once-common words people don’t use anymore

"sparkling soft drinks" is definitely one

catarrh

My young kids are bilingual (Polish-English) because of their mom, and since "katar" is the common Polish term we all call it that when we're speaking English. Better than "snot" and I appreciate the old-timey-ness.

"hella"

“mega”

makes sense!

has "fortune-teller" disappeared from common usage? just had a thought about how common it used to be in song lyrics.

"hella" is said probably 750,000x per day in Oakland

Kinda cheating to cite trendy slang words here. But if we are, I'd add "bitchin".

Obviously people still say "purposely" so it doesn't technically count for this thread, but more and more I feel like I hear people using "purposefully" in contexts where they would've used "purposely" in the past

'othering' - I don't despise this word but it's sure having a moment

wait wrong thread

"Behoof," which I just read in a court opinion.

has "fortune-teller" disappeared from common usage? just had a thought about how common it used to be in song lyrics.

It pops up in Eric Church's "Desperate Man," from a couple years ago, but the song is a kind of throwback 70s-ish rock thing so that would make sense.

Leonard Cohen used "behoove" in a TV interview a few years ago, but I guess he's not using the word anymore.

In my recollection “behoove” was briefly trendy in the 1980s. I’m almost certain that Shelley Long said it on ‘Cheers’ and Madeline Kahn definitely said it on her short-lived sitcom. You almost have to be an ‘80s person to confidently drop that word.

Well, he was talking about Rebecca De Mornay at the time.

You almost have to be an ‘80s person to confidently drop that word.

nah, just word-nerdy

I don’t hear “erstwhile” as much as I used to

"hella" is said probably 750,000x per day in Oakland

― Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, June 24, 2021 9:41 AM (ten hours ago)

probably underestimating actually -- population of approximately 400,000 people, granted a significant percentage speak a language other than English most of the time -- let's say that's 15% -- and let's say that 1% of the population are infants who don't yet possess the ability to form words -- let's also estimate about 14% of the population are sufficiently elderly so they have never had the word "hella" in their vocabulary. That still leaves 70% of the population or 280,000 people ... no way, is hella said less than 3 times a day. Also, you should factor in people who aren't Oakland residents but happen to be in Oakland. These individuals are more likely to be younger people (say between the ages of 14 and 40) and thus more "hella prevalent"

in summary, I would posit, that "hella" is said closer to 75 million times per day in Oakland.

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September 10, 1980

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The confusing thing about 'behoove' is that I think it means the same thing as 'behove'. I would use the latter, probably not the former. Possibly this is a UK / US distinction.

What surprises me about the thread is that my intuition would be that there would be VERY MANY words in this sad category, but almost every word that's actually cited seems to me not really to be in it.

I absolutely learned behoove from some comic strip, but it wasn't Peanuts. Feels like a Doonesbury word.

my high school principal used it a lot. but didn’t carl say “behoof”? i don’t think i’ve ever heard that.

It was only fairly recently I found out 'outwith' is Scottish, I've been using it merrily on here and irl for years, people must have wondered wtf I was on about, even more than usual that is.

Critic James Wood once scorned another critic, in print (the LRB!), for using the word 'outwith'. Wood, I think, said that this wasn't a word.

The other critic was Scottish.

This was not good from Wood.

“crusties”

skosh

cowlick

gambol

“crusties”

― Tracer Hand

Don't hear this much but do hear "crustpunks" loads, so it might be in for a resurgence.

saw a band poster once for a german band called 'beehoover', which we figured was to do with behooving rather than a hoover for bees. website doesn't given any clues.

http://beehoover.com/

according to this interview, it’s literally a “bee-hoover”, used by beekeepers to get the bees off their bodies

Ihr werdet bestimmt nicht zum ersten Mal gefragt, aber was bedeutet der Name BEEHOOVER genau?

Claus: »Während eines Englandaufenthalts erzählte mir ein Bekannter von einer Sendung über einen Imker, der sich über und über von Bienen "besetzen” ließ. Um die wieder zu entfernen, wurde ein Staubsauger benutzt – ein „bee hoover". Ich fand den Ausdruck immer witzig, also haben wir die Band so genannt.

I used the word gambol the other day.possibly for the first time.yes I was referring to a sheep

I reflect that there are words that remain in one's lexicon but one does not have cause to use very often. So they may seem like 'abandoned words' but are not.

'Gambol' may be one.

Postal Order.

Lobotomy

and probably other discredited medical interventions. You don't hear confused people described as seeming 'lobotomised' nowadays, at least not in the circles I move in.

last clause there is key for anything that i think of as having faded due to becoming obsolete or recognized as offensive within, say, my lifetime and my parents'. odds are someone out there is still using it.

Postal Order.

I just had to redeem some traveler's cheques that were buried in the belongings of a deceased acquaintance, what a palaver. Probably the last ones in existence!

I last used a traveler's check in....I wanna say, 2008?

Another one from psychiatry is “nervous breakdown.” Google results suggest the term made a mini-comeback in 2013 when Oprah Winfrey said she’d had one, but I don’t remember that.

i think this was said upthread, but connected with that: “neurotic”

As I said earlier, older medical terminology that has been superseded by newer terms forms a prime hunting grounds for once common words now seldom used.

Neurasthenic

Hoos

^makes me v sad