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...the end of the bell's of st. mary's...

amateur!!!st (amateurist), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 03:36 (twenty-one years ago)

Watching the movie "Philadelphia" years ago, at night, I was greatly affected by the song they played when Tom Hanks' character passed- it was Neil Young's Philadelphia.
It's a crime that all the attention was given to the vastly inferior "Streets of Philadelphia" instead of the Neil Young track. I've only cried once during a movie (last few minutes of "Schindler's List") but otherwise, that moment in "Philadelphia" is the closest I've come (by far).

I got a flat tire once when mountain biking and the frustration of it coupled with the fact that I had Lou Reed's "The Kids" stuck in my head made me cry. Yes, I didn't even have to hear the song, I just had to think about it and it set me off.

And you can't really blame the flat tire because I've had loads of punctures and nothing like that ever happened.

MindInRewind (Barry Bruner), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 03:51 (twenty-one years ago)

haha i've cried at two movies THIS WEEK

amateur!!!st (amateurist), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 03:54 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm an uncaring bastard most of the time.

MindInRewind (Barry Bruner), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 04:08 (twenty-one years ago)

And I've never been a big movie fan, so movie crying just isn't for me.

MindInRewind (Barry Bruner), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 04:11 (twenty-one years ago)

so ILX is filled with blubbering saps then

Gear! (Gear!), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 04:11 (twenty-one years ago)

WITH PRIDE MOTHERFUCKER

amateur!!!st (amateurist), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 04:12 (twenty-one years ago)

OMG, ILM is an emo haven!

MindInRewind (Barry Bruner), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 04:14 (twenty-one years ago)

Song: The Chipmunks singing "The Longest Time." That's when I knew Billy Joel was a genius.

Movie: The end of 'Singles,' when the camera pulls up and you hear the voices of the whole city searching for love. A dozen years later, I live a block away from the apartment building that's the center of that picture.

Rickey Wright (Rrrickey), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 04:23 (twenty-one years ago)

o dont shout your volume makes me weep

Gear! (Gear!), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 04:23 (twenty-one years ago)

Once I was tired and hung over and in a bagel shop and that song that goes "I don't wanna wait for our lives to be over" came on, and I suddenly found the melody very beautiful, and the clarity of the voice. I got ragged a lot for admitting that one

hurtingboss, Wednesday, 22 September 2004 04:44 (twenty-one years ago)

Putting in a Screeching Weasel (!!!!) cd and BAWLING over "Leather Jacket"

roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 05:02 (twenty-one years ago)

Phh... movies don't make me cry. But the trailers for them do. I bawled during a preview for 'Two Brothers' and spewed a sea of tears at 'I Am David'

ex-jeremy (x Jeremy), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 05:05 (twenty-one years ago)

"the longest time" is a billy joel song i can get behind, chipmunks or no chipmunks

amateur!!!st (amateurist), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 05:06 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm astonished that i've never posted to this thread.

Tim Finney (Tim Finney), Wednesday, 22 September 2004 05:22 (twenty-one years ago)

ambushed by unexpected update

mark s (mark s), Friday, 24 September 2004 19:47 (twenty-one years ago)

radio catharsis.. it's what keeps me in touch

nick.K (nick.K), Sunday, 26 September 2004 23:24 (twenty-one years ago)

A few months back I was sideswiped by a moment of total heartache when the radio played "Year of the Cat" (by Al Stewart?) It'd been on a mushy mixtape I got over ten years ago - but I'd never realised how sad it is. It felt like some kind of secret message, only seen in retrospect. Had to sneak off to the washroom for a good blub.

Kim (Kim), Monday, 27 September 2004 13:23 (twenty-one years ago)

two weeks pass...
Last night The Boss made me cry.

the bluefox, Tuesday, 12 October 2004 12:45 (twenty-one years ago)

I got Lou Reed's "Berlin" last year and was listening to it for the first time ever and really really enjoying it. Early this year I took it over to my friends' place and talked the album up and how much I liked it, and I put it on in the next room while we sat around and talked. During "Caroline Says II" I got up to leave the room and had the most violent vomit attack I have ever experienced.

Adam Bruneau (oliver8bit), Tuesday, 12 October 2004 22:20 (twenty-one years ago)

four months pass...
where did the pinefox go?

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Saturday, 5 March 2005 20:31 (twenty-one years ago)

he stopped posting, though posts occassionally on i love books, to concentrate more effort on working and other things, I believe. he's still around though.

cozen (Cozen), Saturday, 5 March 2005 20:35 (twenty-one years ago)

Most unexpected I've ever welled up at: DEVIL DOLL's freaking Dies Irae. Big ultrapompous prog-silliness with Ren (of Ren & Stimpy) on vocals.
I mean, come on! More than once too!

I was really surprised the first time Robert Wyatt's Rock Bottom had that effect on me too; sort of hit a trance while listening to the album and suddenly the damn thing just burst on me. But I suppose that might not be that odd, all things considered; just very unexpected.

Øystein (Øystein), Sunday, 6 March 2005 08:00 (twenty-one years ago)

rock bottom has that effect on me almost every time. esp the ivor cutler bit.

mullygrubbr (bulbs), Sunday, 6 March 2005 08:33 (twenty-one years ago)

yes, with the electric violin scraping! it's an extremely powerful album in general.

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Sunday, 6 March 2005 08:44 (twenty-one years ago)

i went down and wept to one of the tracks in the new lee ann womack, the one near the end after the happy one, when i was sitting in bed last nite, reading something or other.

anthony easton (anthony), Sunday, 6 March 2005 19:08 (twenty-one years ago)

Still an awesome thread - lets give it an extended revive.

Anyone else feel sorry for those who say they never cry at music? Can't believe it myself; I'm blubbing far too often for my own good.

Most unexpected blub has been to Cartman's version of Styx's Come Sail Away from the South Park album. I've no idea wtf happened, but it still does it to me.

Very belated OTM to Alec in NYC for Kate Bush's This Woman's Work - I'm a fucking quivering wreck every time I hear this.

Add Soldier's Things to the Tom Waits list.

And(and I am suitably ashamed)one line in Barbra Dickson and Elaine Page's version of I Know Him So Well by fugging Andrew Lloyd Webber. I remember the first time... there I am sitting at home berating the jumped up little Lord's vacuous attmept at real emotion when Dickson and Page get to the middle eight and sing:

"...if I knew from the start, why am I falling apart?"

and I had to leave the room. Fast.

Finally, one that I think I share with a lot of people, but most of us hate admitting it; The Muppets' Rainbow Connection.

Jeff Cook (Bro_Danielson), Sunday, 6 March 2005 20:56 (twenty-one years ago)

two weeks pass...
first time i cried in four years was when i was packing things up in my old room and throwing out old essays and Sarah McLachlan's "Angel" came onto the radio. Oh lord, did I sniffle and tear.

Sean M (Sean M), Tuesday, 22 March 2005 23:22 (twenty-one years ago)

one month passes...
trisha yearwood - she's in love with the boy. on the fucking train. i'm looking out the window, chest heaving, trying not to look pathetic.
the song is a trite little tale about daddy saying the boy is dumb and no good and then on the last verse the mother chiming in thats thats just what her daddy said about her boy too.

mullygrubbr (bulbs), Thursday, 5 May 2005 22:25 (twenty-one years ago)

the peter paul & mary version of leavin on a jet plane is the most heartbreaking song ever written.

also, get this: my roommate's mom was in a convent, like: a full-on nun & she heard "turn turn turn" by the byrds on the radio & took it as a calling to start a secular lifestyle. incidentally, the song is a bible verse, right? i love that story. it's really ...poetic. i was like: "dude, you wouldn't exist if weren't for that song. ever think of that?!". that kinda flipped his wig.

joey b, Thursday, 5 May 2005 23:35 (twenty-one years ago)

two months pass...
I still tear up at the Star Spangled Banner.

Even though I'm a political cynic, and I hate the course of the current administration, and I think a lot of us are truly deranged, the religious right is ruining it for the rest of us.

That damn song still makes me tear. Oh, and "America the Beautiful." No matter where, no matter when.

patricia h, Monday, 11 July 2005 21:53 (twenty years ago)

two weeks pass...
Jeff Cook: Hate to be pedantic (ok, so I don't really) - but "I Know Him So Well" is NOT by "fugging Andrew Lloyd Webber" as you so eloquently put it... it is out of the musical "CHESS" which was written by Benny Andersson and Bjorn Ulvaeus (of ABBA fame). The only connection it does have to ALW is that Tim Rice was the lyricist!

Bee Fox, Sunday, 31 July 2005 01:57 (twenty years ago)

And yeah... the song that makes me choke the most atm is "Lullabye (Goodnight, My Angel)" by Billy Joel, it's the lullaby I sing to my son everynight

Bee Fox, Sunday, 31 July 2005 02:00 (twenty years ago)

i once cried on the train when i heard that johnny cash song from at folsom prison where the lyrics are 'and tell mom i love her' or something along those lines

gem (trisk), Sunday, 31 July 2005 02:01 (twenty years ago)

Ambushed by That Petrol Emotion: They jumped me and knocked me about and kept saying "G'wan, dance!" all the while this mad American was shouting in my face.

gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Sunday, 31 July 2005 02:01 (twenty years ago)

also one of the radio stations here has a live version of sinead o'connor doing jealous which turns me into a quivering wreck when i hear it

gem (trisk), Sunday, 31 July 2005 02:03 (twenty years ago)

two weeks pass...
I just heard Johnny Hates Jazz's "Turn Back The Clock" in Walgreen's and it was so...beautiful, and I found myself thinking yes, yes, I would like to turn back the clock, have just one more day, when things were so much better.

Adam In Real Life (nordicskilla), Wednesday, 17 August 2005 20:05 (twenty years ago)

speaking of sinead o'connor, i don't own a thing by her but every time i hear "the last day of our acquaintance" (3 or 4 times to date) i turn into a deer in the headlights.

joseph cotten (joseph cotten), Wednesday, 17 August 2005 20:08 (twenty years ago)

ten months pass...
I've heard Ashlee Simpson's "Shadow" hundreds of times by now; the way she sings it goes from anger to triumph, basically; I never experience the song as sad. So, a couple months ago - alone in my apartment - I imagined reciting the lyrics to some people (because it's amazing how many people don't know this song exists or have any fucking idea what Ashlee Simpson lyrics tend to be like). And I wondered to myself whether I actually knew the song by heart, and I started reciting it. And by the second couplet my throat was constricted and my voice was breaking. "My escape was hiding out and running for the door" - which is hardly the most tearjerking lyric (compare to Kelly Clarkson's unremitting despair in "Because of You," which I can recite with equanimity: "I watched you die I heard you cry every night in your sleep/I was so young you should've known better than to lean on me..." etc.), and anyway I knew that "Shadow" was the one family drama song with a happy ending. But something reached me - maybe the fact that I knew Ashlee was determined to make the song one of growth and reconciliation somehow made it sadder; but only coming from my mouth, not hers. Several days later I was at a coffeehouse with a friend who knew nothing of "Shadow," and I started reciting the lyrics to her, believing that I was safe now, not imagining I would choke up again. But my voice was wavering before I got through the first stanza, and I decided that that was enough.

My brother and I got along uncommonly well as children, and my parents didn't neglect me for him, so I'm not drawing on that particular experience. I guess there's the universal feeling of being misunderstood. But actually, when Ashlee addresses that - "So if you're listening, there's so much more to me you haven't seen" - she's lovable: nakedly vulnerable yet audacious.

Frank Kogan (Frank Kogan), Monday, 26 June 2006 05:50 (nineteen years ago)

Whenever I hear the Indigo Girls version of "Romeo & Juliet", it causes lachrymose episodes.

Brooker Buckingham (Brooker B), Monday, 26 June 2006 21:14 (nineteen years ago)

seven months pass...
The first time I heard 'Back for Good' by Take That, I'd fallen asleep with the radio on, and while I was drifting out of this 'emotional' dream at about 3am the music made me cry.

a nuclear-powered carrot (braveclub), Thursday, 1 February 2007 14:51 (nineteen years ago)

hmmm

i was feeling anxious and uneasy the other day and put on my bloody valentine's 'lose my breath'. it somehow made me feel even more upset.

Charlie Howard (the sphinx), Thursday, 1 February 2007 14:55 (nineteen years ago)

Watching some old Chart Show clips on youtube i was pleased to find one from late Summer '89 that i remember seeing at the time with the 'next week' song played over the credit sequence being Madonna's 'Cherish'. As Madge frolics in the sparkling but monochromatic surf, the Video Visuals caption comes up to signify the most perfect period of the week, Saturday morning, is over - forever and another seven days. And I was just about to start secondary school in another week or two. Thanks for the preserved and replayed memories magic interweb.

vita susicivus (blueski), Thursday, 1 February 2007 15:08 (nineteen years ago)

I didn't know what to expect: I put on Coltrane's Meditations for the first time, with only minor acquaintance with his music, and within about a minute of "The Father and the Son and the Holy Ghost" I was thrashing around the room in tears. I still can't put my finger on what I was feeling. It wasn't sadness, if anything it was intense joy, but even that's not how to put it. Whatever, it was intense.

Euler (Euler), Thursday, 1 February 2007 22:06 (nineteen years ago)

two months pass...
Oh christ, this morning:

Abba - The Day Before You Came

I'd never really understood the sentiment behind this song but it came on randomly just as I'd woken up getting ready to go to work. Having split up with someone only a few weeks ago and slowly piecing together certain bits of my life and getting back on top of things, it totally struck me how this song is about exactly this. How for the singer, her life had been humdrum before she met her lover, and now that he's gone she is made to go back to that existence. Anyway, the dark tones of the music, the vocal delivery - it kinda cracked me a bit.

the next grozart, Thursday, 5 April 2007 11:33 (nineteen years ago)

tori amos, "winter". i remember lying in bed listening to "little earthquakes" at age 14 and crying crying crying. ten years later and it still does it to me. i heard it a few weeks ago at a friend's house and got verclempt.

which is why i was wondering why four tet's "unspoken" made me get so emotional the first few times i'd heard it, until i realized he was sampling that song.

Emily Bjurnhjam, Thursday, 5 April 2007 14:46 (nineteen years ago)

one year passes...

t.A.T.u., "Show Me Love":

"Like a game of pick-up sticks / played by f#*!ing lunatics"

Dunno why, ambushed every time.

anatol_merklich, Saturday, 13 December 2008 02:24 (seventeen years ago)

The break in Chrissie Hynde's voice on the line "won't let nobody hurt you" in "I'll Stand By You" always brings a lump to my throat.

The perfect combination of song and movie can really mess me up. I know a lot of people hate it, but the Aimee Mann "Wise Up" segment in Magnolia is achingly, beautifully sad. Hell, I get choked up at the end of Koyaanisqatsi.

On the joyful end, during the live performance of "Ain't No Mountain High Enough" by Chaka Khan and Montell Jordan in the Standing in the Shadow of Motown documentary, when the band hits that crescendo and the gospel choir enters...tearful bliss.

Hideous Lump, Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:27 (seventeen years ago)

one month passes...

Radio 2 are right now playing a song by ACKER BILK. He has just started singing. It is a good thing Robin C is not listening, or he might be getting very angry!!

the pinefox, Saturday, 24 January 2009 09:27 (seventeen years ago)

"was that the trees-a-rustlin'? Or the hinges of the gate?/Or Ernie's ghostly gold-tops a-rattlin' in their crate?"

the pinefox, Saturday, 24 January 2009 09:30 (seventeen years ago)


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