Friend Infected With Right Wing Brain Worms - What to Do?

I keep blathering about this, but my FIL very much fits that profile and now he's augmented his newfound worldview with ranting and raving about chemtrails. No 'official' source is worth taking seriously anymore and being cast out and/or called a quack by nearly all of your professional peers is the sole reliable sign that your 'whistleblowing' is the real deal. I asked him why he doesn't buy into climate change deniers then, but it's not the same thing, he says, because climate change is just so obviously, blindingly real. I think the most important thing for him is to believe that there are a) no coincidences and no creases in our totalitarian universe and b) shady men and women (mostly men) who hold a power so absolute they are essentially indistinguishable from living gods. It's a theological worldview in many ways, and it feeds off of paranoia and loneliness, both of which he has always suffered from to varying degrees.

anvil, I do wonder what this approach ends up doing tho. I understand it allows you to keep cordial relations with the brainwormed and to report back your findings here, but has it helped assuage the brainworms in any way?

Each person is different, and once someone is brainwormed probably not (or more accurately, once they think of you as an opponent in some way its most likely too late). Some parallels with cults, the in/out group, the oppositional way of thinking "well you would say that wouldn't you?". In my case my approach changed, but I imagine too late

Lot of talk here about changes coming out of the blue, but maybe its less out of the blue than it might appear

The absence of a controlling church has imo been a fertile ground for whatever else scutter someone will sell to you to shut yr head up

Speaking as a Romanian… let's just say that there are plenty of counter-examples.

Hopefully treating people with some level of respect, even when they're spouting complete bollocks, gives them the opportunity to feel they have something to go back to if they do start becoming disillusioned with their beliefs.

That's basically all you can do, yeah. And it's not enough by any yardstick.

Why do yall do this to yourselves? Brain wormed people don’t care about you. They’re not your friends, and blood isn’t thicker than water. Go find people who aren’t Nazis to associate with.

That's the spirit.

Like, I suspect my dad harbors some conservative beliefs, but he has the good sense to keep them to himself. And he’s damn right to do so, because if he ever “came out” as a trumper he’d never hear from me again.

Just making sure everyone's seen this and knows about it. I know it's Reddit but this is strictly-moderarated and full of much good sane, calm, rational, sensible advice. Some from people who have succesfully de-programmed people and such. Plus, goes without saying, a lot of 'WTF do i do i'm worried right now' stuff.

https://www.reddit.com/r/QAnonCasualties/

I have successfully managed to avoid finding out what 'QAnon' is (idk how you even say it?). I assumed it was something to do with the paedo pizza basement shite that wasn't even worth expending any brain cells on. Should I google 'what is qanon'? Will I see the light?

I don't know what it is either! I reckon it's the stuff that you used to see in USA tabloids, like lizard men & bat boys & probably celebrities involved in death cults. & probably Christians against rock & roll stuff, like in

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vylqX6sevqo

The article that DJI linked yesterday is long, but goes into pretty good detail about what qanon is and how it functions.

That subreddit is full of really harrowing posts—people descending into obsession, alienating their wives, their kids. It seems like people are desperate to lose themselves in a fantasy world.

wait so basically thousands of people believed shitposts on 4chan?

yes but hundreds of thousands of mostly old people

3 years ago??? What's happened to time?

it was erased by Bill Gates iirc

Is it really not known who is behind this?

Harry Styles was behind the last ~mysterious~ online thing I looked into...

I don’t think my man is behind this one

I heard it was the founder of 8chan. Whoever is driving these “breadcrumbs” is evil, as is Alex Jones. It’s destroying lives.

Are they still doing it? Can anyone join in or does 'the community' only believe a/some specific accounts?

I think the original Q is still posting through a verified account on 8chan. And there is a broader network of pages and videos and things around it.

That Medium article is great, thanks DJI!

You're welcome. It's crazy how even just looking at the collages of people making innocent hand signs (in an essay about Apophenia!) made something in my head go "is this really a coincidence?"

yes but hundreds of thousands of mostly old people

I know that we've come to think of it this way but I fear it's not true, there are dummies every age all over this

Why is society producing so many people who are willing to throw their lives away for a fantasy? And not even an appealing one?

I said my take on a conspiracy theory thread: alienation and feelings of powerlessness and paranoia (experts, govt, trad media can't be trusted) brought on by living in an incredibly complex modern world

Why is society producing so many people who are willing to throw their lives away for a fantasy? And not even an appealing one?

Ever heard of religion?

Why is society producing so many people who are willing to throw their lives away for a fantasy?

I think you are misdiagnosing the source of the problem; it's not so much that these people were raised wrong or mis-educated by society. Far more of the blame lies with the people who understand exactly what they are promulgating and the means by which they are doing it, through constant lies and emotional manipulation, preying on the weaknesses that reside in all of us. They are amoral lizards, actuated only by the desire for power, money and control. They laugh at their dupes as much as we sometimes do, then continue to destroy the world for their own petty gain. Blame them, not their handy fools.

so you blame the lizard people?

People like alex jones are certainly predators, exploiters, but they seem to have many willing “marks.” It does seem like people are adrift from their local communities and workplaces and too plugged into national and global issues, which are overwhelming, and looking for personal meaning there — that seems to be a part of it.

Also maybe a lack of interest in being an ordinary, hardworking and ethical person. In the US, that isn’t valued enough. People thirst for glamor and following Q breadcrumbs seems to give that to them.

I think the original Q is still posting through a verified account on 8chan. And there is a broader network of pages and videos and things around it.

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a guy bought 8chan from its founder, he is a sexpat pornographer who lives in southeast asia, it is believed that he is Q (although he may not have been the original Q)

Makes sense that Q would be a pedophile

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jim_Watkins_(businessman)

this is him

There is usually a lot of projection involved in paranoia

Ever heard of religion?

Even the dumbest religion is more appealing than this shit tbh.

And most religions have a lot to offer people psychologically. Their appeal isn’t inconceivable the way this is.

The fascist base aren’t dupes! A shared framework of lies—even or especially outrageous, obviously untrue lies—provides them with a base upon which to build political power. Their goals are objectively immoral and indefensible from every factual perspective, but inhabiting the same shared fantasy world let’s them pursue those ends anyway. It is, like others pointed out, exactly the same function, politically, that religion has traditionally served: a way to conjure power “out of thin air”

“Lets” ducking autocorrect

Idk man

I think there are dupes involved here. On that reddit people talk about family members terrified that the cabal is after them

And maybe some people in Salem really believed in witches, but the uppity loud-mouthed womenfolk got conveniently burned all the same.

This is even more appealing than established, venerated religions. This makes you feel like you're in a secret decoder ring special club, you have access to this knowledge that has been purposely and thoroughly hidden from you. You are one of the select few who have seen The Truth.

This is def working in some people’s interests Dan I agree. But it’s also poisoning a lot of minds.

I think it’s appealing in a very childish way. They are forsaking the responsibility to be a real person in the real world with real commitments, beliefs. They’re throwing their mind in the trash, which isn’t what you do if you become a Christian, Buddhist or Jew. Those creeds — the good versions etc — are all about how to have meaning in your everyday life.

Treesh, brainworm “beliefs” arise from motivated doublethink. These people exhibit all the signs of genuine belief, but if someone like Trump or Fox News tells them otherwise they will instantly and seamlessly “believe” the opposite. It is the weaponized bad faith of fascism turned inwards. It really is not belief in the same way that a reasonable person believes in a fact.

The other mainstream religions I missed should be in there too. There’s redeeming features along with the drawbacks that we’re all aware of too

these ppl would have all been better with the actual religion their parents had, at least in the small churches that one thrived in (geographic) communities and as a sort of extrareligious, civic responsibilty