No, no, no, Mark P set the terms of this conundrum and it was very simple: "Would you walk into a room full of black people and call them niggers?" And I'm saying that if you just have the option to
a) go along with their revaluation of the word or
b) question it
which would be the better thing to do?
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 14 October 2002 14:51 (twenty-three years ago)
(must dash...i'm in my living room and now i have to go to my kitchen.)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Monday, 14 October 2002 14:54 (twenty-three years ago)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:01 (twenty-three years ago)
So who's going to walk into Art Fag Mondays and tell DJ Amy 'I'm not, um, 'gay' myself, but I really think you should change the name of this place. It's degrading!'
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:07 (twenty-three years ago)
― vic (vicc13), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:14 (twenty-three years ago)
which words? and how? why? when? with who in mind? while keeping a cautious eye out for which elements? oh, fuck it, i'd rather lick matted menses out of dyke pubes while getting sucked off at the jewboy afro hair day at the fag salon than think about this gay shit, but that's okay, everyone knows the vice "scene" includes every gay/black/jewish/left-leaning person living at present.
how's this, Momus: "I'm gay myself, and I really think you should change the name of this place. It's degrading!" ?
― Mitch Lastnamewithheld (mitchlnw), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:19 (twenty-three years ago)
Better not to use the word at all than throw one more coal onto the fires of pent up rage and pain of the Ivan Julians of the world (cf. aforementioned bangs piece where he describes hearing it like shrapnel lodging in his stomach).
This doesn't mean that I am going to write letters to Vice complaining. I find them and what they pander to repellent, but fine.
Momus you're a dope half the time because you automatically equate moral disapproval with censorship and shock value with merit.
― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:20 (twenty-three years ago)
― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:21 (twenty-three years ago)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:24 (twenty-three years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:30 (twenty-three years ago)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:32 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:34 (twenty-three years ago)
Nabiso - are you saying adults should be judged by the same standards as 8 year olds then?
― Tom (Groke), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:35 (twenty-three years ago)
why oh why am I having the sudden urge to play (LOUD) You'll Dance To Anything by the Dead Milkmen?
― suzy (suzy), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:35 (twenty-three years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:35 (twenty-three years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:36 (twenty-three years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:38 (twenty-three years ago)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:38 (twenty-three years ago)
This reminds me of Nitsuh's comments on the 'Is Bush An Idiot' thread. He wanted the people who voted Nader to outline their longterm vision for the positive outcome a Nader vote might bring. And he got frustrated because nobody seemed even to have thought in those terms.
Here I'm actually being somewhat Naderite, in a sense, and saying that I believe the word 'fag' can be totally revalued *for the whole community* within a few short years, and that this victory, which I believe is both important and inevitable, is worth the short-term risk (of Democrats losing votes, in the Nader case, or of a peceived -- but illusory -- temporary *increase* in homophobia, in this case).
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:42 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:52 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:53 (twenty-three years ago)
I refuse to pick one of Momus's hypothetical scenarios because they're fucking stupid. I freely invite Momus to walk into a room filled with my relatives or my wife's relatives and start throwing the word "nigger" around because he desperately needs the beatdown.
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:53 (twenty-three years ago)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:56 (twenty-three years ago)
Sterling's name has never been more appropriate
― RickyT (RickyT), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:56 (twenty-three years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:57 (twenty-three years ago)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Monday, 14 October 2002 15:58 (twenty-three years ago)
Why should it? What's so great about that word?
― Jody Beth Rosen, Monday, 14 October 2002 16:01 (twenty-three years ago)
Jesus, Momus, you can't claim both that the usage is for the scene, and is being carefully handled by licensed word-smiths, AND it's for the community (which I'm assuming is at least the 90% of the US outside NY), where it will bring great healing. Make your mind up.
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:03 (twenty-three years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:04 (twenty-three years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:05 (twenty-three years ago)
also, since when did stockholm syndrome redeem a word?
― jess (dubplatestyle), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:06 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:08 (twenty-three years ago)
We (and by 'we' I mean fags, non-fags, art fags and Vice readers) are a lot quicker and more creative when it comes to messing with language than Bushites in pickup trucks.
You are, at very best, not paying enough attention to the people you speak for.
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:08 (twenty-three years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:09 (twenty-three years ago)
Momus, have you seen Kentucky Fried Movie?
― Andy K (Andy K), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:12 (twenty-three years ago)
It starts on the scene (and it's not all thought-out, it just happens because of stuff like camp and irony) and spreads out from there. I don't see any contradiction here.
Momus, this whole "blunting" word-reclamation idea is like a man telling his wife that if he rapes her very carefully every night it won't be as terrible when someone does it for real.
Nabisco, who's being silly now? Come on, what did you make of my reference to your point on the Nader / Bush thread?
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:14 (twenty-three years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:15 (twenty-three years ago)
So yes, I think the Nader-thread comparison is spot-on: what is this meant to accomplish, beyond making money tittillating people by saying words they don't think they're allowed to hear?
― nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:18 (twenty-three years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:20 (twenty-three years ago)
― RickyT (RickyT), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:21 (twenty-three years ago)
So let's also add that his "recontextualization" scheme is preaching to a choir -- it has no effect on the people who claim these as actually-hateful words apart from giving them the impression that they're completely right and even the fags and the niggers can see that.
― nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:23 (twenty-three years ago)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:24 (twenty-three years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:26 (twenty-three years ago)
― suzy (suzy), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:30 (twenty-three years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:32 (twenty-three years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:35 (twenty-three years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:41 (twenty-three years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:43 (twenty-three years ago)
― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:44 (twenty-three years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 14 October 2002 16:49 (twenty-three years ago)