What surprises me about the thread is that my intuition would be that there would be VERY MANY words in this sad category, but almost every word that's actually cited seems to me not really to be in it.
― the pinefox, Friday, 25 June 2021 11:09 (two years ago) link
I absolutely learned behoove from some comic strip, but it wasn't Peanuts. Feels like a Doonesbury word.
― peace, man, Friday, 25 June 2021 11:12 (two years ago) link
my high school principal used it a lot. but didn’t carl say “behoof”? i don’t think i’ve ever heard that.
― Tracer Hand, Friday, 25 June 2021 11:45 (two years ago) link
It was only fairly recently I found out 'outwith' is Scottish, I've been using it merrily on here and irl for years, people must have wondered wtf I was on about, even more than usual that is.
― Are Animated Dads Getting Hotter? (Tom D.), Friday, 25 June 2021 12:07 (two years ago) link
Critic James Wood once scorned another critic, in print (the LRB!), for using the word 'outwith'. Wood, I think, said that this wasn't a word.
The other critic was Scottish.
This was not good from Wood.
― the pinefox, Friday, 25 June 2021 12:13 (two years ago) link
“crusties”
― Tracer Hand, Friday, 25 June 2021 14:02 (two years ago) link
skosh
― butyrate humbucker bobbins (Sufjan Grafton), Friday, 25 June 2021 14:30 (two years ago) link
cowlick
― Andy the Grasshopper, Friday, 25 June 2021 17:52 (two years ago) link
gambol
― wasdnuos (abanana), Friday, 25 June 2021 18:09 (two years ago) link
― Tracer Hand
Don't hear this much but do hear "crustpunks" loads, so it might be in for a resurgence.
― emil.y, Friday, 25 June 2021 18:21 (two years ago) link
saw a band poster once for a german band called 'beehoover', which we figured was to do with behooving rather than a hoover for bees. website doesn't given any clues.
http://beehoover.com/
― koogs, Friday, 25 June 2021 18:45 (two years ago) link
according to this interview, it’s literally a “bee-hoover”, used by beekeepers to get the bees off their bodies
Ihr werdet bestimmt nicht zum ersten Mal gefragt, aber was bedeutet der Name BEEHOOVER genau?Claus: »Während eines Englandaufenthalts erzählte mir ein Bekannter von einer Sendung über einen Imker, der sich über und über von Bienen "besetzen ließ. Um die wieder zu entfernen, wurde ein Staubsauger benutzt – ein „bee hoover". Ich fand den Ausdruck immer witzig, also haben wir die Band so genannt.
― ten man poland chasing this means hamsik feasts (breastcrawl), Friday, 25 June 2021 19:23 (two years ago) link
I used the word gambol the other day.possibly for the first time.yes I was referring to a sheep
― Urbandn hope all ye who enter here (dog latin), Friday, 25 June 2021 19:41 (two years ago) link
I reflect that there are words that remain in one's lexicon but one does not have cause to use very often. So they may seem like 'abandoned words' but are not.
'Gambol' may be one.
― the pinefox, Saturday, 26 June 2021 08:09 (two years ago) link
Postal Order.
― the pinefox, Saturday, 26 June 2021 08:10 (two years ago) link
Lobotomy
and probably other discredited medical interventions. You don't hear confused people described as seeming 'lobotomised' nowadays, at least not in the circles I move in.
― alan dean impostor (Matt #2), Saturday, 26 June 2021 09:09 (two years ago) link
last clause there is key for anything that i think of as having faded due to becoming obsolete or recognized as offensive within, say, my lifetime and my parents'. odds are someone out there is still using it.
― Bobo Honk, real name, no gimmicks (Doctor Casino), Saturday, 26 June 2021 12:33 (two years ago) link
― Hans Holbein (Chinchilla Volapük), Saturday, 26 June 2021 16:41 (two years ago) link
I just had to redeem some traveler's cheques that were buried in the belongings of a deceased acquaintance, what a palaver. Probably the last ones in existence!
― alan dean impostor (Matt #2), Saturday, 26 June 2021 17:14 (two years ago) link
I last used a traveler's check in....I wanna say, 2008?
― cancel culture club (Neanderthal), Saturday, 26 June 2021 17:16 (two years ago) link
Another one from psychiatry is “nervous breakdown.” Google results suggest the term made a mini-comeback in 2013 when Oprah Winfrey said she’d had one, but I don’t remember that.
― Josefa, Saturday, 26 June 2021 18:12 (two years ago) link
i think this was said upthread, but connected with that: “neurotic”
― Tracer Hand, Saturday, 26 June 2021 18:38 (two years ago) link
As I said earlier, older medical terminology that has been superseded by newer terms forms a prime hunting grounds for once common words now seldom used.
― What's It All About, Althea? (Aimless), Saturday, 26 June 2021 19:02 (two years ago) link
Neurasthenic
― Vanishing Point (Chinaski), Saturday, 26 June 2021 19:21 (two years ago) link
Hoos
― Mark G, Saturday, 26 June 2021 22:13 (two years ago) link
^makes me v sad
― cancel culture club (Neanderthal), Saturday, 26 June 2021 23:14 (two years ago) link
i guarantee you "neurotic" and "nervous breakdown" are still in wide use. maybe not in print by people being careful about their language but out there in the wide wide lexicon? absolutely. also "getting hysterical" and the misuses of "schizophrenic," etc.
― Bobo Honk, real name, no gimmicks (Doctor Casino), Sunday, 27 June 2021 00:21 (two years ago) link
i would bet there is not a standup comedian in the world who complains about their “neurotic” girlfriend now whereas you couldn’t walk two blocks in the 70s without stumbling over 3 or 4 of them at once.
― Tracer Hand, Sunday, 27 June 2021 08:37 (two years ago) link
you have an oddly high opinion of the up-to-dateness of stand-up comedians, imo!"neurotic" also remains in regular radio rotation thanks to Green Day.
― Bobo Honk, real name, no gimmicks (Doctor Casino), Sunday, 27 June 2021 12:37 (two years ago) link
provost
― Tracer Hand, Saturday, 28 May 2022 23:25 (two years ago) link
Still in use in Scotland.
― Doodles Diamond (Tom D.), Saturday, 28 May 2022 23:28 (two years ago) link
https://www.glasgow.gov.uk/lordprovost
― Doodles Diamond (Tom D.), Saturday, 28 May 2022 23:30 (two years ago) link
i say it literally dozens of times a day but i work in academic administration
― adam, Saturday, 28 May 2022 23:30 (two years ago) link
plenty of provosts in higher ed
my nomination is: ducky
― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Saturday, 28 May 2022 23:33 (two years ago) link
Are we sure there aren't plenty of duckies in higher ed too?
― Doodles Diamond (Tom D.), Saturday, 28 May 2022 23:35 (two years ago) link
I'm painfully aware that almost every time I open my mouth I'm using once common words people don't use anymore.
― Doodles Diamond (Tom D.), Saturday, 28 May 2022 23:37 (two years ago) link
i am pretty sure, yes. first, it's an adjective and second i have worked in higher ed for years and no one says anything is ducky. partially because things are genuinely not ok in higher ed but also bc no one says this word anymore.
― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Saturday, 28 May 2022 23:40 (two years ago) link
OK, it means something different over here!
― Doodles Diamond (Tom D.), Saturday, 28 May 2022 23:41 (two years ago) link
I'm completely scattershot when it comes to dropping uncommon words into conversation, only some of which were ever in common use. The other day I was gabbing with my spouse and used 'remunerative', but when I'm hiking and meet an on-comer I'm all 'howdy there!'
― more difficult than I look (Aimless), Sunday, 29 May 2022 01:15 (two years ago) link
when i hear a howdy i start feeling pretty remunerative
― maf you one two (maffew12), Sunday, 29 May 2022 01:21 (two years ago) link
i am pretty sure, yes. first, it's an adjective and second i have worked in higher ed for years and no one says anything is ducky. partially because things are genuinely not ok in higher ed but also bc no one says this word anymore.― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Saturday, May 28, 2022 7:40 PM (one hour ago) bookmarkflaglink
― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Saturday, May 28, 2022 7:40 PM (one hour ago) bookmarkflaglink
I have a colleague who grouses that "everything is just ducky," but she is a rare bird.
― peace, man, Sunday, 29 May 2022 01:32 (two years ago) link
I remember my older relatives using 'queer' to mean odd and nothing else, it was a very common expression in my childhood
There was no word for gay. That wasn't talked about, ever
― Dan S, Sunday, 29 May 2022 01:44 (two years ago) link
The children's mystery book "Something Queer Is Going On" (1973) is the only non-queer association I have ever had with the word in my life, I think. Like I really don't remember ever hearing it out loud, although that's the kind of thing where memory could be very unreliable.
― Doctor Casino, Sunday, 29 May 2022 02:27 (two years ago) link
The use of "queer" and "gay" in their most common contemporary use predates my birth by decades, but only within the LGBTQ community. ime, those usages didn't achieve their present dominance until I was in my 20's, after 'gay liberation' entered the mainstream consciousness.
― more difficult than I look (Aimless), Sunday, 29 May 2022 02:59 (two years ago) link
In my world 'gay' was a term that was born in the 70s and flourished in the 80s, but I don't remember 'queer' coming into prominence until a couple of decades later
― Dan S, Sunday, 29 May 2022 03:14 (two years ago) link
In my admittedly 'outsider' understanding, both "gay" and "queer" have evolved from a more general denotation of homosexuality during the 70's and 80's into the more specialized terms now in modern use. But when I grew up they had zero connection to homosexuality among the general population. They meant "happy and carefree" and "strange or odd", respectively.
― more difficult than I look (Aimless), Sunday, 29 May 2022 03:23 (two years ago) link
I don't remember when I first heard the word 'gay', but I'm sure it was in the 70s and I remember even as a kid realizing that it applied to me.
I and pretty much every other gay person I knew in the 80s hated the word 'queer', it was derogatory. I know that it's been reclaimed and is not viewed that way today, but I still can't use that word
― Dan S, Sunday, 29 May 2022 03:36 (two years ago) link
it still feels hurtful to me
― Dan S, Sunday, 29 May 2022 03:44 (two years ago) link
I remember walking down Market Street in the 90s with a straight friend and having some yahoo screaming "queers!" at us out of their car window. I took it in stride but he was shocked and insulted
― Dan S, Sunday, 29 May 2022 04:04 (two years ago) link
felt in the moment that he got a sense of another world he wasn't anticipating
― Dan S, Sunday, 29 May 2022 04:08 (two years ago) link