Why do people leave ILX for good?

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never trust a thread over 50 posts

― milton parker (Jon L), Tuesday, May 23, 2006

Emperor Tonetta Ketchup (sleeve), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 22:15 (five years ago) link

This is such a buoyant and optimistic take that I can cheerfully overlook the slight on my partner. I still find miles more of interest through ILX than any other internet platform.

alrakis morissette (tangenttangent), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 22:16 (five years ago) link

xp

alrakis morissette (tangenttangent), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 22:16 (five years ago) link

I would never leave ilx because of specific user such as imago, I think he's a good poster

moose; squirrel (silby), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 22:18 (five years ago) link

Aaw! I like his posts about food

alrakis morissette (tangenttangent), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 22:21 (five years ago) link

lol without LJ this domain would be available thru godaddy

Nick Chiveon (rip van wanko), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 22:24 (five years ago) link

and yet still no site modship

imago, Tuesday, 9 April 2019 22:36 (five years ago) link

not until you learn discipline

j., Tuesday, 9 April 2019 22:41 (five years ago) link

I'm a bit over participating on the internet. Ive said all I need to say online over the last almost 20 years, and I'm a boring, middle aged stepmom now. NO one cares what I think. I'l happily read stuff from others though.

― Stoop Crone (Trayce)

i am also boring and middle aged and i think this pretty much sums up where i'm at too. well said!

the late great, Tuesday, 9 April 2019 22:48 (five years ago) link

lj is posting as he has always done

fremme nette his simplicitte (darraghmac), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 22:52 (five years ago) link

tt you may not have read the poll results

blokes you can't rust (sic), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 23:01 (five years ago) link

ilx is pretty much the last public place on the internet i like and i will continue to make empty threads for emo albums until someone stops me

jolene club remix (BradNelson), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 23:05 (five years ago) link

It's like he's the winner of the end of year poll! xp

alrakis morissette (tangenttangent), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 23:06 (five years ago) link

Brad, direct me to all your empty emo threads and I will fill them with superlatives.

alrakis morissette (tangenttangent), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 23:06 (five years ago) link

somewhere i have a mix of 'songs brad has at one time or another thought were the most beautiful in the world' and it is v. good so yeah kiu pls

mookieproof, Tuesday, 9 April 2019 23:10 (five years ago) link

feels like no one is making much effort on ile, ilm still great tho

ogmor, Wednesday, 10 April 2019 00:11 (five years ago) link

"i miss the narrower and more established community"

it's not what it used to be, that's for sure. the high school days of ilx are over. but it still beats every other place online imo, there are still a lot of great posters. and lj should be mod, yes.

Uptown VONC (Le Bateau Ivre), Wednesday, 10 April 2019 00:19 (five years ago) link

the heck

although I forget if forks is a mod, and if so, I should have moved my plans around over the weekend so I could have met up and slipped him that envelope of cash and sb recommendations

mh, Wednesday, 10 April 2019 01:09 (five years ago) link

and bought some pottery. dude has some really good work these days

mh, Wednesday, 10 April 2019 01:10 (five years ago) link

i do like ilx and i'm sad to see all the boards going the way of de subjectivisten and aeon flux top level

i should probably get out more and find more friends though, the internet in general is not really a good thing

truth be told i'm just as likely to learn to write in dutch

Jaki Liebowitz (rushomancy), Wednesday, 10 April 2019 01:44 (five years ago) link

brad rules plz never leave

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 10 April 2019 02:12 (five years ago) link

otm and soto too

Nick Chiveon (rip van wanko), Wednesday, 10 April 2019 02:14 (five years ago) link

borad rules plz never leave

j., Wednesday, 10 April 2019 02:15 (five years ago) link

i like ilx for nerding out about stuff no-one irl cares about, like pink floyd or whatever dumb podcast i like now or that one book i cant stop talking about

i also like it for politics, not to participate but reading takes from ppl here is a bit better than the swirling twitter toilet of opinion, though to be fair both have their good & bad days

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 10 April 2019 02:16 (five years ago) link

seconded on brad and alfred

Dan S, Wednesday, 10 April 2019 02:23 (five years ago) link

I've burned out somewhat on the US politics threads. I agree with pretty much everything posted in those, but thinking about it every day is not good for my mental health

ilx film and music threads are still interesting to me

Dan S, Wednesday, 10 April 2019 02:23 (five years ago) link

otm and soto too

― Nick Chiveon (rip van wanko), Tuesday, April 9, 2019 10:14 PM

besos

recriminations from the nitpicking woke (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 10 April 2019 02:31 (five years ago) link

ilx has all the best nerds. simply the best.

A is for (Aimless), Wednesday, 10 April 2019 02:37 (five years ago) link

glad to see recent Οὖτις and El Tomboto posts

Dan S, Wednesday, 10 April 2019 03:13 (five years ago) link

Yeah aimless otm, ilx has the best nerds. it is def the best place to get my nerdy itches scratched

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 10 April 2019 03:40 (five years ago) link

mh, i woulda taken that money!
Doing my first public pottery show this month at my studio btw!

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Wednesday, 10 April 2019 03:42 (five years ago) link

hell yeah, congrats!

these are not all of the possible side effects (Karl Malone), Wednesday, 10 April 2019 03:44 (five years ago) link

I miss you.

― recriminations from the nitpicking woke (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 21:43 (yesterday) Permalink

seconded

― Emperor Tonetta Ketchup (sleeve), Tuesday, 9 April 2019 21:45 (yesterday) Permalink

aw, you guys

goole, Wednesday, 10 April 2019 04:07 (five years ago) link

hi goole

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 10 April 2019 04:21 (five years ago) link

I have doubts that anyone can truly leave ILX. It imprints itself into your psyche forever. Like, when I got my most recent/refined AncestryDNA results back and they showed I had 1% Norwegian ancestry (in addition to 1% Swedish ancestry -- LOL Vikings), my first thought was, "OMG, I'm 1% Geir!" This was before I most recently came back into the fold. I also calculated that 20% of my FB friends are people I met via this forum community. Unless you become super successful and Too Good for ILX, you're coming back.

The Colour of Spring (deethelurker), Thursday, 11 April 2019 20:19 (five years ago) link

does FB mean Frederik B or Facebook?

Nick Chiveon (rip van wanko), Thursday, 11 April 2019 22:23 (five years ago) link

no good choices there

don't mock my smock or i'll clean your clock (silby), Thursday, 11 April 2019 22:49 (five years ago) link

well one has undermined American democracy and the other one is facebook

be the 2 chainz you want 2 see in the world (m bison), Friday, 12 April 2019 00:13 (five years ago) link

i'm loving the old school cuddlestein mountain vibes of deethelurker's return

cheese canopy (map), Friday, 12 April 2019 02:24 (five years ago) link

This is pretty easily the best place on the internet. Some of the music discussion is good. The people are okay. But really, it's the only interface I can barely stand to look at. And none of my dumb friends from high school are here.

jazzed (it's a boy!), Saturday, 13 April 2019 03:17 (five years ago) link

The people are okay.

Hey!

alomar lines, Saturday, 13 April 2019 04:52 (five years ago) link

i'm loving the old school cuddlestein mountain vibes of deethelurker's return

Even though I'm maybe 15% as enthusiastic and optimistic as I was the last time I was a regular? Wow, this site must be a LOT darker than it used to be! Anyway, Facebook (or certain groups in it and my similarly political friends) has turned me into a leftist libertarian/free market socialist, and there's a wider scope of political dialogue than would be found here on ILX, where as far as I can tell most everyone still reduces libertarianism to the caricatures of Roger Adultery and Murray Rothbard (if not a complete misinterpretation of Ayn Rand).

The Colour of Spring (deethelurker), Saturday, 13 April 2019 17:03 (five years ago) link

"Free market socialist" seems to me a contradiction in terms. The only tool society has to police markets to force them to serve broad social needs rather than serve capital's never-satisfied desire for ever-higher profits and monopoly over markets is government oversight and regulation, iow, unfree markets. If "free market socialist" actually means "strictly regulated market socialist", then I'm in your corner.

A is for (Aimless), Saturday, 13 April 2019 17:43 (five years ago) link

dee is anarcho-communist, this is canon now

be the 2 chainz you want 2 see in the world (m bison), Saturday, 13 April 2019 17:44 (five years ago) link

Y'all never heard of "social democracy"? That's the economic system I adhere to and doesn't sound at all "communist". Especially the way it exists in the mixed economies of the Scandinavian countries, who all also happen to rank the highest in global freedom indexes. BTW, one of my FB friends is a co-founder of the Libertarian Socialist Caucus (Mike Shipley).

The Colour of Spring (deethelurker), Saturday, 13 April 2019 19:06 (five years ago) link

trouble with the scandinavian countries is that they have a lot of space, a lot of resources and really no poverty to speak of

it's a great system if you can afford it

idk. surely libertarian socialism is an admirable end-goal but there's a hell of a lot of work to be done before it can be implemented anywhere with a serious poverty problem

imago, Saturday, 13 April 2019 19:11 (five years ago) link

As I understand the term "social democracy" it would align pretty darn well with strictly regulated markets and align very poorly with any version of libertarianism or randian free market capitalism I have ever encountered. In which case, I'm in your corner, despite the confusion of terminology over your identity as a "leftist libertarian/free market socialist".

A is for (Aimless), Saturday, 13 April 2019 19:11 (five years ago) link

trouble with the scandinavian countries is that they have a lot of space, a lot of resources and really no poverty to speak of

― imago, 13. april 2019 21:11 (fourteen minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

That's not really true of Denmark.

Frederik B, Saturday, 13 April 2019 19:27 (five years ago) link

I'm not sure people think of Denmark when they talk about Scandinavian Social Democracy, it's always Sweden or Norway.

Do you like 70s hard rock with a guitar hero? (Tom D.), Saturday, 13 April 2019 19:30 (five years ago) link


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