Mostly Apolitical Thread for Discussing/Venting our Rational/Irrational COVID-19 Fears and Experiences in 2020

and, as previously noted, the U.S. is back up to April levels of jabs per day.

projecting future vaccinations by simply extending the current trend line seems a bit iffy to me

the issue is the way FL is reporting its cases. Everybody got excited that a more precipitous decline was on the way last week given the really light case load on Thursday, only for a sharp uptick on Friday and Saturday (and we're talking even when considering "day of week" effect). turned out the low case count on Thursday was an INCOMPLETE report out and a lot of Thursdays cases got rolled into Friday and Saturday. one reason to not take one day's worth of data as an indicator.

also, though the week to week case rate shrunk last week (by ~1,000 cases), the positivity rate of tests went up from 19.3% to 19.8%.

there's a definite difference between plateau and 'decline' and I think a bunch of people are afraid to call "decline" before they're sure we're finished plateauing.

or we might all be dead and not know it idk

projecting future vaccinations by simply extending the current trend line seems a bit iffy to me

― it is to laugh, like so, ha! (Aimless),

I wasn't trying to, I hope. Any increase however modest means fewer places for the virus to go.

What's the case for thinking Florida's cases aren't peaking? The week-on-week percentage increase has been going down for several weeks in a row now.

they probably are (it's happened elsewhere with this wave), but there have been multiple times in the past 18 months where growth in cases has slowed or stopped (or cases have fallen) before rising again, so your second sentence doesn't necessarily imply the first https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/us/covid-cases.html. cases are rising again the UK right now fwiw https://coronavirus.data.gov.uk/details/cases.

yup. UK bounceback is concerning, even if hospitalizations (while now increasing a bit) haven't moved with the same severity.

projecting future vaccinations by simply extending the current trend line seems a bit iffy to me

― it is to laugh, like so, ha! (Aimless), Monday, 23 August 2021 21:57 (eleven minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink

If you think the rate of vaccinations will slow, then extend the time for us to reach Denmark. I'm providing actual information that you can use however you want.

During the hearing on Florida's restrictions for requiring students wear masks, one of the attorneys representing parents has been coughing all day. She told the judge she caught covid from her preschooler.

— Meryl Kornfield (@MerylKornfield) August 23, 2021

I... but.. that's... you... how...

good thing it was a virtual meeting

I'm really struggling with this facade of "normal" that is slapped on the pandemic right now and it's eating away at me. Like my job has returned EXACTLY to what it was in February of 2020, except with masks (no distancing, no capacity limits, same job function, same requirement of ass in seat full time ever day). We're all just charging full ahead back to a version of "normal" that wasn't really that great before and is borderline delusional in the face of a pandemic.

And it's just the constant mourning of all the little things that made life tolerable before that is wearing me down. It used to be a nice treat to stop at the good local coffee shop on the way to my office. Except COVID killed that shop. It used to be nice to not have to literally shove my lunch in my face as fast as humanly possible before strapping my mask back on because we all work in an open office and there is no private room to eat lunch. And just forget about the wild dreams of a leisurely lunch with a good book since restaurants around my office are either closed completely for indoor dining, don't have indoor seating or don't have outdoor seating at all (one fucking Chipotle being the only exception to the outdoor seating thing). I just wish so many of the little pleasures that used to make being back at the office more tolerable weren't out the fucking window. Without them it just makes every day feel just that much heavier and that much more stressful.

I know this is self-indulgent wallowing at this point, but I can't imagine I'm alone in struggling with being back at the office full time while the pandemic rages on and feeling like it's all the shitty parts of having a job without any of the small pleasures of having a job.

I'm sorry to hear it. I know you got kids, but for the sake of your sanity you gotta take mild calculated risks: taking the family or your wife to an early lunch where you know it's not crowded; going to a bookstore cafe; hanging out with friends -- anything.

To keep sanity, I've returned to outdoor dining and drinking on days off and weekends. I hang out hours at the library masked. I haven't stopped visiting friends at home. Again, small calculated risks -- and I get tested every 10 days.

Yeah I've been doing a couple of small things like that as well, more planned over the next couple of weeks. For me the real crunch time is when I start approaching when shows happen I have tickets for, and I will just have to think and plan very carefully. Worse comes to worse I don't go and I call it a donation to keep artist and venue going, it's already paid for. But I think what will be contingent is the booster shot, simply because I am eligible for it almost out of the gate last I've heard -- not that this automatically means perfection of course, simply that it will be a reassurance.

I never stopped masking in indoor public spaces when the CDC lifted its suggestions for vaccinated people in May, and my thinking is, FUCK YOU, unvaccinated people. I'm not crawling into a hole because of you, despite still keeping cautious.

Yeah same here. Outdoors was never a problem around June or so. Indoors? Always masked, always.

The thing that's really getting to me, other than my kids' constantly changing school/camp situations and their emotional turmoil, is the social loss. We're still relatively new in my town. I've actually managed to make friends here, but it's so much harder that we can't just be like "hey, come over, come inside for a drink/snack." I just want to get to that point where it's totally normal to have people stop in or come over for dinner, or to go to their houses. In fact, having moved mid-pandemic, there are almost no people here whose houses I've seen on the inside, which is a very strange feeling. I also don't think I've eaten inside any local restaurants, although I've been inside shops and coffee places. It's like I only live in the outside of my town (and my own house obv). I've never even seen the inside of my kids' school.

It's not entirely bad, because outside events can be really nice. I've been to some really nice patio get togethers and bbqs. I really, really hope things get better before the winter is over though, because patio heaters don't really do much, I've learned.

Yeah, when we bought ours (an electric one) a lot of the forums I read while researching noted it's not a coincidence that patio heaters sell the most in places like Arizona and the least in places like Minnesota. Our heater turned out fine, though. We had couple of winter get togethers outside on the absolute coldest of days. We just dug out the snow, arranged some chairs by the fire pit, and plugged in the electric heater as a sort of satellite where you could go and warm your hands or, in one particularly cold instance, thaw your frozen food.

One thing I kind of miss is that our block used to have a more or less weekly neighbor night, with everyone getting together at the end of the block for beers. Between the pandemic and a crew of our kids getting too old, that more or less stopped summer 2020 and never quite sparked up again this summer. We have, however, managed to stay relatively social, one way or another, and of our various other crews of good friends, no one has gotten sick, at least not from local transmission. Iirc one friend's daughter brought covid back from college, but didn't make anyone else sick in her family (who quarantined until they got a couple of negative tests). Another family we know all got sick (mild symptoms) when the Trumpy mother from Texas came to visit and brought covid with her. But locally, fingers crossed, everyone we know and hang out with has been reasonable and safe. I don't think anyone is looking forward to another winter of this, either, but at least I think we're all pretty comfortable with our limits and which of them can be pushed more than others.

In better news we all tested negative and none of the seven people (SIL plus in-laws and my family) who spent time together feel sick, so she probably wasn't contagious.

In some weird ways I find winter slightly easier to cope with because I don't have the distinct feeling that I'm missing as much anyway. Our social stuff really slows down in winter anyway and I don't have the added pandemic vibe of missing concerts and festivals and stuff nearly as much. That said, I sure hope this winter is easier than last.

The social isolation thing is real, I get it. When we first moved to the neighborhood we were excited because it was a really nice mix of long established families and young families like ours, unfortunately most of the latter have moved away for one reason or another. And the last three houses that sold in our immediate neighborhood sold to children of some of the older families already here, which is nice, but it also reinforces this very weird dynamic of a handful of families who have lived on the block for generations and they socialize constantly with each other but don't really let "new" people into the circle. Which never really bothered me before COVID and I still don't really feel like I'm missing much, but it would be nice to have that local social element/outlet.

xp - great news man alive!

good posts everyone.

Some professional venting: As a reporter covering local/state government, this wave is really exhausting and enervating to me. I'm so so tired of writing about COVID, of listening to people shout at the school board or whoever about having masks/not having masks, of tracking every bumbling incompetent step our local and state leaders are taking in their continuing refusal to deal with reality. I honest to god would rather write about zoning disputes or transportation planning. But I know this is actually all important and it all has to be documented and questions need to be asked and assumptions challenged etc. It's just draining for me at this point. (I realize this is not even a tiny smidge of the exhaustion experienced by healthcare workers in dealing with all of this, I can't imagine how they keep going.)

I feel that, tipsy, I get tired just reading the things people like you get tired writing -- but know that your readers are out there reading it and glad you're doing the work!

I imagine tipsy just using a MadLibs-style template at this point and filling in the unique details:

At a contentious town-hall meeting on DAY OF THE WEEKday in suburban NAME OF COUNTY County, tempers flared as irate anti-mask advocate Karen LAST NAME unleashed a NUMBER-minute tirade against the school system's latest anti-COVID measures.

Ms. LAST NAME's speech was rambling at times, but hinted at a dark conspiracy involving "alien lizard people from the planet NAME OF FICTIONAL PLANET, local council member FIRST NAME LAST NAME, Vice President Kamala Harris, County School Board chair FIRST NAME LAST NAME, Stacey Abrams, George Soros, FIRST NAME LAST NAME," and "the gays." Supporters of Ms. LAST NAME held signs reading "INSERT SOMETHING BATSHIT CRAZY HERE" and "WE WANT HEN FAP."

Desperate to restore order to the fractious meeting, Mr. LAST NAME repeatedly rapped his gavel and begged the capacity crowd of NUMBER to settle down, adding that there was "no evidence" the county's government was infiltrated by "reptilian aliens from the planet NAME OF FICTIONAL PLANET, GAYS/JEWS/MARXISTS/FEMINISTS (PICK TWO), or SENTIENT TYPE OF CHEESE PRODUCT."

omg, YMP.

Man, it hadn't even occurred to me before but it totally makes sense now that SENTIENT TYPE OF CHEESE PRODUCT is responsible for my Morgellons.

Well, you can't prove to me they're *not* responsible.

Lol thx YMP that will make my life easier.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ePaHG6g7uFw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAbYtgGmenY

Can I post this Mad Lib to FB? I will keep your user name on it if you want, and tag you if I can.

Aw, use as you like, no need to credit. There are plenty more lazy zings where that came from

This article seems to have used the above 'mad-libs' template: https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/education/maskless-group-disrupts-wenatchee-school-board-meeting/

done!

Our high school does not mandate vaccines or saliva tests. In fact, providing proof of vaccination and opting in to saliva testing is *optional.* That's stupid. If they cared they'd be testing everyone weekly, especially if they're allowing unvaccinated kids in.

This is all an equity issue, as I understand it, but while I can twist logic to see why they might not require vaccines, I cannot for the life of me see why they can't test everyone.

That's odd.

My son's elementary school mandates vaccines for staff and is doing weekly saliva testing for all students starting in a few weeks. Parents have to opt out of the testing, otherwise it is automatic. Kind of bonkers to me that the school wouldn't be testing everyone.

I think the middle schools and under might be testing every student here, or at least it is opt out. I have no idea why the high school (a different district) is not. The biggest difference I can see is that everyone grades 9-12 is eligible for a vaccine, but the majority of kids k-8 are not, so maybe because so many don't even have the option of the vaccine it's even more imperative that any spread is checked. Still, even if the entirety of the high school from staff to student were all vaccinated it still seems prudent to test everyone, or at least do random tests.

Vaccinated friend of mine got covid, a few days after we hung out for the first time in over a year. Fever, chills, but doing better after a few days. She works in health care and got vaccinated pretty early on. My test came back negative.

I just saw this linked on Twitter and I feel like I should warn people, it’s fucking bleak: https://www.reddit.com/r/nursing/comments/pbvcdu/uhh_are_any_of_these_unvaccinated_patients_in/

that thread is a fucking horror show

this one hits me pretty hard

Dude, all these young patients now. It’s so alarming. We just had a 30 yr old die last week too. Both his dad and grandfather (or uncle, I can’t remember) died from covid in the first two waves. Despite that neither the patient or any of his family got the vaccine. His entire family caught it. Told me he didn’t know what was going in his body if he got the vaccine, but didn’t have any qualms with the medications we were giving in the hospital even though I know he doesn’t understand what are in those. On a particularly bad night, sating low to mid 80s laying prone on high flow, he begged me near tears that there has to be a medicine to make him feel better. Keep in mind that he’s been randomly refusing things; Intubation - no. NRB on top of his high flow for more oxygenation - no. Zithromax and cefepime - no. Tylenol for fever and headache - no. RT for breathing treatment - no. Even getting him to prone was a fight. I told him he chose not to get the very thing that could probably have prevented him getting covid, or feeling this sick with covid, by refusing the vaccine. A few days later he told a different nurse that he regretted not getting the vaccine. He died three days after. He had changed his mind about intubation but he didn’t even make it through the code I guess. Left behind a wife and two kids under 12.

god, this could be so many people I know

i remember the day after trump got elected, a friend of mine scoffed at my take that this could lead to a world war or a massive international disaster, saying "how do you think this guy could possibly cause that much trouble by himself." I dearly hope history holds him and his administration directly accountable for every unvaccinated covid death of this and next year.

i think that’s a good point. maybe obvious to some but antivaxers aren’t just a natural phenomenon that bloomed by itself. there always would have been some. but trump kind of weaponized it.

omg in that thread, about the unvaccinated pregnant mothers.

This antivax shit has been simmering and close to boiling over for years. The tragedy is that it's blown up during a fucking pandemic, when vaccines are at their absolute most essential, rather than in the occasional pockets of resurgent measles or whatever.

right - trump blew it up. specifically.

btw the local mall - westfield - used to be 95% masked. i’d say it’s down to 20% now.

Wow at that reddit thread. All these idiots think they're smarter than doctors and nurses, and apparently believe themselves able to fend off a deadly virus even after a year and a half of witnessing its destructiveness.

Harrowing read but I needed to read it. Easy to become detached from that side of things when it’s not in your face.

That thread needs to be shared with every voluntarily unvaccinated adult. I mean, they'll mostly just pooh-pooh it and say it was ghostwritten by Soros or some shit but I'd like to think seeing the cold hard scary facts laid out before them like that would put the fear of god into at least some of them.