why do people on ILM hate "live through this" ?

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She looks a bit like the rocker chick from the Muppets, but scarier.

Star Cauliflower (Star Cauliflower), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:24 (nineteen years ago) link

i think of the way the media treats courtney (these days) is kind of like scott weiland (sp¿). she gets more press but the "famous junkie up to crazy antics again" additude i feel is similar.

xpost - the muppet was way hotter.

dysøn (dyson), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:26 (nineteen years ago) link

I did a presentation on Kurt and Courtney in my last semester. All it basically revealed was that her dad irrefutably is an asshole, and Bloomfield is far from an objective documentarian, and more focused on himself than his own subjects (it ultimately became a documentation of Bloomfield vs. Ms Love, instead of going anywhere deeper than rumorville).

Vic, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:28 (nineteen years ago) link

Surely Scott Weiland's treatment is more similar to ODB's, in that "What will he do next!" slapstick kinda way, rather than Courtney-press, which tends to be "Slut does dumb stuff".

The whole "Courtney's antics are intertwined with her music" line of argument is almost always directed at female not male performers - see also Tori Amos, Bjork etc.

When this argument is applied to a male performer though, it tends to be as a positive statement: qf Eminem. I always thought it was a shame that Courtney and Tori hate each other so much, mainly because you can pretty much some up male rock critic reactions to women through just reading their reviews.

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:29 (nineteen years ago) link

and yet I like Yoko, Hillary, Madonna, AND Teresa HK (some more than others, Yoko at the top of that list for sure, just for "Fly" and "I Feel Like Smashing My Face in a Clear Glass Window" alone). Go figure.

Michael Jackson I find scary and appalling, both musically and personally. Just like Courtney!

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:29 (nineteen years ago) link

painting all Courtney critics as not-so-latent mysogynists = DUD
propping Courtney up as some sort of feminist icon = SUPERDUD

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:31 (nineteen years ago) link

So how does Axl fit into all this? (I used to think it was weird he and Curt hated each other, actually. They seemed to have stuff in common.)

chuck, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:36 (nineteen years ago) link

might as well ask how any random performer from the same period fits in - Eddie Vedder, the Nymphs, Tad Doyle...

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:39 (nineteen years ago) link

Well, there is a point to be made that sometimes it is a case of cool -vs- uncool. it is rock & roll we are talking about. And there are probably plenty of people who think it is cool when they see a picture of keith richards slumped over in a nod, but think that courtney falling down in a club all wasted is uncool. and the other way around. My point up top was simply that women are obviously treated and viewed differently than men. Not that everyone who hates Courtney is a misogynist.

scott seward (scott seward), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:40 (nineteen years ago) link

what? Our society is sexist!?! No way!

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:42 (nineteen years ago) link

Yeah, it's a simple point, but it applies here.

scott seward (scott seward), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:44 (nineteen years ago) link

When women act messed up/drugged up/fucked up in public the reactions to them are different then if it was yer fave male rock star acting the same way. i know that's obvious, but it's true too.

scott seward (scott seward), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:45 (nineteen years ago) link

"So how does Axl fit into all this?"

He's another plastic surgery disaster.

scott seward (scott seward), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:46 (nineteen years ago) link

whenever I see/read/hear about any such antics I'm usually just reminded of how annoying such people are when I'm stuck riding a bus with them, regardless of gender. But I know what you mean and yes Courtney has been vilified for behavior men get away with and all that HOWEVER - this does not mean that Courtney's behavior is automatically excusable, at least not anymore than it means that the men should be vilified as well. Case-by-case basis is the best way to evaluate things. And in this particular case, my opinion is that Courtney is basically a mean, self-absorbed, hateful person, without a lick of the artistic merit that might offset such unappealing qualities.

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:51 (nineteen years ago) link

Axl emerged from a punk-inspired local indie underground to lead the most popular hard rock band of his time, a couple years before Cobain did. They both seemed obsessed with communicating their fucked-up and well-publicized personal pathologies in their music. And people think he's sort of a weird duck, just like most other men and women recently mentioned, and people have long connected his antics with his lyrics. How the heck is that "random"?? Most people have never even heard of Tad or the Nymphs. (And do people think of Eddie Vedder as a nutcase? I forget. I never paid attention to him much, myself.)

chuck, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:51 (nineteen years ago) link

Who has said Courtney's behavior is "excusable" (much less that she's a "feminist icon")??? I think somebody said that they hoped she kept pissing people off, but that's hardly the same thing, I don't think.

chuck, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:53 (nineteen years ago) link

so equating Courtney with such feminist icons as Madonna, Hillary, Yoko, etc. was not meant to convey that you consider her a similar type of celebrity?

as for yr axl qualifiers, those are all pretty vague and could apply to thousands of performers. (omg, singers expressing their private pathologies thru lyrics??! No way! No one had ever done that before! Why don't we just switch focus over to Trent Reznor instead...)

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 22:58 (nineteen years ago) link

1. Go back and read what I wrote
2. Go back and read the last 30 posts on this thread

chuck, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:02 (nineteen years ago) link


painting all Courtney critics as not-so-latent mysogynists = DUD
propping Courtney up as some sort of feminist icon = SUPERDUD

OTM OTM OTM

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:03 (nineteen years ago) link

read what you wrote about what? Where you equated Courtney with a bunch of feminist icons? that part? Where you said people treat her in a similar way, implying that she shares certain characteristics with them (like, maybe, y'know, being an outspoken, controversial female artists?)

Or maybe we should just change the subject, I know how you like that. Trent vs. Axl in spoiled baby rockstar FITE!

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:07 (nineteen years ago) link

speaking of feminist icons, chuck, xuxa is on the latin grammys tonight.

scott seward (scott seward), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:09 (nineteen years ago) link

okay, Hillary isn't an "artist", maybe that should read "public figure"....

x-post

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:09 (nineteen years ago) link

"Who has said Courtney's behavior is "excusable""

I didn't accuse anyone of saying this, I was making a larger point about gender-based double standards. Read what I wrote, as you say.

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:10 (nineteen years ago) link

Xuxa is controversial, too, Scott! Though I forget if she's outspoken. And everybody loves her, I think. Especially Pele' and John F Kennedy Jr, or whoever that was. Either way, I hope she wins!

chuck, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:14 (nineteen years ago) link

how someone could paint all Courtney haters as misogynists is beyond me. maybe a 12 yr old girl who's just discovering women's issues?

never met or heard anything from someone painting her as a "hero, either".

The more people are bugged by someone, the more uptight they expose themselves to be. When bugged, ignore. There's lots more interesting stuff in the world to focus on. Like talking about the music.
OTM OTM OTM OTM OTM

Thea (Thea), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:15 (nineteen years ago) link

well hey we can talk about the music, but a bunch of people on this thread seem to be hearing something completely different than me when they hear "Live Through This". How anyone could hear "Doll Parts" and insist it bears no sonic resemblance to Nirvana = *my brain exploding*

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:17 (nineteen years ago) link

fwiw, I only heard "Malibu" off "Celebrity Skin" (which sounded flat and thin to me, and no, not much like Nirvana) and haven't heard a note from "America's Sweetheart", so my musical knowledge of Courtney's output only covers "Pretty On the Inside" and "Live Through This". "Pretty on the Inside" sounds like Sonic Youth or the Melvins or something for most of it, and is I guess her best record. The only song I really remember enjoying is "Good Sister/Bad Sister", cuz its so heavy and silly. "Live Through This" = can't bear to sit through it.

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:21 (nineteen years ago) link

Sorry Shakey, I meant "buggeded by Courtney", not each other on this thread. I didn't mean we should only stick to talking about music or not letting the thread morph into whatever. I agree with a lot of what you say.

Celebrity haters = me yawning.

Thea (Thea), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:28 (nineteen years ago) link

but

letting the thread morph into whatever = maybe we should just change the subject, I know how you like that

so be careful.

chuck, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:33 (nineteen years ago) link

"I know how you like that

so be careful"

I think I've just entered a Brian de Palma movie.


Not interestingly or surpisingly, I just noticed that it only took three posts for this thread to veer into the world of Courtney and away from the album.

Is that an ILM record, I wonder.

Thea (Thea), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:34 (nineteen years ago) link

One difference between the cult of Courtney and the cult of Eddie Vedder or Axl Rose is that the latter two were never famous for being famous (at least nowhere near the degree that Courtney is/was).

They made a conscious decision to keep themselves private, which Courtney has never done at any point in the last twelve years.

Making a conscious effort to keep oneself out of the limelight does a lot to transcend the differences between male celebrities and female celebrities.

Barry Bruner (Barry Bruner), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:40 (nineteen years ago) link

"Making a conscious effort to keep oneself out of the limelight does a lot to transcend the differences between male celebrities and female celebrities."

?

What differences?

Thea (Thea), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:41 (nineteen years ago) link

i.e. if you're making a concerted effort to stay out of the spotlight, then nobody talks/writes about you and then it doesn't matter what gender you are.

Barry Bruner (Barry Bruner), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:45 (nineteen years ago) link

oh it looked like you meant there are actually inherrent differences between male and female celebs that the femmes could transcend if they made an extra effort, like some of the smarter boy celebs.

i agree with yr second post, natch

Thea (Thea), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:48 (nineteen years ago) link

Unless they talk explicitly ABOUT you trying to stay out of the limelight (which they frequently do for Axl, even though he obviously doesn't belong on this thread and I just brought him up to change the subject. Or even Michael, who somehow manages to try to stay out of the limelight AND to make a spectacle of himself, at the same time.)

xpost

chuck, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:49 (nineteen years ago) link

Thing is, lots of girls (who very well might be creepy and weird and all that stuff) DO stay out of the limelight. And lots of boys don't.

chuck, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:51 (nineteen years ago) link

Incidentally, I'd much rather listen to Hole than ever listen to a Michael Jackson record.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:52 (nineteen years ago) link

Or spotlight, I mean. (I don't even know if limes HAVE lights! I guess I must have been accidentally thinking of Rush or something.)

xpost

chuck, Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:52 (nineteen years ago) link

Good lord, man, Thriller over most anything anywhere anytime.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:54 (nineteen years ago) link

Courtney is not as wacky or creepy or annoying as Michael Jackson, though. And he makes better records, too!

On this, Chuck, we can agree. And he's a better songwriter than Kurt, Courtney, Billy, and Linda Perry. *If* he's still writing his own songs.

whoa...xposts out a wah-zoo.

frankE (frankE), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:54 (nineteen years ago) link

I thought that Axl was a reasonable comparison, chuck -- in 1992-3 he was drawing loads of attention to himself, what with GnR's mega-selling albums + tours + band members coming and going, his relationship with Stephanie Seymour, the homophobia allegations surrounding him. His overall celebrity and freakiness were approaching MJ levels.

But talking about somebody staying out of the spotlight gets boring real fast (MJ is an exception, but then again, his level of ubercelebrity and uberfreakiness is also an exception). People move on to talking about other things -- but in Courtney's case, she always reappears to supply them with new ammunition. What the media/fans/Courtney hataz do with that ammunition is a different matter (as opposed to how they would treat male celebs).

(xposts, etc.)

Barry Bruner (Barry Bruner), Wednesday, 1 September 2004 23:59 (nineteen years ago) link

Re Michael Jackson being a better songwriter than all those folks:

And he is a better singer and dancer as well!! And he hires better rhythm sections! (Axl comes oddly close on all counts, however. And they're both from Indiana!)

chuck, Thursday, 2 September 2004 00:02 (nineteen years ago) link

Prev. post should be partly past tense (i.e. - Axl hasn't been much skilled at singing, dancing, or hiring rhythm sections for the past 17 years, obviously. Then again, MJ has seen better days, as well.)

chuck, Thursday, 2 September 2004 00:04 (nineteen years ago) link

I did a presentation on Kurt and Courtney in my last semester. All it basically revealed was that her dad irrefutably is an asshole, and Bloomfield is far from an objective documentarian, and more focused on himself than his own subjects (it ultimately became a documentation of Bloomfield vs. Ms Love, instead of going anywhere deeper than rumorville).

-- Vic (filmclasse...), September 1st, 2004.

You had to do a presentation on the film to get that across?

Anyway, as for my two cents worth: I've always been indifferent towards Hole/Courtney Love. I don't have that scarily irrational hatred that some people seem to have of her. She's written some good songs ("Violet" and "Doll Parts" especially). But I dunno, she never made much of an impression on me.

The whole Cobain wrote LTT thing is bullshit. Any similarity between Hole and Nirvana prolly comes from them working in roughly similar styles of music and the fact of Cobain and Love being married. It's well-known that they influenced each other's writing, but that doesn't equal cobain writing hole's album.

latebloomer (latebloomer), Thursday, 2 September 2004 00:05 (nineteen years ago) link

Imagine if all musicians NEVER EVER erred in drawing "too much attention to themselves", We might have 50% less music in the world. Let's let the performers perform and not spit too much bile if they cross the line.

We creepy people typing away are far from the brain of a rock-star, I'm sorry to say this but I must. vive la difference

Thea (Thea), Thursday, 2 September 2004 00:06 (nineteen years ago) link

Well, I have my creepy moments, I shouldnt' judge anyone else of course

Thea (Thea), Thursday, 2 September 2004 00:06 (nineteen years ago) link

Good lord, man, Thriller over most anything anywhere anytime.

Oh for cryin' out loud, Fuck Michael Jackson!

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 2 September 2004 00:11 (nineteen years ago) link

biliousness

Thea (Thea), Thursday, 2 September 2004 00:13 (nineteen years ago) link

Sorry, Alex, I ain't jacking in some of the best music memories ever I had while growing up.

Thea isn't creepy or bilious. Sure, she hangs around in belfreys and keeps talking about the blood of the living, but who doesn't?

Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 2 September 2004 00:13 (nineteen years ago) link

>Any similarity between Hole and Nirvana prolly comes from them working in roughly similar styles of music and the fact of Cobain and Love being married.<

I wonder if they combined their album collections? Or kept them in separate rooms. (Kurt's was more indie '80s pigfuck and Courtney's more major-label '80s modern rock, from what little I've read. I bet Curt would be real pissed if Courtney mis-filed his Flipper album!)

chuck, Thursday, 2 September 2004 00:15 (nineteen years ago) link


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