Stonewall the QUEER SUMMER 2019

Ry is asleep on the couch before he comes and cuddles me for one of the last times before he moves out of my house

Every moment is really special, there are no hard feelings, just a love that needs to change, and it will be miserable when it hits me

But for now it is what it is

sending love and late-night golden girl hugs to everyone in relationship transitions

Yes I will need the girls no question

Wow, booze definitely helped take me there last night. Embarrassed.

What happened???

you guysss i'm finally getting my tennis game back, like a little

Fuck August really is quiet
Ok who's got a life update cuz I got a lot

I cut back on the drinking considerably since the lake, partially because it was getting out of hand, and also I'm getting a new puppy!!!

(Provided he survives cleft palate surgery.)

I got nothing, just domestic bliss and a lot of music writing. Swimming every day, too.

I'm eating a sandwich and reading Typee, the latter queer enough.

Interviewed for a teaching position this morning that we frankly need if we are going to keep our house. Did recently get an article accepted for publication, though.

wow, congratulations

Thanks!

medical treatment being rejiggered, gonna be a copay September

so much for getting a staff job somewhere, as i continue to bleed money

going to lots of films while i still live in New York

Obamacare sux btw

I will take u to ifc anytime morbs

I got too drunk last night, but I managed to grope and lightly make out with a theoretically straight boxer.

No "but" needed, the one follows the other

like a hangover

a boxer! Goddamn. It wasn't Oscar de la Hoya?

a lightweight in many respects

lightweights are cute

i’m a welterweight myself

i'm glad you are boxing! i would be too if my bones weren't, you know, made of chalk.

ha, have not technically sparred yet, just glovework with classmates/instructor, but i really love doing it and i’m definitely improving! (also most of my classmates are queerz, which is pretty rad)

i really love my boyfriend, like a lot. the end.

Yay

And same

I think I'll keep him.

i really love my boyfriend too but he's very far away from me. every day is excruciating.

"i'll be alright, it's just a thousand cuts" -- taylor swift

it must be, u can't even answer emails

John Cameron Mitchell otm

You said in an interview that you don’t so much identity as gay any more or certainly not as strongly. Why not?

MITCHELL: Gay has become a marketing niche. Like “top” and “bottom,” “man” and “woman,” and “comedy” and “drama.” You slice and dice so you can sell or be sold to — or to decide what show belongs in which Emmy category. Life has no niches, it’s a complex continuum with nuance and surprising juxtapositions. I don’t like to be marketed to and told what I am or should like because of my gender or sexual preference.

You’ve talked a lot about empathy, queer folks’ special skills at it, empathy being the opposite of “cancel culture.” Can you explain?

MITCHELL: The gift of being “other” is having empathy for the downtrodden and oppressed. “Woke” without empathy is just another form of control. Here’s an example. If you believe in prison reform and rehabilitation then you can’t cancel people. We, as queer people, have been canceled for centuries. Let’s make folks accountable and safe but let’s not co-opt our oppressors’ bullying ways.

https://www.gaycitynews.nyc/stories/2019/18/john-cameron-mitchell-podcast-2019-08-12-gcn.html

Very otm!

Hello! Glad to hear all the updates. Morbz where r u looking to move?

Boof is packing up today and leaving by Friday, just had a good cry in his arms and banking on a few more. Hoping to figure out in what ways we will remain in each other's lives sooner rather than later. We'll seeee.

anywhere that's cheap as possible, surm :/

agh New York will not be the same without you!

Where will you end up, though, Morbs?

Regret to inform I'm still obsessed with "I Can't Tell You Why."

where we all end up, Eric

Canada?

:)

Regret to inform I'm still obsessed with "I Can't Tell You Why."

― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, September 3, 2019 11:08 PM (yesterday) bookmarkflaglink

where we all end up, Eric

― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius),

well, yeah

id say 'beyond salvation' if I knew what that was

"Beyond the clutches of Don Henley"

just feel the need to drop in here and say fuck straight people. can i get an amen?

are you ordering us to fuck straight people

as soon as i posted that i thought 'alfred's going to make a joke about fucking straight people" so i'm cheers-ing you with my 32 oz iced coffee

https://media.giphy.com/media/QOguDFeEaJxw4w07sT/giphy.gif

I mostly hang out w/ the str8s

lol alfred