UK Anti-Americanism "feels like racism" says possibly over-reacting former model

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As a US citizen living in London, Christian Cox says she is shocked at the amount of abuse she receives because of her nationality. She says the level of anti-Americanism she has experienced "feels like a kind of racism". "I don't want anyone to feel sorry for Americans, or me, I just want people to realise that we are dealing with hatred too," she says.

Typical British pub banter is one thing, says Christian Cox, but the "pure hatred" she says is directed at her for being American is really starting to wear her down. The former model moved to London a year ago, where she is setting up her own business, and has been surprised at how some people have reacted to her nationality.

Ms Cox, 29, says she has been called, among other things, "terrorist", "scum", "low life", and feels that she is constantly being held to account for the actions of President Bush and for US foreign policy. This is despite the fact that she doesn't agree with the war in Iraq and didn't vote for Bush.

However she adds: "Bush is our leader and I respect that. It's a bit like the way you feel about your father. You don't always agree with him, but you would defend him." She has travelled widely in other parts of Europe, Mexico, Canada and Australia but says this is the first time her pride in her country has been challenged in such a vitriolic way.

"People would make jokes about Americans but I didn't experience the pure hatred I have had since I came to live here. "I appreciate that British people often don't understand why I have so much pride, they think it's brainwashing. And I do think some people in the US need to be more educated about what's going on in the world. But some people just fly off the handle without even talking to me - it's as if they had been waiting to run into an American all day to let their feelings out" she says.

To avoid confrontations she says she lowers her voice on the Underground and in pubs. But in one incident an older man asked her directly if she was American. "When I said yes he said: 'I just want you to know that I think you are the poorest people I have ever met in my life'. "I said I was sorry he felt that way, but that I disagreed."

The man started shouting obscenities at her group. The row developed into a brawl and Ms Cox suffered a black eye as she tried to pull two people apart. "After that I cried for two days, then booked a flight back to the States. I felt so hated, I needed to be with people who loved me." Some friends now advise her to tell people she is Canadian, to deflect potential abuse, an option she calls "sad".

However it is advice that teacher Francesca Terry, 28, who grew up in Seattle, recognises. She has lived in London for four years and is married with a daughter. "I was aware before I moved here that when you travelled abroad it was always better to say you were Canadian if you could get away with it. But we treated it more like a joke."

She was subjected to verbal abuse in the first year or so in Britain, but things calmed down particularly when she had her daughter and stopped going out to pubs so much. "When I first came here it was part of the culture shock. I felt really naive, I had thought I would go unnoticed here. I would go out and I'd just get picked on by people taking pot shots. I just didn't speak when we went out. What shocked me was that people would just say the rudest comments."

But she adds that she has a close group of girlfriends from the US, many of whom say they have not had similar experiences. She says she is still cautious when she's out and about: "If people ask where I'm from I say 'the States, but the part near Canada'."

"I feel bad about saying that, but it is out of a kind of guilt, I just don't want to get into it with people. When I do, I tell them these are not my choices. I understand my president makes bad decisions, but that's not me."

The US embassy in London declined to comment on the story.


"If people ask where I'm from I say 'the States, but the part near Canada'." ROFFLE

Si.C@rter (SiC@rter), Friday, 14 April 2006 11:00 (eighteen years ago) link


You don't always agree with him, but you would defend him.
mmmmmm. yeeeeeaaaaaaah.


"The US embassy in London declined to comment on the story."

dave vire think (dave225.3), Friday, 14 April 2006 11:04 (eighteen years ago) link

HOPE DA MUSLIMZ BLOW YO ASS UP, BITCH!

Father Esteban Buttez (ESTEBAN BUTTEZ~!!!), Friday, 14 April 2006 11:08 (eighteen years ago) link

oversexed, overpaid, overhated

Konal Doddz (blueski), Friday, 14 April 2006 11:20 (eighteen years ago) link

Ms Cox, 29, says she has been called, among other things, "terrorist", "scum", "low life", and feels that she is constantly being held to account for the actions of President Bush and for US foreign policy. This is despite the fact that she doesn't agree with the war in Iraq and didn't vote for Bush.

vs.

Report: U.S. Foreign Policy Hurting American Students' Chances Of Getting Laid Abroad: "I offer to buy them a drink, and they tell me I shouldn't just stand by and watch Bush destroy the world. Look, if I had that type of pull with the president, I obviously wouldn't be out trolling for anonymous Dutch pussy."

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Some friends now advise her to tell people she is Canadian, to deflect potential abuse, an option she calls "sad".

vs.

"First, pretend you're Canadian whenever you can," Hapbrook said. "But make sure you're not around actual Canadians, because they'll know you're lying and cock-block you. Second, if there are any anti-American protests going on, take care to avoid women carrying signs. Third, focus your itinerary on countries like Ireland and Japan that are still relatively friendly to Americans."

caek (caek), Friday, 14 April 2006 11:28 (eighteen years ago) link

oversexed, overpaid, overhated

And overhere?

Brigadier Lethbridge-Pfunkboy (Kerr), Friday, 14 April 2006 11:56 (eighteen years ago) link

ridiculous.

lauren (laurenp), Friday, 14 April 2006 12:54 (eighteen years ago) link

Again with this "cockblocking" thing? What the hell does that mean?

Key sentence in this article: she has a close group of girlfriends from the US, many of whom say they have not had similar experiences. Exactly. This article is the kind of piss-poor "journalism" I expect from U.S. regional newspapers, Fox News, or Nick Sylvester.

(Although if she's still defending Bush, she deserves what she gets.)

someone let this mitya out! (mitya), Friday, 14 April 2006 13:43 (eighteen years ago) link

'cockblocking' is from what i am offering amerikans in london 'protection', at a non-refusable fee

dave q (listerine), Friday, 14 April 2006 13:48 (eighteen years ago) link

Mitya it means when someone blocks you in an attempt to score, possibly so they can score themselves.

Miss Misery xox (MissMiseryTX), Friday, 14 April 2006 14:14 (eighteen years ago) link

If they themselves are trying to score, that becomes more "cock competition." The blocking part really comes in when someone's shutting you down for non-competitive reasons, like scandalized/protective friends who aren't having any luck themselves and have decided that no one's allowed to get any. Or exes. Or that weird classic where someone who's in a relationship nevertheless totally wants someone else, and therefore cockblocks everyone else off of that person. "Cockblocking" = everyone in the room who for some reason are rooting against the impending hookup, whether or not they have any chance of doing it themselves.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 15:44 (eighteen years ago) link

NB howevermany pockets of lameness we can pick out of this person and this story and the chances of its general applicability and truthfulness (it sounds like she perceives this way more than it's actually true), I can understand the feeling. I get the same thing in New York, a little -- I hear people say things about the Midwest that I react to about the same way as if they'd just said something vaguely racist.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 15:47 (eighteen years ago) link

"Christian Cox" = "Christian Cocks"

Grey, Ian (IanBrooklyn), Friday, 14 April 2006 16:52 (eighteen years ago) link

I appreciate that British people often don't understand why I have so much pride, they think it's brainwashing.

The idea of of having "pride" of your nationality is so entirely alien to me. Every so often there is someone on morning tv who says that English people are too ashamed to be English, and that we should all start celebrating St. George's day, and the thought repulses me rather.

Cathy (Cathy), Friday, 14 April 2006 17:48 (eighteen years ago) link

Well, a big component of the American understanding of "pride" is basically defensive and adversarial. (These things are kind of built into "pride" from the beginning, I guess; to be proud of something you need to distinguish it from an Other.) So "pride" is usually a reaction to the sense that someone else is attacking the thing you're a part of, and I think the American psyche is actually really insecure and sensitive about that -- some lingering colonial dynamic with Europe. "Pride" winds up meaning something like "if you attack and I take sides, I will totally take the side I come from," which isn't unnatural, but happens pretty knee-jerkily with Americans. There's also a sense-of-geography thing where for lots of Americans this nation constitutes 90% of the world, and so to attack it or its culture feels like, well, attacking the universe.

Why Americans are so big on sides-taking is a whole other issue, I guess.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:07 (eighteen years ago) link

Why Americans are so big on sides-taking is a whole other issue, I guess.

eh. everybody's pretty big on sides-taking, I think; some people have just developed more sophisticated characterizations of their side, so that it seems less about where they're from and more abut an ethos or a set of principles or whatever. the elision of geographical identity and beliefs is a classic move in these encounters.

horsehoe (horseshoe), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:16 (eighteen years ago) link

(I do this all the time, so I don't mean to sound above it all.)

horsehoe (horseshoe), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:17 (eighteen years ago) link

"I appreciate that British people often don't understand why I have so much pride, they think it's brainwashing"

I find that comment to be very weird because Brits(the English atleast) really take pride in themselves and their country in annoying ways too. As a Swede living in London I'm kinda put off by it. Majorly.

Lovelace (Lovelace), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:24 (eighteen years ago) link

The other thing with Americans is that it's a bit like if you took some people and put them in a cave full of Bud Light and said "well, the cave's not much, but at least this is the best beer in the world," and generations passed and they lived in the cave knocking back Bud Light and saying "here's to the best beer in the world," and then one day a Belgian guy stumbled in from the next cave over and said "arf, your beer is terrible" -- it's almost like the safest thing you can do, psychologically, is turn on him. Like especially if you kinda knew he had a point.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:32 (eighteen years ago) link

I find that comment to be very weird because Brits(the English atleast) really take pride in themselves and their country in annoying ways too.

because everybody does this! people who claim cosmopolitan-ness do it too!

horsehoe (horseshoe), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:34 (eighteen years ago) link

Knee-jerk Anti-Americanism indeed all over the UK and Europe and very tiresome, but it's something different than racism.

shookout (shookout), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:35 (eighteen years ago) link

or, if it's a situation like with the Bud and the Belgian ale example, all these things beyond the quality of the beer are imputed to the standoff, right, so people get intractable.

horsehoe (horseshoe), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:37 (eighteen years ago) link

Well, a big component of the American understanding of "pride" is basically defensive and adversarial.

BECAUSE WE MURDER PEOPLE OVER "FOOTBALL"????

Fight the Real Enemy -- Tasti D-Lite (ex machina), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:37 (eighteen years ago) link

xpost

Very different but I'm seriously not kidding when I say I can understand how it "feels" that way, especially for people who have never encountered racism. It's the experience -- something American white people hardly ever have -- of knowing that you're being singled out for approbation based on a group/culture you belong to and identify with by birth. There's a common thread there to a lot of experiences, plenty of which I've had: having people disparage a race you belong to, having people disparage a nation you belong to, even having people disparage a regional identity you have. And it's almost even more hurtful if they identify you and pull you out as an exception.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:40 (eighteen years ago) link

And it's not like the UK can talk. Look at their colonial legacy in Africa, the Middle East, and elsewhere.

shookout (shookout), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:43 (eighteen years ago) link

yeah, another common thread with racial identity is that often, if you've moved from the town you grew up in (say, from a pretty economically depressed town to a big city, to use a totally random example with which I have no personal experience), your family is still in that town. so when people give you the, "well, you must be awesome because you got the hell out of " i.e. you're not like those other losers, those other losers include your family.

obviously not the same as race, but the same mechanism of overlaying identity over which people have no control with meanings attached to belief and behavior is at work.

horsehoe (horseshoe), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:44 (eighteen years ago) link

sorry, that should be "got the hell out of [economically depressed town]"

horsehoe (horseshoe), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:46 (eighteen years ago) link

so the kneejerk reaction is "you're talking about my mom, asshole!"

horsehoe (horseshoe), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:46 (eighteen years ago) link

I have said that!

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:47 (eighteen years ago) link

you should hear the things that people in the Midwest say about New York.

shookout (shookout), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:48 (eighteen years ago) link

like what

phil-two (phil-two), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:51 (eighteen years ago) link

I have heard them!

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:52 (eighteen years ago) link

Can't we all just get along?

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:52 (eighteen years ago) link

LAUREL TO THREAD

Fight the Real Enemy -- Tasti D-Lite (ex machina), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:52 (eighteen years ago) link

you should hear the things that people in the Midwest say about New York.

right, but that's the defensive side of this exchange. where, to use the American model example, Midwest=America and New York=England.

I think I've actually said what amounts to "you're talking about my mom, asshole!" on ILX in that Danish Muhammad thread.

horsehoe (horseshoe), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:52 (eighteen years ago) link

Very different but I'm seriously not kidding when I say I can understand how it "feels" that way, especially for people who have never encountered racism. It's the experience -- something American white people hardly ever have -- of knowing that you're being singled out for approbation based on a group/culture you belong to and identify with by birth.

OTM OTM OTM OTM OTM OTM. I remember a friend of mine in college almost having a nervous breakdown in the UK because he was getting treated like dirt by virtually everyone we encountered; seriously, every shitty person we encountered zeroed in on HIM and made his life a living hell (although in the interest of full disclosure he didn't help matters by doing some stupid "ugly American" things that precipitated some of these encounters).

By contrast, another trip I took with college friends in Japan really opened the eyes of two friends of mine on the race axis; both are blonde-haired and blue-eyed and neither was particularly prejudiced, but at least one was deeply, utterly racially naive and didn't get certain stories of mine until we went somewhere where people looked at him like HE was the odd, out-of-place one to whom special attention should be paid. They felt all claustrophobic and under a microscope while I couldn't really tell much of a difference between the attention paid to me walking down a random US street and walking down a random Japanese street.

Dan (Lessons Learned) Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:58 (eighteen years ago) link

Haven't I trotted all these stories out already on other threads? I will defend all comers w/r/t West Michigan geography & natural beauty; however I will allow Open Season on small-town busybodies and sporty types.

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:59 (eighteen years ago) link

Hmmph s/b: "defend against all comers"

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 19:00 (eighteen years ago) link

IF IT WASN'T FOR THE YANKS THE BRITS WOULD BE EATING SAUERKRAUT WITH CHOPSTICKS RIGHT NOW FACT.

andy --, Friday, 14 April 2006 20:10 (eighteen years ago) link

I never was criticized for being american while in the UK - but some bit of me must have felt a tiny bit attacked, somehow, because i felt some strange american pride that hasn't returned since.

p.s. this sentence originally contained three superfluous "like"'s that I omitted upon realizing how damn american it seemed.

i've dreamt of rubies! (Mandee), Friday, 14 April 2006 20:26 (eighteen years ago) link

I think that if nothing else, there's the disorientation caused by the unfamiliar or just-slightly-off-ness, which might be enough all by itself to make people draw a charitable veil of nostalgia or hm...longing (to fit in, to be able to relax yr guard) over the less attractive national or nationalistic characteristics. Don't even need to be under direct attack, I reckon.

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 20:30 (eighteen years ago) link

at this point when travelling abroad I don't take any anti-American sentiment personally cuz really I agree with most of it... otoh I don't think I've ever been in a situation where I felt threatened or victimized specifically *because* I was an American. I have def. felt the "under a microscope" thing Dan refers to tho (ie, in parts of India where they've never seen white people before etc.)

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Friday, 14 April 2006 20:32 (eighteen years ago) link

"Don't let it get near you,
don't let it get too close,
don't let it turn you into
the things you hate the most"

In other words, I don't think "it" is the people.

nicky lo-fi (nicky lo-fi), Friday, 14 April 2006 21:07 (eighteen years ago) link

They felt all claustrophobic and under a microscope while I couldn't really tell much of a difference between the attention paid to me walking down a random US street and walking down a random Japanese street.

Yeah, when I lived in Japan I definitely became hyper-aware of the constant staring, and the way everyone around me reacted to my presence, either positively or negatively. Most of the attention was positive (if really weird) but there were occasional incidents where no one would sit next to me on crowded trains, or groups of high schoolers would point and stare, or parents pulled their children back from me. Also being solicited as a prostitute fairly often (though I think that was because people seemed to think I was Russian). While being singled out for my race it was sometimes disconcerting and upsetting, it was pretty educational. I'd never experienced anything like it before.

Laurah (laurah), Friday, 14 April 2006 21:16 (eighteen years ago) link

Yeah, nabisco is so totally OTM here that he's edging out George Washington. Living in the DC area, I've been able to stop many conversations dead in their tracks with the simple sentence, "Actually, my mother is from West Virginia."

Then there's this thing where my father's wife is constantly trashing my hometown in Ohio -- where my mother, sister, grandmother, niece and nephews, and most other relatives all still live -- for being white trash Midwest etc., etc. (she's from Hawaii of French descent), and it's like, "Uh, excuse me, but I'm like FROM there. It's where I still ultimately consider 'home.' Could you maybe put a sock in it?"

phil d. (Phil D.), Friday, 14 April 2006 21:47 (eighteen years ago) link

ANd I meant to add, when the people pulling that crap then say, "Oh, well YOU'RE not like that," it seems akin to telling an African-American, "You speak so articulately!"

phil d. (Phil D.), Friday, 14 April 2006 21:54 (eighteen years ago) link

Ha, it's actually much worse than that -- it's asking you to become a collaborator! I can't count the number of times I've been in conversations where folks say racist things about black people, and then -- when I get offended -- tell me that, you know, they don't mean me, I'm "foreign," not really black or anything. Part of that is just being weaselly, but beneath that there's actually this weird invitation, like they're offering a free pass to deny the black people they're insulting -- a free pass to join their team, a kind of co-opting. And something about that is so demeaning. I'd find it hard to specify what exactly about it is the worst part, but it's just fucking awful: they're asking you to sell out your own identity so you can join them in insulting it! They're inviting you to become an honorary one of them and join them in insulting your mother, your father, everything you come from! It's really amazing.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:03 (eighteen years ago) link

Arrgh and I told you that, once, and flinched as soon as I said it. In my mind identification by family origin/ethnicity/language trumps skin tone but OUCH.

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:05 (eighteen years ago) link

Ha, no Laurel, I don't mind people making that distinction -- just not when the purpose of making it that they're asking me to laugh at racist jokes! I mean, people assume I'm just Immigrant, I'm not like surprised or put off by that.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:07 (eighteen years ago) link

Sorry, that's not clear at all: I think I said I think of you as "foreign" ahead of "black". But then I also think of Mexican friends as Mexican by nationality and Spanish-speaking by language ahead of, I dunno, "Latin" or non-white or whatever.

XP: PHEW.

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:10 (eighteen years ago) link

If I've ever gotten any of this shit I tell the person I come from the People's Republic of Minnesota.

suzy (suzy), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:11 (eighteen years ago) link

xpost

I'm talking more if, like, someone in New York said to you, Laurel, that he hated all those midwestern Christians and they all should be shot, and you said "well, that's a big part of where I'm from," and he said "yeah, but you're not LIKE THAT," or "you're not ONE OF THEM" -- even if you really aren't, it's horrifying. Like someone hands you a gun: "Just shoot your parents and we'll pretend you're one of us."

(xpost Yeah Laurel that's totally cool by me! And non-surprising, America doesn't invest words in like differentiating between post-slavery black and African-immigrant black, and what with slavery its idea of black is totally west-African and etc -- it makes sense.)

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:14 (eighteen years ago) link

I'm talking more if, like, someone in New York on ILX said to you, Laurel, that he hated all those midwestern Christians and they all should be shot...

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:19 (eighteen years ago) link

Hm, that didn't work at all. Nevermind.

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:20 (eighteen years ago) link

I think more than any political issue, a lot of this is a clash between perceived American ambition/confidence/pride and the stereotypical British love of shooting people down and making everything comfortably mediocre. Americans are at the top so they're the most fun to rip into and crush (when they're outnumbered on yr turf, obv).

Ogmor Roundtrouser (Ogmor Roundtrouser), Saturday, 15 April 2006 02:25 (eighteen years ago) link

nine years pass...

Has this changed -if it existed- under Obama

Ugh punching up anyway

MONKEY had been BUMMED by the GHOST of the late prancing paedophile (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 November 2015 10:45 (eight years ago) link

Experienced this at work the other day, very nice guy who basically thinks the US is a fascist state - "they don't have the same freedoms we have over here in Europe" (he actually said this!) - capable of just about any evil you can imagine. Not helped by the fact that we were working with was a left wing Spanish guy, so anti-American almost by definition though in a more measured, thoughtful way. Anyway, over the course of a few hours, I managed to reason with him and get him to explain and, in some cases, moderate his more outlandish opinions. I still feel like the next time I work with guy I should wear one of lapel badges with the Union Jack and the Stars and Stripes entwined.
― Fields of Fat Henry (Tom D.), Monday, 28 September 2015 18:41 (1 month ago) BookmarkFlag Post Permalink

Caput Johannis in Disco (Tom D.), Wednesday, 4 November 2015 11:00 (eight years ago) link

If Anti-Americanism here/anywhere intensified over US Gov 10-15 years ago it's focus now (again?) is probably spread thinner over (often racist) gun violence, hard right media influence and corporate greed-negligence.

nashwan, Wednesday, 4 November 2015 11:10 (eight years ago) link

corporate greed-negligence

I thought the UK led the world in this tbh.

Caput Johannis in Disco (Tom D.), Wednesday, 4 November 2015 11:30 (eight years ago) link

typical UK triumphalism

nashwan, Wednesday, 4 November 2015 11:46 (eight years ago) link

If only we had a precise English word for the irrational or stereotyped fear or hatred of foreigners! If only that word existed!

But I guess "xenophobia" has 5 syllables and "racism" only 2, so we can't expect Americans to understand or use it. ;-)

La Düsseldork (Branwell with an N), Wednesday, 4 November 2015 11:56 (eight years ago) link

There's something very Guardian BTL about being anti-American in the UK in 2015

canoon fooder (dog latin), Wednesday, 4 November 2015 12:17 (eight years ago) link


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