Mostly Apolitical Thread for Discussing/Venting our Rational/Irrational COVID-19 Fears and Experiences in 2020

And also, I've seen how elementary school kids wear masks, and there is no way it makes a significant difference.

man alive - I cannot vaccinate my kids. it's not possible where I am. I'm not asking people to curtail things. I'm asking that information is shared in a timely manner about when there have been cases that are very likely to transmit to my child so I can assess my own risk.

Boosters now available for 16+.

so i guess this was omicron weekend in nyc. i was traveling this weekend, but in the meantime, my wife caught covid (she's doing fine and i'm negative for now), as did a friend of ours she was at dinner with on friday night). my parents went to a wedding on saturday night in manhattan in which the bride, the bride's mother, plus an uncle and cousin tested positive. a close personal friend of my parents' also tested positive (her husband is negative so far), and both my wife, my parents, and my 86-year-old grandmother were together on sunday night. my parents and grandma are negative for now.

not to mention, i've heard at least 6 different anecdotes of people either getting it or being exposed to someone who now has it over the weekend. and the city md testing line is two blocks long.

getting some march 2020 vibes right now, not gonna lie.

Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that voodoo. Hope everyone in your orbit has mild cases.

Things are not looking good, I'm with you on those March 2020 vibes.

sorry to hear vc. i hope it stays mild for her.

thanks, guys. so far everyone is mild.

My wife went to a work lunch on Friday and was informed that one of the attendees had tested positive. So she got tested this morning. Results forthcoming within 40 hours.

We were being cautious but not panicking, then my son's school called to say that one of the teaching assistants has a positive test, and he was determined to be a close contact. So he's been sent home until January at least.

All caution is warranted, of course.

But. My son (as attentive readers may recall) is pretty seriously disabled and requires near-constant supervision, if not quite constant care.

If you are not a working parent, or if you are a parent of a reasonably independent older child, or if you just somehow lack the capacity for empathy, please feel free to just scroll past the next paragraph, which contains venting. Thank you.

GAAAAAH. Fuck fuck fuckity fuck fuck. My wife and I already have full-time jobs and moderately busy lives, plus the sometimes-challenging requirements of managing two school-aged children (which even in the best of times can be a frazzlement) plus our own mental health and self-care needs, plus family obligations. Add to that my son's decidedly special needs - and the absolute impossibility of having professional help to balance the load - gah.

There. Now that's over.

Carry on.

We have tests and boosters scheduled and we will do our best to weather this, and of course it could be way worse - e.g., we already had winter break coming up, so there would not have been

...school in any case. But we often use babysitting and respite care to manage breaks from school. Now obviously we can't, if there's a reasonable suspicion of transmission risk

hope everyone gets out of this with nothing but a particularly bad cold

a few cancelled meetups with friends who are suddenly under the weather. my gal and i both pushed our vaccine to when we could make it work and are getting nervous. both tested negative yesterday though. just need another week to get less freaked out. \

A couple of weeks ago (pre-omicron) my wife and I (fully boosted) scheduled our first night out in NYC in two years for this weekend (dinner, a hotel stay) and I was already a little worried but ready to say fuck it, but after reading the last several posts I'm having serious second thoughts.

listen, i’m traveling next week, y’all will be fine in a hotel

there’s also a cold going around and unseasonable weather affecting everyone afaict

Less concerned about the hotel than the dinner, but genuinely appreciate the encouragement.

I'd have more qualms in January or even a couple weeks but NYC's requiring vac cards + ID was a huge relief when I went last month.

yes you wouldn't be able to get into that restaurant without a vaccine card

honestly, i wouldn't be super concerned if you took a trip to nyc prior to december. it's astonishing how quickly this thing hit.

agreeing with the aboves

Yeah, feeling lucky about getting in before Thanksgiving. I'm scheduled to give a reading in late March/early April in Manhattan...but who knows whether that'll happen.

My stupid work is requiring us to come back at least two days a week on February 1.

They announced this yesterday!

so, plenty of time for them to backpedal

I'm counting down until we get the backpedal of the century from the person at my organization who said, and I quote, "we are never, ever, ever going remote again no matter what happens, that is behind us".

We're traveling next week and feel OK about it. 3/4 of us will have had boosters, we're going from a place that requires masks indoors via an airport/airline that requires masks, to another place that requires masks indoors, but we will mostly be outdoors, anyway.

Looking at the speed with which omicron spreads, I'd project that my locale can look forward to its big wave starting to gather significant momentum right after Xmas. About all I could do differently to limit my outside contacts would be go back to stretching out our grocery trips from weekly to every other week. I may consider it.

If we started a new thread it could be named, Covid Winter II: The Omicroning

so bye bye, COVID omicron pie
drove my Chevy to the levee but the levee was dry

Those good ol' boys were drinking whisky and ivermectin.

lol

FP’d for talking about Pi already ffs

Looking forward to the anagrams they come up with for that one

my company seems to be permanently invested in at-home work, as it's now hiring permanent hires in locations that have no local office. previously, that was only ever done by partner sites.

i don't think we're ever going back to the before, and probably only a matter of time before we sell more real estate.

Really feel for you YMP.

thanks kinder, I am sure everything will work out somehow.

I'm sorry YMP, how stressful.

My booster is tomorrow; I've kept putting it off because I don't want to lose the next day and have to get a sub when we don't have any. Hope I haven't left it too long. Lots of my students are out sick, but hopefully that's just colds.

YMP, that is very stressful.

As in, I feel for ya.

Aussie family in Sydney says the simultaneous rise in cases and reduction of restrictions (a la the US, UK, etc.) has led to massive hours-long lines to get tested. My SiL says she's eligible for a booster but the soonest appointment she can get is end of January.

thanks so much, table et al. we're all variously shotted and boosted and tested now; I'm sure all will be well and if it isn't? We will figure out a way to cope.

The childcare implications will ripple outward for a while. Obviously I don't want anyone to be put in danger just so I can sit in some stupid Teams work meeting. But. It will take some doing. Also I can't help but think of those less fortunate than us.

Working parents of grade school-aged children were already mad stressed, y'all. If the only childcare solution is for people* who are already stretched thin to simply stretch themselves even thinner, that is NOT a fucking solution.

(* = mostly moms, let's be real)

Yeah, that point about the (mostly moms) thing is correct and one of the many things I'm concerned about. I've already been back in the office full-time since the start of August, so my wife has already had to take on the bulk of his before and after school time and full days when he has off. Obviously I help when and as I can by taking him in in the morning, taking the load off her immediately when I get home, etc etc. But if he goes remote again, given my bosses' repeated insistences that remote will "never" happen again, I worry about that additional weight on her shoulders alone while she also tries to do her job. It's just frustrating all around.

My gf's niece (a university student) just tested positive despite full vaccination + booster and being, by all accounts, very cautious (always wearing a mask indoors around others, etc.).

I guess at this point we just need to accept that we're probably all gonna get this shit eventually, huh.

as long as the symptoms resemble a cold's

I guess at this point we just need to accept that we're probably all gonna get this shit eventually, huh.

The point at which we needed to accept that was at least three months ago tbh!

What's more, we need to accept that we very well may have already had it and not known.

as long as the symptoms resemble a cold's

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Sounds like that's about where she's at. She had a mild fever but I guess it went down pretty quickly.

I'm honestly about at the point where, when I next see any of our known anti-vaxxers neighbors once again wandering around the building maskless (as they do alllll the time), I'm just gonna tell them flat-out, 'I don't want to see you die, but you stand a very good chance of dying if you keep this up.'

My closest co-worker -- she and I got the booster on campus together -- told us Tuesday she's positive, likely from her unboostered mom on Sunday. What impressed me was the jump from infection to symptoms: two days! Delta don't fuck around.

She has a cough and sore throat but no fever.

xp to eephus - that's not wrong, but with such a large percentage of stubborn babies in the U.S. right now, they can hardly start messaging to people, "you're probably going to get it anyway, so do whatever" without overloading hospitals even more, esp in rural areas. Now if that messaging was backed up with some vaccine mandates with actual bite behind them, it might be a different story.

Sadly, yet again, the whole trajectory of this pandemic in the U.S. has to be shifted around, and cater to, the dipshit holdouts. It's infuriating.

Thought the short incubation period was Omnicron? Delta is like five days on average? I know two people who almost certainly have Omnicron based on symptoms and the exposure to symptoms period was super short as well, cold like symptoms.

Nearly 90k new cases today, lol. However, hospitalisations and deaths slowing and/or falling?

10k cases reported in IL yesterday. My soon-to-be ex-workplace is still basically all 'lol, what's a pandemic even' (everyone but stubborn 'no fucking way' people like me are back in the office, on a Zoom call last week re: handing off my responsibilities not a single person was wearing a mask, and there still hasn't been a single word about vaccine mandates at a huge company with multiple offices across the US). Quitting that place before I was ultimately forced to come back is one of the like three smart things I've ever done, as I assume they're heading for Superspreader City in short order.

A friend of mine is the first person I know to get a breakthrough infection despite being triple-vaxxed. He said his home test was negative, but a pro PCR test (I guess he felt off enough to get a PCR test?) found it. To be fair, he might have been triple-vaxxed and masked, but he gets out and about quite a lot, so it's not like he's been sitting around at home and just got sick. He thinks he caught it from a colleague who was covering the same news story.