Friend Infected With Right Wing Brain Worms - What to Do?

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but they are

da elephant in daruma (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:23 (eight months ago) link

and i enjoy zany counter-rationalism as much as anybody

but they are

da elephant in daruma (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:24 (eight months ago) link

yeah i'm with noodle vague on this one

Kate (rushomancy), Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:24 (eight months ago) link

budo there is a more nuanced argument to be had here but what i'm saying is that if somebody tells you, in 2023, that they've got concerns about vaccines or climate change or 15 minute cities then self-preservation says assume they're fash and hope for a pleasant surprise if you've got the stamina to discuss it

da elephant in daruma (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:29 (eight months ago) link

like am i skeptical of the way white patriarchal science is implemented in practice? hell yes. i suffered severe, permanent, and irreparable harm from enlightenment science's universalization of "factual and objective" norms regarding gender diversity that, in reality, had nothing to do with gender expansive people's actual lived experiences but instead were based on the bigotries and prejudices of cis men presenting themselves as "experts". what _they_ said about us was the only thing that mattered. that, you know, that's post-enlightenment western rationalism, and you know what else it is? it's fucking _evidence-based_. flat earthers aren't. covid deniers aren't. trans eradication shares certain apparent similarities to conspiracy theories, but acknowledging and advocating for the dismantlement of hegemonic institutions of repression is not remotely comparable to blaming COVID on "the chinese". it's not.

Kate (rushomancy), Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:33 (eight months ago) link

xp fair enough but we weren't talking about vaccines or climate change, we were talking about flat earth

budo jeru, Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:34 (eight months ago) link

ok, i'm going to take a step back because i'm not talking about blaming COVID on the chinese ... i was talking about moon landing / aliens

budo jeru, Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:35 (eight months ago) link

you know, that's post-enlightenment western rationalism, and you know what else it is? it's fucking _evidence-based_.

that _skepticism_ is a skepticism of enlightenment-era western rationalism, and that skepticism is evidence-based. wow. is my whole post this incoherent?

Kate (rushomancy), Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:35 (eight months ago) link

well, it's not like it's a super topic, in fairness

budo jeru, Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:36 (eight months ago) link

*super easy

budo jeru, Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:36 (eight months ago) link

questioning enlightenment values is fine by me, i'm a kneejerk postmodernist

the issue is the specifics of how flat earthism plays itself out and aligns itself at this moment

da elephant in daruma (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:39 (eight months ago) link

ok, i'm going to take a step back because i'm not talking about blaming COVID on the chinese ... i was talking about moon landing / aliens

― budo jeru

ok, so trying to come down from my dander here, lol, this is one of my special interests, conspiracy theories, i've spent a lot of time with them.

and my argument is that people spend so much of their time focusing on whether or not conspiracy theories are _true_ and to me the interesting question is _why_ people believe them. for instance, the "ancient aliens" conspiracy theory, if you look at what motivates that it's the assumption that non-white people couldn't possibly design and build monumental architecture. again, this comes from a _critique_ of enlightenment rationalist assumptions. if you drill down far enough as to _why_ people believe these conspiracy theories, you're really likely to hit a racist and/or patriarchal core assumption underlying it.

when it comes to the abuses committed by white supremacist patriarchal rationalist institutions, there's not a question of _why_ people object to it. there's your qualitative difference, i'd argue.

Kate (rushomancy), Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:42 (eight months ago) link

budo there is a more nuanced argument to be had here but what i'm saying is that if somebody tells you, in 2023, that they've got concerns about vaccines or climate change or 15 minute cities then self-preservation says assume they're fash and hope for a pleasant surprise if you've got the stamina to discuss it

― da elephant in daruma (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, August 30, 2023 3:29 PM (seven minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink

also, i broadly agree with this, but this is the friend infected with right-wing brain worms ("What to do?") thread, so i feel like here if nowhere else it may be okay to put forth the notion that there might be something to acknowledging that people's conspiratorial / aggrieved worldview do have a basis in a reality of disparity and exploitation.

and by the way, i know anti-vaxxer anarchists who spend all their time doing mutual aid and passing out food at homeless encampments. it's weird and it is a thing!

budo jeru, Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:46 (eight months ago) link

and, to further clarify, what i'm putting forth is largely a rhetorical argument in service of minimizing harmful right-wing discourse. i don't blame anybody who shuts it down or decides to walk away. i'm just trying to propose a strategy that sees an essential truth at the core of the conspiratorial mindset and tries to use it and pivot it with actual, useful analysis

budo jeru, Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:52 (eight months ago) link

and Kate your most recent post is interesting but i'm struggling with focus at work and need to come back to it

budo jeru, Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:53 (eight months ago) link

i feel like here if nowhere else it may be okay to put forth the notion that there might be something to acknowledging that people's conspiratorial / aggrieved worldview do have a basis in a reality of disparity and exploitation.

In my case, it is definitely not rooted in anything like that, its based in transmissions from the internet. a woke liberal elite have captured the institutions, and are an existential threat. There's some fuzzyness about whether they're going to introduce communism if they ever get elected, or there already is communism, or both, or what communism is, but it is happening or has happened nonetheless

but there's a shape shifting quality to it. He got the vaccines, he was still wearing masks later than I was, was still doing covid tests later than most, so covid was definitely real but also fake and used by the liberal elite to control society but also real and a targeted weapon by China. All of these are simultaneously true, but not quite occupying the same space. Has never said anything negative about vaccines though

anvil, Wednesday, 30 August 2023 20:59 (eight months ago) link

Ah, posted a few days back. Still euwww

Stomp Jomperson (dog latin), Thursday, 31 August 2023 11:10 (eight months ago) link

and by the way, i know anti-vaxxer anarchists who spend all their time doing mutual aid and passing out food at homeless encampments. it's weird and it is a thing!

― budo jeru

oh, absolutely, as a historical phenomenon anti-vax ideology is pretty interesting. i'm out here in pdx, it's a hotbed for new age "alternative science", which is where the anti-vax movement started out. honestly it's entirely possible that i'm in the pseudoscience pipeline myself. i get my hormones from a naturopath, which is legal in oregon and nowhere else, naturopaths are legally mandated to have parity with medical doctors. do i think naturopathy is evidence-based? not really. my provider, though, was the only one who would prescribe hormones for trans people back when nobody else would. nowadays you can get hormones from other people. sometimes. endos still tend not to listen to trans patients. i'm a fan of evidence-based medicine, however, when it comes to the actual effects of hrt, it's not really evidence-based, because _nobody is doing this fucking studies_. i take progesterone, for instance. does progesterone do anything? fuck knows! i think it does, but there's no fucking research out there to back it up. same way, i'm reading a book on somatics by someone whose experience with it comes from reichian bodywork. wilhelm reich, who in my mind will always look like donald pleasance, is a meme to me, somebody from hawkwind jams and the french band "zorgones". at the same time, i'm finding the book really helpful to me, not in a _scientific_ way, but it's helping me understand how to live a more embodied experience. embodiment means a lot to me. is there a medical basis for talking about dissociation and embodiment? not really.

i still think of myself as a proponent of evidence-based science, but someone could look at the stuff i do that's _not_ evidence-based and conclude otherwise. there's definitely some cognitive dissonance in my attitudes!

like, when it comes to vaccines, the people i know in the queer community are _strongly_ pro-vax, about the most pro-vax people i know. if you want to go to queer events here, even in public, you need to show evidence of being vaxxed and boosted. a lot of it comes out of disability politics and an understanding of the disproportionate effects of anti-vax ideology on marginalized group. we'll fight, fight hard, for access to preventative care. you do have to fight to get PrEP in a lot of cases, and you have to lie sometimes. my girlfriend when to a doctor and they asked her if she had receptive anal sex with multiple partners. when the monkeypox vaccine came out it was advised for "men who have sex with men" to get it. i'm an asexual woman who's intimate with other women. i'm just as at risk for monkeypox as MSMs. if i want to get PrEP, if a doctor asks me if i have receptive anal sex with multiple partners, i'm going to lie. if they don't have a right to know, yes, i'll lie, and i'll do it without guilt.

Kate (rushomancy), Thursday, 31 August 2023 14:31 (eight months ago) link

Looking back i'd say the Lancet "vaccines cause autism" study from 1998 was a fulcrum point. Not just, I think, because it mainstreamed anti-vax ideology. What interests me is that the article published in the magazine dedicated to Medical Science was an iteration of anti-vax ideology that just happened to dovetail quite nicely with the normative biases of the time. Anti-vax ideology ceased to become a form of dissidence against hegemonic norms and instead a movement aimed at perpetuating those norms in a more explicit fashion.

OK that's all a lot of rhetoric, to get personal on this... I'm autistic, and I'm also queer. Coming out as queer helped me to re-evaluated my understanding with autism and my relationship to it. Because I'm not just autistic, I'm self-diagnosed autistic, something that was heavily stigmatized earlier in my life. People were derided as having "self-diagnosed Asperger's" (Asperger's being a form of autism created by a Nazi scientist as a form of legitimizing certain forms of neurodivergence, while allowing socially unacceptable neurodivergent people to be exterminated through the Aktion T4 extermination process. It's not a current diagnosis in the DSM, but was taken seriously at the time.

Having recognized the necessity of self-determination in the case of my queer and trans identity, I started to question the norms medical science established around autism, the framework they had constructed to define it. Autism, for instance, was seen as a single "illness", one that was diagnosed almost exclusively in white AMABs from affluent families. Furthermore, experts writing on the topic frequently did so in a fashion that transparently perpetuated their own cultural biases. For instance, one of the foremost experts on autism is Simon Baron-Cohen, who characterized autism as "extreme male brain". You can imagine how pleased I was upon reading _that_ one. Baron-Cohen's work is actually a lot better than a lot of the other allistic perspectives on autism. I figured that if this was what one of the foremost medical experts said on the topic, I was OK to self-diagnose, that I knew myself better than Baron-Cohen knew me.

For autistic people, the Lancet paper is not just about the anti-vax thing - it's a pseudoscientific perpetuation of the pathologization of neurodiversity. Given the observable correlation between neurodiversity and queerness, I do personally think of this as kind of a big deal.

Anyway. That's just kind of the way I look at conspiracy theories, the social implications of how they develop and are perpetuated.

Kate (rushomancy), Thursday, 31 August 2023 15:52 (eight months ago) link

in autistic social circles I have known it's truly impressive how much SBC's work and associated assumptions from professionals have managed to *differentially* fuck up autistic people's lives based on their psychiatrically-assigned genders - thereby enforcing cisnormative genderness on and driving a wedge into a population which has always been deemed to have been misperforming their gender in some way, troubling enough to require such an intervention

I'm sure my liberal science believing acquaintances would think this is another crazy conspiracy theory (like those ones I have about the media lying to people or bosses exploiting their workers) and really who are they going to believe, my hysteria or published research by a bunch of scientists?

your original display name is still visible (Left), Thursday, 31 August 2023 17:00 (eight months ago) link

I really want to trouble the assumptions about a rational (if complacent and ineffectual) liberal establishment vs a crazy conspiracy theorist underground because I see it a lot in thinkpieces but it doesn't at all reflect what I see IRL

your original display name is still visible (Left), Thursday, 31 August 2023 17:08 (eight months ago) link

Has anyone read the new book _ Conspirituality: How New Age Conspiracy Theories Became a Public Health Threat_? There are parts in there about what to do when people you have an existing connection with go down that road

Glower, Disruption & Pies (kingfish), Thursday, 31 August 2023 18:17 (eight months ago) link

I'm sure my liberal science believing acquaintances would think this is another crazy conspiracy theory (like those ones I have about the media lying to people or bosses exploiting their workers) and really who are they going to believe, my hysteria or published research by a bunch of scientists?

― your original display name is still visible (Left)

i don't blame anybody individually for their skepticism of anything that doesn't conform to liberal norms... when i was a liberal i was the same way. i once, pre-transition, tried to argue with a trans woman of my acquaintance that her lived experience didn't conform to transmedicalism... not my finest moment. obviously, in retrospect i would have benefited much more from listening to her. that's one of the big issues with it and one of the main frustrations i have as a leftist... it's really easy for people to act against their own interests, when it's part of a norm they've been taught. i mean, my only mistake was believing literally everything i'd ever been told about gender, you know?

but it's impossible to explain, because liberalism does equivalate every form of dissent from what it falsely considers to be "objective truth". "horseshoe theory" really emblematizes this tendency of liberalism.

at the same time, in order to get rights, we have to justify and convince liberals that we deserve rights, the onus is on us... when it comes to trans rights, in the us, liberals have mostly been convinced, in the uk, not so much. more than that, we have to convince liberals to support us to the _detriment of their distinguished opposition_, which is an _extremely_ tough ask and is the issue america is struggling with.

when it comes to neurodiversity... people who don't have the lived experience we do, they have no understanding whatsoever of neurodiversity. honestly, most of them, to the extent they're aware of neurodiversity at all, probably hold the autism speaks (ugh) approach to things, simply because they're not aware of anything else.

Kate (rushomancy), Thursday, 31 August 2023 21:33 (eight months ago) link

It seems covid and the lockdowns will be coming back on October 16th in order to ban in person voting. But there is some confusion as the election isn't until next year. So it looks like there has been a miscalculation

When I asked about this issue regarding the year, he responded with "well it doesnt always have to make sense". Something of a Motte and Bailey effect seems to be present.

anvil, Tuesday, 5 September 2023 07:47 (eight months ago) link

three weeks pass...

There's a newish local band I've been wanting to see, but I just checked out the bassist's FB page and it's wall to wall Trump-loving, Biden-bashing, Qanon memes and now I think I've noped out of ever supporting them.

Large, Complex, Detailed but Irrefutable POST (Dan Peterson), Tuesday, 26 September 2023 14:10 (seven months ago) link

Surprised it’s not the drummer.

papal hotwife (milo z), Tuesday, 26 September 2023 14:52 (seven months ago) link

I vaguely know one guy in the band and I'm surprised he can be in a band with this fuckwit. They must have a "no discussing politics" understanding, but I don't think I could do it.

Large, Complex, Detailed but Irrefutable POST (Dan Peterson), Tuesday, 26 September 2023 15:12 (seven months ago) link

Especially when it's not an important member of the band.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Tuesday, 26 September 2023 16:00 (seven months ago) link

Bassists aren't important?

The First Time Ever I Saw Gervais (Tom D.), Tuesday, 26 September 2023 16:04 (seven months ago) link

Yeah wait what? I'm a bass player!

Large, Complex, Detailed but Irrefutable POST (Dan Peterson), Tuesday, 26 September 2023 17:24 (seven months ago) link

EXCELSIOR

The land of dreams and endless remorse (hardcore dilettante), Tuesday, 26 September 2023 18:39 (seven months ago) link

LOL

My son is a bass player also. He and I had a good laugh over the Onion (?) article about the groupie being dismayed when she found out she had slept with the bass player. "If I'm going to sleep with someone, they'd better be important."

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Tuesday, 26 September 2023 19:31 (seven months ago) link

itt - Rockists!

vodkaitamin effrtvescent (calzino), Tuesday, 26 September 2023 20:04 (seven months ago) link

Cries in drummer

Hereward the Woke (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 26 September 2023 20:42 (seven months ago) link

real champions of shat-on instrumentalists are viola players

Kate (rushomancy), Wednesday, 27 September 2023 14:49 (seven months ago) link

https://media4.giphy.com/media/kZD8cN1MycfKw/giphy.gif

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 27 September 2023 15:03 (seven months ago) link

five months pass...

Apparently libs are being owned by Sydney Sweeney wearing a revealing dress at a, uh, GLAAD event?

papal hotwife (milo z), Sunday, 17 March 2024 09:00 (two months ago) link

one month passes...

It seems covid and the lockdowns will be coming back on October 16th in order to ban in person voting. But there is some confusion as the election isn't until next year. So it looks like there has been a miscalculation

My cousin has a trip planned for this October, and I asked him if he had any contingency plans with the lockdown coming back to help Biden by preventing in person voting and potentially making the trip more difficult. Caught out, there was no real answer. But I thought it encapsulated the idea that he believes something to be true, but also doesn't. And the former is a conceptual truth, and the latter a practical one - and theres's no contradiction, unless they are forced to occupy the same space at the same time, at which point there is no real answer.

Brainworms can be tidied away for a short while if it looks like they might get in the way of plans

anvil, Sunday, 21 April 2024 18:27 (three weeks ago) link

Thanks for that, listened to the audio just now. Dovetails quite a lot I think. I'll look up the researchers mentioned in that too

The line about the sincere and the strategic being a false dichotomy. The thing about the how putting money on the table changes how people answer too (my cousin will never take my offer of a wager on anything - no matter how big or small the amount suggested)

The part about misinformation not being something top down is interesting. Have you seen the Sarcasmitron videos on Putin? He posits a somewhat inadvertent reverse misinformation pipeline from the mid 00's emanating from people like Lyndon LaRouche, with Putin as the recipient, and then reflected back to the West over the subsequent decade

anvil, Monday, 22 April 2024 12:11 (three weeks ago) link

I'm starting to worry that _I'm_ getting brain worms.

Kate (rushomancy), Monday, 22 April 2024 19:07 (three weeks ago) link

Worrying you have it is a pretty good prophylactic— who’s the last wingnut who ever conceded “hey folks I might be full of magic beans here”?

But some of these doofuses will absolutely put money on their professed unreality — I’m waiting to see if Biden wins so I can take the money of denialists who will continue to bet otherwise a full week after the fact like last time.

Philip Nunez, Monday, 22 April 2024 20:42 (three weeks ago) link

The piece got me thinking earlier about the study into doomsday type cult members before and after the judgement day comes and goes without incident. Before the event they "think" the cult's prophecies are true, and after the even they "believe" the cults prophecies are true - and this manifested in them being highly insular before the event and highly proselytizing after the event, where the performance or signaling became part of the belief

Belief kind of asks something of its adherents, you have to do something. Anyone can "believe" that pan of boiling water is hot, but can you believe its cold and put your hand in to prove it

anvil, Monday, 22 April 2024 20:58 (three weeks ago) link

we sort of touched on this in one of the religious thread that was bumped lately and people had very different views about what was meant and the range of things that could be meant by terms like belief and faith and i think you're veering slightly into territory there which almost demands that belief must mean the thing believed in isnt true or whatever

i think belief just "is" - absolutely independent of reality and a first order item in and of itself and anything less than this is more properly described as self delusion perhaps, or orneriness, or whats the word contrarianism or etc

close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Monday, 22 April 2024 21:25 (three weeks ago) link

You may be right, I'm thinking aloud based on the article Daniel linked more so than my own interactions, though there did seem a considerable amount of overlap, which is something we're unlikely to see from the likes of Sessegnon anytime soon

I think in the case of my cousin, contrarianism is definitely a part of it, but its more like a kind of a cosplaying or trying it on for size. But there is something else, an element of that which is believed is in some way hidden, a secret knowledge, which the ordinary man on the street can't see

anvil, Monday, 22 April 2024 21:36 (three weeks ago) link

there did seem a considerable amount of overlap, which is something we're unlikely to see from the likes of Sessegnon anytime soon

take it to ilf

close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Monday, 22 April 2024 21:41 (three weeks ago) link

my older brother's one of these guys...I think for him it's very much the appeal of knowing something the normies don't. he wants to be that guy in the corner going, "oh, you believe what you saw on TV..."

frogbs, Monday, 22 April 2024 21:43 (three weeks ago) link

That's a huge part of it, yeah. And the community aspect of having others who also know your secret handshake.

Daniel_Rf, Monday, 22 April 2024 21:51 (three weeks ago) link

But there is something else, an element of that which is believed is in some way hidden, a secret knowledge, which the ordinary man on the street can't see

This has come up before too right? The 'game' aspect. Don't ruin the game with your 'evidence'!

nashwan, Monday, 22 April 2024 21:52 (three weeks ago) link


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