why is the Page/Maddox story more disturbing than the Bill Wyman/Mandy Smith story?
It isn't. I wasn't aware of the latter until I read your post.
― pomenitul, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 17:54 (seven years ago)
That story is still a jaw dropper. How the fuck did he get away with it?
― The Vangelis of Dating (Tom D.), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 18:07 (seven years ago)
It was 1983, a time when none of us were even born yet…
― pomenitul, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 18:09 (seven years ago)
it's insane. pretty sure they met when she had just turned 13, they started dating in 1983.
also later her mom married Wyman's son (she was 46, he was 30 i think?)
― omar little, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 18:13 (seven years ago)
Someone could make the observation that Bill Wyman probably didn't suddenly find 13 year old girls attractive all of a sudden when he turned 47, if they felt like getting sued.
― The Vangelis of Dating (Tom D.), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 18:16 (seven years ago)
suddenly and all of sudden in the same sentence, apologies
― The Vangelis of Dating (Tom D.), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 18:17 (seven years ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgpsGmGyG0Q
― affects breves telnet (Gummy Gummy), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 18:26 (seven years ago)
Mandy Smith was born in July 1970, that's half a year after the release of Sticky Fingers, fucking hell.
― mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 18:34 (seven years ago)
Hey, remember when Jerry Lee Lewis's fourth and fifth wives just...died?
― grawlix (unperson), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 18:45 (seven years ago)
Move over, Kelsey Grammer (based on the top photo in that JLL story).
― nickn, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 18:56 (seven years ago)
Jerry Lee Lewis also accidentally (?) killed his bass player!
― omar little, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 18:58 (seven years ago)
According to the link, the guy lived (and sued).
― grawlix (unperson), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 19:04 (seven years ago)
what the fuck
― frogbs, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 19:26 (seven years ago)
"If Bill and Mandy had remained married, Stephen would have been his father’s father-in-law and his own grandpa."
― jmm, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 19:32 (seven years ago)
brothers and sisters i have nonebut my sons grandmother is boning my son
― god knows i want to fp (darraghmac), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 19:34 (seven years ago)
This week, I suppose I might as well remove them altogether.
Mike, do you mean that you think the recent American documentary will have affected the perceptions of your local audience, or that the internet discussion has now brought you around to believing the accusations, or something else?
autobiographies in which the authors openly admit to banging high school girls. Nikki Sixx and Anthony Keidis, off the top of my head
Sixx came out yesterday, in press for the Netflix adaptation of Crue autobiog The Dirt, to say that one anecdote he tells in there about comically arranging Tommy Lee's swap-in-the-dark rape of a groupie (who was then violently raped by a stranger on her way home, to Sixx's relief) didn't actually happen and idk maybe he exagerrated because he was on heroin and erm actually the author of The Dirt made up loads of stuff, nothing to do with me. (Neil Strauss was contacted for comment, but is contractually not allowed to.)
― steven, soda jerk (sic), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 19:44 (seven years ago)
People definitely thought the Wyman/Smith thing unpleasant at the time. A dirty old man I think Steve Jones called him, no wait that someone else.
― Ned Trifle X, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 19:56 (seven years ago)
Yes, it's not like those were different times, everyone accepted it.
― The Vangelis of Dating (Tom D.), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 19:58 (seven years ago)
It's on UK Tv tonight and tomorrow (it was a co-production with channel 4) and half an hour ago I heard two middle-aged men on the bus discussing the allegations and wondering whether they had the stomach to watch the documentary. Also, regardless of how you feel personally, I'd think it's best not to play them in public for the time being.
― Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 20:14 (seven years ago)
and maybe not ever again, depending on what happens.
― Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 20:15 (seven years ago)
UK Tv tonight and tomorrow
ah, ta
― steven, soda jerk (sic), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 20:20 (seven years ago)
i think one problem with talking about this stuff in regard to artists of the 60s and 70s is that it can be hard to find reliable reporting on a lot of it. like i assume that led zeppelin did lots of terrible things even besides the awful story already mentioned here, but i don't know how accurate or fair any of the books on them are supposed to be. or the bowie thing, iirc the only info we have on that is that lori maddox mentioned it in an interview.
― (The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 21:15 (seven years ago)
I mean this is the Mail obv. so I get your point but I'm pretty sure no-one who knows/knew Bowie has ever denied any of it.https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6684325/Two-women-reveal-flings-David-Bowie-aged-15.html
― Ned Trifle X, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 21:34 (seven years ago)
The difference these days is the possibility of people notifying each other instantly of their shockhorror and publicly stating their cancelling of a career and that they will no more forever pay for their entertainment content (while continuing to pay only delivery systems). I don't think people are more or less bothered -- I think less change is actually happening than it appears. I heard Man in the Mirror on the canned supermarket pa today.
― Three Word Username, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 21:57 (seven years ago)
I almost bought this cool Dennis Wilson shirt, but then I remembered he married his cousin's teenage daughter and impregnated her just to spite him.
― kurt schwitterz, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 22:32 (seven years ago)
https://www.instagram.com/kyledunnigan1/p/BurnNLHjlnZ
― calstars, Wednesday, 6 March 2019 23:11 (seven years ago)
hm no thanks
― but I can't let Trae do it I got Huerter on my mind (Spottie), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 23:14 (seven years ago)
Watched the first half of the documentary tonight. One thing that struck me was how the whole Bad era is precisely what 8-year-old boys think is cool, or what they thought was cool in the late 80s anyway, And I was one at the time, I went to the cinema to see Moonwalker and thought it was the greatest thing ever made, now it seems like kind of driftnet grooming.
― mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 23:53 (seven years ago)
The ‘Jew me, sue me’ thing doesn’t get mentioned much nowadays
https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/jew-me-sue-me-everybody-do-me-we-are-a-long-way-from-thriller-giles-smith-on-the-new-michael-jackson-1586653.html?amp
― piscesx, Thursday, 7 March 2019 00:52 (seven years ago)
seem to recall he argued that he was unaware that "jew" in that context had negative connotations
the "kick me/kike me/don't you black or white me" follow up lyric was the one that kinda scuttled that approach
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Thursday, 7 March 2019 02:34 (seven years ago)
people gave him a pass on things like this because people genuinely believed he was some kind of naïf. i think that was true of a lot of stuff he did.
― affects breves telnet (Gummy Gummy), Thursday, 7 March 2019 03:54 (seven years ago)
michael jackson was a horrible person, people. even if he hadn't raped a bunch of kids, which he did.
― affects breves telnet (Gummy Gummy), Thursday, 7 March 2019 03:55 (seven years ago)
All hail Conrad the Beastslayer! #LeavingNeverland pic.twitter.com/8gKr7WRPJh— Autobiography out NOW (@DaftLimmy) March 6, 2019
― mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Thursday, 7 March 2019 09:44 (seven years ago)
As jed says above, Part 1 of Leaving Neverland aired on Channel 4 in the UK last night. Part 2 airs tonight (and I'm DJ-ing again tomorrow night). So the issue is at its peak in the UK right now.
Also, regardless of how you feel personally, I'd think it's best not to play them in public for the time being.
I agree. The music I play in public on Friday nights is almost wholly joyful in nature (I barely even play a sad lyric, no Tears On The Dance Floor here), and I'd rather choose records that don't stir up thoughts of child abuse. Not playing records with MJ vocals, of any era, doesn't equate to pronouncing on his guilt - it's more about removing triggers. You don't know people's stories. Choosing to listen to MJ vocals in private is a different matter.
― mike t-diva, Thursday, 7 March 2019 10:35 (seven years ago)
So it is a perception thing - your dancers will have disbelieved the accusers over the last quarter century, but you expected that transmission of these specific claims would change that. Is this because the climate of believing survivors has shifted in the last couple of years, or it’s been long enough since Jackson’s death that the defensiveness of nostalgia has faded, or?(I’m not remonstrating or setting you up for a sneering! just genuinely curious about the shift in attitude.)
― steven, soda jerk (sic), Thursday, 7 March 2019 15:27 (seven years ago)
Or the documentary is pretty damning and broadcast on national television, would be my guess.
― Andrew Farrell, Thursday, 7 March 2019 15:30 (seven years ago)
Previous accounts would not have been restricted to local television or kept out of newspapers, I’d expect. (I know the Bashir doco refrained from specifically claiming that Jackson was molesting the children that shared his bed.)
― steven, soda jerk (sic), Thursday, 7 March 2019 15:55 (seven years ago)
Right, and this one doesn't.
Also of course you're right that context is a factor - pre-Saville, there was a narrative that this couldn't really be happening because someone would have spoken up (and if someone spoke up, that they're less believable because no-one else spoke up, etc). That's really not the case now, I think.
― Andrew Farrell, Thursday, 7 March 2019 16:18 (seven years ago)
True but this is a UK thing only, maybe Cosby or Weinstein has had a similar effect in the US now, but guess paedophiles are a different category of baddie?
― mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Thursday, 7 March 2019 16:31 (seven years ago)
I suppose that up to now, it's been possible for many people (myself included) to compartmentalise, but not any more. That's to do with the documentary, which makes its case with heightened visibility and more unsparing force than before, and also the rapidly shifting climate into which it has emerged.
― mike t-diva, Thursday, 7 March 2019 16:39 (seven years ago)
I don't know if the Jordan Chandler accusations / settlement / investigators corroborating the drawings of Jackson's penile vitiligo weren't reported on national news programmes - the matter was never sub judice, even if Santa Barbara had jurisdiction over the BBC - but Genome has this ten-years-later BBC doco airing 12 times on BBC3 and once on BBC1. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
― steven, soda jerk (sic), Thursday, 7 March 2019 17:35 (seven years ago)
(ie the year after Bashir)
― steven, soda jerk (sic), Thursday, 7 March 2019 17:36 (seven years ago)
Did nobody watch this then?
― The Vangelis of Dating (Tom D.), Thursday, 7 March 2019 21:00 (seven years ago)
for what it's worth literally a month ago I had a conversation about the R. Kelly documentary in which I'd said something along the lines of "it didn't hurt Michael Jackson's reputation permanently" and their response was "oh, that's not the same, it wasn't proven that it happened and so on and so forth." this was before the documentary was out, but the timing was strange
― theorizing your yells (katherine), Thursday, 7 March 2019 21:05 (seven years ago)
this post from some british journo is going around which made me think twice for a second and then i got my head on straight and am back in the fuck mj camphttps://www.facebook.com/CharlesThomsonJournalist/posts/10156642832831998
― kurt schwitterz, Thursday, 7 March 2019 22:31 (seven years ago)
fwiw, I'd love to go to a mike t-diva dance party.
― Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Thursday, 7 March 2019 22:36 (seven years ago)
re: that dude's FB post -- i dunno, it seems plausible to me that MJ did it and that his victims might not have told consistent stories over the years. like, "these guys have changed their stories!" is a good lawyer's defense but in the real world ppl forget stuff and don't remember dates or get details wrong, and that's especially true when you're talking about things that happened when you were a kid.
― (The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 7 March 2019 23:19 (seven years ago)
When you’re talking about extremely confusing and traumatising things that happened when you’re a kid, at a time when you have carefully been removed from normal life including regular markers of the passage of time
― steven, soda jerk (sic), Thursday, 7 March 2019 23:24 (seven years ago)
jed otm btw
I watched and I believe those boys/now men/still boys. I'll miss the music, I'll miss "I can't help it", but I'm canceling it either indefinitely or forever.
― Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Friday, 8 March 2019 00:09 (seven years ago)