The 'pre-hearing' thing I think is important too. The reason my cousin can never tell me what I've just said correctly is because he has pre-heard me. I try as much as possible not to factor in what people have said before but base it more on what they are saying right now. To try and un-pre-hear as much as possible. Does it always work, no of course not! Its an approach, which can succeed or fail like any other.
― anvil, Friday, 6 March 2020 11:31 (four years ago) link