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boss is good, it makes me feel like i'm the boss

mark s, Tuesday, 21 May 2019 12:28 (seven years ago)

Boss is also quite popular in Romania.

pomenitul, Tuesday, 21 May 2019 12:29 (seven years ago)

In France it’s “chef”, which always makes me lol because I’m like no you’re making *me• the kebab 🥙

L'assie (Euler), Tuesday, 21 May 2019 12:32 (seven years ago)

Heh, you're right, coming at it from an anglophone perspective wherein 'chef' systematically refers to the cook, it can seem a little odd.

pomenitul, Tuesday, 21 May 2019 12:38 (seven years ago)

its a traveller thing over here iirc

daenerys baker (darraghmac), Tuesday, 21 May 2019 12:43 (seven years ago)

Boss >>> buddy

Alba, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 07:45 (seven years ago)

Big man >>>>>> boss >>> buddy

Alba, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 07:46 (seven years ago)

Big yin >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Big man >>>>>> boss >>> buddy

Ned Caligari (Tom D.), Wednesday, 22 May 2019 08:20 (seven years ago)

"chief" is good, just the right balance of respect and disrespect.

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Wednesday, 22 May 2019 08:24 (seven years ago)

as always

everything is projection

daenerys baker (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 May 2019 08:41 (seven years ago)

i sometimes wonder if those possessed enough of ego and self-importance to third person talk about themselves as a governor or a big yin might be slightly fucking wrong in the heed!

calzino, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 08:42 (seven years ago)

wait til inceys hears you said that

daenerys baker (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 May 2019 09:01 (seven years ago)

Big yin is what you call someone else you don't call yourself that ffs!

Ned Caligari (Tom D.), Wednesday, 22 May 2019 09:09 (seven years ago)

boss is better than all this nonsense when it's what ppl call me when i'm not their boss

mark s, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 10:40 (seven years ago)

I think that's why I like big man, because I am not a big man.

Alba, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 12:01 (seven years ago)

i once heard this complete fool say to a drug dealer: "have you got any little fellas, big fella".

calzino, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 12:10 (seven years ago)

Whither gaffer

nashwan, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 12:19 (seven years ago)

“The gaffer” is the boss of the man who calls his customers “boss”.

suzy, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 13:39 (seven years ago)

squire

fetter, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 15:23 (seven years ago)

squire

― fetter, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 16:23 (eight minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gfz40u3AYjc

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Wednesday, 22 May 2019 15:34 (seven years ago)

all of these are fine

i think maybe ilx might not be comfortable with certain classes idk

daenerys baker (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 May 2019 15:45 (seven years ago)

go off, king

mark s, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 15:53 (seven years ago)

(i like that i'm just saying it to deems to rile him)

mark s, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 15:53 (seven years ago)

https://i.imgur.com/RS4d7aT.png

mick signals, Wednesday, 22 May 2019 16:26 (seven years ago)

god be with the days when that would have had me in ten fights by now

inert, thats what this board is gone

daenerys baker (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 May 2019 16:55 (seven years ago)

fighting's for the birds

don't mock my smock or i'll clean your clock (silby), Wednesday, 22 May 2019 17:18 (seven years ago)

I've only recently been hipped to the usage of 'pibble' as a cutesy diminutive of 'pit bull' and it just needs to go all the way away forever, pretty much immediately.

5 favrite kind of animal. jaguar. giraffe. (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 22 May 2019 17:42 (seven years ago)

Scottish bloke in my office always says "Guid on ye, big man!" and it never ceases to be a joy.

And according to some websites, there were “sexcapades.” (James Morrison), Monday, 27 May 2019 02:09 (seven years ago)

'conversate'

meaulnes, Wednesday, 29 May 2019 15:27 (seven years ago)

I wish "conversate" would catch on more. It fills a need. More convivial than "converse", less frivolous than "chat".

punning display, Wednesday, 29 May 2019 15:45 (seven years ago)

no

mookieproof, Wednesday, 29 May 2019 16:10 (seven years ago)

sounds like the kind of word a Cohen bros. gangster would use to sound smarter than he is

Lil' Brexit (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 29 May 2019 19:26 (seven years ago)

https://i.imgur.com/eCPdUuD.png

mark s, Wednesday, 29 May 2019 19:30 (seven years ago)

I'm just conversatin' about a theoretical heah.

John Denver – Led Zeppelin IV (Part II) (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 29 May 2019 19:35 (seven years ago)

http://movie-dude.co.uk/Emile%20Meyer%20%20Sweet%20Smell%20of%20Success%20(1957).jpg

Come back Sidney! I wanna chastise ya!

Lil' Brexit (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 29 May 2019 19:43 (seven years ago)

conversate all the brutes

mookieproof, Wednesday, 29 May 2019 19:44 (seven years ago)

Orientate the conversatation.

pomenitul, Wednesday, 29 May 2019 19:46 (seven years ago)

https://www.etymonline.com/search?q=conversate

mark s, Wednesday, 29 May 2019 19:49 (seven years ago)

baby let's conversate

don't mock my smock or i'll clean your clock (silby), Wednesday, 29 May 2019 20:08 (seven years ago)

conversater? I barely know 'er!

Number None, Wednesday, 29 May 2019 20:10 (seven years ago)

i hate it & it sounds lousy but it's not new

https://imgur.com/9NjtHVa

Mordy, Wednesday, 29 May 2019 20:36 (seven years ago)

https://i.imgur.com/9NjtHVa.png

Mordy, Wednesday, 29 May 2019 20:36 (seven years ago)

sounds like the kind of word a Cohen bros. gangster would use to sound smarter than he is

― Lil' Brexit (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, May 29, 2019 3:26 PM

And "converse" sounds like something a Conehead would do at parties.

punning display, Wednesday, 29 May 2019 23:23 (seven years ago)

suspect was conversing with suspected accomplice in the interior of the vehicle

Lil' Brexit (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 29 May 2019 23:52 (seven years ago)

"chaotic good"
"lawful evil"

all of those ones

dogs, Friday, 31 May 2019 11:38 (seven years ago)

So you hate D&D?

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Friday, 31 May 2019 12:37 (seven years ago)

So this converse/conversate discussion reminded me of something I dimly remember being taught when I studied Latin as a teenager four decades ago. I’ve tried googling to confirm it but failed (because I don’t quite know what I’m looking to confirm, especially in regard to technical terms). Plus I got a bare pass grade at Latin A-level so my understanding of what I was being told may have been dimmer than my memory…

The gist of it is this: that late latin had a fvckton of newer verbs, 1st conjugation neologisms, which either completely supplanted their classical latin equivalents – or offered subtle but useful variants in meaning.

(“Classical” latin roughly meaning the latin of the republic through to the first few caesars, “late” meaning the latin of the expanded decadent empire — late weird caesars, constantinople in the driving seat, confused dark ages nonsense generally. 1st conjugation is already the most common form — amo, amare, amavi, amatus — with implication that these neologisms arrived in the easiest and most regular column bcz they were a bit cheesy and vulgar and inauthentic…)

Anyway I can’t find confirmation of this as such — anyone who knows more plz to chime in and correct! But I am interested that something similar seems to be happening in 19th-20th C English, either independently, or (imo more likely) as nudged by buried implications in the inherited latin roots and relations.

EXAMPLE ONE (illustrative):
Cano, “I sing”, versus Canto, also “I sing”.

The first is a third conjugation verb, old and simple and solid (it turns up in the very first line of Virgil’s Aeneid) and yet also (inevitably) irregular lol: cano, canere, cecini, cantatum — with participles cantatus, cantata, cantatum.

The second is a 1st conjugation verb. I don’t know if it’s technically late (i.e. I don’t know when it was first recorded in a written document), but it seems largely to be backformed from cano’s participle form: canto, cantare, cantavi, cantatum — with (identical) participles cantatus, cantata, cantatum.

The key point is that that meaning has shifted, or coagulated if you like, round a sense of ritual and social repetition: to sing, to play (roles/music), to recite, to praise, to celebrate, to forewarn, to enchant, to bewitch…

EXAMPLE TWO (directly involved with the converse/conversate thing):
Converto, “I turn”, versus Conversor, “I associate with”.

The first is a third conjugation verb, old and simple and solid, meaning to turn around. It shares a root (verto) with many many different types of noun and verb in Latin and English (inc.verse, reverse, convert, advert and so on): converto, convertere, converti, conversum — with participles conversus, conversa, conversum.

The second is a 1st conjugation deponent* verb, clearly built out of elaborated elements of the first: conversor, conversari, conversatus sum – with participles conversatus, conversata, conversatum. It means to consort/associate (with), to be a constant visitor, to conduct oneself, to behave/act

NOTE: A deponent verb is one that has active forms but doesn’t use them (deponere: “to give up”). Though such verbs occur in passive voice they are translated in active voice. Thus conversor translates not as “I am consorted with” but as “I consort with” (note super-subtle distinction anyway, then switched all around).

CONCLUSION: the move from converse (as in “the suspects were conversing quietly in the corner”) to conversate (“let’s you and me conversate, brother!” — meaning something more like “associate with one another in order cheerfully to shoot the breeze!”, with flavour both african american and distinctly, even floridly mocking of its own fanciness) does seem to me to echo some of the moves in evidence in examples one and two, from a basic, almost stripped-down meaning in classical latin to a social, semi-compulsive and exuberantly repetitive meaning in late latin. But I have no way of knowing if this echo is a matter of the various latin meanings somehow internally shaping the (far later) english usage, OR of the evolution of english simply having a broadly similar dynamic, which is to say adjustment (and backformation) in the face of not-dissimilar social pressures and handy convenience and the vulgar mocking the educated and the great…

mark s, Friday, 31 May 2019 15:10 (seven years ago)

mark s that post is both booming and effortlessly summing up the spirit of ILX.

lefal junglist platton (wtev), Sunday, 2 June 2019 15:54 (seven years ago)

holibobs

meaulnes, Sunday, 9 June 2019 16:23 (seven years ago)

holibags > holibobs

(Never heard of holibobs tbh)

John Harris is a Guardian columnist (Tom D.), Sunday, 9 June 2019 18:23 (seven years ago)


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