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HMV in Londonn has a quad vinyl copy of 'high on you' going for £8.99 - i think they have japanese import CDs of the same album going for £££s....

why are these late-mid period Sly CDs out of print, and his last coupla albums relatively easy to track down now??

stevie (stevie), Tuesday, 25 March 2003 10:02 (twenty-three years ago)

I still really like A Whole New Thing, about half of it is just brilliant poppy psychedelic funk that I can't resist. I guess Stand! is my favourite album, but Greatest Hits (the one from 69 with the car and multiple 'echo' images of the band on the cover) is my favourite record of theirs, the one that gets played most.

Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Tuesday, 25 March 2003 10:11 (twenty-three years ago)

Also search: Joe Hicks' "Life & Death In G & A," and Little Sister's "You're the One" and "Somebody's Watching You"--all written & produced by Sly, and awesome.

Plus, from the late records, the aforementioned "Crossword Puzzle," the title track of "Small Talk," "Same Thing (Makes You Laugh, Makes You Cry"), "Loose Booty." And from one of the early ones, "Advice."

Douglas (Douglas), Tuesday, 25 March 2003 11:30 (twenty-three years ago)

"High On You" is a great record, it's actually one of my favourite Sly albums. "Small Talk" is pretty good too but look at the sleeve with Sly lying bombed out on his bed - I think that sums up that album pretty well that and the track "Can't Strain My Brain"! I'm even rather partial to Side One of "Heard Ya Missed Me, Well I'm Back". Haven't heard any of the later ones. In contrast, a lot of the early Sly albums are kind of irritating - there's a kind of constant musical and lyrical fixed grin going on which is a trifle wearying.

Dadaismus, Tuesday, 25 March 2003 12:14 (twenty-three years ago)

Is that Joe Hicks song the same track that the Chairmen of the Board do as the centerpiece of their Skin I'm In record?

Naive Teen Idol (Naive Teen Idol), Tuesday, 25 March 2003 16:57 (twenty-three years ago)

Destroy: the album he did with George Clinton in the 80s. I can't remember what it was called, but it was a bitter disappointment!

M Carty (mj_c), Wednesday, 26 March 2003 10:01 (twenty-three years ago)

Matthew--yes it is. It was also covered by somebody called Abaco Dream, in a much more rock style...

Douglas (Douglas), Wednesday, 26 March 2003 12:22 (twenty-three years ago)

two years pass...
for someone who's been so universally adored + copied/imitated over the years, I am shocked and depressed at the lack of actual documentation of his music out there. There is no Sly Stone Songbook, almost no tabs/transcriptions (that I can find) on the internet, no sheet music, no comprehensive overview of his working methods or gear, etc. Compared to people like the Beatles and Zeppelin et al this seems criminally wrong to me.

(Plus I really want to know what the fucking chords in Family Affair are).

Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 17 May 2005 21:53 (twenty-one years ago)

theres singnificantly less books/documentation about soul artists in general though, shakey.

i rate his albums like this:
riot
stand
whole new thing
fresh
dance to the music/life

i like the others in the 70s but his songwriting was going down the pan a bit, already.

ppp, Tuesday, 17 May 2005 21:56 (twenty-one years ago)

well on the bio end at least there is the "Off The Record" book, which is fucking unbelievable. Probably the best rock n roll bio of its kind (yes, miles better than Please Kill Me and We've Got the Neutron Bomb). Would make such a great movie, but it'll never happen...

Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 17 May 2005 22:00 (twenty-one years ago)

D: Ain't But the One Way, the embarrassingly bad record from '81 or so (not the Clinton collab). The only listenable song on it is "Ha Ha, Hee Hee, and Sly's so out of tune he's nearly pushed out of that song altogether. Insipid new material, a pointless cover of "You Really Got Me," and a theft of Nikki Giovanni's poetry for "We Can Do It."

S: "Underdog," a song I love to kick a mixtape off with.

Joseph McCombs (Joseph McCombs), Wednesday, 18 May 2005 00:41 (twenty-one years ago)

Shakey,
I remember reading somebody's website several years ago and they had visited Sly at his house (actually I think an apartment) and saw him working on new tracks. Evidently he continues to record stuff all of the time. The person mentioned that he would record tons of tracks and then play the mutes rhythmically to create an arrangement by letting certain parts peek through which I thought was interesting. I also seem to recall reading that he used a Flickinger console in the '70s so that's probably what Riot was recorded on.

walter kranz (walterkranz), Wednesday, 18 May 2005 00:58 (twenty-one years ago)

Destroy: the album he did with George Clinton in the 80s. I can't remember what it was called, but it was a bitter disappointment!

Presumably this isn't referring to the Electric Spanking of War Babies. The tracks from that album that Sly collaborated on are brilliant!

walter kranz (walterkranz), Wednesday, 18 May 2005 01:01 (twenty-one years ago)

There is no Sly Stone Songbook, almost no tabs/transcriptions (that I can find) on the internet, no sheet music, no comprehensive overview of his working methods or gear, etc. Compared to people like the Beatles and Zeppelin et al this seems criminally wrong to me.

(Plus I really want to know what the fucking chords in Family Affair are).


Shakey Mo, do ya know what I own? The "Riot" SONGBOOK, with all 'em in it. I can't believe I ever found this, but I do have it, and if you want the chords to any of the songs, be glad to e-mail them to you, make copies and regular mail them, whatever. ("Family Affair" is actually quite simple!)

edd s hurt (ddduncan), Wednesday, 18 May 2005 01:08 (twenty-one years ago)

"Ha Ha, Hee Hee, and Sly's so out of tune he's nearly pushed out of that song altogether.

the lack of a closing quotation mark here had me thinking that sly had recorded a song entitled ""ha ha, hee hee, and sly's so out of tune he's nearly pushed out of that song altogether"

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Wednesday, 18 May 2005 01:59 (twenty-one years ago)

well on the bio end at least there is the "Off The Record" book, which is fucking unbelievable. Probably the best rock n roll bio of its kind (yes, miles better than Please Kill Me and We've Got the Neutron Bomb). Would make such a great movie, but it'll never happen...

is out of print too, and fucking hard to track down.

stevie (stevie), Wednesday, 18 May 2005 08:11 (twenty-one years ago)

sly might be working on new material, but something tells me its going to be a big Dud. if he ever finishes it or peeks out his homemade crack den, that is. its probably all dated 80s-styled robo funk. i hope he proves me wrong.

ppp, Wednesday, 18 May 2005 12:42 (twenty-one years ago)

"dated 80s-styled robo funk"

yeah. no market for that.

peter smith (plsmith), Wednesday, 18 May 2005 12:50 (twenty-one years ago)

the perfect sly album would be a 50 minute take of 'babies makin babies'

stevie (stevie), Wednesday, 18 May 2005 13:30 (twenty-one years ago)

"do ya know what I own? The "Riot" SONGBOOK, with all 'em in it. "

ILM, I KISS YOU!

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 18 May 2005 15:30 (twenty-one years ago)

Off the Record — a chapter about Sly? Or all about him? I feel like I've heard of it, but I can't remember...

Naive Teen Idol (Naive Teen Idol), Wednesday, 18 May 2005 15:44 (twenty-one years ago)

i have various excerpts from off the record if anyone wants them. i can even cut and paste them here!

ppp, Wednesday, 18 May 2005 15:45 (twenty-one years ago)

I actually brought the Off the Record book w/me today... it's a bio covering Sly and the Family Stone up through '74 or so, constructed entirely of first-hand quotes and interviews (the only relevant person who didn't contribute is, of course, Sly himself.) It's unbelievable.

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 18 May 2005 15:50 (twenty-one years ago)

the p-funk one is amazing too.

ppp, Wednesday, 18 May 2005 15:52 (twenty-one years ago)

cast of characters:
Jerry Martini
Larry Graham
Freddie Stewart
Cynthia Robinson
Rose Stewart
Sly's parents and siblings
Hamp "Bubba" Banks
Dave Kapralik
Stephani Owens
Bobby Womack
Stephen Paley
Ken Roberts
Pat Rizzo
Rusty Allen
Clive Davis
Vernon "Moose" Constan

many others...

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 18 May 2005 15:53 (twenty-one years ago)

"I tried to kill myself severral times. The intensity of my relationship with Sylvester Stewart and Sly Stone was unbearable for me, this disintegrating relationship. No one would touch Sly. My lawyer, Peter Bennett, had suggested I bring in Ken Roberts, who promoted Madison Square Garden and other gigs that were trouble but successful. I knew that if I continued I would be dead. I turned over the management to him, so I could live. I had no choice but to die or make a paradigm shift. I recall going in on my knees before Sly, engulfed in tears, imploring him, begging him to let me go, so I could live. I was doing so much cocaine. I was in so much pain, confusion." - Dave Kapralik

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 18 May 2005 15:56 (twenty-one years ago)

"I remember Sly and I going over to CBS Records and the executive saying to us, "This is what you should listen to." They gave us some shit and Sly threw it down and he looked at me and said "Okay, I'll give them something." And that is when he took off with his formula style. He hated it. He just did it to sell records. The whole album was called Dance to Music, dance to the medley, dance to the shmedley. It was so unhip to us. The beats were glorified Motown beats. We had been doing something different, but those beats weren't going over. So we did the formula thing. The rest is history and he continued in his formula style." - Jerry Martini

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 18 May 2005 15:59 (twenty-one years ago)

Wait — I think I read this some years back. And yeah, some of the quotes and the stories about his dogs were positively frightening.

Naive Teen Idol (Naive Teen Idol), Wednesday, 18 May 2005 16:00 (twenty-one years ago)

there was a lot of press when it came out - I remember the Bay Guardian ran lengthy excerpts of it.

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 18 May 2005 16:02 (twenty-one years ago)

the stuff about the monkey or baboon and the dog in sly's house was horrid but oddly fascinating.

ppp, Wednesday, 18 May 2005 16:20 (twenty-one years ago)

"He had these two big old peacocks, and if you came out of there at night fucked up, forget it. These two peacocks would attack you. You coming outta there and they just fly off the roof. Big old peacocks. These things would fly down on you. That would freak you out because you would come out of there totally spaced, saying where are these fucking peacocks, motherfucker, because you knew they were out there." - Bobby Womack

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 18 May 2005 16:25 (twenty-one years ago)

"Gun the pit bull was, unfortunately, just as schizophrenic as the adults in the house that he moved into. Gun was just too far inbred. Gun was a stone nut. We saw Gun attack other dogs and that was bad enough. You would have to get the hose and brooms. He would attack anything that had a hat on. Men would come in with hats and Gun was on them." -- Kitsaun King

Joseph McCombs (Joseph McCombs), Thursday, 19 May 2005 04:07 (twenty-one years ago)

< pedant >

The series is called For the Record, not Off the Record.

< /pedant >

Joseph McCombs (Joseph McCombs), Thursday, 19 May 2005 04:08 (twenty-one years ago)

this looks interesting...

http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/1841955914/qid=1116503480/sr=1-3/ref=sr_1_8_3/026-8727259-6275608

stevie (stevie), Thursday, 19 May 2005 10:52 (twenty-one years ago)

weird, theyve changed that book. before it was just a straightforward biog of clinton by lloyd bradley. that new cover is wank.

ppp, Thursday, 19 May 2005 11:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Search: Life (probably the most under-rated Sly LP, and just an all around under-rated rock LP; I'd match it up with anything from the time period), Greatest Hits (duh), There's A Riot (duh again), Fresh, Small Talk, and High On You (last two are presently only in print on vinyl in North America, High is the first non-Family Stone Sly record).

Destroy: Dance to the Music. I agree with Shakey: aside from the singles, this album doesn't really do anything for me. I haven't heard the post-High Epic/Warner Bros LPs, so I can't comment on 'em.

Vic Funk, Thursday, 19 May 2005 11:54 (twenty-one years ago)

The story in Mojo a coupla years back on the making of RIOT is a high freak point in music journalism. I think Bradley was the author.

JayBabcock (jabbercocky), Thursday, 19 May 2005 16:31 (twenty-one years ago)

The last I heard of Sly was on the Axiom Funk record. He was credited with "voices & noises" on the song that Bobby Byrd sings. It's dreadful. I guess that was around 1995 or so.
Little appreciated is "I Heard Ya Missed Me, Well I'm Back". There are a couple of decent (albeit bizzare) tracks on that one: "Mother is a Hippie" etc...

Sparkle Motion's Rising Force (Sparkle Motion's Rising Force), Thursday, 19 May 2005 16:52 (twenty-one years ago)

The whole album was called Dance to Music, dance to the medley, dance to the shmedley. It was so unhip to us. The beats were glorified Motown beats. We had been doing something different, but those beats weren't going over. So we did the formula thing. The rest is history and he continued in his formula style." - Jerry Martini

WTF does this even mean? I can understand if they weren't actually that into the four-on-the-snare Motown beats because they wanted to be doing funk, but to suggest that Sly had some other, hipper style in mind that he never got around to playing is such bullshit.

Jordan (Jordan), Thursday, 19 May 2005 17:00 (twenty-one years ago)

I don't think so - he's referring to what they were doing live and on the first album, which is really pretty different (and much less repetitive and one-note) than Dance to the Music.

Shakey Mo Collier, Thursday, 19 May 2005 17:47 (twenty-one years ago)

and of course A Whole New Thing is out of print and never issued on CD, so most people don't even know it exists (not saying this is necessarily the case w/you Jordan - just pointing out yet another pointless injustice re: Sly's legacy).

Shakey Mo Collier, Thursday, 19 May 2005 17:52 (twenty-one years ago)

Ummm…

Naive Teen Idol (Naive Teen Idol), Thursday, 19 May 2005 18:11 (twenty-one years ago)

well shut my mouth.

Shakey Mo Collier, Thursday, 19 May 2005 18:14 (twenty-one years ago)

I guess when I first started looking for it (early 90s) it wasn't available on CD, and until to now I'd never seen a CD copy of it anywhere.

Shakey Mo Collier, Thursday, 19 May 2005 18:16 (twenty-one years ago)

Well, regardless — your underlying point about his legacy is OTM. Of course, he didn't do much to help himself by becoming a drug-addled monster.

Naive Teen Idol (Naive Teen Idol), Thursday, 19 May 2005 18:18 (twenty-one years ago)

oddly, searching thru Amazon it looks like everything post-Fresh is not available on CD in the US (import only).

Shakey Mo Collier, Thursday, 19 May 2005 18:22 (twenty-one years ago)

I have seen Ain't But the One Way on CD several times at Newbury Comics in Boston. Don't think it was an import, though it was unusually expensive. Haven't seen the other post-Fresh stuff, though.

Joseph McCombs (Joseph McCombs), Thursday, 19 May 2005 18:26 (twenty-one years ago)

The only thing I was able to find (and I think it went out of print shortly thereafter) was a Charley reissue of 1979's Back On the Right Track called Remember Who You Are. Small Talk, High On You, and Heard Ya Missed Me... are all import-only. Of course, however much I enjoy a lot of Small Talk, High On You and Back On the Right Track, none qualify exactly as "essential."

Naive Teen Idol (Naive Teen Idol), Thursday, 19 May 2005 18:33 (twenty-one years ago)

Actually, I HAVEN'T heard A Whole New Thing. I love Sly but for some reason I never really dug deep like I did with JB and similar things.

Jordan (Jordan), Thursday, 19 May 2005 18:45 (twenty-one years ago)

This is an Amazon review of Ain't But the One Way that has some pretty interesting tidbits — has anyone ever heard the unedited, side-long version of "Funk Gets Stronger"?

The True Story Behind This Album, August 20, 2004
Reviewer: obi odobi (Washington, D.C.) - See all my reviews

Since no one has really gotten into it here, I thought I'd write and clarify the circumstances of this recording for all of the Sly freaks, funk freaks, and other potentially-interested buyers.

By 1976, Sly's career was at an extremely low point. He hadn't had a significant commercial hit in years, he had lost his management, the original Family Stone was long gone, Sly's drug problems were apparently getting the best of him, and former bassist Larry Graham was putting Sly to shame (on record and in concert) with his more funky, pop, and upbeat version of the original Family Stone formula with his band Graham Central Station. In fact, Sly was struggling so much at this time that he actually toured (in support of his attempt at Philly International soul "Heard Ya Missed Me, Now I'm Back") as an opening act for the famous P-Funk Earth Tour in late 1976. It was a sad irony to see Sly opening for two bands (P-Funk and Bootsy's Rubber Band) that had been so inspired by HIM in the first place. At the end of tour, in fact, two of Sly's backup singers (one of which was his cousin) defected and joined P-Funk where they later recorded as The Brides of Funkenstein.

Sly dropped out of visibility, surfacing two years later in 1978 when he had left Epic and signed to Warner Brothers, and began working on his latest in a series of "comeback" LPs, "Back On the Right Track." Opinions are varied on the musical quality of this album (I think there are some great songs on there, but nothing resembling a chart hit) but commercially, it fared poorly. That must have hurt Sly after all the comeback hype. I don't think he even toured in support of the album. And I remember seeing Sly on the Mike Douglas show at this time. He was dispirited and so out of it on drugs that he could barely speak. Mike and the other guests just stared at him in disbelief.

He dropped out of sight again until around 1980, when word was that Sly was now in George Clinton's camp. The plan was for Sly to guest on some P-Funk releases, and for Clinton to produce (or co-produce) Sly's next album for Warners. This made sense, since Sly and Clinton were label mates at Warners (via Funkadelic and Bootsy). Clinton was talking the Sly project up in the press, Sly made cameo appearances during P-Funk's 1981 tour, and he and original Family Stone trumpeter Cynthia Robinson are on two versions of "Funk Gets Stronger" from Funkadelic's summer 1981 LP "The Electric Spanking of War Babies." Supposedly, the original version took up an entire side of a projected double album, but was later edited down. Personally, I love these tracks but objectively, they sound as if the main priority in the studio that day was getting extremely high, there happened to be a few instruments laying about, and the tape recorder was running. The same can be said for most of the Sly/P-Funk collaborations, the most significant of which is the P-Funk All Stars' 3-part "Hydraulic Pump" 12-inch (the complete version is available on the P-Funk All-Stars CD "Hydraulic Funk"). Like a lot of Sly's material with P-Funk (which is spread out over several releases), it sounds like they were trying to take a little bit of music and make a lot of out of it.

By late 1981, Clinton had become involved in a bitter dispute with Warners, with the end result that Funkadelic left Warners (they haven't released an album under the Funkadelic name since then). That also threw a wrench into the Sly project, which hadn't yet been completed. And supposedly, Sly just vanished, leaving the album unfinished. Warners brought producer Stewart Levine in to salvage and complete the project, and the album was released two years later in the spring of 1983 with the title "Ain't But the One Way." The cover photo (with Sly jumping over a fence wearing camouflage pants) dated back 5 years to the "Back On the Right Track" photo sessions. Sly must have been long gone if they couldn't even get an up-to-date photo for the cover of his album!

If you look at the album's personnel listing, you will see the names of many original Family Stone members, and also the names of many studio session players. That suggests that the basic tracks were cut with Sly, Clinton, the Family Stone (maybe augmented by some players from P-Funk), and that the project was completed later with Levine and the studio musicians. That's probably why the album has a glossy, generic sound to it. If you listen closely, you can hear traces of the Sly/Clinton approach underneath, especially in Sly's lyrics, singing attitude, and electric piano playing. If you want to compare the two approaches, listen to the demo version of "Who In the Funk Do You Think You Are" from the first volume of George Clinton's Family Series, and compare it with the Levine-produced version on the "...One Way" album.

As far as the music, it sounds far more inventive and inspired than Sly's previous LP "Back On The Right Track." Hardcore Sly fans know that there is not a single Sly LP without at least a few moments of genius, however fragmentary. If you're sensitive to Sly's musical "codes," you can hear that they had some good ideas going, lyrically and musically. You can hear Sly's stoned wit in good effect. But you can also hear that the ideas were left in a skeletal and incomplete state, and were completed by someone else with a very different production concept. The strongest songs to me are the poignant rehab ballad "Ha Ha Hee Hee," the cover of the Kinks "You Really Got Me," the vignette "Sylvester" (another song seemingly dedicated to Sly's mother), the "I Want to Take You Higher" retread (called "High Y'all"), and a few others.

You have to give Clinton credit for inspiring Sly to break out of the playing-it-safe mold of his recent records and push the envelope here. And Stewart Levine also deserves a bit of credit for achieving a professional sound in the end with what he had to work with.

If they had completed this album with the original team, it would probably have been the strongest and most interesting Sly album in a LONG time. It might have even been a commercial success. But unfortunately, it fell victim to music business chicanery and drug excess. "Ain't But The One Way" turned out to be Sly's de-facto farewell to the music business. He hasn't relased an album since then and for the rest of the 1980s, it seemed like he was in the news for one drug-related offence after another. The funny thing about it is that on the Mike Douglas show I mentioned above, one of the few coherent things I remember Sly saying was - and this is a quote as best I can remember - "I'm gonna release one more album and if it doesn't go platinum - BYE Y'ALL..."

Naive Teen Idol (Naive Teen Idol), Thursday, 19 May 2005 19:10 (twenty-one years ago)

feel like it would have been better if he had just come out and said something, rather than making a bunch of florid insinuations?

Or he could have just, like, not written the article.

Flattening to the point of misrepresentation the lives and art of 2 artists who need no introduction and in service of an idea that eluded him anyway? ugh
Is he even a fan of either?

doe on a hill (Deflatormouse), Friday, 13 June 2025 18:38 (eleven months ago)

Most of the time i was reading that i was thinking “yes, i know who Sly Stone/Brian Wilson is tyvm” and the small remainder of the time “wait, that’s it?? Where’s the rest of the article?”

doe on a hill (Deflatormouse), Friday, 13 June 2025 18:50 (eleven months ago)

He really needs an editor to strip his prose down to the Terminator skeleton within.

So not worth it, just hire rushomancy to write it instead

doe on a hill (Deflatormouse), Friday, 13 June 2025 18:54 (eleven months ago)

One thing the two deaths got me thinking about was what reference points anyone under, say, 40 has for either of them. I'm sure the Beach Boys are more culturally present than Sly and the Family Stone, though I'm not sure what the vectors of that have been. (Supposedly a Fox News anchor said "Kokomo" is the song she'll remember the Beach Boys by lol.) For Sly, I don't even know. As relatively big as they were at the time, I don't feel like they've ever been much of a presence on, like, oldies radio. Maybe younger folks have some reason to know "Everyday People"? I just don't know where or how anyone is encountering Sly these days.

paper plans (tipsy mothra), Friday, 13 June 2025 19:08 (eleven months ago)

through samples, I assume

sleeve, Friday, 13 June 2025 19:10 (eleven months ago)

"Everyday People" has been in a ton of commercials. (IIRC, after a point wasn't Sly's publishing controlled by Michael Jackson?)

Lithium Just Madison (C. Grisso/McCain), Friday, 13 June 2025 19:17 (eleven months ago)

They always loom large in the Woodstock mythos as well.

Lithium Just Madison (C. Grisso/McCain), Friday, 13 June 2025 19:20 (eleven months ago)

They always loom large in the Woodstock mythos as well.

He said under 40. Nobody under 40 gives a fuck about Woodstock. Hell, I'm 53 and I don't give a fuck about Woodstock.

Instead of create and send out, it pull back and consume (unperson), Friday, 13 June 2025 19:25 (eleven months ago)

Hippie kids are eternal, bruv.

Lithium Just Madison (C. Grisso/McCain), Friday, 13 June 2025 19:27 (eleven months ago)

snoopy is big with gen z, bound to be some residual woodstock love

petey, pablo & mary (m bison), Friday, 13 June 2025 19:28 (eleven months ago)

dance to the music was in shrek. it always comes back to shrek.

gestures broadly at...everything (voodoo chili), Friday, 13 June 2025 19:44 (eleven months ago)

If anything, I'd say that in a strange way Sly gets more "credit" from critics for his downfall than Brian? Almost as if it were an orchestrated crash, or a reasonable reaction to an unreasonable culture? I could be drawing a lot from the portrayal in Mystery Train, which mentions Stagger Lee repeatedly but avoids the topic of drugs.

Halfway there but for you, Friday, 13 June 2025 20:07 (eleven months ago)

So not worth it, just hire rushomancy to write it instead

― doe on a hill (Deflatormouse)

lol i'd love to get paid for something, that's mostly on me tho

here's what i wrote in the brian wilson thread, re: the idea of brian wilson having a third act "redemption" and sly stone not:

the idea of "redemption" is a difficult one for me. a lot of it is privilege. this doesn't invalidate what brian wilson did or make it any less... i mean i did tear up hearing elton john say "you gotta be tough to survive what he's been through", on the page that looks trite, but the way he said it, it meant something. it's really good to see that he's recognized and valued for the work he's put in.

the tragedy, for me, of sly stone is that he wrote "you can make it if you try", and he meant it, and he did try, and did he make it? i don't know. the world isn't fair or just. and yes, he did also run away. our lives aren't one or the other. i don't place any blame or value judgement on either of them, sly for not getting a "redemption arc" or brian for having the privilege he did.

to expand a little:

i don't think either of them needed to be "redeemed", for what it's worth. i think they both had hard times, and they both deserved to be cared for more than they often were. with melinda, i feel like brian got that. i don't get the sense that sly ever really got that. was sly being black, a member of a marginalized, comparatively underresourced group part of that? of course it fucking was! all you have to do is look at the history of Black Americans in popular music. look at Arthur Lee. (how many lives were ruined by that fucking three strikes law?) Look at Marvin Gaye. American Black musicians, just like _all_ Black Americans, go through shit that white people like Brian Wilson just _didn't_. At the same time, that's not ABOUT Brian Wilson, and it doesn't help to MAKE it about Brian Wilson. I _do_ think it's super fucked up, and it's at least important to me to point out that there _is_ a double standard, that Black Americans have to deal with a _lot_ of fucked up shit that doesn't necessarily get seen or acknowledged.

my take on "privilege", speaking as a white cis-passing woman who has absolute _loads_ of privilege, is this: it's not that people like brian wilson deserved _less_. it's that people like sly stone deserved _more_.

Kate (rushomancy), Friday, 13 June 2025 20:17 (eleven months ago)

Hendrix performance of the SSB at Woodstock is kinda the thing that will be around 100 years from now. Not sure anything else really matters or will last from the event

calstars, Friday, 13 June 2025 20:46 (eleven months ago)

Arlo Guthrie rappin' to the fuzz?!?

Halfway there but for you, Friday, 13 June 2025 20:48 (eleven months ago)

xp i think the "redemption" arc stuff is partly about our sick (lol not really) need for narrative, to encapsulate our own lives and others, especially famous ppl like artists and musicians. i think most lives are too messy to be collapsed into the kind of narratives we're used to hearing, like in the Brian Wilson mould, even from sometimes extraordinarily sensitive writers or even posters. the other side of it is the weird entitlement that comes out of rock crit and fandom, this feeling that it must be a tragedy if somebody walks away from it all, we are owed a reunion tour, we are owed a farewell album and a farewell concert, that kind of thing. i'm not saying that with sly it was all his volition, but i think there's a tendency to invest our own disappointment into the arc of the story instead of just admitting that there's a lot we don't know and maybe might never know

budo jeru, Friday, 13 June 2025 23:37 (eleven months ago)

what i'm saying is, we must imagine Sly happy

budo jeru, Friday, 13 June 2025 23:38 (eleven months ago)

(no, not really)

budo jeru, Friday, 13 June 2025 23:41 (eleven months ago)

the Vulture is what tis, copy for the day. you would never compare them otherwise

Arthur Lee maybe

(p.s. i should buy and fly the Riot and One Nation flags)

llurk, Friday, 13 June 2025 23:51 (eleven months ago)

The redemption arc just comes from watching too many vh1 specials when you were younger

calstars, Saturday, 14 June 2025 00:05 (eleven months ago)

yeah

like point is not lost on me, but i never (at least in my adulthood) got the sense that Sly was looked on as anything BUT a genius
and all of his false-start comebacks were pretty emotional for critical onlookers, at least to me

and maybe i am straying from the point mightily but critics discount familial/personal redemption for these artists but i mean jesus Sly connected w his kids and grandkids in his 70’s in a way he ~never~ got to be in what, 30 years

like that shit counts too

and the Landy of it all (re:Wilson) muddies the waters in terms of the way Wilson retreated and for how long and how Wilson was re-received back into performing, like there’s a whole completely different layer of stuff going on there that is just not at all 1:1

werewolves of laudanum (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 June 2025 01:09 (eleven months ago)

when I’m in the car with the fam and any of the GH comes on

calstars, Saturday, 14 June 2025 01:17 (eleven months ago)

i think the "redemption" arc stuff is partly about our sick (lol not really) need for narrative, to encapsulate our own lives and others, especially famous ppl like artists and musicians

This reminds me of an odd novel I read last year, Glimpses by Lewis Shiner, where in the late 80s a guy manifests the ability to "fix" unsatisfactory 60s rock records, eventually time travelling to help complete Smile and Celebration of the Lizard, but failing to save Jimi Hendrix; all tied, of course, to his feelings about his own life and family.

the weird entitlement that comes out of rock crit and fandom, this feeling that it must be a tragedy if somebody walks away from it all, we are owed a reunion tour, we are owed a farewell album and a farewell concert, that kind of thing

I don't know that people would feel badly if Sly had ended up painting for the last 35 years like Grace Slick did; it's the weird pathos of his not-quite comebacks, the feeling that he was (or maybe people around him were) actually trying to achieve something...or he wanted to appear to be trying for a moment, only to disappoint?

Halfway there but for you, Saturday, 14 June 2025 03:24 (eleven months ago)

Digging thru the “Higher!” deluxe set

loving these:
Whats That Got To Do With me
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1QGUWCOYGZc

and this version of Fortune & Fame
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UK_f8qBe_Bw

werewolves of laudanum (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 June 2025 23:05 (eleven months ago)

these are great

budo jeru, Sunday, 15 June 2025 02:03 (eleven months ago)

Live Rockpalast Episode from 1970

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7c2EbTSqtGg

Lithium Just Madison (C. Grisso/McCain), Monday, 16 June 2025 20:06 (eleven months ago)

Only sly could pull off that white crochet hat

calstars, Monday, 16 June 2025 20:20 (eleven months ago)

Wish they could remix the sound, the balance is all over the place - I can barely hear Cynthia on "Everyday People." A shame because aside from Woodstock, I rarely see any film footage of entire performances from this era, everything else tends to be standard def broadcast recordings.

birdistheword, Monday, 16 June 2025 21:04 (eleven months ago)

Only sly could pull off that white crochet hat

https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71Vd3bQMOsL._UF1000,1000_QL80_DpWeblab_.jpg

Naive Teen Idol, Thursday, 19 June 2025 04:56 (eleven months ago)


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