well she goes to great lengths to say she's not "slut-shaming" in her non-apology anyway, suggesting that the only reason she wasn't twerking in her skivvies is because her legs aren't easy on the eye. which does beg the question of what the hell she was doing.
― da croupier, Thursday, 14 November 2013 03:06 (twelve years ago)
can't believe she went for "it's a coincidence that the women twerking their asses off in my video are black" as an excuse. most offensive thing about this non-issue, imo.
― CANONICAL artists, etc., etc. (contenderizer), Thursday, 14 November 2013 03:29 (twelve years ago)
If you believed her or didn't give a shit, your offensive non-issue would be a non-issue. Learn to trust.
― everything, Thursday, 14 November 2013 03:55 (twelve years ago)
"which does beg the question of what the hell she was doing"
being blinded by insecurity?
also that's not how 'beg the question' is used but anyway
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 04:12 (twelve years ago)
Don't get me wrong, it's a bummer that that insecurity led to such a muddled video, taking an "objectification sucks" sentiment and turning it into "people who let themselves be objectified suck" sentiment - by neither twerking half-naked herself nor making clear she's mocking clothed people who smack their half-naked dancers, she comes off more like a pious miley than someone mocking miley (the reason that robin thicke joke works best is because the subversion is actually followed through). but that non-apology only adds to the confusion, and suggest she's either too proud to see/admit how she fucked up, or genuinely oblivious to the issues people have brought up.
― da croupier, Thursday, 14 November 2013 07:16 (twelve years ago)
nb i am a person who is very fatigued by the notion of "slut-shaming" because women who aren't seen as sexual also get a shitty end of the ol' patriarchy stick in ways that aren't as acceptable to discuss because doing so kickstarts the "slut-shaming" cycle, which, sigh
i think it was erika villani who coined the term "prude-shaming" a while ago (i think re: t-swift?) - i definitely see it as a concept that could do with more traction, and with an emphasis that it comes from the exact same place as slut-shaming
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 10:46 (twelve years ago)
BUT i read the line "don’t need to shake my ass for you ‘cuz I got a brain" as more of a "hi, women are not just sexual beings for you to leer at until we get ancient at the ripe old age of 25, and we have worth beyond your slobbering gaze" sort of protest?
shitting on other women is a poor way to fight sexism.
― gyac, Thursday, 14 November 2013 11:03 (twelve years ago)
I wonder if in this age of intense scrutiny of every lyric whether musicians will make themselves think harder or run songs past other people to pick up on bits that don't work. The video's horribly misjudged but the lyrics are fine imo apart from that one line, yet of course that's the line we're talking about.
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 11:57 (twelve years ago)
lex: http://thequietus.com/articles/13871-lily-allen-hard-out-here-macklemore-miley-cyrus
― the objections to Drake from non-REAL HIPHOP people (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:08 (twelve years ago)
No, they're not, DL! I listened to the song before watching the video and it still sucked.
I don't like "I won't be bragging 'bout my cars or talking 'bout my chains" but I don't have a problem with the rest of it.
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:15 (twelve years ago)
the song is, on a musical level, astonishingly weak
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:16 (twelve years ago)
sorry if i missed it being posted already, but http://noisey.vice.com/blog/lily-allen-hard-out-here-ayesha-a-siddiqi is good.
― Merdeyeux, Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:18 (twelve years ago)
Oh man I clicked this thread and now bagpuss is ruined forever, thanks conty
― you can get fuckstab anywhere in london (wins), Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:19 (twelve years ago)
Great article, Lex
― flamboyant goon tie included, Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:24 (twelve years ago)
is taking this style of dancing and body image into videos outside rap and rnb useful at all? inevitably cack-handed but maybe it ends up actually helping to enhance the debate beyond the extreme ends (essentially down to whether or not it exploits men as potently as women) even if most of what gets said is so clueless and cringeworthy (lily and the director apparently leading the way there - just saying as long as people are talking about it we've done our job shouldn't be good enough)
but other videos this year like 'pour it up' and major lazer's totally ignored 'bubble butt' seem more interesting in exploring the exploitation issue (if only by virtue of being more conceptually and stylistically disturbing with it)
― nashwan, Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:28 (twelve years ago)
also i guess i should've made this more explicit but can we talk about allen criticising hip-hop wealth culture then a verse later blithely presenting "there's money to make" as a feminist sentiment
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:40 (twelve years ago)
What is this throwback obsession with gold chains this year? Lest we forget: "If you don't judge my gold chains/I'll forget the iron chains".
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:47 (twelve years ago)
http://www.thevine.com.au/music/news/appeal-of-the-wrong-in-pop-lily-allen-hard-out-here-20131114-268343/
― ۩, Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:54 (twelve years ago)
and she didn't forget to put a gold chain on her boyfriend's blackface dick
― prolego, Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:54 (twelve years ago)
how much of this sort of thing is an expression of revulsion against specific cultural signifiers, compared to general commodity fetishism abetted by over-blown pop culture aspirations, though?
― Pingu Unchained (dog latin), Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:57 (twelve years ago)
Her appearance on Dizzee Rascal's "Wanna Be" in 2007 was so much wittier and welcome.
― the objections to Drake from non-REAL HIPHOP people (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 14 November 2013 12:59 (twelve years ago)
xp well if you feel much more revulsion towards the cultural signifiers of black working class commodity fetishism than towards other kinds of commodity fetishism etc then you perhaaaaaps have questions to be asking of yourself.
― Merdeyeux, Thursday, 14 November 2013 13:03 (twelve years ago)
http://www.collapseboard.com/everett-true/conversation-held-in-public-around-the-new-lily-allen-video/
― ۩, Thursday, 14 November 2013 13:15 (twelve years ago)
ayesha siddiqi's piece is great too: http://noisey.vice.com/blog/lily-allen-hard-out-here-ayesha-a-siddiqi
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 13:21 (twelve years ago)
*sigh*http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/music/features/the-xrated-factor-lily-allen-sticks-it-to-the-misogynistic-music-man-8935706.html
― ۩, Thursday, 14 November 2013 13:22 (twelve years ago)
would like to see more pieces, esp non-official blogs, by women of colour - i think i missed a ton while i was offline writing
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 13:25 (twelve years ago)
chimene suleyman: http://www.poejazzi.com/fighting-against-the-fetishisation-of-women-doesnt-work-if-you-fetishise-women/
― lex pretend, Thursday, 14 November 2013 13:32 (twelve years ago)
So here it is: You don’t satirise race.
I disagree with that as a blanket statement but it's certainly applicable here
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:07 (twelve years ago)
10 videos that actually pushed feminism forward in 2013 by Aimee Cliffhttp://www.dummymag.com/lists/alternative-feminist-videos-to-lily-allen-2013
― gotta lol geir (NickB), Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:13 (twelve years ago)
wow, Q.U.E.E.N. is really fucking great eh
― imago, Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:34 (twelve years ago)
not watching l. allen video
Janelle Monae rules hardcore
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:52 (twelve years ago)
you gotta wonder why more people can't do it with intelligence, charm, good music & STILL get mass airplay. idk.
― imago, Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:55 (twelve years ago)
The short, glib answer is that there's no box for that.
― smoking, drinking, cracking and showing the MIDDLE FINGER (DJP), Thursday, 14 November 2013 14:57 (twelve years ago)
intersectional feminism is thankfully becoming more of an acknowledged thing & i guess monae/badu are 2 of its cultural standard-bearers
― imago, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:01 (twelve years ago)
janelle monae doesn't get mass airplay
― le goon (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:01 (twelve years ago)
lily allen, i would venture to say, is not
in fact janelle monae barely gets any airplay
― le goon (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:02 (twelve years ago)
lol at thread title change
― how's life, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:05 (twelve years ago)
Well I mean she's no Lorde, right.
Kidding. (Sorta.) But I mean the whitewashing of pop radio is something we've discussed on the board, and it affects artists like Monáe disproportionately.
(Also why are so many people neglecting the FOR YOU in that controversial line? That seems directed toward execs/men.)
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:06 (twelve years ago)
(that was directed toward the person who said it was 'shitting on other women'—it's not, it's taking to task the idea of what's EXPECTED of women by men)
― maura, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:09 (twelve years ago)
Hmmmmm
― Thomas K Amphong (Tom D.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:12 (twelve years ago)
Bad news, everyone. White guy Rich Juzwiak thinks all this outrage is "phony".
― Murgatroid, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:34 (twelve years ago)
beautiful thread title change
― ۩, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:55 (twelve years ago)
Normally I oppose comedy modding but I couldn't really resist this time.
― Matt DC, Thursday, 14 November 2013 15:58 (twelve years ago)
White people really need to stop slapping down criticism of this video. Elle magazine tweeted Lily Allen's response earlier with the line "take that, haters" because of course calling anyone offended a hater is sure to cool things down. If you're a white person sitting at your keyboard about to tell a black person to chillout, it's nbd, then you should maybe think for a minute.
But I just checked out Rich Juzwiak's tweets and he doesn't mention Lily Allen so is that necessarily what he's referring to?
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:19 (twelve years ago)
Considering he used the hashtag #fuckyourlilyallenwhining in a tweet cooing about Mariah Carey (which is what he should stick to) prior to his tweets about phony outrage, it's a reasonable assumption to make.
― Murgatroid, Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:22 (twelve years ago)
Ha, OK then
― Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:22 (twelve years ago)