This time it is real, Bela fleck is being rejected totally by me because

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My last post tonight before I retire.
Bela has an insipid personality.
He is much like most media personalties, void of depth and independent artistic interests.
Bela Fleck is part of the drone of vapid, mindless, and vacuous people who claim their art is the ultimate experience.
Bela fleck feels that Bluegrass fusion is the ultimate artform.
His personality is tedious, and with trepidation and fear he cowers as the "people" hover over him with their ideas. Bela gives in to them.
He is clearly an invertebrate species of musician. Invertebrates are conformist cowards and clones who cling to conformity for safety.

― marissa -marchant, Saturday, 13 August 2005 00:04 (eighteen years ago) link

Yeah, but why won't you come out to the club with me?

― Forksclovetofu (Forksclovetofu), Saturday, 13 August 2005 03:49 (eighteen years ago) link

N/A
this is what bela posted in his I don't care posts;

Marissa, the film Bartleby, in which Crispin stars, is excruciatingly inept. I don't mean to rain on you parade but rather to steer you into some type of dialectic whereby you may begin to think your way out of these stultifying seas of obsession, into clearer waters where you may compose more music.

He insults Crispin because Crispin played in a movie that wasn't good. But Crispin was good in it.
He sounded so jealous for a man who is dating someone who plays music like she is falling off a log.
Bela prefers women who can't accomplish difficult tasks, then he calls me crazy on the net over and over to hide his attitudes of bigotry.
Bela has a girlfriend in a bluegrass band, and he worships Bluegrass.
Predictable. I knew he wouldn't have the nerve to talk to me or date me.
He is a very predictable bigot, and liar.

― marissa -marchant, Saturday, 13 August 2005 13:12 (eighteen years ago) link

men who call women crazy if they are independent and able to perform difficult tasks are men who are bigots.
Bela Fleck is a Bigot.
His mind can only handle the same types of women, women who can't perform difficult tasks.
what a creepazoid.
F, I don't want what you want.
Bela is a typical self-absorbed and predictable male, with a very standard and basic mind.
I have numbers of pieces of music I am doing at the same time.
I play and write and arrange everyday. But I have to pack and clean.
It gets hard when no one is there being supportive of what I do everyday and no one is there to play any of the instruments.
I love real drums. The sound of real drums is something I love.
I love bass too, but drums are something that seem irreplacable.
I am not impressed with digital drums.
It is not futuristic as Bela says, it is less then evolved.
the kurzweil has its benefits and it is much better to find real musicians.
Bela is completely and totally wrong for me. He was extremely unsupportive of me as an artists when I was supportive of him, then calls me crazy for being ticked off that these men are supporting women, not to mention good singers.
Bela Fleck is a waste of time.
I love music, but I also love acting and humor, dance etc..

― marissa -marchant, Saturday, 13 August 2005 13:19 (eighteen years ago) link

i mean that these men are NOt supportive of women who can perform difficult tasks.
These people seem empty headed. His inanimate performances smack of lackluster personality disorder, tells the story of why Bela's libido is no more, or has never existed.
I truly believe that this award winner can't dance on the dancefloor. I am convinced that Bela could not boogie down in any creative woman. He is an endomorphic, I am an ecdomorphic. Eco's are always the more sensitive the artist. It is all in the chemistry of why endo Bela is not interested in Ecto Marissa. spelling?
bela is into Jam sessions, and he finesse on the bango would be an inkling of how Bela relates as a lover. jam it out. Bela in the bed would be like a Jam Sesson. No romance, no sensitive and he would the female, woman.
Bela seldom makes love to his instrument.
He is a flatout jam and slam it musician.
No interest in beauty.
It all happened when Bela started emulating other grass players chewing their cud.

― marissa -marchant, Saturday, 13 August 2005 13:30 (eighteen years ago) link

I should have edited that last message but I have to pack, clean and play and sing. bye now.

― marissa -marchant, Saturday, 13 August 2005 13:33 (eighteen years ago) link

My friend just sent me another 40 dollars.
He sends this money very often.
He is a middle class man.
Not romantically involved with me.
He is a good writer.

I am not asking for his help. It is interesting that Bela Fleck is well off and arrogant and has the nerve not to be supportive of my talent and then come on here abusing me by implying that I need professional help. Bela Fleck is an abuser. He is a selfish man.
I resent people with money who come on my site looking for free downloads and can't even be kind, sweet or supportive.
He is a really selfish man.
all these posts that were about how bela is nice were from his people.
I contacted them and made them aware of the thread I have here.
Then they come on here in numbers, talking about how I am insane. Bela is jealous of Crispin's talent and I think he is jealous of others and unsupportive.

― marissa marchant-, Saturday, 13 August 2005 16:03 (eighteen years ago) link

what a beautiful day it was, I was sleeping in bed with the cat, but she is the neighbors cat. she visits me.
I love cats. I am not physically attracted to Crispin Glover. I am not sure if he is a genius.
He poses with women who look very flashy and seedy looking.
He takes photos that look a bit lude.
I am not sure of him.
I am not in the hollywood crowd. and I am not sure Peter O'toole as an actor. I saw a great french film about a female sculture. I saw a great film with another obscure actress. Hollywood is not where it is at in my mind.
I am not majorly interested or obsessed with Glover, just interested in the way he thinks. but I don't know enough about him to go ga ga over him and his photos don't make me feel warm and fuzzy inside.
I don't feel like grabbing him and kissing him.
The media is a real turn off to me.
To me, all these people are a real turn off. They seem seedy, dirty, not really people you could trust.
I don't give two flips about any of these men.
I like humor, and enjoy being entertained, but other then that, I don't feel inclined to grab comedians and get it down with them.
they are like the court gesture.

― marissa -marchant, Saturday, 13 August 2005 19:14 (eighteen years ago) link

― marissa -marchant-, Saturday, 13 August 2005 19:14 (eighteen years ago) link

there's a thing called google fight.
it pits one person against another by measuring the number of google hits for their name.
i tried it with marissa marchant and bela fleck.
bela won.
i am sorry, marissa.
but i'm sure you realize that this does not reflect in any way on your talent.
it is just two stick figures fighting.

― Momus (Momus), Saturday, 13 August 2005 19:23 (eighteen years ago) link

Bela Fleck is a two ton man-mountain who could palm a medicine ball. He once punched a hole in a cow just to see who was coming up the road. He taught me how to make love to a woman, and how to scold a child.
-- Pleasant Plains /// (pleasant.plain...), August 12th, 2005.

this was a great comment, genius of wit, thankyou Pleasant Plains. CG?

― marissa -marchant, Saturday, 13 August 2005 22:42 (eighteen years ago) link

Look up won means nothing.

― marissa -marchant, Saturday, 13 August 2005 22:43 (eighteen years ago) link

too bad crispin is taken.
He has the wit of something that I deal with. NO a bad looking man.
But I am so sick of men, right now, all of them don't look appealing.
Sorry. I am not very positive about men. If CG stopped in. I am sorry, I do think you are cool. Nothing wrong with your looks.

― marissa -marchant, Saturday, 13 August 2005 22:52 (eighteen years ago) link

As yet this thread does not come up on the first google page for a search for Bela Fleck. I trust this will change with time, though.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Saturday, 13 August 2005 23:11 (eighteen years ago) link

too bad crispin is taken.

By whom?!!

― joseph cotten (joseph cotten), Saturday, 13 August 2005 23:50 (eighteen years ago) link

By 'what,' surely.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 14 August 2005 00:03 (eighteen years ago) link

you must be fooled. They would never allow this to turn up under one of their artist. they re very in control of what the public sees.
It is not by accident that only good messages show up first in the amazon album reviews. they pay people to promote them, because they don't want any negative comments to show up first. it is unrealistic to think that all these people have no people who would post somewhere ..something that was negative. they have publicists.
They pay many people to make it look like they are perfect people who everyone loves.

― marissa marchant-, Sunday, 14 August 2005 00:05 (eighteen years ago) link

too bad crispin is taken.

I am not sure. I am not into the hollywood gossip.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 00:06 (eighteen years ago) link

― joseph cotten (joseph cotten), Sunday, 14 August 2005 00:29 (eighteen years ago) link

― amon (eman), Sunday, 14 August 2005 00:48 (eighteen years ago) link

who is she?
i AM NOT sure about him, since they claimed he was going out with a porno star too.
He also owns no t.v set which is weird because I have not had a t.v for years.
Is this his girlfriend or a few nights on the town?
who is she?
Who is Crispin? anyone can get someone to pose with them for a few nights.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 00:52 (eighteen years ago) link

I have some photos that are funny, what is the code for posting a photo?

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 00:54 (eighteen years ago) link

anyone can get someone to pose with them for a few nights.

OTM.

x-post

marissa, here you can just put the letter "i" in front of a link to the image file.

― Rockist_Scientist (RSLaRue), Sunday, 14 August 2005 00:56 (eighteen years ago) link

that is a lie. I remembered it. It is Img something or other.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 00:57 (eighteen years ago) link

[img]mydocuments.marissayoyd.jpg[/img]

the photo is so comical I just have to post it.
It is of me. you will really laugh. help me on this one.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 01:02 (eighteen years ago) link

[img]mydocuments/mypictures/marissayoyd.jpeg[/img]

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 01:05 (eighteen years ago) link

"i" mydocuments/mypictures/marissayoyd.jpeg

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 01:06 (eighteen years ago) link

I think it has to begin with "http." It can't go directly to your PC, it has to be something that's up on a server somewhere.

It's not a lie. This board has been set up so you can post images by putting an "i" in front of a link to an image.

Maybe someone else can explain it better, because I don't understand the technical side of it.

But there's no way you will be able to link directly to something in your "My Documents" file. The image file has to be up on a server.

― Rockist_Scientist (RSLaRue), Sunday, 14 August 2005 01:11 (eighteen years ago) link

(When you use the i, don't use quotation marks around it, either.)

Okay, here is an example. Here's a link, right:

http://image.gsfc.nasa.gov/press_release/2000_05_31/aurora_0095.jpg

Now, if you put an i in front of that url, you get the image itself (unless it's too large):

http://image.gsfc.nasa.gov/press_release/2000_05_31/aurora_0095.jpg

― Rockist_Scientist (RSLaRue), Sunday, 14 August 2005 01:12 (eighteen years ago) link

that would make sense, so I have nothing to prove anyway.
I could always email my photos if someone was curious as to what I look like. I am not desperate for attention.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 01:15 (eighteen years ago) link

I have noticed with most celebrities, none of them can admit they are alone.
It is not realistic that all of them always are with someone and in love.
They all make it sound this way. None of them can admit to being lonely. they act like all these attractive people are interested in them.
but in reality, they are paying people to stand and pose with them.
and even if they get someone attractive to go out with them, they don't have anything in common and it is just for show.
I think Crispin is another star concerned about appearances.
It appears this way in many photos.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 01:20 (eighteen years ago) link

Yes in hollywood the veneer is covered with high gloss.
The people are never lonely, never rejected, always desirable, no premature e______.
, they are always with someone, and they are always loved because they are stars.
This is all contrived bullcrap.
No one can buy love with money.
Even if someone has someone interested in them for the wrong reasons ( like fame and popularity) the person can see through this phoniness and the relationship won't last.
When people are truly in love, there is no need to take photos of the situation. I believe in privacy, not a public display of who is on someone's arm.
usually people who are constantly displaying who is on their arms, are the most lonely in reality.
In the real world, no one can buy love and happiness and affection. NOt real affection. It is either real love or it isn't.

― marissa -marchant-, Sunday, 14 August 2005 01:37 (eighteen years ago) link

crispin is another superfical man.
even though the man doesn't own a t.v set and we have this in common and he seem intelligent, if he dates porno stars and he is dating Kristin Kreuk, the man is far from my type.
she isn't writing books, and Kristin doesn't have many interests, and she seems not nearly as intelligent as Crispin. It is interesting that both Bela and Crispin are looking for women 18 years younger then themselves and women who are not that smart.
Crispin doesn't seem like a progressive thinker. Men who are just interested in the outside and looking for women who they can dominate intellectually and otherwise are NOT geniuses.
Crispin doesn't appear to be a real genius.
And either does Bela.
Crispin is probably very talented, but to say he is a genius is probably going too far.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 01:58 (eighteen years ago) link

crispin doesn't seem intelligent if he dates porno stars.
He also doesnt' seem intelligent if he mentioned his favorite musicians and none of them were women. He is much like Bela, sexists, bigotted and looking for women who are 20 years younger then they are.
These men are weird.
I like men who are grow up. Not just older men. I like young men who are not concerned about getting old.

― marissa marchant--, Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:00 (eighteen years ago) link

You seem a bit wound up about something.

― Truckdrivin' Buddha (Rock Hardy), Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:04 (eighteen years ago) link

This all reminds me of that episode where Homer is running around in a circle and everyone laughs but then he keeps running around in a circle and everyone starts to get creeped out.

― polyphonic (polyphonic), Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:09 (eighteen years ago) link

I don't know marissa, I think you are expecting men to behave as though they are just otherworldly, disembodied, intellects, rather than a form of animal. I think it's a bit too idealistic. Maybe I'm just saying that because I'm a man. I really think we are "wired" so that superficial matters of appearance have a great deal of power. (The specifics of what types of superficial matter are going to be mediated through culture.) True, a man could try to resist his own nature, but I think that becomes unhealthy at a certain point.

― Rockist_Scientist (RSLaRue), Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:11 (eighteen years ago) link

I expect what I am.
I don't date people just because of their looks. I don't look at men for their ages, young or old, not really.
I don't care about their status. Men seem so stupid.
I have dated often, and disappointed to date men who are dumb.
they can't think their way out of a paper bag. Crispin is into violence in his books and things that are gross and stupid. He is not a genius, I made a mistake.
He is a pretentious prat and posing as some genius that he isn't. He is a very good actor, a genius actor, I doubt it.
I noticed how pretentious alot of men are, very fake, very immature.
Totally fucked up.
I don't date stupid people, so if crispin suppose to be a genius, why is he dating porno stars?
get real, what a lie.
None of these men are geniuses.
None of them.
Alexa whatever her name is, looks like a man.
I think men are laughably insecure.
Bela Fleck is laughably insecure and no amount of money can help .

― marissa marchant-, Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:22 (eighteen years ago) link

I hardly even know who these people are, to tell you the truth. They are just names in the ether.

― Rockist_Scientist (RSLaRue), Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:24 (eighteen years ago) link

I make a bet Bela's new girlfriend looks like a man.
..as he cowers in fear of calling me on the phone and I am very feminine.
I make a bet his new girlfriend dresses like a man.
Alot of these men go out with women who look like men and they call them knockouts.
they are laughably insecure.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:25 (eighteen years ago) link

Bela is an extremely insecure person.
He has little confidence in himself on stage and can barely talk at all on stage.
I notice that most men that I meet are extremely insecure.
except for very few.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:27 (eighteen years ago) link

why is he extremely insecure? I will tell you. I don't think he had a real marriage to Cindy.
I think it last two years. then he kept his ring on for seven or so.
I am guessing that Bela can barely relate with people at all.
I had met some people who met bela and they got a weird vibe.
every photo is with his cat Animal. Bela had no marriage.
This ficticious bluegrass woman was made up to put me off.
but bela doesn't relate with people.
Just bangos.
His instrument.
He is a low libido type dude.
I am writing music. but I am frustrated with all the men that I meet. NOne of them have a libido.
the only Libido Bela feesl is for his bango.
He isn't attracted to anything more.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:32 (eighteen years ago) link

But high libido in a man will inevitably lead to a certain superficiality in terms of choosing dates...

― joseph cotten (joseph cotten), Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:34 (eighteen years ago) link

It is very true, I have had a very high libido. My interests have always been with extremely beautiful men.
Or just great looking men. I just was very into their face, their eyes, their bod.
....
and their personality...but I was very turned on by the superifical.
where it got me, was in trouble.
The men were inept.
at least so far. they didn'thave a high libido. They had a low libido and most men that I meet have a low libido.
and if they claim anything else, they can't kiss, can';t caress and stink as lovers.
I m a high libido type woman meeting low libido types of men.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:38 (eighteen years ago) link

OK, that's it. I'll sit this one out.

― joseph cotten (joseph cotten), Sunday, 14 August 2005 02:52 (eighteen years ago) link

I am a very high libido type woman and alot men think I am very sexy and good looking.
but the problem they are not looking for good looking, just someone to hang on their arm for show..but when it comes down to the nitty gritty, they are as inept as anything could be.
trouble in the bedroom. they can't perform, they can't make love, and they can't fulfill. all talk ..and when it comes down to passion, the only man I met who was a good kisser, was from a french backround.
Other then that, the men are as passionless as anything could be. Crispin is passionless.
He dates people for show. He writes about violence, not passion.
He is not a romantic. but into rat catching, and violence.
He is probably is '0' in bed.
Bela is probably inept at everything with women, except bango.
that is why he dates bluegrass girls ...if he does, NO PASSION>
Bluegrass is not for the passionate. It is for the low libido crowd.
Nothing sensuous about that music.
bela is also not into anything sensuous,.
WHen he says who cares, he means that he doesn't think about sex, just bango. Most men just put on an act. They are very sterile.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 03:14 (eighteen years ago) link

I would have to blindfold myself to be with crispin, he is not a senusous looking man.

― marissa -marchant, Sunday, 14 August 2005 03:15 (eighteen years ago) link

Bluegrass is not for the passionate. It is for the low libido crowd.

Marissa otm.

― jerginsk (jergins), Sunday, 14 August 2005 05:26 (eighteen years ago) link

Marissa,

Is it true you are going to perform at the Bitter End in NYC tomorrow?
BITTER END

147 Bleecker St. (Thompson St.), 212-673-7030. All shows at 8 & are $5 unless specified. SUN: Mann Made Jam, Marissa Marchant.

― Vg (1411), Sunday, 14 August 2005 05:31 (eighteen years ago) link

where it got me, was in trouble.
The men were inept.
at least so far. they didn'thave a high libido. They had a low libido and most men that I meet have a low libido.
and if they claim anything else, they can't kiss, can';t caress and stink as lovers.
I m a high libido type woman meeting low libido types of men

ok marissa, we have another album here that we think you should listen to:

http://image.allmusic.com/00/amg/cov200/dre300/e334/e334008sif2.jpg

listen to the entire album, then tell us what you think.

― kingfish completely hatstand (Kingfish), Sunday, 14 August 2005 05:39 (eighteen years ago) link

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