― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:44 (nineteen years ago) link
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:45 (nineteen years ago) link
― mark p (Mark P), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:53 (nineteen years ago) link
― shookout (shookout), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:53 (nineteen years ago) link
weird.
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 17:53 (nineteen years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:54 (nineteen years ago) link
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 17:55 (nineteen years ago) link
― gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:59 (nineteen years ago) link
― The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:00 (nineteen years ago) link
― Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:02 (nineteen years ago) link
― Sym Sym (sym), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:03 (nineteen years ago) link
I'm pretty sure it was non-penetrative. Can't remember where I heard that, but obviously it was consistent with her philosophies.
― jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:03 (nineteen years ago) link
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:05 (nineteen years ago) link
Their sexual ethics seem strangely similar at times.
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:06 (nineteen years ago) link
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:06 (nineteen years ago) link
― cozen (Cozen), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:08 (nineteen years ago) link
"In my own life, I don't have intercourse. That is my choice."
― jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:09 (nineteen years ago) link
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:11 (nineteen years ago) link
― kingfish, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:11 (nineteen years ago) link
― andy --, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:12 (nineteen years ago) link
― scott seward (scott seward), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:12 (nineteen years ago) link
― g e o f f (gcannon), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:14 (nineteen years ago) link
― jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:14 (nineteen years ago) link
― Tom (Groke), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:15 (nineteen years ago) link
― Felonious Drunk (Felcher), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:15 (nineteen years ago) link
(i do think speculation abt the HAPPINESS of her sexlife w.her husband is a bit pointless: what couples end up gettin up to and what they get out of one another = the untellable mystery)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:17 (nineteen years ago) link
Not exactly gonna win a lot of converts promoting that lifestyle...
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:18 (nineteen years ago) link
Actually, I'm surprised she got married to him, because her partner was a homosexual, as I recall.
― Vestigial Appendages, Esq. (King Kobra), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:19 (nineteen years ago) link
The Catholic Church seems to do alright.
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:20 (nineteen years ago) link
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:21 (nineteen years ago) link
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:25 (nineteen years ago) link
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:25 (nineteen years ago) link
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:26 (nineteen years ago) link
― rasheed wallace (rasheed wallace), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:27 (nineteen years ago) link
http://dir.salon.com/books/feature/2000/09/20/dworkin/index.html
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:28 (nineteen years ago) link
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:28 (nineteen years ago) link
― rasheed wallace (rasheed wallace), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:29 (nineteen years ago) link
uh, look around you. see all those bazillions of people? obviously humanity's pretty fond of fucking, on the whole.
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:32 (nineteen years ago) link
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:34 (nineteen years ago) link
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:36 (nineteen years ago) link
xpost yes, i thought her marriage sounded wonderful, frankly. and i like getting laid.
― g e o f f (gcannon), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:37 (nineteen years ago) link
It's also depressingly fond of territorial invasion, which is what Dworkin compared it to in the hope that fucking would go away. Her book Scapegoat compared women to the Jews as universal scapegoats, and ended up advocating that women found a sort of Gender Israel. Salon:
"Dworkin's most original and controversial conclusion to all this is that "women need land and guns." Women must reject pacifism and literally create their own militant, separatist territory (or Lebensraum?). As a practical concept, of course, the idea is nothing short of nuts. But even as an exercise in rhetoric it is unconvincing, mainly because it is unclear why Dworkin believes that Womanland would be immune to the temptations of structural power she has just been at such pains to illustrate. If the Israelis are practicing the sadism they learned from anti-Semites on the Palestinians, won't women also find their own scapegoats?"
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:38 (nineteen years ago) link
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:38 (nineteen years ago) link
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:39 (nineteen years ago) link
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:47 (nineteen years ago) link
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:48 (nineteen years ago) link
"Wandering past the marquees, I paused to read an events blackboard. Sitting next to it was an American woman of enormous girth, a sort of greying mannish hippy with a touch of Jerry Garcia about her. I realised with a start that it was Andrea Dworkin, the ultra-feminist who shook me to my core when, in my late 20s, I read her book 'Intercourse' with its thesis that all penetration of women by men is -- while the sexes remain unequal -- violation, and all literature a graph of rape. I eavesdropped long enough to hear her say '...it would probably just play into my megalomaniacal passion for...' She sounded like a much nicer person than her books suggest, although later I read in The Scotsman that she advocates total separation of the genders and a mother's right to execute paedophiles.
"I went to sit on the grass. The sun was shining and some children were playing. An attractive girl came and sat down right between me and Andrea. I never know what to do in situations like this. Do you look admiringly at a sunbathing girl or do you pretend indifference? This time it was much worse, because Andrea Dworkin was sitting right behind the object of my lust! Thank god my 'male gaze' was hidden behind big bulbous blue ski shades."
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:54 (nineteen years ago) link
If she was happy, then I think that sounds pretty great.
― sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:59 (nineteen years ago) link
If she was happy, I'd rather be miserable.
― m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:04 (nineteen years ago) link
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:05 (nineteen years ago) link
Tell that to the Weather Underground, Malcolm X and the Black Panthers.
Shakey, OMG!
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:30 (nineteen years ago) link
you seem to have a strong interest in taxonomies: creating them, reformulating them. i rarely apprehend what you're getting at besides the pleasing symmetry of a well-ordered taxonomy though.
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:30 (nineteen years ago) link
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:33 (nineteen years ago) link
― Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:33 (nineteen years ago) link
now we're into a "showbiz = american" meme, i see.
to clarify: i *do* think the correspondence between dworkin's radical views and certain puritan/radical individualist ideas that form a big part of american history is interesting (and it's been noted by a lot of people!). i wouldn't posit those ideas as *the* american ideas nor would i posit dworkin or her ideas as "typically american."
please allow america to be as confused and conflicted as, say, france, with its petains and cocteaus.
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:36 (nineteen years ago) link
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:37 (nineteen years ago) link
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:41 (nineteen years ago) link
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:42 (nineteen years ago) link
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:42 (nineteen years ago) link
― Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:46 (nineteen years ago) link
― Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:48 (nineteen years ago) link
For instance, Katharine Viner's piece in the Guardian, which says that, in a world where getting Botox treatment passes as a feminist gesture, Dworkin was a "bedrock": "even when you disagreed with her, her arguments were infuriating, fascinating, hard to forget. Feminism needs those who won't compromise..."
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:48 (nineteen years ago) link
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:50 (nineteen years ago) link
Suggestions:- Make sure all words are spelled correctly.- Try different keywords.- Try more general keywords.- Try fewer keywords.
:( :( :(
― kingfish, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:54 (nineteen years ago) link
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:55 (nineteen years ago) link
26,000 for British prude
13,000 for Scottish stingy
5,120 for Etats Unis puritaine
― The Mad Puffin (The Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:55 (nineteen years ago) link
― j blount (papa la bas), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:57 (nineteen years ago) link
― j blount (papa la bas), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:01 (nineteen years ago) link
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:01 (nineteen years ago) link
blount, i think to give dworkin even credit as something to "move beyond" is insulting to the much more interesting and thoughtful feminists that came before and after her!
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:02 (nineteen years ago) link
ok, now this thread = grudge match between two diehard sophists = i'll back out quietly
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:03 (nineteen years ago) link
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:04 (nineteen years ago) link
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:18 (nineteen years ago) link
― j blount (papa la bas), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:31 (nineteen years ago) link
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:38 (nineteen years ago) link
It's amazing how she both served as a convenient strawman for right-wing talk show hosts and made common cause with them.
― Sym Sym (sym), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 22:43 (nineteen years ago) link
I wouldn't have touched her with yours.
― NamC, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 03:40 (nineteen years ago) link
― Sym Sym (sym), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 04:07 (nineteen years ago) link
― Tyrone Willie Demetrius DeAndre DeShawn (deangulberry), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 05:03 (nineteen years ago) link
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 07:37 (nineteen years ago) link
― kelsey (kelstarry), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 15:40 (nineteen years ago) link
Some misogynist does a drawing of a woman as meat. The drawing gets out into the world with its message that "women are just meat". Andrea Dworkin sees the image and decides to use it for her book, whose thesis is "in this rotten scummy world women are just meat". Meanwhile, apart from the misogynist and Andrea Dworkin, the great majority of people don't for a minute believe that women are just meat. What a strange alliance between the misogynists and the misogyprojectionists!
― Momus (Momus), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 16:36 (nineteen years ago) link
I recently bought Deep Throat - curiousity got the better of me and I'd wanted to see it for a while. Watched it in the company of a female and another guy. We had a good chuckle at it, as it is kinda funny - though such a shame about Linda Lovelace. I told me gfriend I picked it up and she couldn't care.
The real misogyny, in my opinion, comes from certain people on this forum whose attitude seems to be that women should never be lusted over or spoken about in a sexual content and that - in doing so - the person is somehow a mad woman hater. I really long for the day when we are all as liberated as somewhere like San Francisco. Having spent a few days in the city's gay district and bars and seen how no one gives a shit about sexual orientation, heavy petting on the streets etc I really wish we could all take that lead. I swear that one day I'm moving there.
― NamC, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:05 (nineteen years ago) link
― Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:11 (nineteen years ago) link
― M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:14 (nineteen years ago) link
― NamC, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:15 (nineteen years ago) link
― Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:18 (nineteen years ago) link
― Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:19 (nineteen years ago) link
― M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:20 (nineteen years ago) link
Upon what information have you based this? Why do think this matters? Why do you think I'd care?
Actually, I'm prepared to concede that you may have more. Who knows? Pure egotism on my part inclines me to believe that my friends, though putatively less numerous, are far superior in quality.
― M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:31 (nineteen years ago) link
TEARS OF LAUGHTER
― The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 14 April 2005 01:28 (nineteen years ago) link
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 14 April 2005 08:34 (nineteen years ago) link
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 14 April 2005 08:38 (nineteen years ago) link
Dworkin always struck me as someone brilliant who wasn't aware enough of how her own particular experiences affected/skewed her insights. Then again, judging from her popularity among women at the time, she obviously touched a nerve, so perhaps many women felt their experiences were similar.
― Hurting (Hurting), Tuesday, 19 April 2005 13:49 (nineteen years ago) link
from
Is it even expected today that a woman should just be okay with pornography? Like we've 'progressed' to the point where no one should get upset by it? Was Ariel Levy RIGHT???-- Abbott, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:57 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark LinkIt's not my obsession with porn, babe, it's your reaction to it!-- wanko ergo sum, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:59 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link
-- Abbott, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:57 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link
It's not my obsession with porn, babe, it's your reaction to it!
-- wanko ergo sum, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:59 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link
I totally do get this vibe from modren non-'square/straight' society (can't think of any terms that would work outside West Side Story) that a chick's just supposed to accept men jerk it to .mpegs and such, her man jerks it, so it goes. Her opinion doesn't matter, unless she's for it. 1. Is this true and 2. how did it happen and 3. is this a good or bad thing?
― Abbott, Monday, 4 February 2008 02:57 (sixteen years ago) link
I was gonna respond to your questions regarding this on the eharmony thread where you invoked Ariel Levy. Anyhow, my impressions: 1. True: Yes, I think this has become increasingly the case over the past several years, esp. in the eyes of many younger i.e., early-20's/late-teens dudes 2. The Hows: Internet presumably removing the "shame factor" previously associated with pornography; plus the media push towards "porn chic", "hey porn's gone mainstream"; plus an x factor (pun not intended) of sorts of women going along with it for whatever reasons...like kinda what Levy talks about in her writings 3. Good or bad? Hmmm. Well, I don't wanna live in a society in which porn is illegal, but I can find enough objectionable things about the contemporary porn biz such that the added factor of women feeling like they are uptight or something if they are not cool with their boyfriends/husbands gettin' down w/the porn is pretty sad...actually, I think it's a sad situation for both women and men.
Part of me thinks that porn will eventually "mellow out" from what it's become, and return largely to the comparatively "innocent" Playboy/Penthouse-type sutff of decades past...I'm not sure why I think that, other then that it seems like things have swung to such an extreme that it's hard for me not to imagine it as part of a cyclical thing that must eventually revert back to something more balanced and sane.
So for whatever reasons, my attempt at answering this question is informed in no small part by me personally being skeeved out by what porn has become in the past few years. But more to the point of your inquiry, it's something that obv. needs to be worked out by individuals/couples... and the fact that societal pressures exist to such a degree that people would feel like there is something wrong with them if they are not down with the current climate, well, again that seems sad to me. 3.
― dell, Monday, 4 February 2008 03:54 (sixteen years ago) link
looks like she won, ultimately
― images of war violence and historical smoking (Dr Morbius), Friday, 14 February 2014 14:35 (ten years ago) link
Really good overview of her thought and writings: https://www.bookforum.com/inprint/025_05/20623
― xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 30 January 2019 22:55 (five years ago) link
yeah great piece. always found her relationship w Moorcock very interesting.
― Οὖτις, Wednesday, 30 January 2019 23:23 (five years ago) link