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tbc I don't think the change in tone here is due to "self-censorship" so much as people growing and realising that some shit is hurtful and unfunny

no doubt we'll have regrets about our current posts in 20 years too sure

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 10:44 (one month ago) link

Nabozo
Posted: 30 April 2024 at 11:39:09
Yeah I think it's fascinating to see self-censorship at work.Not that I don't think we have effectively progressed on a number of issues and that some old posts weren't preposterous. But to see it as a social phenomenon is humbling - I would not dare to judge too harshly ILX posts from 20 years ago, knowing that the confrontation is ongoing, and our own era is not short of pre/misconceptions.


a) lol. “Self-censorship” is such a whiny way of saying “Not saying whatever shit pops up into your head”.
b) there’s often people in posts from twenty years ago saying whatever comment is fucked up. Pretty sure most of us knew what racism and homophobia were in 2004.

Roman Anthony gets on his horse (gyac), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 10:49 (one month ago) link

"people growing and realising that some shit is hurtful and unfunny"

Average age of people on ilx was probably 25. Probably 35 now?

xyzzzz__, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 10:58 (one month ago) link

lol I think the recent poll put it more at like 50?

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 11:00 (one month ago) link

but yeah there were a lot of younger posters then that I don't think are around anymore

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 11:01 (one month ago) link

I meant it in a more neutral way: what you feel is socially / publicly acceptable to say. I assume most people find a way to say what they mean, but it's interesting to see how - that's where it's telling about society.
Of course it's dynamic. "Most of us" is the crux of the matter isn't it, if you speak of shifts.

Nabozo, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 11:02 (one month ago) link

Lol @ 50.

We definitely have not replaced people. This is how ilx finally dies

xp

xyzzzz__, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 11:03 (one month ago) link

Average age is definitely not 35!

I've left the box of soup near your shoes (Tom D.), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 11:08 (one month ago) link

How old were you as of April 3, 2024?

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 11:10 (one month ago) link

Xyzzz makes a good point: I, a solitary younger poster, am the lifeblood and future of this website and as such I demand to be taken seriously!

H.P, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 11:27 (one month ago) link

It actually is a little crazy there are only 3 people under 30 who voted in that poll. The elders of this site need to get in contact with the Catholic Church and share ideas on how to draw a younger crowd to their old and dying congregations. I'm crumbling under the weight of responsibility here guys

H.P, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 11:34 (one month ago) link

ILX has the same problem Biden does exciting younger voters.

the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 11:43 (one month ago) link

"average ilxor 53" factoid actualy (sic) just statistical error. average ilxor well under 30. spiders mark s, who lives in cave & is over 10,000 years old, is an outlier adn (sic) should not have been counted

mark s, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 11:44 (one month ago) link

i bleve that HP is the future/teach’m well and let’m lead the way/show’m all the beauty he got inside/give’m a sense of pride to make it easier/let HP’s laughter help us forget how we used to be

schrodingers cat was always cool (Hunt3r), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 14:10 (one month ago) link

I have been posting on and off here since I was 21, and I will be turning 40 this fall.

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 14:21 (one month ago) link

average ilxor is 53 inches

Are you addicted to struggling with your horse? (Boring, Maryland), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 14:29 (one month ago) link

Round the waist?

I've left the box of soup near your shoes (Tom D.), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 14:40 (one month ago) link

Round the thigh

Are you addicted to struggling with your horse? (Boring, Maryland), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 14:41 (one month ago) link

*gets sprung*

ain't nothin but a brie thing, baby (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 14:41 (one month ago) link

Round the -- well.

the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 14:41 (one month ago) link

thilxor.com

rob, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 14:42 (one month ago) link

lol Alfred

rob, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 14:42 (one month ago) link

63 age, 34 waist.

Mark G, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 14:59 (one month ago) link

39 age, 30 waist

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 15:00 (one month ago) link

I get my kicks above the waistline, sunshine

sarahell, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 15:20 (one month ago) link

hair is crazy curly, flip like mr. furley

peace, man, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 15:30 (one month ago) link

49 age, 28 waist.

the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 15:31 (one month ago) link

43, 36, figure out which one is which

ain't nothin but a brie thing, baby (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 15:32 (one month ago) link

39 age, 30 waist

― butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table),

son of a bitch

close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 15:45 (one month ago) link

49 age, 28 waist.

― the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn)

son of a bitch

close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 15:45 (one month ago) link

I can make you feel better but

Bitchin Doutai (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 15:50 (one month ago) link

Negroni diet, all!

the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 15:51 (one month ago) link

waist is just a number

z_tbd, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 16:06 (one month ago) link

An irrational number

Bitchin Doutai (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 16:10 (one month ago) link

Thread for ilxors in their 40s

sarahell, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 16:17 (one month ago) link

jesus, last time I wore 28 waist jeans, 56k dial up modems were cutting edge tech

vodkaitamin effrtvescent (calzino), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 16:22 (one month ago) link

I've been a 38 for as long as I can remember tbh, sizes aren't the boss of me

Bitchin Doutai (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 16:24 (one month ago) link

inches are imperialist iirc

rob, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 16:28 (one month ago) link

I go for relaxed fit 40 waist jeans these days, but it's not really my waist size, honest. I just like to wear oversized clothes!

vodkaitamin effrtvescent (calzino), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 16:29 (one month ago) link

i think i'm 42-36-38. or something like that. i'd love to get my waistline down a little more but ehhh i'm not too fussed

Kate (rushomancy), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 16:55 (one month ago) link

I just had to upgrade my normal jeans from 32 to 34 because of stubborn lockdown weight gain. I am less upset about the weight gain now that I have pants that fit me again!

Drowning in TG, he sent me Discipline (flamboyant goon tie included), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 19:24 (one month ago) link

I wear a 34 waist. There was a time when I wore a 36 but then I got diabetes and lost like 25 pounds in a few weeks and have never gone back up.

Instead of create and send out, it pull back and consume (unperson), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 19:28 (one month ago) link

Not a recommended weight loss regimen.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 19:31 (one month ago) link

I have a baseless feeling that Ozempic® is gonna turn out to be something not that great in the future.. maybe not Thalidomide, but still a problem

Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 19:51 (one month ago) link

it's not so great right now so that's a pretty accurate prediction

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 20:03 (one month ago) link

Can it get u hi?

sarahell, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 20:28 (one month ago) link

Love the commercials where they pointedly refer to weight loss but then have to reiterate THIS IS FOR DIABETES, REPEAT THIS IS A DIABETES DRUG HONEST TO GOD

papal hotwife (milo z), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 20:33 (one month ago) link

The elders of this site need to get in contact with the Catholic Church and share ideas on how to draw a younger crowd to their old and dying congregations. I'm crumbling under the weight of responsibility here guys

― H.P

lol

I painted my teeth (sleeve), Tuesday, 30 April 2024 20:51 (one month ago) link

Was Alfred-sized (29) until approximately the pandemic, am now "not technically obese" (34-ish, 5'9")
& I'm fine with that I just don't wanna get diabetes.
When I see photos of myself from 5 years ago I look way too skinny, like to a degree that it's super weird, even though I somehow felt a little pudgy then.
Guess the happy medium would be 32 waist

Deflatormouse, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 21:59 (one month ago) link

I know someone whose mom died from taking the old school diet pills… dexatrim I think? I remember the ads from when I was a kid

sarahell, Tuesday, 30 April 2024 22:09 (one month ago) link


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