So here it is: You don’t satirise race.
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 13:32 (twelve years ago)
I disagree with that as a blanket statement but it's certainly applicable here
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:07 (twelve years ago)
10 videos that actually pushed feminism forward in 2013 by Aimee Cliffhttp://www.dummymag.com/lists/alternative-feminist-videos-to-lily-allen-2013
― gotta lol geir (NickB), Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:13 (twelve years ago)
wow, Q.U.E.E.N. is really fucking great eh
― imago, Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:34 (twelve years ago)
not watching l. allen video
Janelle Monae rules hardcore
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:52 (twelve years ago)
you gotta wonder why more people can't do it with intelligence, charm, good music & STILL get mass airplay. idk.
― imago, Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:55 (twelve years ago)
The short, glib answer is that there's no box for that.
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:57 (twelve years ago)
intersectional feminism is thankfully becoming more of an acknowledged thing & i guess monae/badu are 2 of its cultural standard-bearers
― imago, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:01 (twelve years ago)
janelle monae doesn't get mass airplay
― le goon (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:01 (twelve years ago)
lily allen, i would venture to say, is not
in fact janelle monae barely gets any airplay
― le goon (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:02 (twelve years ago)
lol at thread title change
― how's life, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:05 (twelve years ago)
Well I mean she's no Lorde, right.
Kidding. (Sorta.) But I mean the whitewashing of pop radio is something we've discussed on the board, and it affects artists like Monáe disproportionately.
(Also why are so many people neglecting the FOR YOU in that controversial line? That seems directed toward execs/men.)
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:06 (twelve years ago)
(that was directed toward the person who said it was 'shitting on other women'—it's not, it's taking to task the idea of what's EXPECTED of women by men)
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:09 (twelve years ago)
Hmmmmm
― Thomas K Amphong (Tom D.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:12 (twelve years ago)
Bad news, everyone. White guy Rich Juzwiak thinks all this outrage is "phony".
― Murgatroid, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:34 (twelve years ago)
beautiful thread title change
― ۩, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:55 (twelve years ago)
Normally I oppose comedy modding but I couldn't really resist this time.
― Matt DC, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:58 (twelve years ago)
White people really need to stop slapping down criticism of this video. Elle magazine tweeted Lily Allen's response earlier with the line "take that, haters" because of course calling anyone offended a hater is sure to cool things down. If you're a white person sitting at your keyboard about to tell a black person to chillout, it's nbd, then you should maybe think for a minute.
But I just checked out Rich Juzwiak's tweets and he doesn't mention Lily Allen so is that necessarily what he's referring to?
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:19 (twelve years ago)
Considering he used the hashtag #fuckyourlilyallenwhining in a tweet cooing about Mariah Carey (which is what he should stick to) prior to his tweets about phony outrage, it's a reasonable assumption to make.
― Murgatroid, Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:22 (twelve years ago)
Ha, OK then
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:22 (twelve years ago)
like, yeah, there's a conflate of distaste, outrage, indifference, etc, but unless you genuinely believe there's no legitimate reason to find the video gross, you're better off naming names than saying "SOME people are making too much of..." esp if you're a writer who's regularly gone into mild hysterics in a review over something simply being really stupid.
― da croupier, Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:26 (twelve years ago)
By saying that women who do what's "expected" don't have a brain? Doesn't seem much like targeting the execs when she's going "lol stupid sluts are stupid." Like, the video literally cuts to one of the dancers after that line. It's not ambiguous or subtle.
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:36 (twelve years ago)
I'm wary (and weary) of kneejerk outrage myself so I paid close attention to the initial responses and most of the anger came from black women rather than bandwagon-jumpers so I don't think it's anyone's place to call it phony.
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:39 (twelve years ago)
Part of me thinks we'd look really stupid if Juzwiak was referring to something else but the guy has been dismissive of shit he had zero stake in before so whatever.
― Murgatroid, Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:44 (twelve years ago)
he's had it up to here with people avoiding the real issues in toronto
― da croupier, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:03 (twelve years ago)
that is not at all what she's saying, gyac. she's saying that nothing about her matters as long as she isn't seen as sexy by the fucked-up standards of 21st-century pop culture. (are you a dude? you're probably a dude, right.)
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:13 (twelve years ago)
that is, in the minds of those looking at women. they want attractive women first, brainy women second. not really sure how this comes as a surprise to anyone, also not really comfortable with men rushing to the defense of women only being looked at through a sexualized lens, which is what a lot of male 'WHY ARE YOU SLUT-SHAMING???'-shaming comes off like.
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:14 (twelve years ago)
I don't think you can elide or rationalize the gross racial aspect of this video given that Lily tweeted a picture of her boyfriend's penis dressed up as a golliwog as part of an argument with a black person.
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:18 (twelve years ago)
No, I'm a woman, but feel free to continue being wrong.
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:19 (twelve years ago)
allen and the dancers have been quite complimentary of each other in response to the furore and the positive reaction from the participants (patronised and perceived as pawns by people on both sides of the argument) is what tends to undermine the accusations of cultural misappropriation and/or unintentional x-ism. seems like the dancers would just agree with what allen and the director have said (which just leads back to 'shrug, hate the game').
― nashwan, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:20 (twelve years ago)
Part of personal agency includes accepting that some people are going to think that your choice sucked.
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:22 (twelve years ago)
hat is, in the minds of those looking at women. they want attractive women first, brainy women second.
Lily Allen buying into this dichotomy - "I'm not like those sluts, I have a brain" is just making the same argument? Like I have a lot of sympathy for her because I know she has quite significant body image issues, and there was that period where she lost a shitload of weight and got rewarded for it with a Chanel campaign. That still doesn't make that line and the accompanying way it's presented in the video ok.
Seriously. She doesn't deserve any benefit of the doubt.
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:25 (twelve years ago)
From Julianne Shepherd's Hairpin piece on the video:
"You could counter with, "whatever, it's her video," or say that it is "pure rap-game parody." One of the dancers in the video, Seliza Sebastian, has tweeted that she enjoyed herself and found a friend in Allen. I'm not here to discount Sebastian's experience at all, or the possibility that there's value in her being "in on the joke," but to point out that the images in pop culture go beyond your one-day video shoot, and that they're gonna have implications beyond where you think your headspace is at. "
― Murgatroid, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:26 (twelve years ago)
What else were the dancers going to say? Were they going to speak out against it and jeopardise their chances of future work?
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:27 (twelve years ago)
the line is fine when divorced from the context of the video, imo, because it's her standing up for herself against the tide of 'be sexier.' (again, the 'for you' is the essential part of the lyric that seems to be deliberately overlooked by so many—who is 'you'? surely it's important.) there's something to be said for the way women in post-millennial pop culture seem to fundamentally change once they reach the 'late 20s' threshold, too; it's like when they become aware of the fact that something more than their talent was what made them alluring to both executives and mass culture. britney is obviously the most extreme example (she turned 26 in 2007, the year of her public meltdown) but there are others; this is why i am waiting on all these exhortations about miley's savvy, honestly.
also, i'm sorry i misgendered you, gyac.
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:31 (twelve years ago)
you don't think that's patronising them? xp
― nashwan, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:32 (twelve years ago)
The dancers are cool with it, great we can now ignore all the black women who find it offensive
― you can get fuckstab anywhere in london (wins), Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:37 (twelve years ago)
Standing up for yourself doesn't mean you have to throw other women under the bus, or use their bodies to make a point though. I would suggest you read the Ayesha Siddiqi piece linked upthread for a far better analysis of it. Also, thank you (I wasn't offended or anything, but that's cool of you.)
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:38 (twelve years ago)
The dancers don't need to feel coerced into cosigning the video in order for the video to be fucked up.
For me, Lily Allen is unambiguously a racist. As such, I'm going to look askance at any interaction she has with race because I have zero faith that she will navigate it in a manner I will agree with. This video bears that out for me, particularly when in response she invokes both "it's just a bit of fun" AND completely undercuts defense of criticism of how she's showing off the bodies of the dancers as compared to herself with "well I have cellulite! no one wants to see that".
I mean, maybe this whole thing is an extended media prank where she is intentionally setting herself up as the caricature of an unthinking privileged racist for satirical purposes but that seems like a stretch.
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:40 (twelve years ago)
xp It's not unheard of for women to speak out if they've felt uncomfortable in a movie or video. It's a bit of a leap to assume that they're secretly unhappy but too scared to say so. I'm sure they were cool with it but it doesn't mean the viewer can't be uncomfortable with the imagery. It's like if you're anti-porn, you're not going to change your mind because certain porn stars are happy and fulfilled.
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:40 (twelve years ago)
xxp How does slagging off someone who's paid you for your work in a public forum usually turns out? If one of them came out and said "Actually, I thought it came out horribly" or whatever, they'd be called ungrateful and of biting the hand that feeds. I fully acknowledge they may have no problem with it - I'm just saying that for the obvious reasons, it's not like we would know if they had problems with the finished product!
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:42 (twelve years ago)
I'm very familiar with Ayesha's work. But I think saying that you're throwing women under the bus by saying "no, I don't want to be sexy, I have other things to offer" really diminishes the locus of possible critique—not just by Lily Allen, but by any woman who might not fit into ideals of what is "hot."
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:43 (twelve years ago)
(And I am definitely speaking as a woman who has opted out of a lot of shit because she is more than aware that she falls outside the paradigm.)
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:44 (twelve years ago)
I'm trying to divorce the lyrics (which I think are still worth discussion) from the imagery (which is really thoughtless). It's "Blurred Lines" all over again! Help!
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:45 (twelve years ago)
just curious, as I've only seen the picture, how do we know that's her boyfriend's penis? (and did ...did she dress it up especially for yungrapunxel beef?)
― ͼѾͽ (sic), Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:46 (twelve years ago)
It's a bit of a leap to assume that they're secretly unhappy but too scared to say so.
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:46 (twelve years ago)
multiple xps - I see your point, but I disagree, because this isn't the first time she has lashed out at more "conventionally attractive" women partly due to her own issues, when really the ludicrous standards women are expected to live up to are to blame. But that doesn't get you quite as much attention as mocking Cheryl Tweedy. (Remember that whole thing?)
Cheryl said: “I’m really flattered Lily’s written a track about me. But I don’t know why she sings about wanting to be as pretty as me as she looks stunning. I’d like to look like her. It’s about time we had a really cool British girl out there on the music scene.”But Lily has pointed out that Cheryl missed the point: “I don’t want to look like Cheryl Tweedy! It’s tongue in cheek, it’s meant to be ironic.”“I don’t have anything against her as a human being but I think the portrayal of her being the right thing for kids to look up to is wrong.“It was a joke that not many people got. Of course nobody really wants to look like Cheryl, they just think they do.”
But Lily has pointed out that Cheryl missed the point: “I don’t want to look like Cheryl Tweedy! It’s tongue in cheek, it’s meant to be ironic.”
“I don’t have anything against her as a human being but I think the portrayal of her being the right thing for kids to look up to is wrong.
“It was a joke that not many people got. Of course nobody really wants to look like Cheryl, they just think they do.”
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:53 (twelve years ago)
I'm surprised that in her article Ayesha hails the Pour It Up video as some kind of feminist breakthrough just because there are no men in it. It's still full of ass and crotch shots and you never even see the strippers' faces, only Rihanna's. To say that it "priotizes the female gaze" suggests a low bar. I'm sure a lot of the 67 million YouTube views came from men who are happy watching faceless strippers.
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:58 (twelve years ago)