I did it for basically a decade more or less.
― crusty but malignant (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 March 2020 20:42 (four years ago) link
The answer is no.
great
― surm, Thursday, 5 March 2020 20:46 (four years ago) link
i've been drumming up things i can do with my life moving forward given the sudden realization that i'm a silly grown fey gay man who may not be having sex for a while
i've come up with:playing the keyboard wearing more eccentric clotheswalking around my house watching moviesdiscovering new ambient music
it's not a terrible list, i dunno
― surm, Thursday, 5 March 2020 20:51 (four years ago) link
To be fair, playing the keyboard was one of the only things that really got me through the celibacy.
― crusty but malignant (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 March 2020 20:52 (four years ago) link
u know what you're practically glowing through the computer screen, i am very happy for your new life!
― surm, Thursday, 5 March 2020 20:53 (four years ago) link
don't do it, surm, it'd be a deprivation for you and whoever else
― brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 March 2020 20:59 (four years ago) link
then again as someone who usu indulges via... parties... i wonder if coronavirus should change that
hmmm, no
― brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 March 2020 21:01 (four years ago) link
o right u like the parties
that's very sweet of you, what you said, i'm really juggling the options. it feels weird so far, you know it's only been a month. i look kinda disastrous so i probably need to plan like a salon day.
― surm, Thursday, 5 March 2020 21:13 (four years ago) link
oh shit i’ve only just realised these threads are full queer now. hello fellow queers!
― karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:05 (four years ago) link
oh snap! i didn't know you were queer! weeheeeeeeee!!!
― surm, Friday, 6 March 2020 21:08 (four years ago) link
(by that, i mean i didn’t feel right posting in what were nominally gay threads)
― karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:08 (four years ago) link
yes we're very queer now i never liked the word gay tbh, i don't even identify as gay even though i'm a man who likes men!
― surm, Friday, 6 March 2020 21:09 (four years ago) link
xp yeah, i went through a whole bisexual coming-out process last year, complete with counselling and therapy groups
― karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:10 (four years ago) link
that's amazing! so proactive and positive.
― surm, Friday, 6 March 2020 21:11 (four years ago) link
oh i completely get that, the label thing can be frustrating when attraction/identity are so much more complicated
― karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:11 (four years ago) link
<3 are you like seeing people now?
― surm, Friday, 6 March 2020 21:12 (four years ago) link
no change to my life at all, i just didn’t want to keep hiding who i am (although it’s properly grand to see a staggeringly hot dude at a carnival and grab my mate and say “just don’t talk to me for the next 20 seconds, just don’t”)
― karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:15 (four years ago) link
:D :D :D love it
― surm, Friday, 6 March 2020 21:16 (four years ago) link
<3
― karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:16 (four years ago) link
It would be presumptive of me to identify as queer tbh. But luckily this thread welcomes all kinds!
― crusty but malignant (Eric H.), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:22 (four years ago) link
Instead of celibacy, I gorge on Muriel Spark novel.s
Welcome, Autumn! We need to expand the membership.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:31 (four years ago) link
thank you!
― karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:37 (four years ago) link
and let's talk about Hawt Guys You Have Seen.
have you done the deed yet?
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:39 (four years ago) link
“done the deed” bahahahahafwiw i identify as queer because sometimes it’s easier than having to explain things (including the 1990s)
― karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:42 (four years ago) link
Lately I've been really enjoying mangling Twitter slang irl. "I enjoy to see it." "I hate to see that." "And that's the that on it, question mark."
― meaner stinks meat bake it cone (flamboyant goon tie included), Sunday, 8 March 2020 21:43 (four years ago) link
i'm back on twitter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
― surm, Monday, 9 March 2020 16:08 (four years ago) link
You picked quite a time to make your return!
― crusty but malignant (Eric H.), Monday, 9 March 2020 17:14 (four years ago) link
why, has sumthin been happnin
― brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Monday, 9 March 2020 17:51 (four years ago) link
Same thing, just more of it and infinitely worse.
― crusty but malignant (Eric H.), Monday, 9 March 2020 17:59 (four years ago) link
oh no
― surm, Monday, 9 March 2020 18:40 (four years ago) link
the cancelled f1 grand prix is in my neighbourhood, lewis hamilton suddenly has three days off, and so do i
― karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 13 March 2020 02:22 (four years ago) link
godspeed
― DJP, Friday, 13 March 2020 13:29 (four years ago) link
do any other singles over the age of 40 think you've had sex for the last time?
― brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 14 March 2020 23:17 (four years ago) link
Because of COVID? I don't think that's gonna be the case at all, I think once the virus starts to go into remission there'll be a massive sex party
― meaner stinks meat bake it cone (flamboyant goon tie included), Sunday, 15 March 2020 02:11 (four years ago) link
I had funtime with a guy who left Seattle two weeks ago!
End times!
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 15 March 2020 02:24 (four years ago) link
not a good time in my life for there to be a sex strike
― surm, Tuesday, 17 March 2020 06:21 (four years ago) link
captain trips has obliterated my queer connections
― karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Thursday, 26 March 2020 06:53 (four years ago) link
SPRING already
worst spring ever
― brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 26 March 2020 12:09 (four years ago) link
How is everybody holding up?
I'm finally out of my depression and getting some work done! Hooray!
― we have no stan but to choice (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 26 March 2020 16:10 (four years ago) link
Dunno how I'll survive without a man's arms around my cock for the next six months.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 26 March 2020 16:14 (four years ago) link
Grindr should start an offshoot app called Sheltr that's specifically for gays looking for a quarantine buddy
― we have no stan but to choice (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 26 March 2020 16:43 (four years ago) link
(I would prob use Sheltr regardless of quarantine, all I want is somebody for whom I can cook breakfast)
― we have no stan but to choice (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 26 March 2020 16:44 (four years ago) link
not even thinking about sex much
― brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 26 March 2020 16:47 (four years ago) link
Work is keeping me occupied roughly 80% of my waking hours these days, which is to say I am holding up.
― coronoshebettadontvirus (Eric H.), Thursday, 26 March 2020 17:23 (four years ago) link
Following a routine has been pretty easier.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 26 March 2020 17:35 (four years ago) link
I have been waking up at 8/9am, making coffee, blinking and realizing it's 3:30pm. I don't know where my days are going. Ugh!
― we have no stan but to choice (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 26 March 2020 19:21 (four years ago) link
Omg guys
― surm, Friday, 10 April 2020 14:17 (four years ago) link
How are we, do we have a spring thread
I'm a month sex-free!
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 10 April 2020 14:19 (four years ago) link