes the thread title was changed. Several lolled.
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:12 (twelve years ago)
The dick was not in blackface. It was a black or brown dick (decorated to look like Azalia Banks maybe). Whatever. Sorry to interupt the outrage. Congrats to Lily Allen for getting some people who don't give a shit about her to pay her some attention.
― everything, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:21 (twelve years ago)
The dick was not in blackface.
are you kidding me
― Tip from Tae Kwon Do: (crüt), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:28 (twelve years ago)
Yes.
― everything, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:30 (twelve years ago)
k good
― Tip from Tae Kwon Do: (crüt), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:35 (twelve years ago)
Really what this thread needs for some empirical evidence like maybe a white male poster who can turn up and go "well actually he might be right, last time I blacked up my penis it didn't look anything like that" but really so many more 0_0 things have happened on ILX over the years that I wouldn't be remotely surprised.
― Matt DC, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:39 (twelve years ago)
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP),
Hahaha ok, yeah i found it funny but I was reading the initial posts and nothing made sense.
― Moka, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:42 (twelve years ago)
the more we talk abt it the more people will GIS it the better I'll feel
― cozen, Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:43 (twelve years ago)
Surely you critical lot have an opinion on this??!!
Eclex
― E-Clex (E-Clex), Thursday, April 27, 2006 2:00 PM (7 years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― dicktweeter perpetuo (wins), Thursday, 14 November 2013 20:49 (twelve years ago)
This is what I mean by a low bar. The video doesn't make the male viewer uncomfortable or subvert his expectations in any significant way. It doesn't allow the strippers any personality. By not showing their faces it presents them only as sexualised bodies. And yet it counts as celebration and reclamation because it's better than all the other videos with strippers in? Maybe so. I've read the Hairpin discussion twice and I just don't see it.
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, November 14, 2013 11:01 AM (1 hour ago)
why should a hypothetical male viewer's response enter into it?
― CANONICAL artists, etc., etc. (contenderizer), Thursday, 14 November 2013 21:07 (twelve years ago)
Why would it not? All discussion of gaze involves hypothetical viewers. And check out YouTube - they're not hypothetical.
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 21:19 (twelve years ago)
i just figure that a woman's reclamation of something occurs on her own terms, not how i imagine some guy might interpret the gesture
― CANONICAL artists, etc., etc. (contenderizer), Thursday, 14 November 2013 21:21 (twelve years ago)
^ ...not in relation to how i imagine some guy...
― CANONICAL artists, etc., etc. (contenderizer), Thursday, 14 November 2013 21:23 (twelve years ago)
"cuz i've got a brain" is traditionally a phrase only used by relatively stupid/insecure people, so little wonder it turns out she's out of her depth.
― Eyeball Kicks, Thursday, 14 November 2013 21:38 (twelve years ago)
the rap verse from electrik red's "muah" (presented w/o comment. legitimately!)
Now tell me what you really gonna do with thatNever seen a girl with an ass so fatI'm not a stripper but I dance like thatI'm not a stripper but where the money atI'm not a freak, I'm not a nasty hoeWell I'm lyin but I'm classy thoughI'm like you don't wanna get get get it?To the bed room hit hit hit itI'm not a ditz, I got a brainYou saw my titties before you see my faceIt's all good nigga don't be ashamedI would feel the same, cause I know you know
I'm the shit with this shit
etc
― le goon (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 22:14 (twelve years ago)
<3333333
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 22:26 (twelve years ago)
i loved watching this just now
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOVDnDz2eYI
i'm kind of shocked a singer like Timberlake or somebody hasn't tried to repurpose that phrase in a sex jam yet (i.e. "girl, i wanna get problematic with you!" or "the way you dress be problematic for me, baby")
― da croupier, Thursday, November 14, 2013 2:27 PM (3 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
LOL
― flopson, Thursday, 14 November 2013 22:44 (twelve years ago)
just want to add re: lily allen's "no one wants to see my cellulite" is particularly bullshit since a main visual motif is the slow motion rippling tide of the dancer's asses
― flopson, Thursday, 14 November 2013 22:45 (twelve years ago)
White Feminist @WhiteFeminist
Hard Out Here to replace Same Love as my #PoliticsJam 4 the term! Lily Allen delivers w a scathing critique of #UrbanMusic & objectification
<3
― uberweiss, Thursday, 14 November 2013 23:26 (twelve years ago)