his lifetime experience of anything, really, being a child
― like, I’m eating an elephant head (katherine), Monday, 11 May 2020 18:50 (four years ago) link
I don't blame him for it, plus he's a natural introvert, doesn't go out a lot either way, but I naturally worry.
― Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Monday, 11 May 2020 18:52 (four years ago) link
Feeling under the weather today. I've been cold symptom-free since lockdown began, so it always makes you wonder when you suddenly feel sniffly, but hopefully it's just the spring tree pollen in the air.
― o. nate, Monday, 11 May 2020 19:57 (four years ago) link
. however, references to both still appear all over the site, confusing people.
it will not surprise me if this was the intention
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 11 May 2020 20:02 (four years ago) link
o. nate if it makes you feel any better sniffles/congestion are pretty uncommon covid symptoms afaik.
― Li'l Brexit (Tracer Hand), Monday, 11 May 2020 20:17 (four years ago) link
his lifetime experience of anything, really, being a childNot there’s much for him to experience atm. Our children are gonna be hardened masterminds of survival if they’re not traumatized into dysfunction.
― very avant-garde (Variablearea), Monday, 11 May 2020 21:04 (four years ago) link
we are all harlow's monkeys
― like, I’m eating an elephant head (katherine), Monday, 11 May 2020 21:07 (four years ago) link
omg
― Louder Than Bach's Bottom (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 11 May 2020 21:09 (four years ago) link
new borad description
― Louder Than Bach's Bottom (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 11 May 2020 21:14 (four years ago) link
What a great time for my wifi device to give up the ghost. Had to buy a new device, new plan, the whole shooting match - with EE, even though they're shite and have bled me dry for the last 6 years, because who can be arsed shopping around right now? As I said to the guy I spoke to on the phone, I hope EE give you a bonus for this.
― Frank Bough: I Took Drugs with Vice Girls (Tom D.), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 09:43 (four years ago) link
i went back to the sainsburys i mentioned upthread. i waited outside. bloke obv thought i was queueing and waved me in. i was actually waiting because there were *4* staff members stood within 1m of the door all chatting about how the wonky wheel on the milk trolley was slightly dangerous.
they've closed some of the self-service tills to help with separation, but there are 4 on the one side and 3 of those were open. the bloke scanning stuff as i was packing seemed awfully close, like i could touch him with my elbow close. (this thing has changed us)
― koogs, Tuesday, 12 May 2020 15:37 (four years ago) link
(ie nobody would've worried about that 2 months ago, wouldn't even've noticed)
― koogs, Tuesday, 12 May 2020 15:38 (four years ago) link
I know it's small potatoes, comparatively, but the lack of any social outlet at all is reaaaallly starting to eat away at me. We had been having zoom and drinks with friends every other week, but there was apparently somehow a decision made to switch it into a "wives only" thing. Which is fine, I know being away from her friends this long has been really hard for my wife, and they seem to cheer her up immensely, so I'm grateful she has that outlet. I've tried to start an equivalent with a couple of the husbands, but that's gone nowhere so far. There was a couple of guys I played trivia with that wanted to set up a weekly trivia thing, unfortunately they've locked into the exact specific hour each week when I have therapy (which I can't move, and is pretty important to me right now especially).
So it's... just work. I've even started working on the weekends just to have something to do. And, that's about it. I'm grateful to have a job and be healthy, but goddamn without having any social contact or go to any of the places I might otherwise turn for self-care, it's just... I don't know. The longer this drags on the worse I'm feeling.
― soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 15:40 (four years ago) link
that's not small potatoes - sounds like it sucks! sorry to hear about all that.
― porlockian solicitor (Karl Malone), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 15:45 (four years ago) link
I'll admit to feeling confident enough to visit friends' backyards and sitting 10 feet apart.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 15:45 (four years ago) link
My daughter wants to go spend the night at her girlfriend's apartment---they've not seen each other for two months. We're going to let her go, but I have very mixed feelings about it. On the one hand, we're in deconfinement officially now. On the other hand, I expect we'll be reconfined soon enough. Still, both of them have had no contact with anyone outside their homes (the girlfriend has been in the countryside the last two months, not in her apartment here in the city, since university's been virtual-only since then; she's coming to town for a day just to clear out her flat and go back to the countryside for the indefinite future). They won't see each other again until August at the earliest. Still, this is so hard.
― Joey Corona (Euler), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 15:49 (four years ago) link
My class at work had 19 people, including me and my co-facilitator.
In the ONE WEEK since it started:
*5 of the 19 will have taken time off for bereavement by week's end.*1 was removed because she was hospitalized*One of the aforementioned 5 also had her sister admitted to the hospital for COVID-like breathing issues.
Sad illustration of how real and wide reaching the virus is. I've never had a quarter of a class have someone die in the exact same timeframe. I don't know that they were COVID related, but considering I've never had more than one person in the same class experience a death in 10 years... I'd have to wager some of them are.
I don't care about the work aspect. But just shows you how its reach is crazy.
― genital giant (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 17:57 (four years ago) link
That is crazy, wow. Thankfully I haven't encountered that much personally just yet, hope it can stay that way.
It's also great that my insane workload, which only continues to increase, has been keeping me from spending the time I want to be spending with my son on his home learning. 4-6 hours of meetings a day make that nearly impossible. I feel like an absolute failure on so many levels.
― soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 18:04 (four years ago) link
what do you teach neanderthal?
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 18:13 (four years ago) link
I virtual teach introductory courses lasting anywhere from 5 to 19 days on Health and welfare, 401(k), Pension to customer care representatives.
― genital giant (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 18:42 (four years ago) link
(Congress made that fun by passing laws changing Minimum Distribution age in Dec and giving us no time to update materials)
― genital giant (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 18:43 (four years ago) link
now seems like a challenging time for that subject!(also all my retirement funds are liquid, am i going to hell?)
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 18:45 (four years ago) link
That'd be more something a Schwab type could answer (I'm more a Government regulations, unit accounting, transaction and procedures guy, but not licensed for financial advice), but you'll probably be alright long-term based on my own 401k.
Lots of our clients are implementing the new COVID withdrawal. That'll be another fun thing I have to learn on the fly
― genital giant (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 18:49 (four years ago) link
just kidding, any savings i have is likely to be wiped out by COVID
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 19:12 (four years ago) link
Hahaha "savings", "retirement". One thing about finishing grad school in 2000 and watching 9/11, endless wars, a major recession and a likely depression in the years since is knowing that "retirement" is a useless pipe dream. I'm kinda glad I have absolutely no expectations of that being a reality. I simply think of my retirement funds as future emergency savings.
― soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 19:23 (four years ago) link
Related:https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2020/04/coronavirus-inequality-america.htmlhttps://www.nytimes.com/2020/03/05/style/the-rich-are-preparing-for-coronavirus-differently.html
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 19:36 (four years ago) link
"retirement" is a useless pipe dream
Just try to figure out a way to own the roof over your head and the patch of land it sits on, even if it's just a double-wide trailer. Then pay the mortgage off in full by age 60 or so. After that your biggest problem is reduced to paying for food, heat, water and electricity. It may not be much, but you can live that way and not be homeless.
― A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 19:43 (four years ago) link
Honestly it's kind of nuts that if you are 18.5 years old, in your lifetime, you've experienced 9/11, the Great Recession less than ten years later, and another major recession a little over a decade later, caused by the worst pandemic to arrive in the US in over 100 years. Plus a startling uptick in school spree shootings.
I had nothing at that level my first 19 years of life.
― genital giant (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 19:51 (four years ago) link
Yeah, that's absolutely insane.
― soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 19:52 (four years ago) link
Point taken, but if 9/11 happened when you were a few months old it's a stretch to say you "experienced" it. It makes more sense to say, if you're 25 years old you experienced all that.
― A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 19:55 (four years ago) link
whereas my generation can offer boxers vs briefs, Ken Starr, and Roxette's meteoric rise.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 19:57 (four years ago) link
Xpost point taken
― genital giant (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:16 (four years ago) link
I sometimes forget there are folks who have never known pre-TSA flying. I flew several times as a kid and young adult and barely remember what it was like
― genital giant (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:18 (four years ago) link
Except for the time i told that stewardess i had a gun, jumped out the plane, and then rejoined society under a new name
― genital giant (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:19 (four years ago) link
I flew once in 1996, every single other flight I've taken in my life has been 2004 and after.
― soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:19 (four years ago) link
Just try to figure out a way to own the roof over your head and the patch of land it sits on
lmfao
― like, I’m eating an elephant head (katherine), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:28 (four years ago) link
it is unclear whether I am going to be able to afford rent a year from now, how the hell am I going to purchase property (even if owning property was not one of the things that will get you condemned)
― like, I’m eating an elephant head (katherine), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:29 (four years ago) link
As an added bonus, if you are 25 years old, you've lived during two out of the three total presidential impeachment trials in US history.
― A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:31 (four years ago) link
it's kind of nuts that if you are 18.5 years old, in your lifetime
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:34 (four years ago) link
looking forward to the great locust swarm of 2023
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:36 (four years ago) link
{NB: could be much worse of course}
that is already happening
https://www.nationalgeographic.com/animals/2020/05/gigantic-locust-swarms-hit-east-africa/
― like, I’m eating an elephant head (katherine), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:38 (four years ago) link
I heard some guy got killed in New York City and they never solved the case. But you wouldn't know anything about that now, would you, Ulysses?
― Wuhan!! Got You All in Check (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:39 (four years ago) link
There's still relatively cheap housing in rural America. People do live out there. This one is within walking distance of groceries:
https://www.trulia.com/p/or/prairie-city/130-e-6th-st-prairie-city-or-97869--1037111660
― A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:41 (four years ago) link
lol
― Mordy, Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:52 (four years ago) link
i used to ask my parents to bring me the amenity kits they would get when they traveled and i kept some of them because i am a weirdo i.guess. one of them had a razor in it and i kept it as a reminder of what pre-9/11 flying was like.
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:54 (four years ago) link
Who would want to own property ]now?
I own my apartment, and at least four times a day I wonder what was the point.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:56 (four years ago) link
and this was before COVID and Trump.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 20:57 (four years ago) link
Is it still mortgaged or do you own it outright?
― A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 21:05 (four years ago) link
It's still mortgaged, hence the worrying. The only people I know in South Florida who've bought the last decade are families. I don't see the point in a single man like moi owning a condo. It's done, though, and if we're lucky the Atlantic will reclaim it in 20 years!
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 May 2020 21:07 (four years ago) link