― DG, Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
since moving to a semi-urban area (St Louis), i enjoy it a lot less. i'm hoping to move to NYC in about 2 or 3 years, and hopefully i'll enjoy that more. i think the main problem w/ St Louis is the lack of ANY type of worthwhile "scene", but that seems to be a whole new thread topic. i simply moved to the part of the city i liked best, and i'm a lot happier now.
while suburbans can be snobs, driving around in giant Sport Utility Vehicles and partaking in Lawn Wars, fighting over who has the bigger status symbol, most teenagers who complain about suburban life tend to be boring individuals inthe first place, no matter what setting you place them in. it's all about making the best of what you're given.
― mike j, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
The areas I had in mind are, I guess, further from central London than the area where you live.
I have however always been struck by how much nastier and more aggressive Toryism is when it's actually facing multiculturalism in the face than when it's at a relative distance. So only very recently have West Country Tory MPs become quite as nasty as the south-east mob (Oliver Letwin and Adrian Flook are obviously far more right-wing and far easier to hate instantly than Sir James Spicer and Edward Du Cann were).
However all the points you make are true, and I only had a minority (albeit a particularly aggressive and vicious one) in mind. I just found it curious that the biggest Tory revival in terms of Westminster seats was in East London / Essex (rather than in the outer shires as had been generally expected) and was throwing a few thoughts, perhaps overt generalisations, around.
― Robin Carmody, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Geoff, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― DG, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― dave q, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― matthew james, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Robin Carmody, Sunday, 2 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
Of course, when I'm thinking of "suburbs" I'm thinking of places where all the houses look exactly the same -- Levittown-style stuff, where people give the streets fancy names to hide the fact that they live in an utter and total corporate contrivance. But not all towns near to cities are like that, of course, and it is not for those that my withering stare is intended...
― Phil, Monday, 3 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― travis bickle, Monday, 3 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Robin Carmody, Monday, 3 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Tracer Hand, Monday, 3 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Ally, Tuesday, 4 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
My mom, as always, is an excellent example. Before she got married, she was a woman so steeped in Italo-American Catholicism that she sincerely thought she'd get struck by lightning if she committed one measly sin. Moving twenty miles away from her parents, her family and neighborhood allowed her some breathing space to silently question the dogma she grew up with. Ten years later, she stopped going to church, took birth control pills and started to think about divorce. I bet something analogous is probably occurring right now to all the new Indian and Asian immigrants (and their families) who now call Long Island home.
I have no problem with non-urban living, but the slavish attentions suburbanites have paid to the dubious convenience of the automobile have made humane suburban living well-nigh impossible. None of the Long Island towns that essentially did not exist before William Levitt are as anywhere near as lovely or even useful as the ones whose layout show little influence of the automobile, such as Babylon, Islip, Port Jefferson, Sayville, Montauk, Garden City or the Hamptons.
― Michael Daddino, Tuesday, 4 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Kris, Tuesday, 4 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― ethan, Tuesday, 4 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Dan I. (Dan I.), Wednesday, 9 April 2003 04:36 (twenty-one years ago) link
I want to believe.
― Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 25 June 2003 05:06 (twenty years ago) link
Where I live is in the official city limits. I need only walk a couple of blocks in one direction before I hit a major, well-traveled thoroughfare, and a few blocks in another direction before I hit a highway. Therefore, one could consider my neighborhood an "urban" one. Yet, all of the residences on my street have large front and back yards, are houses, are pet-friendly, and are largely quiet and separate entities from one another. Plus, we've spotted deer and peacocks around the area and have even had a deer come into our back yard. Therefore, one could also classify my neighborhood a "suburban" one. To complicate matters further, the actual suburbs that border San Antonio were largely rural towns in the not-too-distant past and do still sometimes have that countrified feel to them.
Maybe it's because I live in an area with a lot of growing pains and a heck of a lot of space to move around in (the city as of 2000 had an area of 333 square miles and it just keeps on growing outward). Approximately 50 years ago, the neighborhood I live in now was largely rural itself. But then the hospitals came, and the home builders decided to construct neighborhoods, and demand for housing in the area skyrocketed, and things just snowballed from there.
Hm. How fascinating do you guys find me? Maybe not at all, maybe somewhat, maybe very -- I have no clue. I would like to think I'm an interesting person who is worth getting to know, and I am a product of an environment that is a mixture of "urban" and "suburban", not to mention one that is purely driver-friendly (which is the case for the whole of the city, really). I drive a (small) SUV (a Chevy Blazer, a model of vehicle which existed L-O-N-G before the term "SUV" came into being), was educated on how to drive starting at 17, got my driver's license at 19, have never lived in an apartment before in her life, like gardening, love dogs, and sometimes harbor fantasies of living in London (where some of my fondest life memories took place).
Just stuff to think about, 'tis all.
― Innocent Dreamer (Dee the Lurker), Wednesday, 25 June 2003 23:23 (twenty years ago) link
Case in point:http://www.west-point.org/users/usma1981/38405/graphics/Highlands_Ranch1.jpgBy the way that's not my house.
― David Beckhouse (David Beckhouse), Thursday, 26 June 2003 01:04 (twenty years ago) link
I haven't been there in just over ten years.
― Michael Daddino (epicharmus), Thursday, 26 June 2003 01:35 (twenty years ago) link
This is outside of saint louis. The 'Laumier Park' mentioned is a sculpture park.
― teeny (teeny), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 10:39 (seventeen years ago) link
I live on an old city street, but we have old, grand bungalos built in the 20s. And some stupid asshole "custom builder" just put up a travesty in an empty lot a few houses down from us. It's a big fucking garage, with 5 bedrooms and a greatroom. Stupid fucks. It doesn't match the neighborhood at all...
― DAVE, for #1 Hits of yesterday and today! (dave225.3), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 10:57 (seventeen years ago) link
― Enrique IX: The Mediator (Enrique), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 10:58 (seventeen years ago) link
― sometimes it takes an earthquake to know where the fault lies (Jody Beth Rosen), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 11:37 (seventeen years ago) link
― DAVE, for #1 Hits of yesterday and today! (dave225.3), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 11:41 (seventeen years ago) link
― sometimes it takes an earthquake to know where the fault lies (Jody Beth Rosen), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 11:44 (seventeen years ago) link
Legacy Village- east side
http://www.legacy-village.com/images/gallery/1.jpg
― laurence kansas (lawrence kansas), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 12:11 (seventeen years ago) link
― laurence kansas (lawrence kansas), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 12:14 (seventeen years ago) link
― DAVE, for #1 Hits of yesterday and today! (dave225.3), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 12:18 (seventeen years ago) link
It would be nice if there were buyers out there who were actually interested in building homes like that instead of the ugly, elbows-to-assholes mcmansions that are invading the suburban countryside and gentrification projects around the country.
― don weiner (don weiner), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 12:30 (seventeen years ago) link
― lauren (laurenp), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 18:21 (seventeen years ago) link
― Miss Misery xox (MissMiseryTX), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 18:28 (seventeen years ago) link
― teeny (teeny), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 19:19 (seventeen years ago) link
This statistic kinda blew my mind...
Though its gotten alot harder to meet people in St. Louis: The city lost half of its population due to outmigration between 1950 and 1990. Once the fourth largest city in the country, St. Louis was ranked as the 49th largest after the 2000 census.
― LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 21:23 (seventeen years ago) link
― teeny (teeny), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 21:46 (seventeen years ago) link
This is what's been happening in Hinsdale, IL for years now (a few other older suburbs in the chicago area, too). It's completely retarded. People are attracted to the town and willing to pay relatively high real estate prices in large part because---unlike most other cookie-cutter suburbs in the area---there's a lot of neat, differentiated old houses there, and then they move in, tear one down and put up a "modern" gray monstrosity that sticks out like a sore thumb and barely fits in the lot. I just don't get it.
― oops (Oops), Tuesday, 6 June 2006 23:03 (seventeen years ago) link
The faux-downtowns are everywhere now. There was an article in the _WSJ_ last week quoting a shopper in one of the ones in Dallas -- 'I don't go downtown, there's too much riff-raff down there'. There ya go -- The Urban Experience w/o all those pesky minorities and poor people!!
Legacy Village -- if the sterility doesn't scare you away, the lack of parking will. At least the Crocker Park developers mixed in a parking ramp.
And yes, let's hope some preservationist with deep pockets befriends the StL house.
― Jeff Wright (JeffW1858), Wednesday, 7 June 2006 01:35 (seventeen years ago) link
― Abbadavid Berman (Hurting), Wednesday, 7 June 2006 02:33 (seventeen years ago) link
― Abbadavid Berman (Hurting), Wednesday, 7 June 2006 02:34 (seventeen years ago) link
― gear (gear), Wednesday, 7 June 2006 02:37 (seventeen years ago) link
― sometimes it takes an earthquake to know where the fault lies (Jody Beth Rosen), Wednesday, 7 June 2006 02:38 (seventeen years ago) link
i've spotted a few in LA but thankfully not THAT many -- probably more in OC.
― sometimes it takes an earthquake to know where the fault lies (Jody Beth Rosen), Wednesday, 7 June 2006 02:39 (seventeen years ago) link
― Abbadavid Berman (Hurting), Wednesday, 7 June 2006 02:44 (seventeen years ago) link
― sometimes it takes an earthquake to know where the fault lies (Jody Beth Rosen), Wednesday, 7 June 2006 02:46 (seventeen years ago) link
― Abbadavid Berman (Hurting), Wednesday, 7 June 2006 02:52 (seventeen years ago) link
― Abbadavid Berman (Hurting), Wednesday, 7 June 2006 02:56 (seventeen years ago) link
The whole house is vaguely reminiscent of my grandparents' friends' house on LI.
― tokyo nursery school: afternoon session (rosemary), Wednesday, 7 June 2006 02:58 (seventeen years ago) link
Just started composting as well.
― longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Saturday, 10 July 2021 02:01 (two years ago) link
https://www.amazon.com/s?k=nature%27s+best+hope&gclid=CjwKCAjwi9-HBhACEiwAPzUhHELZtaWTJlj0_-7Nitv5EV9KiXUlr8mwnOVQgJPD8oSQKDDDISkLABoCj9IQAvD_BwE&hvadid=409958545374&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9004253&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=17557947266658875369&hvtargid=kwd-780715891398&hydadcr=13631_11415873&tag=googhydr-20&ref=pd_sl_4o3wjs332b_eHave not read yet, wife is reading. Author also runs this:https://homegrownnationalpark.org/
― longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Wednesday, 21 July 2021 17:45 (two years ago) link
Did you just post the book itself?
― pplains, Wednesday, 21 July 2021 17:48 (two years ago) link
I really want to replace our lawn with native plants as well, kind of intimidated to start on my own since a) I know next to nothing about how to make sure it looks nice too and, b) I have literally the opposite of a green thumb. I've always wanted to get more into gardening, but I can't keep any plants alive.
― a superficial sheeb of intelligence (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Wednesday, 21 July 2021 17:51 (two years ago) link
part of the idea of planting native plants is they are more likely to just stay alive without constant intervention
― Clara Lemlich stan account (silby), Wednesday, 21 July 2021 18:05 (two years ago) link
Haha, I know, but this is how little faith I have in my skills. I understand they generally need a little help at the start though.
― a superficial sheeb of intelligence (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Wednesday, 21 July 2021 18:12 (two years ago) link
In Seattle there's a program that will pay for you to install a rain garden on your property and will help you with the installation; might be worth seeing if there's anything like that near you.
― Lily Dale, Wednesday, 21 July 2021 18:51 (two years ago) link
My wife is just kind of diving in and trying a lot of different plantings. I'm doing my best to help. There's a company called American Meadows she sometimes uses that will send you plants that go together, and in some cases they have seed packs of stuff that grows really easily and is hard to fuck up (like wildflower mixtures).
The book I tried to post above is called Nature's Best Hope, not sure what happened with the link.
We're only just getting started with replacing some of the front lawn, moreso have been planting in rocky areas in our backyard. H is way more the one doing it than me, I just kind of supply labor when I can, but I would say one way to avoid the intimidation factor is just to pick a small patch to start with, maybe something out of the way so it doesn't fuck with the "curb appeal" if you fail.
― longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Wednesday, 21 July 2021 22:45 (two years ago) link
There may be a Native Plant Society facebook group in your area. They are usually good about offering advice to beginners.
― nickn, Wednesday, 21 July 2021 22:53 (two years ago) link
Actually doesn't have to be local, statewide is fine. I'm in the California group and they give advice for every locale in the state.
― nickn, Wednesday, 21 July 2021 22:55 (two years ago) link
Native plants are just taking off and it's amazing. We have a whole strip of steeply sloped land in between the patio and the terrace above our retaining wall that H just went nuts planting native wildflowers and other native stuff from seed, and it went from being this kind of scrubby, rocky, vaguely green blah to exploding with flowers and stems and colors, it's awesome.
― longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Friday, 8 July 2022 03:12 (one year ago) link