oh here she did a 'storify' thing on her take on it
http://storify.com/nualacabral/on-bitch-bad-lupe-fiasco?utm_campaign=&utm_medium=sfy.co-twitter&awesm=sfy.co_a61h&utm_content=storify-pingback&utm_source=t.co
fwiw i'm not even nec. agreeing w/ what shes saying as ive said, just that I would rethink how I approach this sort of thing if I saw this kind of resistance.
but im not sure why im telling that to one of ilx's most strident posters lol
― The rain in Spin circles mainly on the mansplain (D-40), Monday, 27 August 2012 11:25 (thirteen years ago)
I'm sure we can all agree that Brandon's tone doesn't always make him more friends. But isn't this at least partly about whom the "black community" is willing to receive such criticisms from? So much of the anger seems to rest on a conception of Brandon and Spin being outsiders to a "real conversation".
Or to put it another, more constructive (perhaps) way, just how do you think a critique of the Bitch Bad video and song could be presented in a way that did not seem culturally arrogant in, say, a publication such as Spin?
― insane in my mansplain (longneck), Monday, 27 August 2012 12:03 (thirteen years ago)
I find this kinda thread really weird...can people actually get that worked up about a Lupe Fiasco song?
― Blue Collar Retail Assistant (Dwight Yorke), Monday, 27 August 2012 12:05 (thirteen years ago)
there's a bit of concern trolling going on at every layer of this, yeah
― some dude, Monday, 27 August 2012 12:28 (thirteen years ago)
just how do you think a critique of the Bitch Bad video and song could be presented in a way that did not seem culturally arrogant in, say, a publication such as Spin?
what is "a publication such as spin"? its purview in the early days was alternative music and culture, and that's still its primary focus. like many music magazines, its readership skews young. the one thing i notice looking at the magazine's "about us" page is that all the pictured executives, editors and contributors at least seem to be white.
― i know your nuts hurt! who's laughing? (contenderizer), Monday, 27 August 2012 14:51 (thirteen years ago)
newsflash: you're a dude
― The rain in Spin circles mainly on the mansplain (D-40), Monday, August 27, 2012 7:19 AM (3 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
lol
― flopson, Monday, 27 August 2012 14:54 (thirteen years ago)
can someone please mansplain concern trolling to me please
― congratulations (n/a), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:22 (thirteen years ago)
http://www.ebony.com/entertainment-culture/whats-so-bad-about-lupes-latest-single-622
― young money color me badd (J0rdan S.), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:27 (thirteen years ago)
He goes on to reiterate Hogan’s assertion that the song is guilty of “mansplaining,” but in the very next sentence asks “but does any female want to be called "a lady"?
Son.
This is what happens when a person who is far removed from someone else’s world decides not only to peek in, but also tries to narrate from the outside. Speaking as an Actual Black Woman, not Race Non Specific Pretend Woman referenced in this article, I can tell you that the word “female” is a far greater point of contention than “lady” amongst sisters. And while plenty of women eschew the word “lady” or the expectation that one has to be “ladylike” to be respectable, others still cling tightly to the term and the traits. “Female,” however, is a term often hurled from the same lips that favor “b*tch.”
― Jandek at the Disco (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:29 (thirteen years ago)
I don’t care how hip-hop ‘approved’ you are, how many Eightball and MJG tapes you have from seventh grade or even if you bothered to take an Afro-studies class at whatever liberal arts college that taught you how to wax poetic about Dipset, you are on the outside.
dang
― young money color me badd (J0rdan S.), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:32 (thirteen years ago)
This is White privilege at its finest: being able to complain that there aren’t enough narratives about Black death and pain on the Pop stations, without being touched by said death and pain outside of one’s headphones or whatever corny hipster bar one goes to drink artisanal beer and nod awkwardly along to Chief Keef.
hammer
― young money color me badd (J0rdan S.), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:33 (thirteen years ago)
boom
thank you jamilah lemieux
the fact that none of that shit seems even to have occurred to anyone at spin is kind of jaw-dropping
― i know your nuts hurt! who's laughing? (contenderizer), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:33 (thirteen years ago)
lol, was gonna quote those same three passages
― i know your nuts hurt! who's laughing? (contenderizer), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:34 (thirteen years ago)
there you go, lex!
― scott seward, Monday, 27 August 2012 15:35 (thirteen years ago)
i would probably like hipster bars with artisanal beer a lot better if they played chief keef
― young money color me badd (J0rdan S.), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:35 (thirteen years ago)
lock thread!
oh wait this is still a spin thread. never mind.
I have not yet heard "B*tch Bad" yet but that response is amazing
― Lil Swayne of Pie (DJP), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:36 (thirteen years ago)
man that is some invigorating stuff. makes you feel good to be alive.
― scott seward, Monday, 27 August 2012 15:44 (thirteen years ago)
piece is entertaining, fraught w/ its own problems tho
― young money color me badd (J0rdan S.), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:45 (thirteen years ago)
do tell whitey!
― Jandek at the Disco (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:46 (thirteen years ago)
goddam i'm going to be calling out white ppl all fucking day on ILX feels good man
― Jandek at the Disco (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 27 August 2012 15:47 (thirteen years ago)
lmao @ m@tt
― some dude, Monday, 27 August 2012 15:49 (thirteen years ago)
lolll
― lag∞n, Monday, 27 August 2012 15:57 (thirteen years ago)
well played matt.are we gonna have to start saying "the b word" now*shakes fist angrily* SPIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIINNNNNNNN!
― The muted sensation feels amazeballs. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 27 August 2012 16:04 (thirteen years ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BKpqyZCH0BI
― some dude, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:07 (thirteen years ago)
Brandon detests Rick Ross, lol. Some of that is definitely on point, but it also definitely crosses the line I mentioned above, pulling the outsider card in a way that's ultimately problematic.
― insane in my mansplain (longneck), Monday, 27 August 2012 16:13 (thirteen years ago)
i tend not to worry about how problematic something is when my first response to it is: oh thank you.
but that's just me! to me, its invigorating. i wanna read stuff like that every day.
― scott seward, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:36 (thirteen years ago)
― young money color me badd (J0rdan S.), Monday, August 27, 2012 10:45 AM (46 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
idk i've read through this twice and even though it seems like it should be full of holes given how strongly worded it is i can't find any
― een, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:38 (thirteen years ago)
My first response to Brandon's piece was "oh, thank you!"...
― insane in my mansplain (longneck), Monday, 27 August 2012 16:39 (thirteen years ago)
Speaking as an Actual Black Woman, not Race Non Specific Pretend Woman referenced in this article, I can tell you that the word “female” is a far greater point of contention than “lady” amongst sisters. And while plenty of women eschew the word “lady” or the expectation that one has to be “ladylike” to be respectable, others still cling tightly to the term and the traits. “Female,” however, is a term often hurled from the same lips that favor “b*tch.”
other people have sort of made this point itt, but i still don't think i get it. it didn't seem like brandon chose the word "female" very carefully (really like he was just picking the most prosaic thing possible other than "woman" because y'know that's actually in the song), but why is it 'hurled from the same lips that favor 'bitch''????
― een, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:42 (thirteen years ago)
i don't know WHY it is but it is, don't know how you've never heard it before
― some dude, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:46 (thirteen years ago)
Ironically, this same writer cried earlier this summer that the current dearth of “street rap” on mainstream radio is a bad thing. This is White privilege at its finest: being able to complain that there aren’t enough narratives about Black death and pain on the Pop stations, without being touched by said death and pain outside of one’s headphones or whatever corny hipster bar one goes to drink artisanal beer and nod awkwardly along to Chief Keef.
ok i actually do take issue with this part. why is it impossible that Brandon (or even the hipster stock character) is genuinely affected by the deaths of black people irl? because they're black and he's not?also while i love the 8-ball and mjg tapes thing, i think this part was a little sensitive for a Chief Keef cheap shot.
― een, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:47 (thirteen years ago)
can't tell you either i guess xp
― een, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:48 (thirteen years ago)
because female refers to sex, woman refers to gender, one is biological and refers to insects, llamas, xlr jacks, etc, and the other refers to human beings
― ENERGY FOOD (en i see kay), Monday, 27 August 2012 16:51 (thirteen years ago)
female as a noun is largely about the tone of voice. so if you've never heard a man talk about "a female" in that way then I guess you wouldn't get it. it's basically talking about women like they're animals. female as an adjective isn't so bad, but has been kind of tarnished by the association imo.
― wk, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:53 (thirteen years ago)
agree that the shots at hipsters felt a little cheap, but not enough to undercut the validity of the author's main points or the piece as a whole. i don't reject the insiders/outsiders division being drawn.
― i know your nuts hurt! who's laughing? (contenderizer), Monday, 27 August 2012 16:54 (thirteen years ago)
and "lady" has the dark history of being associated with Jerry Lewis movies
― some dude, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:55 (thirteen years ago)
it's also a pretty huge strawman. i don't know brandon personally but just generally speaking the fact that he's white doesn't mean that he's a hipster who goes to artisanal bars (and all the economic/social implications that go along w/ that characterization)
― young money color me badd (J0rdan S.), Monday, 27 August 2012 16:56 (thirteen years ago)
xp to een
artisanal beer is not really a 'thing,' shouldve gone w/ microbrews
― max, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:57 (thirteen years ago)
idg why the ebony article tries to tie the "female" issue to race and culture.
― wk, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:57 (thirteen years ago)
"it's basically talking about women like they're animals."
yeah this. pretty common.
― scott seward, Monday, 27 August 2012 16:59 (thirteen years ago)
Because in my experience white guys don't call women "females" in that way?
― 誤訳侮辱, Monday, 27 August 2012 17:01 (thirteen years ago)
something i realized a long time ago is that if you're white and you listen to hip hop, there's pretty much no type of hip hop you can listen to that doesn't open you up to an obvious "of course you like THAT kind of hip hop, because you're white and..." potshot. gangsta rap, conscious rap, white rappers, there's a killer zing for all of 'em. and you only invite those if you argue for one type of rap over the other, especially if you do so articulately and/or as a professional critic. sometimes it's a conversation worth having, but it's also pretty frequently exhausting and fruitless.
― some dude, Monday, 27 August 2012 17:01 (thirteen years ago)
white racists will often refer to black women as female in the animal/breeder sense. have since the good old slave days.
― scott seward, Monday, 27 August 2012 17:02 (thirteen years ago)
also while i love the 8-ball and mjg tapes thing, i think this part was a little sensitive for a Chief Keef cheap shot.
― The muted sensation feels amazeballs. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 27 August 2012 17:03 (thirteen years ago)
Someone hasn't been watching recent seasons of The Real World
(NOTE: I do not recommend watching recent seasons of The Real World)
― Lil Swayne of Pie (DJP), Monday, 27 August 2012 17:03 (thirteen years ago)
hmm, ok. not the case in my experience at all. I think it's pretty heavily ingrained in police and military culture. the people I've heard say it that way are pretty uh... I guess "rural" would be the polite way to put it.
― wk, Monday, 27 August 2012 17:03 (thirteen years ago)
Oh dude hang out around frat dudes, cops, stock brokers, etc and you'll hear it plenty.
― ENERGY FOOD (en i see kay), Monday, 27 August 2012 17:04 (thirteen years ago)
you realize this reads like you saying, yeah the older heads are tools of the man but why she gotta be angry at ME― The muted sensation feels amazeballs. (forksclovetofu), Monday, August 27, 2012 12:03 PM (3 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
no i didn't, probably because in my mind the stereotype of a white guy w/ pretensions to being a real head is still centered around fetishism of 90s gangster rap more than anything else. and ME ftr well i love both
― een, Monday, 27 August 2012 17:09 (thirteen years ago)